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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi!I broke up with my boyfriend three weeks ago, after which I found out he'd cheated the whole time we were together ( a total of 2 and a half years, one and a half we lived together). I don't know if he slept with any of those women, but he did go out on dates, exchange naked pictures etc. Even while we were going out he was always downloading porn- I broke quite a few of his CDs he'd burnt. I just don't understand how he could've lied to me the whole time. If he wanted to see other people why didn't he break up with me first? I did love him alot. N I think I still do. He's 27, still hasn't finished his two-yr master degree after four yrs. Isn't it time for him to grow up? I don't understand why he insisted on attending family functions etc together when he was clearly not interested in the relationship we had. How can anyone behave this way?
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reader, PM  +, writes (5 November 2007):
 A man who is a sexual being cannot help but be attracted to other women. It is our biological nature. However, this does not mean I condone his actions. If he said he was going to be faithful to you, then he should've stood by his word. I just want you to know that feeling instant attraction to other women is simply part of what it means to be a man and it happens to all of us.
He took you to family meetings because you were the one that he considered special. He may have had physical connections with the other women, but you were the one that he had an emotional connection with and for a man that is a special thing where physical connections are often not nearly as special.
That is why he behaved in that way.
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reader, lilgirly  +, writes (4 November 2007):
 hey,
he is just a child needing to have some fun in some words what is called a player....
thank god he didn't keep it much longer .. or what would have happened:S...
well forget about him you can do so much better than him .
take care byeXXX
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