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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

 

I'm confused, I kissed this older guy, now I don't know what to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6252 days ago

6 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - I like this guy alot and I have for a while but I dont know what to do...Last night we were at a party together and he was upset while makeing himself some food and I was just like whats wrong and he said his daughter and I just look at him with all the care in the world. Then ... (147 words

I've got a crush on my teacher, he flirts back, my boyfriend suspects, but I still want something to happen, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6255 days ago

6 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - I've had extreme on/off crushes on my foreign language teacher that I've had since the beginning of sophomore year- now I'm a senior. I happen to be "a prodigy" at this language, and so I can't tell if he plays favorites with me or if he has something more happening in his ... (534 words

He said there's no hope for our future.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6253 days ago

6 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - i was seeing my friend's brother for four months. i felt as if i wanted to spend the rest of my life with him. i had to move away to go to uni. he said we would stay close and see what happened. he said he would keep my space in his bed and that i was worth the wait. in the 2 ... (165 words

I chicken out.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6255 days ago

6 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - Well my boyfriend has the deal with me one of these days we both will take turns on being naked for atleast an hour. Well i want to really i do but i am afraid i will chicken out. how can i not be such a scared cat?... (48 words

How can I make my boyfriend ejaculate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6209 days ago

6 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - I kind of have a problem, see i can give my boyfriend boners all the time but i have never made him ejaculate. Can you please give me some ways i can get him to ejaculate. Thanks... (37 words

I'm a virgin and haven't had a period in 1 1/2 months

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6255 days ago

6 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - Im sort of scared. I've not had my period for about a month and a half. I cant be pregnant as i am a virgin. Is something wrong with me???... (33 words

I am devistated with the prospect of losing him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6254 days ago

6 November 2007 (M age 41-50 - I've been with my boy friend for 10 months. He was very clear from the start that he didn't want an open relationship, even though I have had some with my exes in the past, and that he wouldn't tolerate me sleeping with another guy. I accepted it, even though I was enjoyi... (194 words

Should I stop before it gets out of hand?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6255 days ago

6 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - I am 19 and have met a guy (45) who is really nice and i am friends with but latley we have started to kiss and touch each other. Is this ok or should i stop before it gets out of hand??... (42 words

What is your definition of age gap?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6255 days ago

6 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - hey!!im wondering peoples opinions on age gap to be honest it doesnt bother me too much im 18 and i love this 28 yr old just wonderin if some people think this is weird or pervy?? i work with him and we meet up a bit but i dunno wat to do shud i keep going with it or am i jus... (101 words

I want her there with me and can't sleep

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6255 days ago

6 November 2007 (M age 30-35 - me and one of my best mates are both 16. I ave had feelings for her for afew years and people say she has for me but the subjects never been brought up. Anyway i stop over at hers quite alot and am normally on the sofa bed in her room which is next to her bed. last night ... (281 words

I'm worried that he's not attracted to me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6255 days ago

6 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend sometimes looks at other girls (like checking them out)- does this mean that he isn't attracted to me or that he would like to have sex with these girls? Does he look at them because he is bored of me? Is it because I am too ugly for him? I don't know what to say ... (170 words

I don't want to be on my own, it's really hard sometimes.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6252 days ago

6 November 2007 (M age 41-50 - ive been in a 5 month relationship with a lad i really love, i met him straight after my fiance who i was with for 4 yrs, i cant get over him so i txt him and sometimes ring him to see if he is ok, i know this is wrong but i still have feelings for him, i know i will never get ... (192 words

Should I be hurt by this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6253 days ago

6 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend of a year and a half share a myspace page. He told me a couple amonths ago about one of his ex-girlfriends but I didn't worry about it much, but on myspace he wrote her saying Hi and what she has been up to. I am upset by the fact that she's his ex but he ... (84 words

Is it wise to have children right away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6255 days ago

6 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - Is 25 and married 2 years to early to have kids. My husband and I are deployed military and will be separated 22 months not counting the the 2 WK R and R we both get. We will be married approximately 2 years when we get home? Is it wise to have kids right away?... (55 words

We've just started dating, but we can't find anything to do together that doesn't cost a lot, help us!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6255 days ago

6 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - I've started a new relationship with a guy a month ago; this is my first romantic relationship with anyone. Over the past few weeks, my boyfriend and I have made time to see each other once a week. The problem is, we've been having so much trouble finding things to do together, ... (89 words

Do you know what may be causing this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6255 days ago

6 November 2007 (? age 30-35 - this may sound like a really dumb question but im kind of worried. i dont think theres any need to be worried but id like to make sure before i come to nay conclusions. it isnt a question about relationships o anything but its quite embarrasing you see when i need a wee. i will ... (181 words

What to do to make him feel loved and cared for?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6255 days ago

6 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - Both me and my fiance are currently deployed overseas. What can I do to let him know that he feels loved and cared for?... (24 words

My ex cheated on me and broke up with me over the phone. I'm 13, help...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6255 days ago

6 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - My ex cheated on my with this very fat girl I used to be mates with. And he dumped me by text while i was away for the half term. I was well upset, and it only was three weeks or a months since we've been dating. Everyone keeps calming me down at school saying that youre too ... (129 words

My wife said she'd be willing to do the "work" for the company; this could lead her to spend the night with the clients. Should I agree?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6255 days ago

6 November 2007 (M age - Hi My job with the company I work for involves looking after overseas clients. They general spend 4-5 days here then go home. Most are married men in their late 40-50s and like to have female company when we go to dinner. So I generally hire a lady for them and some spend t... (180 words

I don't think he really finished with her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6255 days ago

6 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - this is just generally a letter spilling how i'm feeling to people, becasue i dont have anyone to really talk o it about... i'll sum it up.. i was seeing this guy for bout 2 months, bout 5 weeks into it i found out he was cheating on me with his ex-girlfriend who he went out ... (206 words

Should I break up with my boyfriend or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6254 days ago

6 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - please help me......im 18 i have a boyfriend bt i love someone else too who also adores me but hes 28 and works with me and im scared to tell anyone or dont no wat to do....should i break up with my bf or not??im so confused... (48 words

How can I keep from going back in to the same old rut with my b/f and make myself a little harder to get?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6244 days ago

6 November 2007 (F age - We are back together again my ex and I . My ex fiance kept comming around and only a few day after I left my ex b/f house he was calling. It only took a few weeks before he approached me and wanted to go riding. It was late and we rode around seeing places in his childhood ... (701 words

I go to him but he makes less effort to come to me! Do I accept this because I love him or seek elsewhere the attention I need?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6248 days ago

6 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - I've been dating my boyfriend for about 10 months. We live about 5 miles apart, and in the beginning he would come over to my house to see me, call me regularly, and tell me how much he missed me if we didn't see each other during the week. As time went on, however, I noticed ... (325 words

How do I talk to him about the fact I'm scared he'll hurt me as the ex did - without him getting upset with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6219 days ago

6 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - my ex-boyfriend abused me and now im scared that my current boyfriend is going to do the same. he wouldn't hurt a fly and he is so good to me, and i want to trust him but i can't. how do i talk to him about it without him getting upset with me?... (53 words

What to do about asking him out.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6255 days ago

6 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - i like this boy at school but i am scered to ask him out.what shall i do? ... (19 words

She tells me she loves me and no one else, then hasn't called me in a month.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6111 days ago

6 November 2007 (M age 36-40 - I was truly in love with my ex and it took me most of the summer to decide that I was ready to get back into a relationship (I just got out of a rather bad several year relationship). She pressured me all summer to go out with her and was sexually teasing me until we both went ... (343 words

We've had sex and now he wants more, I don't want to go that fast!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6255 days ago

6 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - ive been dating this guy (his 26) for about a 4 weeks now, but we have only seen each other a few times, last time i went to his house and we slept with each other, it was my 1st time (im 21) and it was ok and it felt right at the time. he seems like a really nice guy but see... (103 words

His ex cheated on him and now I wish he'd get over it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6254 days ago

6 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - Hi. I work in the same place as this really cool guy. We've been spending quite some time together and I really really like him and for the first time I'm falling in love.I know he likes me too but there's a major problem I've had to deal with.He found out that his girlfriend ... (142 words

I feel like I'm sharing my boyfriend with his friends that are girls!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6255 days ago

6 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - I'm dating a wonderful man who is the closest person I've met into being my soul mate. However the problem lies with my insecurities towards his close relationships with other women. He has at least ten best female friends who facebook, call or text him daily. I know he'd nev... (129 words

He reaches the finishline too quickly! How do I slow him down?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6111 days ago

6 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - I am seeing/dating this guy whom recently we became sexually involve. The first time he came too quickly within minutes of intercourse. So I didnt say anything. Now it is our fifth times or sixth times and it is still the same. What can I do to help or stop him from ejaculat... (68 words

I worry about the effectiveness of condoms!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6255 days ago

6 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - I am just curious how effective condoms are. My boyfriend and I have used them every time we've had sex - however i am still paranoid about an accident. I'd say we're both very cautious and safe about these things, but there's still a chance. so just how safe am I with a condom ... (68 words

Sensei is giving me signals that he might like me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6254 days ago

6 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - So I got this Sensei who seems (at least) to me to be treating me better than other students, even better than the ones who are newer or been there longer than me. He'll tease me, give me little nicknames, pick on me...occasionally we'll talk about non martial arts stuff like ... (287 words

We broke up and now he's running around town!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6255 days ago

6 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - Heres my question Me and My bf broke up and for someone who didn't go out much before (even before we started the relationship) seems to be going to a lot since the split. Is this his way of dealing with the split he says he doesn't want to sit at home and be sad does this mean ... (71 words

I'm in love with 2 guys! I don't know what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6253 days ago

6 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - Im in love with 2people can you please help me??? dear cupid...im so so confused i hope u can try and give me some advice becase i dont really have anyone to talk to about i dont think any of my friends would understand.........I'm 18 and going out with my bf nearly 7months n... (385 words

I'm petrified of lads, what can help me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6255 days ago

6 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - hey i no this may seem strange but neways, i need 2 tell some1. um well truth is im scared of lads (im a girl btw) every time i talk to 1 i get soooo nervous n start to shake. this happens to the ones i dont like. im a wreck wen i see or talk to the 1 i like. ive ne... (208 words

II would kill to get back with my ex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6246 days ago

6 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - why can't he understnad that i love him soo much and i will kill for him to get back with me? i would really do anything to get him back if only i knew how! any advice would really help .... (43 words

He's cheated before and tells me about all the girls he "could" get, is he trying to make me jealous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6255 days ago

6 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - I'm 21 and have been seeing my 20yr old boyfriend for 6 months. He's an attractive guy, intelligent, and arrogant. He tells me that he used to cheat on previous girlfriends but has matured since he found me.. a sweet girl he can trust. However he sincerely tells me about many ... (112 words

I am a lesbian. My girlfriend says she is not gay or bi, but loves me and isnt going to leave. I am confused.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

6 November 2007 (M age 36-40 - I'm lesbian and I'm in a long-term relationship with another girl. We've been together for a year now, and we are in love. I've asked her if she's a lesbian, and my friend has done the same, and she's said no. After, I've asked her if she's bisexual, and she says that she ... (94 words

Is is normal for my boyfriend to still be in touch with his exes? Even after 9 years with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6255 days ago

6 November 2007 (F age - In a long term relationship for 9 years. About a 2yrs ago boyfriend cheated for about 1 year with a younger woman. We are both 49 yrs old. We got engaged about a year ago. When he is with me his ph is constently off. I have been having problems with him for a while about ... (136 words

Why wont she do with me what she did with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6089 days ago

6 November 2007 (M age 30-35 - my girl friend has been dating me and another guy. she told me that she was a virgin. i am a virgin and i found out she was having intercourse with the other guy. she said she thought of it as dating two guys. it's obviously not a level playing field. since when is having ... (147 words

My sister keeps stealing my underwear!!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4670 days ago

6 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hi everyone My problem is my younger sister. She is 16 at the minute and turns 17 on the 1st of january. The problem is is that she won't stop stealing from me. She steals money, clothes, makeup, shaving razors, beauty products..basically everything nice that I buy for myself... (452 words

All the girls I go out with seem to be bi. What gives?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6255 days ago

6 November 2007 (M age 30-35 - Over the past year I have had the most confusing relationship experiences of all time. It all seems to come down to one simple problem, all of my girlfriends have been bisexuals. I can't really explain why, maybe it just goes with the personality I like... who the hell knows. ... (798 words

My boyfriend lusts after other women

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5967 days ago

6 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have recently reached our two year anniversary. He is the first person I have slept with. I had other serious relationships before this but chose not to lose my virginity until I was completely ready. He has always stared at other girls while we have been ... (157 words

My girl treats me like dirt because of the bad influence of her best friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6255 days ago

6 November 2007 (M age 36-40 - my girlfriend of 2 years is the love of my life, currently i thought everything is still going good. im in the u.s. coast guard and when i met her i was young, and she was young. everything was fine. she was in love with me, she said she would always be there for me and not ... (335 words

Can surgery fix my finger?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6255 days ago

6 November 2007 (M - Dear Cupid's I have a major problem with myself. My left ring finger is shorter and the knuckle seems to be lower and you cant see it. I would like to know will surgery be able to fix this? As i have had enough of people calling me disgusting when seeing it, and now that ... (119 words

How do I instigate sex with my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6255 days ago

6 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - i want my boyriend to finger me but i think he thinks that i dont want him to do it.. also i would like to toss him off ive been goin out with him for 2 weeks but weve not done anything but kiss..will someone please tell me how to toss him off i dont want to make a fool of ... (88 words

I'm attracted to another, does this mean I want out of my long term relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6253 days ago

6 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for 10 years now and we have a 4 year old little girl,but just latley i am not happy,he is always tierd and never has nay time for me,it is like i am not there anymore. To be honest i have not been happy for a while on and off. I went on a gir... (111 words

My lovesickness really is making me ill...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6255 days ago

6 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hey, My problem is basically that when my boyfriend goes to work in the evenings and I get left stuck at home, as I work during the day at different times, I always start to feel ill. When he is here I feel fine but as soon as he leaves or when I know its nearly time for ... (132 words

How can I Convert a Non-Exclusive Relationship to an Exclusive One?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

6 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - I've been dating my ex for awhile now. At first, after we broke up, we were just friends but at some point things became more physical and now we're definitely more than friends although we are not in a relationship. He is involved in the PUA community and as a result he h... (414 words

Is my boyfriend going off me? please help..

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

6 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - Hey,I recently got with this guy, he is absolutly gorgeous, i cant quite believe he is with me to be honest! We have been together 15months he likes a drink and sometimes gets quite drunk, he has pushed me a couple of times and got a bit spitefull with words but nothing to ... (568 words

I'm scared of visiting my cousin now but its all booked. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6255 days ago

6 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - I’ve been with my boyfriend on and off for almost 3years and he’s quite controlling and has double standards. My family don’t get on with him and it’s always causing conflict. We split about a month ago and now he’s just returned from 2 weeks away and we’ve started seeing e... (245 words

I told my guy I would not cheat on him but I did, he has found out and we are working through it. Why do I do it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6249 days ago

6 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - i have cheated on every guy i have been with. when i met my partner i promised him that i would not cheat on him because i really did not want to, but i did. not once but three times in 9 years. he found out and now we are trying to work it out. i dont know why i do it so how ... (75 words

Ow can I build my confidence enough to attract girls?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6254 days ago

6 November 2007 (M age 41-50 - i'm smartmax,i've a problem attracting the kind girls i really want to be with.pls,help me on how to build my self-esteem,have confident and boldnss to talk to any girl.... (29 words

Has anyone got any tips on how to lose some weight?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6255 days ago

6 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - Id like to lose a dress size or two by December 1st. Any ideas on how to lose weight quick? I mean, im 5'3, i weight 10 stone. Im a size ten jeans and usually about a size 12-14 in tops.. i relaly really really want a flat stomach but press ups and sit ups.. well they real... (96 words

His jealousy and lack of trust makes me feel horrible-how do I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6255 days ago

6 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for two years. I have never cheated on him or lied or done anything that would cause him to not trust me, but for some reason he still doesn't. He is insanely jealous of my friends (he hates my best friend who happens to be a gay ... (161 words

Give me some perspectives on 'what love really is'?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6255 days ago

6 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - I would like people to explain to me what they think love is, how they feel when they are in love, what they think love is...? How different is love from when you were together 6 months to 6 years to 60 years? I would just be interested in people'd different perspectives and... (71 words

Gay guy with straight girl...and she wants to marry me?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

6 November 2007 (M age 41-50 - I am a 22 year old gay male currently sharing an apartment with a female friend, someone I've gotten quite close to over the past year we've known each other. Only problem is she wants to begin an intimate dating relationship with marriage in sight and is quite serious about ... (72 words

I haven't heard from my Long Distance interest since we met and slept together! Was he just using me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6255 days ago

6 November 2007 (F age 51-59 - I've been in contact with a guy, writing, texting and talking constantly by telephone. He told me that I was his girl and that it was hard to meet a good person in life and talking of future things we would do together etc. We arranged to meet, he came to my area, which ... (185 words

Is there a better partner than who I thought was my "Perfect" partner? Has anyone else experienced this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6255 days ago

6 November 2007 (M age 36-40 - Has anybody on here ever believed that one person was perfect for them, only to break up with them after a long and happy relationship, and then meet somebody better? My girlfriend left me a about 3 months ago after a 2 years together having decided she was too young to hav... (128 words

He confessed he's been kissing another girl, should I accept him back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6255 days ago

6 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - I have been with boyfriend for nearly a year but we have been going through a bit of a bad patch, he has been acting really strange so i accused him of cheating, we moved to live apart for a few weeks and started getting on great again. Last night he confessed he had been ... (98 words

I'm married, never cheated on my husband, and the tests reveal I'm HIV positive. How do I tell him this...?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5908 days ago

6 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - How can I handle my life? I'm 30 yrs old I have i'm married for 6 yrs now. i didn't have sex with other guys but when i tested my blood i'm positive with HIV, do you recommend to tell to my husband? He will kill himself and I belive him he didn't do it. How can u help me?... (170 words

A loving boyfriend and a busy soul mate. Whom do I choose?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6255 days ago

6 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - I have a boy friend and he loves me a lottt ! he is always there to help me. Spends hours with me daily n i loved being with him until i found another guy (X). X is extremely similar to be in habbits, activities, perspectives towards life. We are exact copies of each other.I ... (192 words

He had sex with his close friend... but now she's a lesbian and they're both cool about it - should I be?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6251 days ago

6 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - hi everyone, my boyfriend told me that he had sex with a close friend of his when they were really drunk it was about 3 1/2 years ago. Now they stayed good friends and today she is a lesbian. they are cool about it as they got on with their lives leaving that episode behind ... (110 words

He doesn't call as often as he used to, how can I bring him closer again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6254 days ago

6 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - I met this man at the end of june. he seemed to love me had all the time for me, but lately he doesn't call me as often as he used to, he bounces our dates. Whats going on, i love this man, is there anything i can do to bring him closer again. ... (58 words

Did I lose my virginity? Did he? What happened here??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

6 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - im worried!did it happen? me and my bf was fooling last night. im a v and wanna stay one till im married and my bf knows that. but last nite he did put he's thing in me but not in my vagina but the other one. i really dont know what exactly happened he did push and push it ... (176 words

Are things getting too serious? He cried because he thought I fancied my best-gay-friend!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6256 days ago

6 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - I'm fifteen and in a steady relationship, and I'm scared things are getting too serious for me. He cried on me the other day because he thought I liked my gay friend. Pathetic since he's gay! Anyway I do like another guy.. and I got really close to him yesterday after a ... (145 words

How do I fix it now?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

6 November 2007 (M age 36-40 - Hey, my girlfriend and I are in a relationship for about five months now. I'm 19 and she is 18. I admit that I have been clingy, obveously because I love her, but I should have controlled it sooner, because I recently realized that its a turnoff. I know she loves me, but I ... (98 words

Should I wait for him to call, or call him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6256 days ago

6 November 2007 (F age 51-59 - My boyfriend called me and we met. However he hasn't called me again yet and few days has passed. Although he isn't interested in a serious relationship at least for this time and i has realized it, i like to meet him because he is interested and nice. Now should i wait him to ... (76 words

I want them to treat me like an adult and not like a child.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6255 days ago

6 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - I'm 20 years old, I still live with my parents and I just went threw a really hard time, I just lost my baby and I kinda don't want to spend a lot of time at home because I was really ready for him and had everything set up for him. Anyways, my mom still freaks out on me and ... (172 words

Is he in it for the money or me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6255 days ago

6 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - So I dated this guy for a really long time, we broke up and now are kinda friends but I am still in love with him and he says he is still in love with me. Although, unfortunatley I'm still really wrapped around his finger and still let him borrow money from me whenever, so what ... (65 words

I like him but don't know what to beleive

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6256 days ago

6 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - Well, theres this guy. I like him ALOT. I can't say that I love him, because I'm too young yadda yadda, but it feels like it. I was SO sure he liked me back. Examples: At a dance, he asked me to dance 3 or 4 times. The next day at a party, he asked me to dance a bunch too, and... (334 words

Is he only sticking around for sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6250 days ago

6 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - An old aquaintance and I recently got back in touch, and we have gone out every weekend for the past three weeks. We hit it off, and there was obviously chemistry, and in the heat of the moment, we had sex that first night and have continued to each weekend we're together. The ... (192 words

His behavior is annoying and getting on my nerves.

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6 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend still talks to his ex. It bothers me and i confronted him, but he says that it is not what it seems. He says that their relationship is over. But, they talk and exchange txt messages constantly, and it makes me wonder: what could they be possible talking to ... (161 words

I want to be an early mother.

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6 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - k, i'm 15 and soon to be 16 and i have given it alot of thought i want to find the right person for me and be and early mother, i want to graduate before haveing the child though, but i need help finding the right guy. i just feel like ive always meant to be a mother and i cant ... (67 words

I haven't gotten my first kiss, what to do.

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6 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - ok, i'm 15 years old and almost 16 iv'e had a few boyfreinds in the past but for the past two years i havent and i just feel like they arent interested in me anymore- ive tried alot of things and ive learned that its just best to be myself, but evryday i feel something is ... (110 words

I kissed someone, she forgave me, but will we ever be the same again?

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6 November 2007 (M age 36-40 - Well i posted on here before asking should i tell my gf about a drunken kiss. Well i decided to tell her b4 it was too late and she obviously didnt react too well she still wants to be with me though. Im not sure on what to do, i love her very much and want to stay with her, ... (185 words

I want my family to give me some R-E-S-P-E-C-T!

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6 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - I don't feel as if my family really respects me. I'm the second youngest of four girls so you might say I've got a bit of the middle-child problem. I don't get any recognition as an older sibling from my youngest sister even. It's as if she sees me as some delinquent and things ... (115 words

I need help for my hairstyle, any ideas?

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6 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - So I need a fresh look in hair style really. I have medium lengt hair no layers and kind of side bangs. I cant have it cut too short or too layered because i must be able to do two braids for work. Websites i could look at and describtions and pictures are welcome.... (55 words

Should I wait for my ex-boyfriend in the Navy? He gets out in 7 months!

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6 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - My ex boyfriend is in the navy. We have been talking on and off for the past 4 years and he recently told me he is in love with me and has been for a very long time. But he doesnt want a long distance relationship.He gets out in 7 months. I love him and wanna be with him. Ive ... (74 words

I want my parents to accept my soon-to-be, tatooed and pierced boyfriend!

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6 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - ok, so im almost 18 and my guy friend and i decided we would wait until im 18 to start dating, because hes 21. he is one of those tattooed and pierced guys, and i want my parents to be okay with him, how do i tell them about him so that they are okay with me dating and visiting ... (67 words

I'm still 17 but want to get out of the house and marry my 18 year old boyfriend!

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6 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - I am 17 years old and I am with a 18 year old black guy. I live with my grandparents and they grew up back in the days were black people were nothing but slaves and the help. Well so my grandparents don't like it at all, but i really don't care. He is the sweetest guy I have ... (296 words

I like him, he likes me, we cannot date and now my best friend likes him too..

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6 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - OK. SO i like this guy and i told him and he likes me back, but we're not dating cause neither of us r allowed to get into a relationship by our families. we like eahc other and my best friend likes him 2 now. she told me she likes him 2 days after i told her. what should i do? ... (102 words

I think I'm pregnant. I am young but I still want the child!

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6 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - i think im pregnant! im young but i want this child! i am having cramps in my stomach and it seems like something is moving in their! my back has been hurtin and earlier i have been feeling queisy.....am i pregnant or am i not!!!... (48 words

I feel that masturbation change my mood! Is this normal?

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6 November 2007 (M age 36-40 - Just a very straight forward question, really; Does Masturbation cause your mood to change? Even though it has been months since my girlfriend left me, it still gets me emotional. But I find that I'm slightly more sensitive to the subject after Masturbating. I wonder if this... (72 words

She gets drunk and treats me like a king, but sobers up and treats me like a peasant!

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6 November 2007 (M age 41-50 - People; I am a seriously and totally confused guy. Im a 29 year old guy, and i am totally and utterly in love with a woman 10 years older. I have no issue with the age difference at all. We do enjoy each others company and talk regulary and have a great time, but everytime th... (293 words

I want to get married and have a kid, but my ex who doesn't keeps wanting me back when other men want me!

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6 November 2007 (F age 51-59 - Help, ive got myself into a pickle. Im a 36 year old women who would one day like to get married and have a baby with the right man.I have no children and have never been married. A lovely 28 year old guy asked me out,he is handsome ,charming and kind. Then my ex boyfriend (... (303 words

I'm afraid I can't find a girlfriend. I am tired of being alone!

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6 November 2007 (M age 41-50 - please help i cant get a girlfriend despite making lots of effort being a male model. Im a 27yr old virgin and its seriously getting me down with loanliness, i dont know how long i can take this frustration. I know women like me to look at but im so bad with them they just ... (122 words

I googled my boyfriend's email address and found forums with him flirting with other girls, but also found a open message to me that he didn't intend for me to see!

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6 November 2007 (F - My boyfriend doesn't knwo I googled his email address, I found a forum of him flirting with other girls in other countries, not asking to meet up but jus saying how cute they are and posting pics of himself topless. On another forum I found him writing an open letter to m... (98 words

We meet up once a week and it's only sex, but can there be more?

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6 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - I have known this guy for over 3 years. The last 3 months we've been dating or whatever you want to call it. We both have kids so we only get to see each other once a week but when we do see each other, it's really only sex and then he leaves. I've asked him what his intentions ... (130 words

Our friends brought up the engagement issue, and he says he hasn't really thought about it, should I worry?

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6 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - Hi everyone. The other day me and my boyfriend were in a takeaway talking to one of our friends and he was asking if we'd thought of getting engaged yet. My boyfriend just didn't say anything and i was looking at him with a bit of a disappointment on my face, and he noticed. ... (330 words

Is it normal for my time of the month to change?

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6 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - Dear cupid is it normal to miss a month of period?? because i miss mine last month and now it came on the first week of this month..is normal?... (34 words

We are planning to sleep together, but I am afraid I am too inexperienced!

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6 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hi, i am 16 years old and i am worried because my boyfriend that i am with now we havent slept together, and we are plannin on sleeping together and i dont know how to give a blow job and i need as much advice as i can. can you help please? ... (55 words

Would this outfit be OK for this event.

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6 November 2007 (F - Hi! This is not a relationship related question, but I just want some advice. My dad knows this lady who lives in a city near me and has her own business. He spoke to her about a job for me as I will be graduating in April. Now, there's this show in 3 days a which she is one... (221 words

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