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writes:I am 100% straight female, but last night I had a disturbing dream...I was about to go girl-on-girl in my room in my bed! And I was actually turned on by it which was the weird thing. My beliefs teach me that homosexuality is wrong and I would never go against my beliefs. But I keep thinking of this dream, and honestly, wish I could dream it again to 're-live' it and 'finish' the dream. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2007): I am a straight female, and for years wondered why I would have the odd lesbian dream... Then one day the opportunity came up to have the experiance... I had a go, and it was NOT for me. I am not against same sex relationships no more than I am straight sex relationships... I figure if it feels right and thats what you are attracted to, it shouldnt matter. Hopefully you will be able to experience it to see if it is what you are into... and beleive me... just because you were brought up with particular beleifs it dosnt mean you cant change your mind.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2007): Dreams are just that, dreams. So stop thinking about it and just get on with the real world.
take care
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reader, Lost_Soul85  +, writes (5 November 2007):
Hmmmm, speaking from personal experience dreams are usually best left to the realms of the vague or complex.
Let me explain. You could treat this dream as sympton of the overactive mind, firing out random images it has stored (from your day to day life, from TV, books, wherever).
Or you could treat this dream as a narrative striving to 'realise' your inner mind. The bit where all your worries and anxieties are stored. Maybe your just curious about other things, not specifically lesbianism, maybe your looking for adventure, maybe your looking to break out of your usual self. Maybe, just maybe...
I mean going on the randomness of dreams, I once dreamt I was getting it on with an overweight Mexican guy, complete with sombrero and handle bar moustache. Hardly my ideal partner yet strangely arousing at the time. Was this dream simply constructed from my minds backlog of vague images? Or was it trying to communicate some complex, emotional issue? I plump for the former.
Either way, dreams fade away as do the feelings that go with them. If you are sure of your sexuality you have absolutely nothing to be disurbed about.
Hope this helps
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (5 November 2007):
 Hey sweetness,
There is nothing wrong with curiosity. There's nothing wrong with fantasizing... regardless of whether or not you would actually DO something, it still can be fun to imagine.
Dreams and fantasies are nothing to feel bad about. Being curious about same-sex sexual adventures is totally, totally normal.
You. Are. Fine.
No worries, sweetness!
xxIndia
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reader, Ri  +, writes (4 November 2007):
What your feeling is totally natural. You didnt state your age but if you are a young female I think that its one of the most common thoughts as you are still experimenting with life, still finding out your likes and dislikes.
What I suggest is try opening your mind. Do what your intuition tells you to do... let your beliefs relax and see what you want to do.
Most importantly, do what makes you happy.
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reader, enjoimx +, writes (4 November 2007):
 Everyone has these dreams...its the brain playing out subconsious ideas and its healthy...maybe now you will have a great empathy and tolerance to homsexuals right? Not a bad thing!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2007): That's fine. Dreams aren't reality and frankly it's pretty hard to control what you dream about. It doesn't mean you are gay or immoral. Dreams aren't real, what we dream about doesn't reflect who we are IRL. I have had WEIRD sex dreams about things that I have no interest in normally but I just shrug them off as my subconscious being a weird thing.
On the other hand if you're curious about fooling around with a girl for real don't let your religion/moral beliefs stop you- as long as it doesn't hurt you or anyone else, it's not a bad thing to explore your sexuality!
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