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10 -15 masturbating..quicker with sex?

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Question - (24 February 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 24 February 2009)
A male United States age 36-40, *michael writes:

I usually last around 10 to 15 seconds while masturbating. Is it going to go quicker with sex? and how can i get myself to last longer?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2009):

when your doing a bit of DIY you know exactly what feels the best and exact place and pressure to apply with a partner this is not exactly so she will have a good idea but it wont be same. have a go your self but instead of masturbating the normal way try holding your penis differently with different pressure you probably wont be able to cum in such short time,

i can cum in under a min masturbating but it takes at least 15 to cum from sex just way i am

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A male reader, tmichael United States +, writes (24 February 2009):

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the 10 to 15 seconds is if a use a homemade toy of some sort. but if i use my hand, it is more around 2-3 minutes. i don't know why. sometimes i think it could be that i don't rub the tip of my penis by hand like i would with a homemade toy. i am really sensitive on my tip. i just want to last longer. Can some men last more than an hour, like i have heard some people say that they can?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2009):

wank until your about to cum then stop... go slowly then go again until your about to cum... then stop... and so on, until you can do it no longer then just blow your load haha... it depends if you cum quicker when your havin sex cuz sometimes it will be longer, sometimes shorter... just bash :)

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A male reader, Replacement Canada +, writes (24 February 2009):

Replacement agony auntYou won't know how long it'll take with sex until you try it.

To make it last longer for sex, try masturbating before you do it. Which luckily won't take you long.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2009):

Do you mean 10 to 15 seconds from a cold start to orgasm? If so, wow :)

I'm not a guy so I can't say for sure, but if you're a virgin and wondering how masturbating will be different from sex, well I think a lot of guys find it really exciting and come quickly, or quicker for the first time. But whatever the case, you can train yourself to last a bit longer. Don't be tempted to use any of those creams/sprays - my husband tried them once and did nothing for him - but they numbed me and it was awful!

Practice holding off on orgasming when you masturbate, don't look at any porn (don't know if that'll work but seems logical to me) and you can learn to push yourself. Don't worry about it too much.

I hear alcohol slows things down a bit - but hey!

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