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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My boyfriend wants a threesome, he's willing to do it male/male/female; should I give him a male/female/female one with my sister?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 6024 days ago

23 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - my bf of 9 years wants a threesome I told him if I give him one that I want a mfm which he is fine with, he is getting his best friend cuz he say he can trust him. should I give him a fmf with my sister? if anyone has tried this what should I expect and how can I make both a ... (68 words)

My boyfriend and I tried the 69 position and I think I had an orgasm but I'm not sure, could it just have been light-headedness?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6204 days ago

23 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I have been sleeping with my boyfriend for about 4-5 months. We were in a fantastic 69 position the other day and, I think I had my first orgasm. Though I can't really remember it, it felt special and unlike anything I've experienced before. I know that my body filled w... (128 words)

I want to break up with my girlfriend as I'm not happy with her but I don't want to break her heart

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6182 days ago

23 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi. I am currently in an unhappy 2 and a half year relationship. I really want to break up with my girlfriend. Trouble is she really adores me and i am so terrified at breaking her heart. I know what to do but i just need some support and advice on how to break up with her. ... (59 words)

How can I find time to work, study AND meet new men?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6206 days ago

23 November 2007 (F)

- I am working all day and try to study for government exams at night like 3 or 4 hours a day and to study a bit more at weekends, I go out with some friends my age but I have no crush on any of the guys nor them on me, my best 3 girl mates are 1.away, 2.engaged and do not go ... (103 words)

My fiance talks to his ex wife every day, why does he do that?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

23 November 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Does anyone know why someone would talk to their ex every single day more than they talk to their Fiancee? I have been dating my Fiancee now for almost 2 years and he talks to his ex-wife every single day. Sometimes more than he talks to me. I wouldn't have a problem with thi... (221 words)

My 'friend' acts strangely around me and cheats on her homework. Please help, I don't know what to do about her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6201 days ago

23 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, i'm having problems with my mate. i only call her a mate but she says i'm her best friend but anyways she annoys me alot nowadays, the other day i was talking and she wasn't listening and it was obvious so i stopped talking and just said to her i'm coming back and ... (526 words)

Can you feel your hymen with a finger and whether it is intact or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6205 days ago

23 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm wondering if you can feel your hymen while fingering yourself? I'm a virgin, but I want to know if my hymen is still intact. Also, how likely is it that I will bleed when I first have sex? x... (42 words)

Is love selfish? Opinions please!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5107 days ago

23 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My question: Is love selfish? does someone only love because it makes them happy inside? would someone love a person who doesn't make them happy? look at these questions while you answer my question. - why do people stop loving a person? when they are bored of them. when they ... (307 words)

I cheated on her and she won't take me back because she's been hurt this way before. I can't move on, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6206 days ago

23 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, I have a question. I had an eight month relationship with a wonderful, beautiful young lady. I had never felt this way about any girl in my life, and I am sure that I was, and still am, in love with her. However, a little while ago, I cheated on her, didn't tell her, she ... (176 words)

Any advice on dirty talking in bed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6205 days ago

23 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - What advice about talking dirty during sex do you have? ... (10 words)

Advice on kissing during sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6205 days ago

23 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - What types of kissing do women enjoy the most during sex? Where on their bodies do they liked to be kissed? In general how much kissing is expected before having intercourse?... (31 words)

How can you tell if a boy fancies you or is just being a flirt?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6205 days ago

23 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - What are the normal signs that a boy fancies a girl? I am trying to figure out if this boy just wants to be friends, is a regular flirt, or really fancies me. Help, please!... (36 words)

Which aspects of sex do women enjoy most?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6205 days ago

23 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - What aspects of sex do women enjoy the most? Kissing? The closeness to their partner? ... (15 words)

How do you make out with a boy?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

23 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - help me!! i need 2 no how 2 make out with a guy!! plz help me!! ... (16 words)

How can sex be made an expression of love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6207 days ago

23 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - How can sex be used as an expression of love? What makes it such? ... (14 words)

I know it's silly but I have a crush on my teacher and it's affecting my grades, how can I get over this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6173 days ago

23 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm Sooooo stressed, and it's down to just ONE person! A Teacher... I've had an obsessive crush on him for nearly a year, and it's actually affecting my school work - I'm not a nerd or anything, but if i wanna get my dream job i'm gonna have to improve my grades! I'm in the ... (165 words)

I have a small penis, how can I improve the sensation of penetration for my girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6206 days ago

23 November 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - i have a very small penis and i would like to hear any suggestions on how to improve the penetration sensation for my girlfriend... (24 words)

My best friend and I admitted having feelings for each other. Now things are awkward between us, how can I make things more relaxed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6207 days ago

23 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Complicated sitution, me and one of my best friends have recently admitted how we feel about each other. It wasn't done in the best of ways she was upset, i've been going through a tough time and i was just glad to be home to be with her again after going to see a relative. We ... (467 words)

I fancy my best friend and he flirts with me but seems embarassed at the same time

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6207 days ago

23 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - well i dont no weather its a problem or not but.. i am in college (uk) and i think i love my best friend he is so cool he always flirts wiv me and every 1 thinks we goin out but its like he is embarrased all his mates are girls and really pretty. I am not that pretty lol ... (94 words)

I fancy my roommate but when he found an old note I'd written about him, I denied my feelings. What should I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6206 days ago

23 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey. i am an 18 year old girl and i really like my guy flatmate. We got along fine and had a lot of fun together. However, yesterday, we were all messing around and my other flatmate got water on my bed to annoy me and the guy that i like trashed also trashed my room, as a ... (436 words)

I want my ex back. He's a drug dealer and I've even bought drugs from him just so I can see him! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6206 days ago

23 November 2007 (F)

- I think Ive fallen for a boy who I was seeing back in the summer but we finished 2 months ago. I miss him so much and although we had a massive argument when we split up we have only just started talking again and Im really happy. The only thing is, I think he see's me as just ... (146 words)

She said she could not come to lunch with me today but offered to meet up next week. Is she trying to avoid me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6206 days ago

23 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - hi. today i asked my crush if she wanted to go for lunch. she said that she couldnt today but offered to meet up next week. We get on well together andwork together in our practical groups and i'll walk her home. do you think that she is trying to avoid going to lunch w... (69 words)

I love her so I do not want her to regret taking this step! - as I am going away for 2 yrs to school. She is willing to have her first time with me.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6206 days ago

23 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - im 17 my gf is 14 weve been together for 7 months and she wants me to take her virginity but im going off to school in august of 2008 for at least 2 years but our love is true. please help i love her so much but i dont want any regrets ... (102 words)

Do you think there's someone else? Or that he's not attracted to me anymore? His sex drive decreased very much...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6206 days ago

23 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - For a couple months it seems like my boyfriends sex drive has dramaticly decreased. We use to do it atleast 3 times a week and now ill be lucky if its 2 times a month. And when we do i have to start it. Also i mention it and he just acts aggravated like he has no idea what im ... (117 words)

I'm confused about what my boyfriend wants from me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6206 days ago

23 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically my boyfriend wants more of a relationship from us, i thought we were gonna break up because i can't give him more at this point in time. Now he's telling me he still want's more but that we wont see eachother as much (So we can do our own things spend more time with ... (158 words)

Is it wrong of me to tell my ex to stop coming to see the kids, when he does nothing for them anyway?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

23 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and i have been broken up for almost a month, Three days ago he moved in with his new girlfriend, leaving me and his kids at his mothers house. Right now we have nowhere else to go and i am trying to find an apartment, but anyway he comes and sees his kids for ten minutes ... (137 words)

I've just started taking the pill, can I start my next pack without a break?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6206 days ago

23 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - got put on the microgyon 30 on monday which was the 3rd day of my period, thing is my bf is comin up on the week i'm supposed to have a week off but i was wondering will i be able to run 2 packs together even though i've just started? ... (52 words)

Why doesn't he come to see me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6189 days ago

23 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I we have been dating for over 6 years, he lives in the UK and he is married, I am living in France and I am single. We do care about each other and we do trust each other. We get on well even though we are far from each other. However the last time I saw ... (196 words)

My mom's dressing.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6185 days ago

23 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am Jasper. doing my UG. My family are a very good and decent family living in a village. We are a middle level family living in the tradition way. My problem is about my MOM. She is around 50 years old and working as a teacher in a governmentt school. She is average ... (315 words)

I am 14 and I feel like my life is almost falling apart.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6207 days ago

23 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 14 and I feel like my life is almost falling apart. 1. my parents had a huge argument and are still not talking and it's getting to me. 2.my group of friends have totally split now and I only hang around with two other girls. 3.I have no boyfriend 4.I am argui... (117 words)

My crush is giving me mixed signals...HELP!!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6207 days ago

23 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - So... there's this guy that I have a major crush on. Basically, we met two years ago thru my ex-boyfriend. We were friends all while I was dating his friend, but there was definitely some tension there, always. Anyway, when my ex broke up with me, Man 2 (as I"ll call him) ... (679 words)

I find the whole "dating game" depressing...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6206 days ago

23 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a disaster in relationships. I'm a really nice person, good fun and people like me as a friend. People say I'm pretty but every time I meet a guy I like, it always ends before it starts. It never gets past the second or third date and they never give me any reason why. ... (84 words)

Will I trust again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6205 days ago

23 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have just found out that my finance that I have been with for over 12 years has been cheating on me for about 1 month. I found out when I received the cell phone bill and this odd number was all over the bill. He denied it so then I really researched it. Now that this has ... (126 words)

If a guy passes on sex, does it mean he isn't that interested?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6206 days ago

23 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am dating a japanese guy and I'm Australian living in Tokyo, it's so difficult, I have invited him over the last three nights but he hasn't come over, all legitimate excuses but if a guy passes on sex, does it mean he isn't that interested?... (46 words)

How do I make a girl go crazy for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6193 days ago

23 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - How do I make a girl to go crazy for me???... (11 words)

I know when you're in love with someone you hope they feel the same but I'm confused because she gives mixed signals all the time.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6206 days ago

23 November 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I'm a female that has been in love with my best friend for years. She knows I am and keeps telling me she is straight and has recently started seeing a bloke. We are very close and kiss, hug and cuddle all the time. I used to sleep over at her house and share a bed an... (195 words)

How can I control my libido?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6207 days ago

23 November 2007 (F)

age - I've just divorced and met this guy, seems genuine so I go for him. I am 47 and he is 18 years older than me. Sex with my ex-husband was non existent in the last year before we divorced. This man is 18 years older than me but unbelievably good in bed. The problem is he says ... (99 words)

Dating...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6207 days ago

23 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - We've been going out for the past 5 years. Barely a month now, we haven't talked on phone because she told me she's ready for marriage and I'm not. I love this girl but I want to complete my masters, she doesn't understand so what should I do?... (49 words)

How can I tell him tactfully that I don't fancy him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6207 days ago

23 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay there is this guy at my school... my friend was talking to him and he said that he liked me. The only problem is he is a freak... he's really weird and he's known to "stalk" the other girls that he's liked. He's never had a girlfriend (for obvious reasons), and I'm getting ... (124 words)

How can I move this friendship on to an actual relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6207 days ago

23 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am best friends with a guy, now we're stuck in this fling thing where I really like him and I want something proper but I don't think he does. I've tried to make it stop and just move on as I don't want a fling, I want a proper relationship but I keep ending up back in the ... (117 words)

Should I stay with someone who is as old as my dad because I am afraid of being on my own and for him being helpful?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6207 days ago

23 November 2007 (F)

age - I am 47 my husband same age at the middle of settling my divorce. It's stressful. I am looking for a job and start my new life. The feeling of coming home to an empty house is terrible. I've met this man who came to fix my tap at my house. I feel so lonely so I go for it. ... (141 words)

My ex - I've hit a low point now after some great progress this week

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6201 days ago

23 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi All, I’m feeling really low today. I don’t know why but I feel like I’ve been crushed. I don’t understand how my ex-girlfriend can treat me the way she did, find someone else while we were going out, and then jump straight into another relationship as soon as ours is over.... (627 words)

He's more experienced than me and I feel like I'm letting him down...any tips?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6207 days ago

23 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Plz help, I've recently lost my virginity to my new boyfriend, the thing is im to worried im not doing more to please him, how do you give hand jobs?like what do i do?, and any more tips on making the sex better for him, hes much more experienced then me and i just feel im ... (62 words)

Sex hurts to much and its annoying me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6204 days ago

23 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hiya, Me and my boyfriend have tried to have sex several times now he knows im a virgin and wev taken things really slowly but the most we do is he gets the very end of his penis inside me and it hurts soo much i have to stop him. He's a great guy and he stops evrerytime... (115 words)

Can pre-cum get you pregant??

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 6017 days ago

23 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I want to really know.. can you get pregant by pre cum? ... (13 words)

Struggling with just being friends to my special someone.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6207 days ago

23 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Can you ever be 'just friends' with someone you instantly fall for, and they appear to feel the same? We text eachother sometimes, but I am almost finding it too difficult, I almost feel like saying it's all or nothing as it's torture to be friends with him as I have fallen f... (126 words)

How can I ease the negative thoughts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6207 days ago

23 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, this is my 3rd question in a line of questions relating to my relationship, or should i say previous relationship now. My girlfriend broke up with me because my insecurities have pushed her too far away. She is at university and I struggle in a responsible job, I have had ... (111 words)

She seems to be turning me away.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6205 days ago

23 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi DearCupid. Ive been seeing this girl for about 2 months now and its finaly official. Problem is we started out great going over to eachothers place ect ect. Now everytime i put an idea forward to go over to her's she says yea no probs the day before but when the time com... (112 words)

One day after our break up we flirted and ended up having sex. It has been 2 days and he has not responded to my suggestion of reconciliation.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

23 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Long story. But, my ex and I started out as a summer fling that turned out into a relationship, even though we both knew that we would be many hours apart (we are both in college). He isn't the best at communicating and I broke up with him, but after talking to him, ... (502 words)

How can I know whether she is having another relationship? She is avoiding me all of a sudden.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6207 days ago

23 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I'm having a problem with my relationship. She is a different country girl. we were very happy for months and all of sudden she is trying to avoid me when I'm trying to talk to her. And I don't know whether she is having another relationship. Pls help how to solve. How can I ... (62 words)

I feel angry with him but I wouldn't ever express my anger. We dated last year but he did not want a serious relationship. Do I avoid him if he calls again? How can I get over this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6207 days ago

23 November 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - The man i used to date the last year told me that he didn't want a serious relationship. I didn't call him after that but he called me. I was polite to him and i met him. After that he hasn't called me again and when i called him he didn't answear. I try to not call him but it ... (155 words)

We have a LD relation, I insisted on visiting him but he insisted not to, claiming it was expensive. Is he finding excuses?

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23 November 2007 (F)

- I am currently on a long distance relationship, and I am always flying over to his place. I am planning to see him next week; but I was also planning to go the following week (meaning 10 days after); but he told me not to come since he is coming down to see me on New Year's, ... (335 words)

How long to know if I'm pregnant

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6207 days ago

23 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i had sex with my boyfriend around like 7pm yesterday. and when he was done he said the condom broke and now i'm gna be pregnant cuz he busted. how long until i know if i really am or not??... (40 words)

I want him to kiss me more, What now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6207 days ago

23 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my bf a few days ago because he thinks I like his best friend more then him. His best friend, also my good friend, had flirted with me alot and even kissed me once, even though he has had a gf for a few months now! My bf said that his friend doesn't like me in ... (121 words)

Why does my boyfriend look at porn and not want to have sex with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6207 days ago

23 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - ok so i have a question? I have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years now. we love each other very much but there are some problems we have been having especially lately. a couple days ago i was looking through the history(not on purpose) on the internet and i found that he ... (140 words)

Get over it. Move on. Your happiness and sanity are more valuable than a husband who cheats or a so-called girlfriend who took part in that. Your opinions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6206 days ago

23 November 2007 (F)

age - i have been reading a lot about affairs. just wanted to get in my two-cents. my husband left me over 20 years ago - we had been married 14 years at the time and did not want children. my girlfriend was having an affair with him the last year or so we were together. they are ... (237 words)

What is wrong with this guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6206 days ago

23 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Today we were in class watching a movie and this guy I hate had to leave and while he was gone he's friends put water in his seat. He came back and sat in it. Anyways a few minutes later he's trying to pour the excess water on/near me and I start moving my chair away. Then he ... (205 words)

Getting rid of insecurities.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6207 days ago

23 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - how do i go about getting her back after insulting her.and jumping to conclusions. how do i get rid of my insercurities... (22 words)

3 yrs goin down the drain for HIS FRIEND!???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6207 days ago

23 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay this is gonna be a pretty long post but i rly need advice... My bf and i have been together for almost 3 years. thats sooo long for me. things were going great and still are. There are just always those "times" when it seems like everything is wrong. We had our ups and ... (421 words)

I was a workaholic and my wife left me, I've turned things around now, how can I convince my wife that I've changed?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6206 days ago

23 November 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife of 9 years ask me to leave 9 months ago. She told me that she held on to hope the last couple of years but had finally given up and eventually fell out of love with me. Her reason are that I was disconnected from our family and was not involved enough. I traveled the ... (186 words)

I realise I have friends, but not best friends; I am never invited to parties, etc. I'm usually a happy girl, but this depresses me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6201 days ago

23 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so usually im a happy girl. But lately, its been just so depressing. I realize i have friends, but not best friends. its so horrible. i never get invited to parties, i dont have a boyfriend, and im not miss popular, even though im liked by many. So... i know... (106 words)

He's a serial cheater, but he's scared his wife will find out, should I tell his wife?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6207 days ago

23 November 2007 (F)

- A bit confused and could use help from some of the great agony aunts on here. I almost started an affair with an attractive and married man I work with but stopped myself as the word is that he is a bit of a player and I would say he is. He has just started wooing another co ... (166 words)

How to make sex a good experience for both.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6207 days ago

23 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I are in love. We have not done it but will. How can I make our sex good, beautiful, enjoyable, and a wonderful experience for both of us? ... (31 words)

I need advice on how to cure my mother's depression or get her mind off things. Are there any free councillors?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6208 days ago

23 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - i'm really stressed someone please help me. My parents have argued a lot but this time it has got really serious. So bad that my dad has said too much and my mum is in extreme severe depression and at a point where she cant even control her own actions and is scared she'll do ... (229 words)

Always going to be more than a best friend to him...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6208 days ago

23 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been best mates with a guy for over a year now. However after 2 months of knowing him he told me he loved me. I told him straight, that i wasnt intrested but I'd hope we'd still be able to be friends. So we have tryed being friends for a while now, but in conversations hes ... (150 words)