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writes:Hi.I've been with my boyfriend for two months but we we're "getting together" several months before we did. He's a lovely guy and totally different to all the idiots i've been out with! I know people say that a lot and get let down but I truly believe he's a genuinely nice lad and he treats me well. However, I'm sooo totally paranoid. I think I've got a huge problem !! =/He doesn't do anything to make me think he's cheating but i just think he is. Its just little things like he sent a text to me instead of someone else but that someone else was a boy, or so he says but i think it was his ex. He's also been recently talkin to his ex alot on msn. I really do drive myself crazy thinking about what he might be doing or who he's textin!. I really don't think it's normal. Both of my previous boyfriends cheated on me and I think i'm just automatically preparin for him to break my heart. It's not him though. Its hard to explain but I hope you understand. People always let me down. Boyfriends, my dad and some of my friends.Help me please?!B. x
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2009): hey looky...i have only been cheated on once...and the next bf i had i went through the same thing you did...just b/c hes talkin 2 his x dont meen he seein his x...i mean i talk 2 my x all the time...and my b/f trusts me, and u need 2 trust him...but if u find it seriously bothering u...talk 2 him...but, yeah, dont accuse him of anything...cause he probly WONT understand. anyway...
best of luck w/ th@
xoxo---3
savannah :)
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reader, andrew loves hali  +, writes (24 February 2009):
 um cant say I've ever been through that way cause my ex and i use to tell each other who we talk to and what we were talking about but tell him how you fell about it. but don't accuse him of anything. good luck -Andrew
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reader, bobbles32  +, writes (24 February 2009):
 That's pretty normal. I went through that too. If you feel like you can't trust him then you must have a reason not to. Your reason is because of that text and because he's talkign to his ex.
Tell him how you feel.
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