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writes: I feel a bit silly but glad I mentioned this to my boyfriend. This past weekend we had sex for the very first time..I had mentioned before that I would give him a lap dance. He brought it up, and I wasn't up for it. I guess I just wasn't feeling it. The next day he said jokingly, 'I'll give you a lap dance.' I said, 'Yeah, maybe I'll do the same.' He replied with 'What shall we call you twinkle toes?' I laughed it off. But later I was like, 'what the heck'?!? I didn't know if he was trying to be funny or just plain rude. So, I text him this morning telling him it was bugging me and he said, 'I'm sorry that you took it the wrong way. It means (twinkle toes) a compliment for a stripper or a dancer.Was he being rude? Or am I just making a big deal out of nothing?!?Also, he's known to give smart comments every now and then. That's why I might of taken it the wrong way. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2009): not rude, just a joke dont take it seriously. lap dances eh? sounds exciting lol!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2009): lol i wouldnt be offended at all if i were you
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2009): You were right to laugh it off, I mean you were both talking about lap dancing, twinkle toes is the least rude thing he could have said.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAlso, I googled it and it is what he said, 'light on a stripper/dancer.'
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2009): Yep you've taken it the wrong way. It means light on your feet, graceful. It's a compliment to dancers basically means they make music with their feet.
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