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Should I hold on when he has another girl?

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Question - (4 November 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 November 2007)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Dear Cupid,

I dated this guy for a year and a half. We broke up and hadn't talked for a while when he started texting me, he has a girlfriend and has only been dating her for 2 months. He always calls me and texts me even when he is with her, He tells me that he wants to be back with me its just a trust thing. I'm not over him but I'm wondering if I should keep holding onto him when he is with this other girl???

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2007):

Tell him to get lost. Why do you want to be with him. He has another gf. Just move on and meet someone who is free and single and yours. Stop reading his texts, dont answer them and even change your phone number, just get him out of your head.

take care

xx

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A male reader, dapone 1 United Kingdom +, writes (4 November 2007):

dapone 1 agony auntHello.

You may not believe this, we receive letters like your every day, and i find it sad that people can treat people in this way, he already has a girlfriend, and for some reason he want sex with you and that is all, nothing else, he is trying to hurt you because he thinks your that easy to hurt, he will go out of his way and lie to you, tell you anything you want to hear, so that he can have sex with you again, then he will drop you and go back to her or some one else.

You should ditch this bloke, if he text you dont answer him, if he phones hang up, change your phone number,he is a predator, he and his fellow kind go out and use woman, give them false hope then break there hearts, and at the last moment when you have totally fallen head over heal for them, they get the sadistic pleasure of dumping you, dont go out with him babe he will pull your heart clean out,you really dont deserve this treatment.

Hope this will help you.

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