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36-40,
anonymous
writes: earlier my families were planning for me to have arranged merraige and now they seem like they drop the subject as a result i stayed vergin till now. the thing is i don't know how to choose the first guy to have sex with plus my past relationship where disaster since it was no sex relationship and now i get confuse what relation actually is, is it about sex or love? pls help Reply to this Question
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reader, Temper212  +, writes (4 November 2007):
I love the fact that I fell in love with my fiance long before we had sex.
Sex is just a huge troublemaker when there isn't love.
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reader, dapone 1  +, writes (4 November 2007):
 Hello.
i think when you meet some one you really admire, and you get on really well together, and you have a lot in common, the first emotion should be love, when you are in love with some one it is the greatest felling in the whole world, then your emotions to go to a higher plane,then sex will follow, and that will cement your relationship, if you only like some one for sex then the relationship will fail, you need more than just sex in common to make a relationship work.
Hope this will help you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2007): hey come on! relations are defenetly about love, and when u fall in love of each other u'll start to use sex as a spice for your love. i belive in haveing sex with the man that i'm gonna marry. so for that we need to seatle down and think twice till we r sure that the man we r with is the one we want for a life time.
wishing you the best.
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reader, lilgirly  +, writes (4 November 2007):
 hey,for starters i don't beleive in sex before marriage, so for me relationships start with love and after marriage sex! so relax you are doing the right thing, there is a sayin that says'keep it clean, and don't worry about people being mean'.hope i helped byeXXX.
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