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I don't want my partner to know I secretely prefer to watch women in porn

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Question - (24 February 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 24 February 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I am in a loving releionship, but I when my partner is not around I secretlety watch porn, preferring to watch girls than men.

In real life I find men very attractive and would not want to date a woman. i have had an experience with a woman in ym past, which I enjoyed, but I did not feel as though it replaced sex with a man.

Am I bi-sexual?? And I am being very devious hiding it from my partner?? I wouldnt want to share it with him, and strangley enough, I would'nt like the thought of him watching porn although I suspect he does!

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A male reader, ISOHaven United States +, writes (24 February 2009):

1. You are Bi.

2. #1 doesn't matter.

3. You should not be hiding it from your boyfriend. After all this could cause issues. For example, he wants to surprise you one night followed by a very CLOSE night together. But gee, you just finished twice on your own. Now his special night is going to be.... different.

4. You should be open with him. If he doesn't care then great! But if he does care or mind and you do truly love him I would hope you would take his feelings into consideration.

My ex wife found out I was giving myself some on the side. What do you expect after a month of nothing!?!?! And it hurt her real bad. So, I quit. I didn't want to hurt her feelings. On the flip side, smoking is my #1 turn off. She decided to start smoking again. Now we're Ex's. Go figure! Gotta love those one way love roads!!!

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