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*misslovettx
writes:I don't know how to stop being jealous? My boyfriend who I've been with for a year now keeps flirting with other girls especially this one girl who says that her and him are best friends and tell each other everything and that she knows him more than me. I mean they even have nicknames for each other but he says that they are just friends and that there's nothing going on so why are they hugging all the time and why does he talk to her more than me? Also he has a go at me all the time because I'm best friends with this guy called Lewis but I don't do any of that stuff with him, all I do is talk to him . :( I don't want to wreck our relationship but I don't know what to do any more.
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (26 February 2009):
 If he's not willing to stop this then you need to get rid of him. He sounds selfish!!! And saying 'I loveyou' to another girl is out of order!! Joking or not this shouldn't be allowed and they are both making you look like a fool! X
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reader, xmisslovettx +, writes (26 February 2009):
xmisslovettx is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthankyou for you're advice , i talked to him to tell him how i feel and he just laughed at it because he thought i was being silly. But then later on that day i was with him and the girl came over and she said i love you to him and he said i love you too , to her. and when i asked him about iit he said he was joking . but i still feel jealous even though i've got it all out to him and seems like he dont care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2009): well... it DOES sound like that other girl hes hanging out with is a bitch... you know what.. she probly's jealous of you... but still... I have A LOT of guy friends I go around and hug... and text... and talk to and crap... but you need 2 trust him... and maybe he needs some time away... cause you have been going for a year... I agree with Andrew... that bitchy girl dont know shit... best of luck w/ that.XOXO SAVANNAH :)
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reader, andrew loves hali  +, writes (24 February 2009):
 tell him how you fell about him and this girl and im sure he'll understand. and that other girl seems like a bitch i mean you dont hug other peoples boyfriends that isnt right and she shouldnt tell you she knows him better cause she doesnt know shit. um i dont think i helped but im tried:)
-andrew
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reader, Doctor-CC +, writes (24 February 2009):
Hey, he thinks he is doing nothing wrong, by being friendly with this girl, but he doesnt realise how you feel. he doesnt realise that you feel pushed out, second best, hurt. just explain to him how you feel. and if that doesnt work, record him doing this stuff and play it back to him.
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (24 February 2009):
You should be the most important girl in his life and if I was you I would be jealous to! I would feel horrible about my boyfriend having a girl best friend! You need to set up guide lines, think about what is acceptable to you and what is not acceptable. If he can't obide by these lines then it will keep making you feel the way you do! To tell you the truth I could not be in your relationship! It would not be acceptable for another girl to be top of his priorities, relationships are about couples and he needs to know that you aren't happy! Explain how you feel, even write him a letter so you can organise your thoughts! Keep me updated!
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