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anonymous
writes: I'm 34, my wife's 32, and we've got a 5-year-old son.For the past few weeks my wife's become obsessed with trying to get into Playgirl magazine as a means of earning extra money.The first time I heard it I asked her "You said what?"and she said Playgirl magazine. I said to her "Don't you mean Playboy", but she insisted it was Playgirl, and that it would be a great way of earning extra money on top of her work income.She's already in a high-earning job, but says extra money would come in useful.I talked to her about it, but she was insistent it would be good. Now it's all she ever talks about.She says that women will buy it to see pictures of "hot women like her in bikinis". She also saShe just won't relent on this idea and I feel it could embarrass us deeply.I've tried and tried and feel like I've got nowhere.what should I do about this? it feels so weird thinking about the whole situation as you don't expect women to be in playgirl do you??ta, Rick
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2009): I think that she is doing this for the sexual thrill and the escapism of it. Maybe offer to do a little more exotic things in the bedroom instead of her doing htis! Or take private pics. Tell her that if they go public it could affect family and business reputation.
Te amo :P
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2009): I just checked out the link, generously provided by Taste of India (thank you, girl!) and I have to say, the only women I saw on that site (if you click the "Free Tour" button) were women who were getting fairly intimate with the men. No chicks in bikinis anywhere. And as a straight woman, if I'm looking at the site (purely to answer this question, I assure you... not for my own personal pleasure), I really don't want to see a woman, in a bikini or otherwise.
I think you need to question your wife about this a little more thoroughly.
Now, if you'll excuse me, I need to look at the playgirl site again. :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2009): I think she is PLAYING YOU!!!!!!!!
via con dios.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (24 February 2009):
http://www.playgirltv.com/
You will be greeted by half naked men and if you press "Enter", you will be greeted by not one, not two, not THREE, but FOUR penises. Not a lady on the page. It advertises itself as the "ULTIMATE ALL MALE MEGASITE!"
I don't see a lady on the page and have never seen a lady in a magazine, though I'll be honest when I say I've only seen one Playgirl ever in my life.
Playboy, now that would make more sense.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2009): She said "it is very definitely Playgirl I want to be in and NOT Playboy! Besides, women want to see hot women like me in bikinis".
She does have an idea of what she's talking about, well, in her mind anyway.
As for making extra money, I did suggest about other jobs, but she said she's happy in the one she's in and this is a bit of extra pocket money to go with her high-earning job.
It's freaking me out big-time!
Rick
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2009): Women in Playgirl? Weird.
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