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Archived questions from: November, 2007 (see latest questions)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Slept with the ex and now I don't know what to do.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

30 November 2007 (M)

- So I slept with my ex last night. We dated for a year and had a horrible breakup, and wound up not talking for a whole year up until last night really. We ran into each other at a local pizza pub and then decided to meet up later at a bar. Anyways, last night felt as though ... (179 words)

The contacts are very infrequent. He also refused visiting me on holidays for financial matters even though I sent him my savings.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6199 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i've been in long distance relationship with my hunny for the past 2 yrs now and all was goin on well until september when he changed his university n he had to move out to other town. he stopped callin me so often as it used to be before coz he claims having financia... (201 words)

After I fainted 3 yrs ago, my penis has never been hard enough and I cannot last for more than 5 minutes. Medical results are apparently fine but the problem persists.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6199 days ago

30 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 29 and married. Around 3 years ago, when I was having sex atleast twice a day, I suddenly fainted in my bathroom and after 15 minutes or so, found myself on the bathroom floor. After that day onwards, my penis has never been hard enough. Something is wrong with my ... (321 words)

Do I need to moderate my high sex drive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6199 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I want to have sex with my boyfriend more than once a week and more than one time when we actually start. I like to bring new positions,places and even clothing to the act. I even e-mailed 7 new kamasutra positions to do together. Some times I call him and tell him to pick me ... (153 words)

Why cant I stop having sex with this married guy, I don't even like??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6198 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I am having a affair with a married man at work. I see him at least once a week when he comes into work in the AM, which is when we have sex, before I go home to my boyfriend of 15 years, who I really do love. The man I am having the affair with has been married 3 times, with ... (146 words)

How can I get my bf to clean his place??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6200 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - okay, been with my boyfriend for a year. we have had a few lulls in the relationship recently. just as things were looking up, i went over to his house to spend the night but the state of his house (hygiene, smell etc) made me feel ill and i didnt stay the night. i have felt ... (64 words)

He has problems ejaculating! Is it me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5827 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - mmm... wenever i masturbate my boyfriend.. give him oral.. or we have sex with me on top.. he gets no pleasure out of it + tells me to stop.. :/ its been like this since the 1st time and wev been together nearly a year. he has always had problems ejaculating and gets nothing... (126 words)

Why did she lash out at me when I've been good to her? Was I blind and foolish??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6200 days ago

30 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi there. I first used this site back in late April when I'd just started seeing a girl I work with. Since then, I've been on a rollercoaster ride of emotions and now I hope I've finally reached the end. So please bear with me. Thanks. I promised myself I'd take things slow... (711 words)

The kids at school tease me about my virginity and sex...Whatcan I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid the year 9s at my school keep on asking whether i'm a virgin or not. I reply I am and they start laughing. I've never even kissed a boy or had a proper relationship before; and I don't particurlly want to get teased about it... any halp please? YerMum x... (64 words)

Should I dump my boyfriend and go after the other guy??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6198 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hey,i was in love with this guy. when suddenly we became girlfreind and boyfreind.he had another girl on his mind at that time, but i was sure that he loved me.and worried that he will keep thinking about her. so we broke up( stayed freinds), he became her boyfreind, and after ... (133 words)

I need to know if he likes me...How do I get his attention?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6200 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - A few weeks ago I met this boy at a party, and we've been talking ever since ( txting and msning) everyday I've gotten a txt messege everyday from him first. I've been asking him simple questions like whats your favorite song est, but I don't know how to make this go any ... (79 words)

I work and I pay for everything. Is he just using me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6199 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - have been with my partner 9yrs he wont commit. i work and pay for all our kids needs, my partners clothes, a lot of the household bills and all new things that come into house. i even paid for the last two cars. i have to live by his rules and iv near had enough. just 39 what ... (104 words)

I heard that testosterone helps a woman's sex drive..can any female attest to this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6195 days ago

30 November 2007 (M)

age - A question for women. I have heard in a recent talk show a woman say to the host that she had taken testosterone as part of a treatment she was undergoing and under the influence of testosterone she said she was shocked how her sex drive and desires shot straight up. She ... (158 words)

I lost trust in him and I feel there should be something more solid..should I stay or go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6200 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Should I stay or should I go? -This is the fifth year of our relationship -We have a one-year old son -My boyfriend is about 3 years younger than me and not ready to commit to marriage any time soon. I feel our relationship should be more concrete by now. -He is leaving... (116 words)

When I am naked he doesn't get an erection...is this normal?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - What does it mean when you can be entirely naked in the shower, with your boyfriend talking to you (sat on the toilet) and he doesn't get an erection... Any ideas? Does it mean he doesn't find you arousing? Does it mean he could be gay? Does it perhaps mean he is having a... (82 words)

I think she is bored, with the relationship... should I let her go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6197 days ago

30 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - i have been with my girlfriend for almost 14 months. id like to believe that i treat her as well as i possibly can because she is my world. i met her when i was 16 and right when i met her i knew she was the one. we had an incredible relationship for a very long time until ... (306 words)

I'm thinking of just ending the relationship with my boyfriend to keep my Mom happy...advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6199 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help.. I'm 18 and in a long-distance relationship. I've been with him for 18months.. and I feel so happy with him. However, my mum has a problem with it. It's not that she doesn't like him.. because she does.. and she also lets me see him for 1-2 weeks at a time. The p... (342 words)

I still view her as a threat and it winds me up that she still texts him, What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6197 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - last year i broke up with my bf, after we went to my friends wedding as mates, but i still really liked him, one of my friends bridesmaids, her mate, kept tellin everyone how much she fancied my ex which drove me mad. recently and slowly me and my ex have started to get back ... (116 words)

We just don't seem to have anything in common anymore. Is my relationship over?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6200 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm trying to find out whether I'll regret ending my relationship (again!). My partner and I split up in February - this year after been seeing each other for just over 4 years although we didn't live together or anything. We each have children from previous relationships and ... (324 words)

Over-reacting about the future? Or is breaking up the only answer?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6197 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf and I have been going out for almost a year now, and we've gone through some dynamic ups and downs. About 6 months ago, I decided to do something that he told not do or else he would be break up with me. I didn't cheat, but to him, it felt like it. I lost his trust, but ... (255 words)

I am married...but am I normal to crave sex so bad with another woman?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6200 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm really confused about my sexuality. I'm pretty sure that I'm bi-sexual, but I'm not exactly sure. The only way I can really get sexually aroused when I have sex with my husband is if I think about gay sex. (That includes men and women). My husband never really ... (197 words)

No period...a negative urine test...but what will be the result of my blood test? Thoughts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6200 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello again! I previously wrote in saying i had pregnancy symptoms and they all went away. My period is due nov 21 - dec 1st...so far NOTHING! I went to the dr wed still negative by urine. Thursday i took a blood test..and the nurse is supposed to be calling me back. What d... (93 words)

Losing him once made me realise how much I loved him. But how do I trust again and put the past behind me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6198 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have quite a complicated situation. It may sound trivial to begin with, but please offer me advice, as I am so confused. I met a J about 18 months ago. I was in a relationship at the time, but it was not a healthy relationship at the time, and I did the wrong thing, and star... (948 words)

Could we be prosecuted?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age - I have been involved in a loving sexual relationship with my sister's eldest son for close on ten years now. We became intimately involved when he was seventeen years old, and I thirty-one. We have a beautiful nine-year old daughter together. Our relationship is based on true ... (78 words)

She cheated and I can't trust her. Any suggestions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

30 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - have recently split with girlfriend of 1 1/2 years. we moved to new country together where she started a new stressful job. we had recently had a conversation about how we were not satisfied, and decided to take a break to think - we always got along brilliantly and had fun ... (184 words)

Does my new boss fancy me??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6160 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been working in my new job now for a few weeks, and i think one of my managers may have a crush on me, over the last few weeks hes been getting steadily more and more friendly towards me and i catch him staring at me alot. He always asks how my works going and helps me... (109 words)

Is it wrong to ask a guy out??

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it wrong to ask a guy to go out with you or should you just keep it old fashioned? ... (20 words)

I thought he would have moved onto someone else....but has he??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6199 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey all, I really need some advice, I'm not sure what to do. I have known this guy for a few years now, but about 12 months ago he text me and asked me out. He is about 23 years older than me. I told him I wasnt interested, but I was still prepared to be friends with him. He ... (254 words)

I am worried I am turning gay...but I don't want to be.

This question has 65 answers - newest was posted 4340 days ago

30 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a 13 year old boy and i am worried that i am turning gay. dont get me wrong, i dont hate gay people i just dont want to be gay. When i think about penises i get an erection. when i masturbate and i think about penises, i get an orgasm much more faster than when i think ab... (188 words)

He's married but it wont last...either somebody is going to get fed-up or killed.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6200 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age - I know I'm probably not gonna like what I hear, but I need to know what you think anyway. Several months ago I started seeing someone, and please take into consideration that we have known each other since childhood, and have since been great friends, but he is married. He was... (371 words)

What are the pro's and con's of swinging??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - What are the pro's and con's of swinging??... (8 words)

How do I ask a girl out face-to-face??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5128 days ago

30 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - If i ask out a girl face to face tell her everything how do i? After i tell her i like her, ask her out? We're both 17. Should i expect a reply? If she needs time how do i give her time? Won't it be awkward until i get the answer? Lol easiest option would be to run for my life ... (75 words)

Is he showing that we could still be friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6200 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

- I split wiv my ex 2 months ago, we recently made friends and I still really like him. The thing is, he seems to be sending me mixed signals and its really getting me down. Every time I see him we stop and talk and he asks me what Im doing at the weekend and whether I wanted to ... (236 words)

Can anyone please help me to get out of this depression?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I really need some advice right now. I am a complete mess. I have depression, have been on anti-depressants for several years. I have ups and downs, have had boyfriends who hurt me, but now i am with someone for 1 year that is truly fantastic. I am extremely insecure with ... (440 words)

Will his drug habit affect a baby?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6197 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey there. I was just hoping for some advice. My fiance and I are trying to get pregnant, but I'm concerned because he does have a history of weed/coke usage in recreation. He says he will quit for me to make sure the baby is healthy, but I don't know if it will stick. Will the ... (71 words)

How can I stop this male escort from blackmailing me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

30 November 2007 (M)

age - i had sex with another man..he was an escort..i paid him money..now he is blackmailing me for more money..which i gave him ..and now he wants more money from me..and he threatens to tell others about this experience if i dont pay him...it can ruin my life because of my work as ... (69 words)

Do I have reasonable grounds to be feeling insecure and jealous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6196 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been with my boyfriend for a little over a year we live together. I just don't trust him and just feel that he's not in love with me anymore. The lack of trust started when we first started dating. I saw on his myspace he was messaging back and fourth with different girls ... (379 words)

Do you think he's just after Sex from me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6200 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - ive known this guy for nearly 2 weeks and i really like him the thing is i dont think he belives me as i told him it again yesterday and he said ive not proved it to him, do you think hes just after sex,ive stayed over night at his place 5 times and yet nothings happened as i ... (110 words)

How the heck do I get this guys attention?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6200 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - A few weekes ago I met this boy at a party, and we've been talking ever since ( txting and msning) everyday I've gotten a txt messege everyday from him first. I've been asking him simple questions like whats your favorite song est, but I don't know how to make this go any ... (76 words)

I'm not sure if I'm masturbating "properly" can you help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6199 days ago

30 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - When I was young, I literally had no idea 'how' masturbation was 'meant' to be done. I wasn't aware of the conventional method, so perhaps in my naivety I just did what felt good. When masturbating, I would lie on my back and with the palm of my hand rub my penis against my... (282 words)

I think my ex-girlfriend has something called "Hypomania". Is there anyway I can address this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

30 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I just recently broke up with my girlfriend who I love a whole bunch because she didn't call me for a week and didn't come to see me on thanksgiving. However, as I'm sitting here I'm thinking back over the course of our relationship and I'm beginning to see that her moods were ... (433 words)

A male stripper forced my wife's hand down his underwear, and she touched his Penis. I say it's no big deal, but she feels guilty. IS it a big deal?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3013 days ago

30 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, this says I'm Male, but it's really both myself and my wife asking this. So please address your replies/advice to both of us. We are doing this together as a solution to our little problem. Here it is. My wife's very close friend is getting married. She had... (290 words)

Fallen for a guy 200 miles away... Soon to be 400 miles away. Can this work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6200 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, I'm divorced, but my marriage was a sham anyway. I met this guy over the internet. We have been talking, emailing text messages etc and have met up. I really really like him, and he's told me he likes me. Its been going on now for about 2 months, and i think I'm being to ... (86 words)

How can I overcome my shyness?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6200 days ago

30 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - i am 15 and i am dating a 12 year old i hav had a major crush on me for 9 months and a couple of months ago she told me she loved me, i asked her to b my girlfriend, she siad yes, we have been dating 3 weeks and we still havnt spoke face 2 face, we are both reli shy and i gets ... (95 words)

Is she right for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6200 days ago

30 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - there's this girl i've liked alot for over a year. Its come to a point where i'm crazy over but her am not asking her out because i'm scared of losing the great friendship we have. One of her friends, also mine who knows i like the girl told me that last time i walked past wh... (254 words)

I'm confused. Am I pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6200 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I had unprotected sex with my bf 6 days after my period went off and my period came right on time and was regular 5 days...and i have taken 7 preganacy test since then and its been weeks since i had unprotected sex....my period is coming on time again and every test i took came ... (112 words)

So much advice from sites like this is confusing me. What is the alternative?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6200 days ago

30 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - In the past 3 or 4 weeks since my ex and I broke up, I have become addicted to sites like this offering me advice as to what I need to do to get back with my girlfriend. The advice I have read has been very useful but I also know that my particular situation may require more ... (1564 words)

His double standards annoy me. Should I let him off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6200 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age - My ex husband has a very small penis and doesnt know how to pleasure me in bed. He only cares about himself. When he finishes he just snores away. This new man I've just met is much older than me. He knows every trick to please me in bed and has a big penis. I've never fe... (187 words)

I worry my girlfriend is hiding something in her past. How can I address the issue?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6196 days ago

30 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - hey people just wanted to know wot to do...ive been with my gf for about a year now we do hava good relationship..but theres a few things that bother me and im worried it may effect our relationship..we gave our vrginity to each other.. I keep getting the this gut fee... (182 words)

Is there such a thing as destiny? For everyone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6200 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hi guys..............is there such thing as destiny??? Is there someone for everyone out there???... (15 words)