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writes: I met a man on Saturday night in a nightclub who was married but separated and had two children.He seemed really keen on me.He bought me a drink,he asked me what i wanted out of life, we swapped numbers,we danced with each other all night,when his friends were looking at their watches as if it was time for them to leave,he said something to them,i couldnt hear because the music was loud and he was pointing to me,when one of his friends was talking to me he was staring at me,and at the end of the night,he helped me get a taxi and gave me a kiss on the lips.Not a french kiss,just a quick kiss.I sent him a text nearly three hours ago asking how he was,saying i enjoyed it on Saturday,and asked if he did,and said i would like to see him again,but he hasn't responded.If he hasn't responded by the time i'm going to have another night out,which could be in a couple of weeks,do you think i should try and ask him if he wants to go out with me then ?.He lives in another town so he might not be able to go for a couple more weeks at least anyway.He did tell me that usually,he only comes to my hometown for a night out every few weeks,and he said he would meet up with me here again when i saw him.I text him today as i didnt want to leave it till i go out again,say in a couple of weeks,as i felt that might have been leaving it too long to contact him,but now i'm wondering if i've contacted him too soon ?.I think my message sounded ok though.I did put a kiss sign on the message aswell,but the way i wrote the message is just the same as how i would write to a friend aswell as someone i like,so i don't think it was too much.
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reader, Auntie Jez  +, writes (24 February 2009):
My advice would be to leave it up to him to get in contact with you. If he is interested then he will. You only met him once and for all you know he is married and was just on a night out with the boys.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2009): Thanks for your reply.Do you think my message sounded ok ?.I'll be upset if he doesn't get back to me at all,but if he doesn't,i'll have to try and accept it.I just hate it when a guy seems really keen on you then doesn't bother again,you know ?.
As to him being married but separated,i wouldn't get too involved with him unless he gets a divorce.I would just meet up with him and see how it goes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2009): you have done enough now, so dont text him or call him or you will look to needy. if he likes you then he will get back to you and that maybe tomorrow even. silence is the key here. if he doesnt get back to you within the next few days then i wouldnt bother unless he had an absolute excellent excuse. and if he does get back to you then be careful if he is seperated and has kids.
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