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When a guy takes you to meet his parents, is he thinking long term commitment?

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Question - (24 February 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 25 February 2009)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend is introducing me to his parents this weekend. Does a guy think of it as something long term? I mean not all guys do this, right?

By the way we've been dating for over a month now.. Yay!!

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A female reader, natasia United Kingdom +, writes (25 February 2009):

natasia agony auntWell, it just seems kind of practical then. You can't really be going into their house through a back entrance without having been introduced to them! I wouldn't read too much into it. Just see how it goes ... (as with everything in life!)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2009):

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I should add that they are fixing up his house so he'll have a little more privacy. His own entrance in the back of the house..

He asked would you just want me to take you home without being introduced or would you like to meet the parents? I said, 'no, I'm not coming over without first being introduced.' So, it's happening real soon...! Ahhhh

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2009):

This is just his way of sharing you with his family, this could very well mean he wants to be with you long term as he wants his family to accept you aswell. Just enjoy the fact he wants to involve you with his family, he must feel proud to have you and wants to share that or show you off to his parents. Just enjoy and good luck! x

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A male reader, PeterPan United States +, writes (24 February 2009):

PeterPan agony auntNo, it's not am immediate assumption of any long-term relationships (IMO). It could even be as simple as he's been referring to you to his parents for a long time and they would like to add a face to the name... my opinion? Don't read too much into it...

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A female reader, natasia United Kingdom +, writes (24 February 2009):

natasia agony auntI think it means that right now, he is serious about you, and wants to bring you home for his parents' approval. I don't think you can read any more than that into it. He wants to socialise fully with you, in all areas of his life, and obviously his parents are an important part of his life, so yes, it means you aren't just a bit on the side - you are an important person! Enjoy!

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