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writes:I get on well with my dad. In fact if it hadn't been for him I wouldn't be the man I am now. I just have a sligth problem.I do love my dad, but because I'm a guy, it's difficult to say that to him. I do hug him (i'm 20) so I think that's a way of showing that to him. And since I'm at uuni I talk tim at least once a week. Is they're any other way I can show I do love him or does he know I do from what I've said above? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2007): If you give your dad hugs at your age then i know that your dad knows that you love him. Some men find it hard to hug their dads, so you are doing a great job. Just phone him from time to time and ask him what he has been doing etc. He has a great son with you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2007): I am sure your dad knows that you love him. And above all else, he loves you with all his heart and he is so proud of you, no matter what. I do know how you feel though and it is an issue that you should resolve immediately. It is not an issue because your dad doesn't know that you love him. Because he does! It is only an issue because you don't know that he knows. And this is causing you stress. So in order for you to put those thoughts to rest, you need to do something to show yourself that he knows that you love him. Cause this is not about him. It is about you. So go ahead and do something for him that makes you feel like you got off your chest everything that you need to tell him and everything that you want him to know about how you feel and how much you love him. If it is difficult for you to talk in person then write him a note or send him a card. And in that card truly exress your gratitutde about how you feel and how much you love him. But most importantly DO IT. Just tell him how you feel. This is going to make you feel better. Just tell him everything you just said here. He deserves it. And you deserve it too.
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reader, starfairy +, writes (4 November 2007):
 Why not have a think about what his interests are, and get involved? Like if he has an interest in fishing or mechanics, or dog races, spend some time with him that way. Guys love bonding over mutual interests don't they? Or maybe next time a big sports game is on, grab a few beers and order a few pizzas and spend the evening with him.
I'm sure he does know you love him, you make the effort to call him regularly, give him hugs and show your love, I'm sure he's not at all feeling lacking in any love or affection from you!
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