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writes:I met a guy last year. I wasn't really interested in him. But he continued to pursue me. Finally I gave him a chance. But after a week or two I called it quits for no reason. A month down the line, I decide to call him. Of course he cursed me out. Saying that I played with his feelings, and he wasn't going to chase me anymore. Everything he said was on point. Because I was wrong. No problem. So we start talking again, and he wants to give the relationship another try. Now I'm ready to stop playing games, and be with him. But then a few weeks later he tells me he loves me. Truth be told I love him too. I kinds feel like I'm moving too fast. But it feels natural. The way he makes me feel is un explainable. Should I slow down? Reply to this Question
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reader, Quiet.Kisses  +, writes (24 February 2009):
 Do what feels natural too you. You never learn without testing the waters and being afraid IS normal, when you play with fire there is always a risk of being burned but youll never know unless you give yourself a chance to fall in love. Take things at your own pace and dont do anything that doesnt feel right.
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reader, wonderingcat  +, writes (24 February 2009):
 Saying "I love you" should not be taken lightly. Some people say it a a journey, not a destination. Some say it is an existence (of matters relating to the heart), not a journey (of which love appears to be destination).
Perhaps you are a bit freaked out at his "declaration" because you are thinking of "marriage" as the ultimate manifestation of this declaration?
Cat
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