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*alvin
writes:Hey,I'm an 19 year old guy and i have a problem with my girlfriend. She is 19 too and I've found that in the last 6 months she has been becoming much more flirtatious with other men, particularly older men. She gets a lot of attention when we go out but she never used to behave like she does now. For example, last week we were at these big gardens and she ran off from me to talk to this guy who was walking his dog. She said she wanted to see the dog so she ran off and chatted to him for ages. He was at least 50! Then they walked off together and she told me to wait where i was. I had no idea where they were going and as she walked off she put her hand on his shoulder. I waited for 20 minutes and then she came back and all she said was that she went to play with the dog. That's all she told me.Two days ago we went to the local swimming centre and we swam around together and when I got out to dry off and change I came back to find her being very flirty with this guy in the water, rubbing up against him to get a ball off him and giggling etc. I just stood there looking and then called out to her. She waved and kept going so I left. She is out of control. I think I might dump her, but we've been together for 3 years.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2009): hmmm...my girlfriend is the exact same way. she absolutely never talks to me and i never make her laugh or smile or feel good. but she ALWAYS talks and flirts with other guys. ive seen her come walking down our school hall and a guyy will say one word to her and she will start cracking up and laughing and smiling down the whole hall. and i am in none of her classes so i cant see what she is doing all day. and she always talks about these funny things that happened with her and other boys. everyone tells me, including her, that she wont like anyone else at all besides me but i beg to differ. it just gets really annoying. so they also tell me to stop worrying about it but it is soooooo hard. its like, why cant i just be the only boy in the world? do you know what i mean? so my advice is to talk to her about it and if u cant stand it the tell her that directly and if u feel likke breaking up with her, u can do it but think about it first.good luck, c ya
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2009): Okay you have to say something. From what she's doing she's either crying for some kind of attention that she feels you're not giving her. Or she's telling you she's not interested. Something is going on. (that doesn't mean its your fault... just means something is going on) Anyway ask her about it and see what she says and tell her it bothers you and see how she responds. It might be time to dump her, but a convo might also clean this deal up and snap her out of it.
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (24 February 2009):
 Talk to her before you dump her.
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