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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: Ok, I'm a woman who has secretly loved another woman for over 2 years, but I've never told her, as she's one of my closest friends and I wouldn't want to lose her. Not to mention the fact that she's likely straight, since she has a husband. But theres also a good chance she could be bi.Quite a lot of things have happened to make me believe that she could have feelings for me, but I've always told myself she has a husband, whom she would never cheat on.But a couple of weeks ago she told me of how she once dated 3 guys at the same time, It all ended badly of course.But anyway, how should I look at this? should I be glad that she's a 2-faced (3-faced actually) lying cheat as that means theres more chance of something happening between us despite the husband? Or should I be disheartened because it seems that the woman of my dreams can't get enough of c*ck?But then again, when everyone starts talking about lesbians I notice I'm not the only one that goes quiet and uncomfortable like a cat trying to hide among a pack of dogs. I work in a very homophobic atmosphere, she's the only one who's not homophobic yet gets all uneasy whenever anyone talks about lesbians.I'm really unsure about her. i don't know what to think anymore.
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