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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I get our relationship back on the right track?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6257 days ago

4 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I met in early June of this year (making it aprox. 6 months since we got together) We actually met through a mutual friend whom he once was associated with... After 3 weeks into our relationship, he suggested we should go on a break, I was deeply hurt and ... (323 words)

How can I kiss her when she turns away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6256 days ago

4 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 15 and I've been going out with my first girlfriend for 1 year. I want to kiss her but on the few occasions I've tried it's gone wrong. How can I kiss her when she turns away, then denys it, and when she doesn't show affection for me except by letting me hold her hand?... (57 words)

I'm embarrased because I have small breasts

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

4 November 2007 (F)

- I'm embarrased because i have small breasts and get called names for them. Im like an A cup and im 14. 15 in feb. Im wondering if sleeping with a bra stops their growth because i always sleep with one on. I need help... (44 words)

My ex keeps sending me flowers, its messing with my head, how can I find a way to end this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6255 days ago

4 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex-boyfriend bought me flowers to bring to work, but I was off today. We only work in the same place once a week, and this week I didn't work there at all. He called me several times not using his cell phone so I didn't track the numbers and one time left a really sweet ... (164 words)

Sometimes I ejaculate in my pants without any masterbation.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6257 days ago

4 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Sometimes I ejaculate in my pants without any masterbation. How do i stop this?... (14 words)

What may be wrong with my periods?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6256 days ago

4 November 2007 (?) age 30-35 - does anyone know what may be wrong with my periods? i started them a few months after my 13th birthaii and i was 15 in may. so i started over a year ago and i have come on every single month on the 17th guarenteed. come on on the 17th and im off by the 20th but they have ... (146 words)

My boyfriend doesn't comfort me when I am sad

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6257 days ago

4 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been with my boyfriend just under 3yrs,recently i was very upset crying uncontrolably yet my boyfriend just sat there and totaly ignored me,he said he loves me more than anything yet how can he sit and ignore me like that?if it was him crying i would instantly hug and ... (83 words)

We had a long term relationship, now he's coming back into my life, is he interested in me again or just a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6257 days ago

4 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex and I dated for 5 years and I broke up with him 3 years ago. We went a year without speaking and over two years without seeing each other. Since then I have seen him a few times (lunch, hang out) usually his idea. Last week he called and asked if I wanted to go to dinner. ... (326 words)

My ex has demanded I give him the 300 £ he gave me when we were still together

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6256 days ago

4 November 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello I have just split up with my boyfriend of 3 months, during this time he gave me £300.00 to repair my car and told me that he did not want the money back after i offered to repay him when he gave me the money, i have just had a letter delivered to my house demanding ... (155 words)

I'm really affraid he'll take advantage of her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6256 days ago

4 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend has been going out with this guy for about...3 months and I only jsut heard. I'm used to her going out with guys but this time he's way too old! She's 13 and He's 16 and I think hes going to 17 in a few months. I'm really affraid he'll take advantage of her but ... (67 words)

How do I tell my mom I want to live with my dad instead?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6256 days ago

4 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Right now I live with my mom and step dad. I would like to go live with my dad who lives 2 hours away from my current house. The problem is i don't know how to tell my mom I want to move in with my dad... I know I really want to move in with my dad I just need help finding out ... (65 words)

Should I lose my virginity to this older guy?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

4 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Heya.For about a year now ive been seeing this guy and we get on really well and both really like each other. The only problem is he's 28 and im only 16. The age dosen't matter to me that much its just a few of my friends know and are really teasing me about it calling him ... (105 words)

Boyfriend said he needs to sample the single life before we marry, now he's sleeping around, I love him but should I wait?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6190 days ago

4 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok I am in an odd situation... I've been with my boyfriend since high school and we have a great relationship we don't have many big fights. We are both second year university students now and he and I have been talking about the possibility of engagement/marriage sometime in ... (384 words)

My wife needs to pee every time we try to have sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6255 days ago

4 November 2007 (M)

age - Hi not sure if anyone can help me. After foreplay and sex, my wife spends most of the night going to the bath room for a pee. She says she pees each time but only a trickle. on saturday she counted 10 trips, we used a condom to see if that was the cause. anyone any ideas ... (88 words)

I had a same sex dream, I loved it but its against my morals, is this wrong?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6249 days ago

4 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 100% straight female, but last night I had a disturbing dream...I was about to go girl-on-girl in my room in my bed! And I was actually turned on by it which was the weird thing. My beliefs teach me that homosexuality is wrong and I would never go against my beliefs. But I ... (75 words)

My long distance boyfriend thinks I'm easy, at least that's what I think he thinks, it's so hard, how can I make it work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6257 days ago

4 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - so i met a boy. he is a friend of a friend and we met out one night, while i was in town visiting (i live 3 hours away). normal enough evening, we talk drink and hang out. i go back home and don't think much about it. we start communicating via email and make plans to hang ... (276 words)

Why is age of consent in UK lower than age to view porn?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6249 days ago

4 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I was wondering why the legal age for sex in britain is 16 but most porn films are 18. It doesn't make sense. Does anyone know why this is? ... (31 words)

I'm nuts about my friend, she's so popular, Is this the right way to let her know how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6256 days ago

4 November 2007 (M)

- Ok im crazy for this girl i have known her for a long time and things just kept getting from normal to worse. We have been friends for like a year and a half and we know each other real good. Hses the type who always wants attention always with another guy but lately shes been ... (454 words)

I've missed the boat. It's long gone now. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6256 days ago

4 November 2007 (?) age 30-35 - I've been in love with this girl for three years and she's had feelings for me for five years. a couple of weeks ago I told her how i felt. But she said I was to late, I'd waited to long. now she's going out with this other guy. when I see them together it takes all I have ... (95 words)

I'm a flirter, but I think my boyfriend overreacts, what's acceptable?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6257 days ago

4 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I know I'm just young- but this is really affecting my life in a huge way. Whenever I talk to men (well, boys- I'd suppose my case would be) I find that I can't stop flirting. I mean, personally, I'm bubbly and friendly; but apparently this comes across as flirting and ... (312 words)

The politics of teenage love triangles, and then some.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6255 days ago

4 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Guys , i use to use this site when i was going through hard times when i was in sixth grade and i figure the site will help me out now . I am now in eighth grade and fourteen years of age . I was going out with this guy . We'll call him Ryann . Now the first time we ha... (609 words)

How do I approach him, he does not know I exist.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6257 days ago

4 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like a guy in one of my classes, but he doesn't know I exist. I have never talked to him ever and it'd be kinda weird if i just went up and talked to him, wouldn't it? What do I do?... (43 words)

I love her but she has a boyfriend.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

4 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - ok, there is a girl that im completly in love with, but she has a boyfriend, im completley in love with her and were best frineds. you can see how that makes it difficult. but she has found out that i like her. i am now talking to my ex-girlfriend and have discovered that i ... (293 words)

My husband doesn't have time for me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6257 days ago

4 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married to my husband for 11 years. He was previously married before with one child. I have taken care of this child since day 1, his mother is no longer a part of his life. We have since had 2 more children, so now I have a 15, 8 and 10 nmonth old. My problem ... (497 words)

How else to show I love him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6257 days ago

4 November 2007 (M)

- I get on well with my dad. In fact if it hadn't been for him I wouldn't be the man I am now. I just have a sligth problem. I do love my dad, but because I'm a guy, it's difficult to say that to him. I do hug him (i'm 20) so I think that's a way of showing that to him. And sinc... (100 words)

We're both married but love eachother

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6257 days ago

4 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i am in love with a man 22 years senior than me, he is married like myself, he shows his love no matter that his wife is working with us, i confess that i love him and dont know what to do?... (42 words)

Can I forgive my cheating ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6257 days ago

4 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it possible to forgive a cheating boyfriend? I dont know what to do. I was with my boyfriend for 3 years and we were friends for much longer. He is a kind hearted gentleman but the past 6 months something came over him. I am 22 and he is 25, he is not from this country, he ... (510 words)

UK national insurance question

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6257 days ago

4 November 2007 (F)

- Does anyone know what the minimum age in the uk is to be able to have a national insurance number? what i can send off for myself thankyou... (28 words)

Does he want me just for sex, or is there a future?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6195 days ago

4 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I just split up with my boyfriend and i have been in touch with a lad from school who i always had a soft spot for but we were good friends. We have just been talking and he was someone who didnt no my ex so it was nice to talk. im not ready for a relationship and won... (174 words)

I never wanted to be the "other woman"

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6257 days ago

4 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I started seeing this guy eight months ago. We had a good relationship for the first six months, and then one day he gets a call. The woman he had been seeing before was pregnant. 6 months pregnant, she never contacted him, until then. I’m I stupid for wanting to stay in the ... (75 words)

How can I handle this and maintain dignity

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6257 days ago

4 November 2007 (F)

- Thank you to all who respond here. I broke up with my boyfriend because of his cheating and roving eye and have no interest in maintaining a friendship with him. We are on a committee together and he has not said the nicest things about me..not downright awful..just the usual ... (110 words)

How to KISS

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6256 days ago

4 November 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I really wanted to snog my last bf, but I don't know how to, so I didn't, then he dumped me. I now fancy this other guy but I'm scared that he'll ask me to kiss him and I won't know how!... (42 words)

I get worried but I don't want to stop her from doing things.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6255 days ago

4 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been goin out with my girlfriend for 11 months now. We have both made it clear what we want from this relationship and how much we love one another, But everytime she says shes goin out drinking with her friends i get paranoid and it leads to an argument. She also talks ... (172 words)

I really like a boy but I'm worried about his attitude!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6256 days ago

4 November 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I really fancy this boy in yr8, I am in yr 7, he flirts with loads of other girls, but not as much with me. I think he likes me but I think he thinks I am too young. He is a very strange boy, as in way taller than average (but then, so am I,) and he acts like a 16 yr old, he ... (154 words)

It would make it worse if she found out from someone else.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6257 days ago

4 November 2007 (F)

- I hooked up with my friends boyfriend about two months ago while they were still dating, we did it twice and continued doing it even after they broke up. The deal was we would never ever tell anymore. I was at a party last night and I told about six other girls EVERYTHING about ... (156 words)

I don't know if I can be with him at 17 or not.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6257 days ago

4 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this guy who is 32 but i am only 16 and we have checked the law and it says that we can be togeather when i am 17 but i dont know if its right? Is it right?... (40 words)

He's on porn sites 5-6 times a week yet we make love on 2 or three... what's going on?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6247 days ago

4 November 2007 (F)

age - My husband is on porn sights 5-6 days per week, but we only make love 2-3 times per week. Is this something I should be worried about?... (27 words)

Son who won't mind and lies all the time

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6257 days ago

4 November 2007 (M)

age - My son adopted at 12 lies all the time and has no regret. I have spanked him. no good. He is now 14 I have grounded him .no good , i have taken away prevlidges. no good . I have talked about God with him no good . I am really fed up and don't know what to do... (59 words)

How can I please him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6257 days ago

4 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I've started seeing this guy and he's amazing i like him so so so much!! But we got onto the topic of sex the other night, just jokingly and he was saying about how he hates it when girls just "lay there and take it" and he's really experienced and i think we're goi... (164 words)

Do I move on? How?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6257 days ago

4 November 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My mom died 7/12, on 8/16 I got a call at work that 6 1/2 years ago my husband had an emotional affair with someone, when I confronted him with this, he told me he was unhappy and wanted to move out. I found out in sept. that he had been talking secretly with a lady in Idaho ... (214 words)

Should I just go for it and hope I can come to like him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6257 days ago

4 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - em well theres this guy that really likes me.. i think he is really nice he treats me really nice but im not sure if i like him in that way and he isnt attractive, but he is really nice! should i just go for it and hope i start to like him???... (53 words)

Who is being selfish here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6257 days ago

4 November 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - my girlfriend is bi-polar and we get along fine most of the time.she wants to move out of state claiming she will be happier there for the fact that she misses her brothers.her family i shall say.she is chosing her family and happiness over me.we been together for 4 yrs and im ... (99 words)

I'm worried about my daughter

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6257 days ago

4 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey. We just moved to the US from Germany. Im worried about my daughter. She just went to a halloween get'to'gether. Does anyone know what they do their? She's 16. Also, what do girls her age do at New Years? Stay at home with family? Or to a friends house? I have n... (79 words)

Why don't guys make a move on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6257 days ago

4 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. Im 15, and turning 16 soon. And my deepest darkest confession is, I've never been kissed. What i can understand is, why no guy makes their move? I mean, I'm smart, pretty, funny.. Jeesh, what do you want? A barbie doll? I'm obsessed [not really... (181 words)

How do I get him to dump his girlfriend and come after me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6257 days ago

4 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Right I Like This Guy, Alot. I Have Liked Him For A While, With Some Uncertain Feelings About Him. But Hes Got A Girlfriend That He Likes Alot Who Is Not As Pretty As Me, But Lives Closer To Him. We Havent Met Properly, Yet, But He Said Hed Come Down With His Dad And Go To T... (79 words)

How am I supposed to gain his trust?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6256 days ago

4 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my boyfriend have been dating for 5 months and some boy at my school called me and i had told my boyfriend how i have been friens with him, he says like he feels like i am hiding stuff from him but says he knows im not cheating on him and doesnt feel like he can trust me ... (90 words)

How can I tell her to butt out - but nicely?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6257 days ago

4 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My best friend and I have been friends for 7 years. She has always been the promiscuous type; all the boys have to love her. One thing that has been bothering me lately is her tendency to put men over me. I understand that when you're dating someone and you're in love you ... (523 words)

Is my previous guy self-harming or just seeking attention?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6257 days ago

4 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, this is just some thing thats been playing on my mind. Yesterterday I saw a previous boyfriend at a club i do, he had blood all over his hands and i asked him what was wrong. He said he was really depressed and cut himself, due to all his friends turning on him a... (104 words)

I broke up with him, but I don't want to lose him. Do I take him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6257 days ago

4 November 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I recently discovered that my boyfriend posted an ad on an online personals column. I broke up with him. I don't want to lose him. I am losing my mind. He says he loves me. Should I go against the advice of all my friends and my therapist and take him back? ... (67 words)

Who would you choose - money or no money?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6257 days ago

4 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok,Simple question. If you re torn betweet two men for marrige, One of whom Is pretty rich(can have laisure and relaxed life with), and the Other not so much(indeed may have money problem later), You like them both in certain way, Who would you choose? And Why?... (47 words)

How can I tell if he truely loves me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6257 days ago

4 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ok. so i told this guy I love him. he said he loves me 2. but does he really love me? i mean, how can i tell it's true? HELP... (36 words)

How can you tell what love is?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6257 days ago

4 November 2007 (F) age 30-35 - Ok. I really really like this guy who is 3 years older than me. He is funny, kind, shares some of the same interests as me (and as a bonus he is gorgeous aswell!!) However i don't see him very often as he is away at boarding school for most of the year. The thing is, is it ... (165 words)

I'm not sure I can trust him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6257 days ago

4 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi am dating with a guy but he lives in the u.s.a ,he is an african and he wants to marry me but am not sure if i can trust him or not .... please help me... (37 words)

Potential proposal, but how can I trust him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6257 days ago

4 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I am 17 and I am dating a guy who is in the U.S.A. and he wants to marry me ... but how can I be sure he is not cheating on me? (Mod note: required heavy editing)... (40 words)

My husband may not love me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6257 days ago

4 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - my husband tells me that he does'nt know if he's still in love with me what will i do?... (20 words)

Is the relationship real or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6257 days ago

4 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - He doesn't include me into his world but he is involved in mine, his family doesn't know me, he doesn't bring his child around my children. He only comes to my home, I am not allowed at his because he doesn't want his father mad at him because he's white and dating a Native ... (159 words)

Why didn't they hit on me when I was single?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6254 days ago

4 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, things seem to be every confusing and betrayed... Lately I have Cute guys after me and i thought about it, how come they didnt hit on me when i was single? ... (35 words)

My boyfriend is moving half the country away!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6257 days ago

4 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 15 years old as well as my boyfriend. We have been going out for 10 months and our 1 year is on Febuary 16th. We are both Military Brats and live with our parents. Currently I live off post and he lives on post so about 15 minutes away. We go to school together and I go to ... (219 words)

Have I gone too far?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6257 days ago

4 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi i'm 20 years old, happily engaged to an amazing girl and have a daughter that I love so much. I work behind a bar in a busy nightclub and recently a new girl has started her and no matter how hard I try I cant keep her out of my head, and with reason. She's stunningly ... (138 words)

My boyfriend as an Adult Friendfinder account.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3515 days ago

4 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i find an account of my boyfriend from Adultfriendfinder. i feel really hurt..but he told me he doesnt remember he ever creat this account. he told me he is sure he didnt sign in there. its because he sign in a site called myfreepaysite and that site creat adultfriendfinder ... (98 words)

Should I let her know how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6257 days ago

4 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - i recently posted a question which really relates to this one but time has passed and im still in the same situation, i recently told you that this girl i like talks to me when i see her on nights out. her friends come up to me and yell me she likes me.(To get a better gist of ... (295 words)

Does this shy guy like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6199 days ago

4 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My crush knows I like him or that atleast I did at one point anyway. Sometimes he acts like I'm not there and other times he's like every where that I go.The other day he was walking towards where I hang out on his own. He was on the phone and he was walking towards me and w... (417 words)

His car brok down and can't continue this.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6257 days ago

4 November 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a 38 year old woman who was in a long distance relationship with a wonderful man. He is handsome, charming, smart, fun, kind, and everything else that a man should be. I have never met a man like him in my entire life. The problem was that he lives 4-6 hours away. That ... (360 words)

Beyone annoyed at friend of opposite sex who is obsessed and "secretly" in love with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6257 days ago

4 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - help! for quite some time now my best guy friend (Mark)has been secretly in love with me although my friends and I are very aware of his feelings for me. Recently though I have become so annoyed with him but dont know what to do or say. Mark texts me way too many times during ... (375 words)

I can't see watching tv and just blurting out "I'm Pregnant!"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6257 days ago

4 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey everyone im 33 and have been with my husband since we were 16 n married for 7 years. We are very much in love owever i have a problem. I'm pregnant with his baby(obviously) and i don't know how to tell him. I've only told our 17 year old daughter because i told her if she ... (187 words)

Afraid of getting hurt again.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6257 days ago

4 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - the thing is i have been ..... many times when i was 6 and all the time it was by the same man who was suppose to be my relative, now i'm 22 and i'm unable to handle the emotional pain i couldn't even have a bf because i'm very much afraid of getting hurt for the million and ... (73 words)

Why does he insist on family functions etc.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6257 days ago

4 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi! I broke up with my boyfriend three weeks ago, after which I found out he'd cheated the whole time we were together ( a total of 2 and a half years, one and a half we lived together). I don't know if he slept with any of those women, but he did go out on dates, exchange... (171 words)

What my bf doesn't know, won't hurt him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6257 days ago

4 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 17 years old and have been with my boyfriend for almost two years. he cheated on me but i decided to stay with him. recently i have been texting someone else, my boss. we have always had a flirty relationship but in my last shift (as a waitress) we took things a step ... (120 words)

I love him, I don't want to feel this way

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6257 days ago

4 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Recently i lost both my grandparents on the same day with whom i was extremely close to after this extreme blow my father emmigrated to new zealand. I obviously was hurt and lost my mum was dealing with her own greaving and alike my brother was. I turned to my partner of a ... (153 words)

What does this mean, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6257 days ago

4 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay I really need help with this. My ex-boyfriend and I "dated" for two months...although I wouldn't exactly call it dating because we didn't really get along and barely talked to each other. It was my first relationship so I didn't really know how to act. This happened a... (158 words)

I can't understand how I did this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6257 days ago

4 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, My name is *Rose and i am 16. I have been together with my boyfriend for neally 2 years and i love him so much. My parents and his parents think that we will get married and we believe it too. The thing is about a month ago i cheated on him with my friend mark who is 21 and ... (178 words)

Should I ask him if this relationship is going anywhere?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6257 days ago

4 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 26 year old women who has recently been spending a lot of time with a 23 year old man who is a friend of a number of my close friends. We are having a really good time and have been sleeping together for four weeks. The problem is that I don't know where it is going and ... (84 words)

Should I keep holding on to him when he's with this other girl?

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4 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I dated this guy for a year and a half. We broke up and hadn't talked for a while when he started texting me, he has a girlfriend and has only been dating her for 2 months. He always calls me and texts me even when he is with her, He tells me that he wants to get back together ... (91 words)

My mum thinks my girlfriend is screwed up, what should I do for the best?

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4 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure what to make about my girlfreind, she lives about 30 miles away from me and I have to always pay for hotels when I stay up there, she occasionally comes down to me, but lately I have gone up to where she lives, she says she loves me and I'm her most important thing ... (160 words)

Should I hold on when he has another girl?

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4 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I dated this guy for a year and a half. We broke up and hadn't talked for a while when he started texting me, he has a girlfriend and has only been dating her for 2 months. He always calls me and texts me even when he is with her, He tells me that he wants to... (93 words)

Are relations about sex or love?

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4 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - earlier my families were planning for me to have arranged merraige and now they seem like they drop the subject as a result i stayed vergin till now. the thing is i don't know how to choose the first guy to have sex with plus my past relationship where disaster since it was ... (78 words)

How can I earn her trust again?

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4 November 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - i love someone and our relation was perfect, but she left me coz she feels for someone else now, i respected her feelings but l found out that the other guy is just playing when i told her we had a fight and i lost her completly tell me what to do to gain her trust once more so ... (68 words)

I'm 17 and so scared.

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4 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i had unprotected sex d other night.. i was drunk bt took d pill the next day.. bt stupidly enough i had unprotected sex the followin night with a different guy.. one i liked.. i hvnt taken the pill yet and its two days after.. are u able to take d pill two days in a ro... (89 words)

I'm 16 and my brother is 17, what should I do?

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4 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i m 16 years old. my 17 years old brother wants to suck my boobs and wants me to give him a blow job. Please tel me what i should do.... (32 words)

For the child's sake, should I tell him?

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4 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I haven't had my period for about a month and a half. My daughter's dad wanted to work things out, again. I thought about it for awhile. So, I decided to give it another chance. He wanted to get married, move in together, have another child...one big happy family. When he ... (191 words)

I'm confused and love her so much.

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4 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Everyone. If it's ok, I need advice on a relationship I have been having. I am 14 years-old and a freshman in highschool. Basically, somehow now I have a relationship with my 25 year-old science teacher. I'm not complaining though because I have feelings for her and we ... (399 words)

I feel stupid like I've acted like a teenager.

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4 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - please give some advice i am currently going through a seperation after 14 years together because weve become friends not lovers. we have 3 young children together. during this seperation ive become attached to a guy 7 years younger than me hes single and never had children. we ... (395 words)

I always think of lesbian relationships. Maybe I subconsciously stopped believing - after my disappointment - in a guy-girl relationship?

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4 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi Everybody, There is somthing I am very worried and confused about. I am a 17 year old male that has a problem involving lesbians. The thing is, I think I feel more involved when hearing about a lesbian relationship than a straight one. What I mean by that is that I h... (333 words)

Had sex without condom on the 7th day of pause (from the pills), are these signs that I'm pregnant?

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4 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok pleas help me.. I'm on the pill but on my last day of my seven day break about a week and half ago, i had sex without a condom with my boyfriend. Now for about 4 days ive had slight stomach cramps and slight dizziness in the morning and weeing more than usual. I took al... (86 words)

17 yr old and attracted to younger girls (10-14). I take relationships seriously, with honesty, but this worries me?

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4 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I have a question that I don't know what to make of. I am a 17 year old male and I think am worried because I think I might like girls younger than me. By younger, I mean as in 10-14 or so. Somtimes when I look at schoolbooks or so, I feel like I am more ... (231 words)

21 and have been married for 3 years. He lied from the beginning, I don't think I can love him now. Can't imagine leaving him though...

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4 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, I met my husband of 3 years in Highschool. He was the perfect boyfriend. We dated for 2 years before getting married. We got married the summer of 2004 and we did good the first year, had our small fights. The summer of 2005 we found out I was pregnant and we were going to ... (328 words)

My bf suffers from depression, since his visit in NZ. Any way to bring him home sooner, as his mother doesn't realise he's ill? (cries, doesn't eat/sleep)

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4 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of 4 years is currently in New Zealand, he went there with his mother who married a man over there, he now has to live over there til January. Problem is he is currently suffering from depression since he left. He won't eat, can't sleep and spends hours sit... (134 words)

Instead of solving the problems during sex, I broke up. How do I avoid being nervous to get over this?

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4 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay. So I had been seeing this girl for a few days, and she wanted to have sex. But when we tried to I couldn't get erect. Naturally I got really embarassed, and we didn't really talk again. It took me a while to get my confidence back, but I finally started dating again ... (163 words)

We want to bring our parents in between to talk about marriage, but how do we solve our conflicts first? How to react when she's angry?

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4 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a 30 year old guy in love, with Long distance relationship since past 5 years. We have never met in person but we both talk to each other on phone. Everything was going fine till this year in January. I had met a girl (Call her A) while travelling and exchanged our contact ... (362 words)

Would we be punished in the state of California?

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4 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - im curious as to what would happen if two minors (17 and 17) were having sex and were to get caught, what would be the punishment in the state of california.... (31 words)

I'm a girl in love with a girl who helps me with music.

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4 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I really need help on a question I dont understand. Im 16, and the thing is, I play the violin and I'm in intermediate (between beggining and advanced) orchestra at my highschool. After playing horrible at a concert, I felt upset and started practici... (277 words)

Will my ex girlfriend ever come back to me?

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4 November 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I went out with a girl for 3.5 years. It was an intense but happy relationship...She ended it though....Approximately 2 months later we were talking again and was even talking about getting back with each other but she started dating some else and chose him over me... Two ... (484 words)

I'm afraid to fall for someone who doesn't love me as much.

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4 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - do you think i should end it? the problem is i don't feel the way he does and i am still with him for three years because i'm afraid to fall for somebody that doesn't love me as much and not to be hurt. ... (46 words)

I don't know what to do.

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4 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a guy friend who is engaged.Him and I have become close over that past coupla weeks. He has called me everynight since I have started house sitting and we have spoke on the phone for up to three hours at a time. He tells me he calls me because he doesnt want me to get ... (157 words)

Theirs Bad Communication Between Us.

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4 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend did something that hurt but I am not sure whether to speak to him about it. I had not seen him for two days and we were supposed to go to the movies last night. He had previously told me he would spend the day with his flatmate, his flatmates girlfriend and ... (171 words)

He may love me or may not love me.

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4 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my bf for 2 years. Recently we have been having problems over his lack of interest in me and the relationship. He has retaliated by not coming home until 8 or 9 every night and on weekends alot later than that, refusing to tell me where he is. He says and does ... (169 words)

He leaves me with a choice, break up or make up.

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4 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Alrighty me and my boyfriend met online we spent a year on the phone and a year in person living together i moved to cali from nj to be with him i love him very much but we are about to move back to nj and i dont think i am ready for that kind of commitment i love him but i ... (194 words)

Am I stressed, or do I have a problem with my boyfriend.

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4 November 2007 (F)

- I've been busy at work (working 2 weeks straight without a break) and haven't seen my boyfriend for 2 weeks. When I finally get to see him, I felt really strange. I felt my boyfriend is very distant all of a sudden. Felt that I don't know how to hug him or kiss him. I even felt ... (174 words)

Broke up because of family interference.

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4 November 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - my girlfriend and i broke up because of her family interfearence, she told me, her best friend and another friend she was getting back together with me, her mother and daughter had a hissyfit and said they wont have anything to do with her if she did, so she told me she loves ... (91 words)

Talked abot living together, but haven't talked about when yet.

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4 November 2007 (F)

- My boyfriend is working hard to start his own business. I know he wants me to have a comfortable lifestyle when I live with him. He wants me to not have to work to support our family. We have been together for 2 years (I'm 24 and he is 26). Our relationship is really steady. ... (185 words)

I love my boyfriend, but not ready to be his daughter's step-mom.

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4 November 2007 (F)

- Am I a bad person if I don't love my boyfriend's daughter? She's a nice girl and everything. But I just don't like her way of doing things sometimes. When she wants something, she gets it. If she was my daughter, I would not let her be that way. I'm not a kid person to start wi... (256 words)

Should I go see him, or wait for him to come see me?

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4 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for a little over a year. We took a break about 2 months ago and recently started over. We had been doing good until now. I haven't seen him in about a month. We both work a lot but that never was a problem before. I have talked to him about how I ... (182 words)

If I find out he's doing this again, I'll leave.

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4 November 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I found out my husband viewed quite alot of porn on the internet, pretty much straight porn. I knew he was up to something because we hardly ever had sex. I did a little spying and found out he was also viewing alot of personal ads but these were all transexuals and he had an ... (176 words)

He won't help himself!

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4 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. we have not had sex for almost 6 mos. I do not know if I should leave him or what. I have tried to talk to him about it but he won't talk. he has gained some weight since we started dating but he will not participate in a diet ... (94 words)

My life is in utter shambles...Filing for Divorce

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4 November 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - This is a long and painful story that I will post here, but I need to get some opinions from some "disinterested" third parties as my friends/family have pretty much weighed in on this issue. First, some background to "set the stage" for what's to follow. I am a 35 year old... (1442 words)

Why was my girlfriend so upset???

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4 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - hi everyone I need some insight as to something that happened. Today I had my girlfriend over and I was (for lack of a better term) fingering her, and everything was going fine until she said something felt weird. She wasn't sure what happend and neither was I. Then, after a... (102 words)

He prefers the online gaming to me!!!

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4 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically, there's this guy that our parents are friends and they traded e-mail addresses for us. We started talking and immediately hit it off, IM'ing each other for hours a day and calling each other at least once, if not more, a day. We live on opposite coasts of the US ... (323 words)

My own personal soap opera... I'm in love with 2 men from 2 different countries

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4 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating this guy for over 3 years (2004-2007), we've been very serious and have been living together for 2 years. I actually moved from the US to NZ to live with him at the beginning of 2006, and we've been inseparable ever since. However, there was a period of ... (349 words)

How do I figure out who I truly am.

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4 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel like I dont know myself anymore like ever since my first love passed away I feel like I dont even know who I am anymore. How do I figure out who I really truly am?... (37 words)

How do I know he is being serious?

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4 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am really crazy about this guy, but when he asked me out I thought the relationship was going to be better but then after he just got to busy and we can barley talk and we havent been together for to long and he says he wants me to move there for him and cause its a good ... (81 words)

I need to find "hidden" internet history.

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4 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Basically, I want to know how to find internet history that has been cleared from my search window and internet explorer. Why do u ask? Well, i signed up for a recipe of the month email type thing and the firewall at work kept kicking the emails back as spam. So, I went ... (254 words)

Wife had an afair with someone large, now I am intimidated.

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4 November 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife had an affair with a man with huge penis. She went on and on about how she never knew sex could be that good and how she was driven wild by his size. Now, I am intimidated to have sex with her because I am afraid I won't be able to please her. She says it doesn't matter ... (90 words)

Every girl I like rejects me.

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4 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - i've never had a girl friend. I'm so desperate to get one. I just wanna be loved. I see my mates in relationships over 3years and they are so lucky to have someone care for them. They have the looks i don't. But i do have a good personality, i've changed myself to be caring, ... (78 words)

Why does she not realize I spent half my life thinking about her.

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4 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - i've been chasin this girl for over a year now. As soon as i try get step closer (by askin her to catch a film as friends) she moves away. I than give her space. 9months later after our friendship is stronger i ask again. She accepts but i find myself tryin to contact her and ... (183 words)

I have to see her everyday, but afraid to get rejected.

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4 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - i go to the sports centre everyday and see this beautiful girl workin at the reception. I really fancy her. I've spoken to her about twice just sortin my account out and jokin around with her. She calls me names for a joke. Everytime i walk in she smiles and says hi. (but i t... (126 words)

I try to forget about him, but it's so hard because I love him.

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4 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - so, i liked this guy all summer and we ended up going out. After about a month we started getting into arguments. 3 days befor we broke up he told me he didn't want to be exclusive anymore. And then he broke up with me saying he wanted to take a break. I found out he broke up ... (172 words)

I can't send him home, and he'll never have the money to move.

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4 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, i am 27 yrs old and recently moved from Poland to the UK with my boyfriend. We know each other since children but become boyfriend and girlfriend two half years ago. When we arrive we get job together at same place. We live with man in shared house. We have big room and i ... (262 words)

I'm uneducated in sex. Do women crave sex?

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4 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - im 21 and have my first girlfriend 6 months ago and havent had sex in like 2 months and even before that it was seldom. Everytime we try sehe gets pissed off and doesn't even talk to me and its cause I am unable toget hard and rarely if I can it goes soft during sex till the ... (116 words)

I need help finding my biological father.

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4 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hiya! Well i really need your help, you see i want to find my biological father bt i dont have any idea as to where i start! I'm not sure i want to ask my mum incase she gets upset. Please help! xx... (46 words)

I love him, he's my first, but I'm scared to leave him.

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4 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - please help me. i'm really desperate because my boyfriend doesn't make any effort whatso ever. he'll say have a nice weekend on a thursday night and i won't speak to him or see him because he's busy with his mates. not even a phone call... even though i ring him, why should ... (96 words)