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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I shave my pubic hair?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6240 days ago

20 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - how do i shave my pubic hairs? ive tried multiple times before, but i cant get all of it and when i shave its all stubbly, is there a technique i need to use? thanks.... (39 words)

We don't live together, but I help him out financially, now he's bought something for himself, is he taking advantage of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6240 days ago

20 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - This year my boyfriend was having trouble paying for school/gas. He's in his 2nd year of university and he has no other financial support other than me. He said he was BROKE so I got a part time job and gave him all of my paychecks, as well I gave him money for gas, car ... (344 words)

I'm pretty sure my partner has cheated, but he's blaming his ex, can I believe him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6240 days ago

20 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, like everyone else on here I have a strange situation. My partner and I have been together for two years. We have known each other for about seven years in total I guess. We don't live together but have businesses together, so are pretty committed or at least so I th... (364 words)

I think I want to date him... But we're good friends. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6222 days ago

20 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I was wondering if you could help me. I have this guy mate, we´ve known each other for ages, we´re really close and I have started to feel like I want to be more than just friends with him. He´s really nice and single, but I don´t know how to say to him about how a feel or ... (101 words)

My boyfriend keeps giving me gifts, now he wants to give his antique guitar to me, dad says I shouldnt take it, is he right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6241 days ago

20 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need some guy advice! Im sixteen and ive been going out wiht this sixteen year old guy for about a month. We really love each other, sometimes i think he loves me more than i love him. He's always giving his stuff, like his watch, his necklace thats a guitar pick that ... (212 words)

Is it ok to ask a senior to my prom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6241 days ago

20 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - OK, I have a few questions... 1. I'm a junior. Is it OK to ask a senior to a prom? 2. What if the girl has already attended a prom last year, is it still OK if I ask her for this year? Thanks lots.... (54 words)

Is my friend bi curious?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6241 days ago

20 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, i have a best friend for the last 5 years we get on really well., last year we kisses for a laugh to wind my mate up and never been mention since.. but been few weird small talks and flirting she is married and last week we were talkin on the msn for hours and she was sayin ... (103 words)

My ex is confusing me. What do you think she's doing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6240 days ago

20 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been hanging out with my ex. And we keep hanging out more and more. She flirts with me and gets jealous when I am hanging out with other chicks. It seams like she wants to date me again, because she is really flirts and likes to put her legs or some part of her body ... (127 words)

How do I stop a guy moving in on my girlfriend??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6113 days ago

20 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm currently in a very happy relationship. My girlfriend and I are very much in love and I trust her completely. We live in the same dorm at college, and we have lots of mutual friends. Unfortunately, one of my friends from the dorm has recently taken up hitting on my ... (179 words)

He doesn't go down on me anymore... Should I stop giving him head?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

20 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi,im in a stable relationship and have been for 2yrs until recently my partner loved going down on me and i him.it has been something like 2 months since he last went down and it seems he has no intensions of ressuming it,yet i have continued to give him head,he knows i can ... (75 words)

I'm Lonely, I feel bad about myself, and I don't know what to do about my crush at work! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6241 days ago

20 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel so down about this.. I am 20 and i started my new job 2 months ago. Ever since i cant stop thinking about a really friendly guy i work with. I thought this crush would go away but it hasnt. I even read loads of online stuff like "how to deal with a crush at work" e... (363 words)

He asked for a break, but he still wants to be with me. What's going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6241 days ago

20 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My Fiance and I have been together for about a year now things are great.About 4 1/2 months ago he had to move to another state because he wanted to attend a good college for a year befor he went to the navy.So right now we're in a LONG distant relationship and I was supposed ... (456 words)

Hubby left me, now wants to come back, I would just like some stability in my life, should I take him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6240 days ago

20 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello just a quick question my son's father whom I am just starting to get over wnts to come back because his life sucks, he thought the grass was greener on the other side, but it wasn't. Me and my family are not getting along, I don't really have a big family, so this hurts. ... (116 words)

16, she split with me 3 weeks ago, and I'm devastated. Please help me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6240 days ago

20 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - hey, i need help so badly. my girlfriend...well ex girlfriend now...completely broke my heart about 3 weeks ago. i just can't get over it. we are still very good friends but im just not the same as i used to be. im no longer happy. i feel SO down/depressed n screwed u... (164 words)

My mother is controlling my life and I need it to stop!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

20 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My mother is very controlling, and is emotionally damaging to me. A little background info on her: divorced my father when I was 6 yrs (famiy rumor is that my hardworking father didn't make enough money to keep her happy), around the same time my mother cut off all ties with ... (978 words)

We want to spice up our relationship, and we decided on a threesome. Any tips?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6241 days ago

20 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, Me and my boyfriend have been trying to spice things up a bit. Over the fast few months we have been getting a lot more "explorative." He wanted to have a threesome with another girl and i told him i would if I could have him and three more guys. He said yeah and we did ... (123 words)

Is it too late for us to get back together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6241 days ago

20 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - this is my problem... i was with my bf for 3 years when he finished the relationship because he wasnt sure he wanted a relationship anymore. he said that it wasnt that his feelings for me had changed, he still loved me and there was no one else, he said that he saw us spending ... (290 words)

There's no trust and we keep fighting! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6241 days ago

20 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I’m 22, just finished university and have been in relationships for almost all of the last 7 years. I have cheated on each boyfriend besides the latest one for the same reason – I became bored and/or unattracted to them, realised the relationship would not work because I ... (1544 words)

I came in my pants and I am so embarrassed

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6239 days ago

20 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Im 17 and i really like this girl, but she really turns me on, i was cuddling her on the sofa with her and was really horney but after 15 mins or so i cum, we were fully dressed but it was so embarrassing, any advice to stop it happening?... (50 words)

Is it too soon to move in with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6241 days ago

20 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating a guy for 3 months and I have 2 kids is it too soon to move in with him... (23 words)

How can I help my boyfriend feel better about himself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6241 days ago

20 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, I care about my bf. Lately he hasn't been himself. He sits in front of the computer all day and goes out for smokes with his buddies everyday!! He stopped going to the gym and he rarely rides his bike which he loved to do he also complains about him getting fat.... (92 words)

We are stuck in a rut, any ideas on how to get out of it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6241 days ago

20 November 2007 (F)

- i only get to see my boyfriend a few times a week We have been going out 2years and all we seem to do is watch tv and go to the pub Most nights we only see each other a few hours and i need some ideas as i feel we are stuck in a rut Any one got any ideas please... (62 words)

I cant get over my jealousies and insecurities

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6241 days ago

20 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I hope someone can help as I'm feeling very confused!... I have been in a relationship for a bit over a year, all is going really well and I feel very much in love. However, I have a major problem with insecurity / trust / jealousy - and no matter how much I try to ig... (320 words)

I think my relationship is dying out. Should I try to make it better or just let it die?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6241 days ago

20 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for about 9 months. In the beginning he was very adament about showing his feelings, saying nice things, and doing nice things. I ama girl who likes to be appreciated for who I am and for things I do for my significant other. The ... (363 words)

Should I date as many girls as I can or just try to find that one perfect girl for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6241 days ago

20 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello Aunts. I've been thinking; I'm 18 years old, and I want somebody to spend my life with. Someone I can wake up to in the morning and cuddle up to at night, somebody I can talk to about anything. Basically somebody I can share my life with. But tell me, Have I got t... (209 words)

If I don't take the pill at the same time every day, can I get pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6241 days ago

20 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Can i get pregant without using a condom but on the pill and dont take the pill the same time everyday... (21 words)

How can I get back the spark?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6241 days ago

20 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, Me and my bf have been dating for a year and a couple months now. He claims to be bored with our relationship but that he doesn't want to break up. What can I do? I believe that our spark is gone away. I don't know what to do I love him and I don't want to leave him ... (62 words)

I am 13 and like this guy. How do I get the relationship to move from friends to more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6237 days ago

20 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im 13 and i like this guy a lot and im sure he likes me too. It would be great if we could be more than friends and we flirt, but nothing is happening. Please could you suggest a way to move things along? thanks.... (48 words)

How do you shave or trim down there?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6241 days ago

20 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i've heard that girls like to shave down there. is that noraml? if so how would you do it? some guys are always talking bout how their girls are shaved nice or strimmed nice. so how would you do it??? sorry if this is a wierd question but i'm really curious...... (53 words)

Do all men cheat?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

20 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Do all men cheat? Every serious boyfriend I have ever had has cheated on me, and my friends boyfriends have too. My dad cheated on my mother, my grandfathers cheated on my grandmothers, etc. I've never met a man who doesn't cheat! I am beginning to lose hope, I am fed up of my... (141 words)

Should I wait for him to make up his mind or move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6240 days ago

20 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my fiance for four years, we have two beautiful baby boys together, i thought things were coming together until about a month ago he started acting some type of way, hiding his phone, rushing me out of his house, arguments starting out of clear blue sky. ... (221 words)

My boyfriend is stalking me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6241 days ago

20 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Why is my boyfriend so obessed with me? Almost stalkerish? Or does he really truly love me that much?... (19 words)

Got a crush on my teacher. I am hoping if I tell him it will go away

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6193 days ago

20 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i need everyones opinion. Dont think of this as ohh its jsut another teacher problem, but actually just tell me an honest answere as i dont know if what im goin to do tomorrow will be a mistake. Okay so i am a senior at my high school and its good, i mean i get all the cl... (438 words)

I am 14 and want to have sex with my boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6240 days ago

20 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 14 and I want to have sex with my boyfriend. We both think we are ready, so should I??... (20 words)

My husband always yells about how I raise the kids

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6241 days ago

20 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - ive been married for 11months ihave 2 children from a first marraige and a 2year old from this one. my husband is always dissagring with the way i bring up the children, how can i get him to sit and talk with me rather then shouting at me, saying that he does not want to talk ... (80 words)

Can a man get sick from having sex while the girl is menstruating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6241 days ago

20 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i've been trying to have a baby with my partner of eight years.we've been trying to make a baby since last year and nothing has happened so far.i decided that we try having sex when i'm menstruating too but my partner is afraid of this because he thinks he will get sick by ... (76 words)

Why do I yearn to be pregnant with my bloke so much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6241 days ago

20 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been together for a little over 2 years now. I'm 19 he's 22. We're extremely happy, and often talk about the future we plan to have, except lately I've been having thoughts of getting engaged, married and pregnant quite often. We love each other so ... (112 words)

How do I control my anger towards him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6241 days ago

20 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - help! I'm only 17 and everyone around me are saying I'm growing up way too fast or way too mature. So far I have a nice life: my own house, my own car rouchcharge mustang 07 (my parents bought me), the job im working at is fine. But everything goes downs with me and my boyfri... (250 words)

I have some lumps near my vagina. Could it be an STD?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6241 days ago

20 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, god this is so hard to write i'm so embarrassed! I found some like lumps on the outside on the lips of my vagina, i dunno they don't itch or anything they're just there not painful but of course i jump to conclusion that i ave warts or something? I dunno ive always been ... (128 words)

I cheated, but I cant get her out of my head. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6241 days ago

20 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - hi ppl please dont give me a hard time i know what im doing is WRONG on so many levels......plz i just want advice... I have been in love with this girl from the first day i met her in college she was always flirty and fun to be with....she then started going with my best mat... (168 words)

Does he like me? I am getting mixed signals.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6231 days ago

20 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in college and absolutely head over heels about this guy that I know from high school. We rarely spoke in high school but after leaving school I've gotten to know him slightly better but still not very well. I bump into him nearly every weekend at parties and such because ... (316 words)

He says I am spoiled and immature and I don't feel good enough for him! Are we on the verge of breaking up? Advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6240 days ago

20 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - What shall I do? My bf and I have been dating for a few months and I thought that everything's perfect until we had a fight recently. Over some stuff I say that I completely do not mean it and I really do not see a bit deal of, and he takes offense at it even after I explain ... (243 words)

His ex gf is using their child to get him back! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6241 days ago

20 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - the person i am in love has a child with his ex girlfriend. i guess that the child will always connect him with his ex girlfriend. i am not jealous, but i think that now she is using the child to get back with him, but he says that he loves me, and also i think that he is ... (69 words)

After problems with guy number 1 and 2, I am skeptical of dating guy number 3! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6241 days ago

20 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I was in a 3year relationship with a man I loved dearly and with all my heart. However we fought a lot and he never understood the things I needed and I was always wrong which frustrated me a lot and was always unhappy. He is a great guy and treated me well in other ways but ... (617 words)

My bf and I have conflicting views on what we want in regards to sex! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6239 days ago

20 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been together for a little over 2 years now, he's a few years(3) older than i am, and we are perfectly happy..however we seem to have conflicting views on what sexual fun is...i prefer romantic sex or "making love" if you will, and he'll engage in that ... (117 words)

What to start taking the pill but don't want to go to my doctor.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6240 days ago

20 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi,im thinking of starting the pill,the only thing is i dont want to see my male doctor,is it possible to go into a walk in center to get it? also what sort of questions would they ask when i do see them?, plz help... (44 words)

My husband doesn't want kids because ..he fears he might be abusive and/or violent with his kids.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6239 days ago

20 November 2007 (F) age 41-50 - Me and my husband have been married 3 years now. We love each other to bits and I want to have a child with him. However the last couple of months my husband has been luke warm of the idea. When I eventually got him to open up about it he told me he heard of someone at work ... (156 words)

She is my bf's ex and used to be my friend! How can I patch things up with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6241 days ago

20 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend's ex and I were not on good terms.. lots of bad things happened after their break up and they (ex's friends)threw the faults on me.. How i wish im the one but god damn, i actually have no concern with them during dat time! She was once my very close friend and i ... (69 words)

After 3 months space, that she requested I must ask.....have I given her enough time to herself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6240 days ago

20 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - A couple of months ago, my best mate told me that his girlfriend's best mate fancied me. His girlfriend then set me up with her best friend and we started chatting and getting to know each other through MSN and Myspace, and both realised we liked each other. We then started ... (345 words)

Is this cheating and should I tell my fiance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6241 days ago

20 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Should i tell my fiance that i pecked a close male friend on the lips (this happened once when i had been going out with my boy for approx 2 months)? i have no feelings for this person i pecked - in fact, hes like a brother from another mother - but i'm not sure if my fiance ... (168 words)

Why do I get mad at my bf's ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6241 days ago

20 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i had this feeling that i want to get mad at my boyfriend's exgirlfriend though she had done nothing wrong on us... but the thoughts of maybe she still love my man keeps on hunting me.. what should I do with this?... (42 words)

He lied to me. How do I get over it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6240 days ago

20 November 2007 (F)

age - My husband had an 18-month secret relationship with a recently bereaved woman in another country: emails, texts, calls, lunches and an expensive birthday present. I don't think it got as far as sex, but was heading that way. Whilst I was unaware of it, his behaviour was a ... (150 words)

Do I go for maintenance or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6172 days ago

20 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi every1, im in a bit of a delemma. I was seeing a guy for a few months and i thought everything was fine until his friend told me had a gf in another state. I tried to end it although after a drunken night wed hooked up, it was the last time i slept with him, then he admitted... (351 words)

Should I embark on a sex-free marriage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

20 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm engaged to be married and have been with my fiancee over 5 years. The first 2 years we had lots of sex. After 2 years sex got less and less now we don't have sex at all and I havent had sex for about 2 years. Dispite this I still proposed and she said yes but we still don... (123 words)

Will he treat me the same as my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6241 days ago

20 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - my ex bestfriend is after my love he wants me to wait 4 him say 4 two years after which we get married do l accept his offer ?people are telling me he will treat me the same way my ex did what do l do?... (46 words)

Am I right or is he wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6241 days ago

20 November 2007 (F)

age - I met this man during my divorce. I am 47 and been together for 6 months. I have Christmas at work but not allowed to take partners. He said we will be over if I go because he doesnt like it. He always emphazise he is a one on one person. He said he cant accept I go to ... (159 words)

We're texting but she's void of emotion. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6240 days ago

20 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My ex and I recently split up. I love her more than anything and I miss her so much. I've tried to move on but I can't. We're talking as friends via text now but it's killing me. I told her that we can't be friends and she said that she didn't want to lose me completely. But ... (107 words)

Is our marriage on the rocks?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6241 days ago

20 November 2007 (M)

age - Hello... This is my issue....I have a wife that refuses to change,whether its with situations at work, home, or with family. We had an in-law problem afew years ago, I am willing to forgive, she down right refuses to forgive(this is after 2 1/2 years). equally she has lost all... (90 words)

All I seem to do is play with myself!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6237 days ago

20 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I am wondering when I will get some sex, because at the moment all I seem to be able to do is play with myself which leaves more to the imagination. I have had several long term relationships and old girlfriends are gone. I like girls but I smoke and had a ... (137 words)

I have always feared stuttering when asking a girl out. Is there hope for me? I'm a 26 yr old virgin.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6241 days ago

20 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi. I'm almost 27 years old, and I feel ashamed as hell to admit that I have never even had a girlfriend, let alone sex. Do you know how it feels to be in a minority? I stutter, and have always feared stuttering when asking a girl out. Currently, I have A job, but not a ... (92 words)

Should I confess all about my cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6241 days ago

20 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Im engaged to be married to the most wonderful man in the world he is my soul mate and i love him more than anything and anyone in the world. Unfortunately i was very immature when we first got together and for the first 6 months or so of our relationship i cheated a few times. ... (155 words)

He left after a few months of marriage "being confused." Maybe a third person involved, is that plausible? He returned but I have a nagging doubt it'll happen again.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6241 days ago

20 November 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi everyone, if your husband walks out on you after a few months of marriage and the only reason he gives that he was confused and wanted to be single again. Do you think there was someone else, it does not make sense, he said there was noone else, we were not really fighting ... (166 words)

He blames me for him cumming too quick!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6241 days ago

20 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I have going out with my BF for a long time each time are having sex he never last any longer and then blame it on me that am too wet what do we do... (37 words)

Is there any hope of him ever falling for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6241 days ago

20 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - there is this guy who we've been friends for several years and at one time he was in love with me but i turned him down and now i really love and lately we started sleeping together on the agreement that it was just sex and no strings attatched and i only agreed in the hope ... (121 words)

I will have compromised who I am by giving in, our values being so different. Best solution?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6241 days ago

20 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I know a guy for the last 5 months. we work together and have become friends.we flirt a lot and recently he says that he wants more..he wants me, he wants to get to know me better.the thing is I know that I like him so it should be simple.except that he has more experience and ... (119 words)

Before I became pregnant he did not want a relationship with me but it seems different now. Am I reading more into this than I should?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6241 days ago

20 November 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - i had a baby 4 months ago and her dad comes round almost everyday.i am not with her dad but he has stayed overnight a few times(nothing has happened).we do go out shopping together and have even been to his mums for dinner,bbq,etc.he has brought round a bottle of red wine a ... (109 words)

Am I more than a friend to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6241 days ago

20 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i kissed my guy friend a few weeks ago, what should i do. after the kiss we got up from the floor and went back just hanging out like it never happened. he never talked to me after 2 weeks, he kept avoiding me, but now we do talk, and for some strange reason he asked me when is ... (103 words)

Doctor said I might have syphilis or Lupus, when I called to check they were rude and wouldn't return my calls. I'm very confused as to what to do.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6240 days ago

20 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - O.K. this is very complicated,I am ten weeks pregnant,10 days ago my ob-gyn told me my blood work came back suspicious,so I basically have syphilis or Lupus. She said she would rush the blood work and I would no something by the 4th day,when I call they are rude and the nurse ... (125 words)

How to end this relatioonship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6241 days ago

20 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Uh oh, another friends with benefits question... Long story short. I cheated on my ex, "A" at a time when I was unhappy about the relationship. Naturally, he left me, (a little over two years ago) and quickly rebounded and had a relationship with a (or I *should* say, now EX) ... (562 words)

Men, would you kiss your partner who did oral sex in the past?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6239 days ago

20 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Guys would you kiss a girl who does oral sex with her past boyfriend ... (17 words)

I'm in it for the long run, but his sex drive is waning, how can I put the spark back in?

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20 November 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - What are some tips men can give me, about how to keep things exciting in the bedroom? My b/f and I have been together 2 years and already his sex drive seems to be in neutral. No, it's not health related. No I haven't gained 30 pounds and stopped taking care of my looks. Yes, ... (155 words)

I found shemale videos in my husbands car! We've both tested positive for HIV.

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20 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for almost 12 years. Six years ago, I found shemale videos hidden in my husband's car. He had rented a post office box in another town to order them. I confronted him then and he tossed the videos and swore never to engage in that activity again. I ... (226 words)

He's a serial cheater, but I want to be with him , how can I trust him though?

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20 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My longterm boyfriend (just over 4 yrs) has lied to me many times about things relating to other women (who he is with, how close they are, etc). Often times I find out about these events through other people- he never comes forward until I catch him right out or someone else ... (308 words)

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20 November 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - i've ben with this guy for going on two years,the last few weeks ive noticed him being very obsessed with spending more time together; then i was playing around and found some girl's number, he totally lied and said it was his mom's friend, i looked at the calls and saw that he ... (157 words)

I'm a curious male that wants to have sex with a man but I'm worried a condom won't protect against all std's!

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20 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a curious male that wants to have sex with a man but I'm scared even if a condom is used I will still get an std or HIV. Is this a normal feeling to have? I met this guy and I'm really turned on by him, but I'm sure scared of taking the next step with sex.... (58 words)

I stopped him before I could orgasm because I was afraid to. While it felt amazing, it also frightened me.

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20 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - This may be a little wierd, but I'm actually afraid to orgasm. I should probably start with I only get to have sex with my boyfriend every few months because he lives about 300 miles away. I'm sure that dosn't help with a problem, nor is the fact that we've never done it in a ... (207 words)

Hard time talking to females. I feel really bad about this.

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20 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm a male who has a really hard time talking to females (other than the ones I need to like teachers, family, co-workers, management etc..)and this is creating problems for me because I feel through lack of confidence I am missing out on opportunities which I regret later ... (156 words)

My boyfriend just told me that he wants to stop having sex! He thinks that if we don't have sex for a while he might fall in love with me...

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20 November 2007 (F) age 41-50 - My boyfriend just told me tonight that he wants to stop having sex. We've been together for about 4 months and he knows I love him, but he says he doesn't feel that way yet. He thinks that if we don't have sex for a while he might fall in love with me. He keeps saying that ... (137 words)

Is looking persistently, in a nice way not perverse, a sign he likes me?

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20 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy and in classes me and him will glance at one another like pretty much all class. He gives me other reasons to think that he likes me but I don't know. If a guy keeps looking at you, in a nice way not pervertish, does he like you? And I am looking back the same ... (85 words)

Do verbal compliments really get guy's hot?

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20 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am just wondering if most people are very verbal during sex. I am quite shy and am not comfortable with talking dirty or complimenting my boyfriend during sex. Does being more verbal get guys more excited? ... (37 words)

I'm worried about my penis size. Please help!

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20 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Is my penis a bit short? I'm 13 1/2 and I've measured it. I got 3 1/2 inches flaccid and just over 5 inches when hard. I tried putting a condom on my penis but it looked quite loose even when it was properly put on. The 'bulb' shape on the condom is longer than the penis ... (136 words)

We love each other, I want to get married, but he says why bother?, is it really important to get married or is he right?

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20 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for almost two years. We've lived together for one of those years and I've known him for going on nine years. I love him. Recently I've thought about marriage and I've concluded that I would like to formalize and declare our commitment with ... (135 words)

I have feelings for a friend that is doubtful of his own sexuality. Would it be harder for him if I told him?

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20 November 2007 (M) - I have feelings for a friend that is going throgh trouble with his own sexuality. i dont know wether i should tell him about them or if i should just stay "the best friend" and help him through his own troubles. i really want to be selfish and let him know but i think tha... (101 words)

Normal to have hair around the nipple area? I'm very self-conscious about it.

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20 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a lot of hair growing around my nipple areas. I am very self-conscious about it. My boyfriend has noticed them before but he says it doesnt bother him. I try to pluck as much off without letting him see them. It's so annoying though to keep thinking that it is there and ... (104 words)

Was his behavior normal? Even though I broke up with him and getting over it, sometimes I have flashbacks of those incidents.

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20 November 2007 (F) - Was it okay that my ex used to get mad on road trips if I wasn't sitting in the passenger seat next to him? He would always choose to drive late at night and through the night to avoid traffic, and would get mad at me if I couldn't stay awake and keep him awake. (I didn't know ... (219 words)

We're friends but I want more. Should I tell her?

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20 November 2007 (M)

- A little long (sorry) For the past 5 years..........I've been debating this question: Should I tell a girl who is 6 years older than me that I should be the one she should be dating? Now as I said earlier, we've been friends for 5 almost 6 years. We met when I was 17 (her... (267 words)

When do you take a relationship to the "next" level?

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20 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - well i have been with this guy for 2 years and i love him i know i do, but we wanna take it to the next level like sex....i'm a virgin i wanna do it but dont know if i should. so should i?... (44 words)

She's near climax, then the feeling fades away. Is there something I do wrong?

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20 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - ok hi me an my girlfriend are having a big a of problem.. when im doing wat i have to do she says she feels like shes almost going to orgasm but then it just goes away although she gets wet... so wat is the deal is this wat a womens orgasm is or is there more to it or is there ... (71 words)

Do I ask my friend to ask her if she would date me?

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20 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - how can i find out if a girl i like, would ever date me? Without tellin her or her findin out i asked or like her. Her friend is also a honest friend of mine, could i ask my friend to ask her? Please help i'm dying of desperation! Don't wanna lose the friendship!... (54 words)

What makes a boy/man sexy to girls? I heard if boys have lots of female friends it makes girls want them more.

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20 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - what makes a boy/man sexy to girls? I mean what is attractive to them? I'm 17. What makes girls really tick? I heard if boys have lots of female friends it makes girls want them more. Thanks for any input in advance need all the help i can get. ... (49 words)

Every time we plan to go out there is an obstacle! How can I make her chase me?

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20 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - i have suffered alot because of my looks and extremely low self confidence alot of people used to say it to me. And i knew it was true. Recently i've picked myself up and tried bein confident. There's this girl who've i've like for a year now. I love her so much its not ... (223 words)

We do not have sexual intercorse that much anymore and whenever I talk to her about sex she complains about having it every day?

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20 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello! Me and my Girlfriend have been dating for about 3 months now, we have already engaged in sexual intercorse. Everything seems like our relationship is going well but then I've noticed lately that I feel like im second hand meaning the side salad if you get what I mean. ... (89 words)

Will I get a second chance with him?

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20 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay so I put a post up a little while ago about how my fiancé and I were taking a break for 6 months. Well last week he sends me an email to tell me that we are over. When we last saw each other we were crying laughing hugging and joking around even though we were breaking up ... (365 words)

My bf has taken intimate photos of me with my consent. I just found out he's emailed them to another girl!

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20 November 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My bofriend has taken intimate photos of me with my consent but I have just found out he has emailed them to another girl what shoud i do... (28 words)