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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What's going on in his head.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

3 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy about 6 weeks ago, and had a fantastic evening, just seemed to get along great... we have been randonly texting since, he decided not to talk to me for a while, but we met up again a week ago.. We seemed to click an start where we left off.. He gave me his home ... (167 words)

I'm kind of old fashion and want to cerated a life with someone.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6227 days ago

3 November 2007 (F)

age - i have dated this man for over 10 years. there have been many hard times as it relates to communication etc. to make a long story short, i love him very much and i know he loves me, however, im ready to get married. i do not want to be his 60 year old girlfriend and i told ... (154 words)

I want to stay with her because she's nice, cute and has a super personality.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6227 days ago

3 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok Yall I'm gonna need some real advice on this one. I just found out this girl likes me and I really like her but she's really nervous when she's around me and it makes it feel like she doesn't like me. I wanted to hang out with her today but she said she couldn't. Should I ... (89 words)

I am miserable, should we go for counseling?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6224 days ago

3 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with my partner for seven years. We got into a civil partnership last year. But everyday I wake up, I have more and more doubt about this relationship and I feel more and more distant from him. He goes down to a local pub every night for the past 3 years (in the... (759 words)

I'm lonely and can't love myself.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6227 days ago

3 November 2007 (F) - Im 17, and being honest have never had a proper relationship, this really gets me down (i know im still young) all my mates have had first loves, i feel so upset and insecure about it, im a very negative person about myself, im shy, and i laugh off any compliments ever given to ... (98 words)

What to do to salvage my relationship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6227 days ago

3 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi readers have had a few problems with my schedule and that explains my absence for the last 3 wks. I recently had a burst up with my girlfriend and i erroneously told her WE WERE DONE! the problem is she seems to have made up her mind 4 good yet am dying to have her back. ... (83 words)

I don't know what she feels for me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

3 November 2007 (M)

age - Hi to all that reads this I have been with my partner for 23 years now and have three grown up children all still at home. Its very rare my partner and I sleep together I sleep downstairs on the setee we do not do anything together on our own our relationship has gone down hil... (132 words)

Mom blames me for trying to OD

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6227 days ago

3 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hello i just found out my mom took an overdose and if it wasn't for my little sister finding her she would have died. i think it was totally selfish of her as she has me my 15 yr old sister and 1 year old son. she says it because of all the stress with her mom recently dieing ... (176 words)

What's the next step with my crush?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6226 days ago

3 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - hi. i managed to get my crushes number. we get on well together and i was wondering what the next step would be for me to make. any help much appreciated.... (31 words)

What do I do, what is she thinking?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6227 days ago

3 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I've got a scenario i hate... When i'm at work there's this girl i like and we've been friends for a while, but we've got on so well i really like her. Only thing is she's got a bf who is supposed to be marrying her in 2 years. We laugh a lot and she talks to be about most thi... (112 words)

When he won my heart over...he disappeared.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

3 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I was introduced to a guy by another one who was has been attracted to me for months. As soon as I met this new guy, we both felt mutual attraction and the feelings were so just so intense. He tried to know everything about me but I was not that interested in reciprocating ... (435 words)

Guy won't make first move, should the girl do it then?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6227 days ago

3 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i was formally introduced to this guy at a function one day, but after that, we would keep eyeing each other, having stolen glances at each other, and this has been going on for almost 6 months now! i know he likes me, and i think he knows i like him too. i can manage to give ... (126 words)

How do I get over this stupid feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6227 days ago

3 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - 16 years of age single, never had a boyfriend and I have never felt loved by family nor friends.How do I get over this stupid feeling that gets in the way of everything I do?... (35 words)

Do you think this is bad for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

3 November 2007 (?) age 30-35 - hi. im on a diet and am currently eating one apple a day n thats it n doin exersise but nt too much. Du thnk this is bad for me? im 8 n half stone n almost 15 nw in i jst really want to be skinny, like the ones in the magazines. plaz tell me if this is bad or not... (62 words)

What is he waiting for?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6227 days ago

3 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey cupids, i know this guy likes me im sure we flirt a lot through texts and msn even in school, wich funny because people are getting suspicious and some already jealous. But the problem is ive waited enough and i feel sooo stupid when he asks me have i missed him and i say ... (149 words)

How many colories are in meals dining out.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6227 days ago

3 November 2007 (?) age 30-35 - I am on a diet sumtimes wuld like to enjoy myself. How many calories are in mst restuant meals? For example, how many calories would i be consuming if i had one glass of coke, one starter, one meal like spagetti carbonara, and one pudding like icecream?... (47 words)

How can I stop feeling this way so I don't destroy a friendship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

3 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a non stereotypical (that is non-queer culture scene) gay 21 year old guy and I am completely in love with my straight, albeit open minded, best friend. We kissed once, but he has a girlfriend and prefers women. We often speak about how I feel, and he is very supportive ... (115 words)

I don't know how to talk to her without seeiming like a jerk

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

3 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello. I'm 16 and about a month ago I found out that the girl I've had a massive crush on for five years has felt the same way for me all that time. The problem is that for 3 of those 5 years she was at another school and, during that time, got a boyfriend who she's been with ... (260 words)

We kissed and more and I feel guilty.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6226 days ago

3 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I lost my virginity to a guy i was dating nearly two years ago..he ended things quite soon after because he got back with his ex....so i never really got over him but carried on with things as normal. Completly out of the blue i got an email from him in july..asking how... (362 words)

Scared of the consequences of getting more sexually involved...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

3 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I'm a 21 yr old female currently in a relationship. This is my first boyfriend actually. I do want him and care for him a lot, i feel i've grown a lot thanks to him in many ways. I feel more confident about my looks and my way with people now. I find him really very ... (254 words)

How do I change myself??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

3 November 2007 (M)

- I don't like myself. I have low self-esteem, very little confidence so whenever I want to ask a women out, i flinch and walk off. I really hate myself, I wish I was someone else. Obviously I can't so how do I change myself?... (46 words)

Why cant he just be a calm normal person??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

3 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Maybe a few people can help me out there... So my boyfriend and I have been together for um about 2 1/2 years on and off. We're complete opposites in a lot of ways, I was the young dumb party girl and he's more of the quiet-video game and car type. We're opposite, our looks ar... (397 words)

Can I find out if I'm pregant this month or will I have to wait??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

3 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am trying to become pregnant and i no i'm ovulating because i have clear ovulation fluid coming out and my husband finally gave in yesterday and came inside me. Is there any chances of knowing if i'm pregnant this month or will i have to wait??... (47 words)

Does losing your virginity make you bleed??

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

3 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 17 and i am close to losing my virginity. I just have one question though. The first time someone has sex (females) do they bleed? and does it hurt?... (31 words)

Married but enamoured. What to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

3 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i am in a troubled marriage, and there's this ex-supervisor of mine whom i really have a great sexual desire (lust) and so as he on me. we've been communicating thru text messaging, internet chat for the past 2 months now (on and off), and we see each other once in a while. ... (136 words)

Is she waiting for me to make a move or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

3 November 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - This is a long story but I will paraphrase the best I can I have been friends with this girl for almost 13 years and have had a thing for her for almost 8 years. We lost touch for a few years but have got back together almost 1 year ago. Things seemed to be progressing towa... (226 words)

I've been single for a long time. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

3 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been single for 2 years. My last relationship messed me up a bit when my ex (who ppl said was not good enough for me) cheated on me. I've never really gotten over it. I have been looking for the perfect bf and always find something wrong with them or i get totally too ... (266 words)

Small pain in back, does anyone know what it is?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

3 November 2007 (F)

age - dear cupid, i have a serious pain at the small of my back everytime especially when i get up from my seat. please tell me what the problem is and its solution?... (33 words)

I was dumped by my iranian boyfriend who says it's not the right time.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

3 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been on an emotional rollacoaster - I met an Iranian guy who owns a shop in dubai in June '06 and we texted and called each other for 4 months until I decided to move out to Dubai. I moved to Dubai without a job (I have finally got one now 2 months later). At first he ... (424 words)

I want to make my family work, but I don't know if I can anymore.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6213 days ago

3 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel torn right now because one minute I want to leave my husband and the next I don't want to break our family up. We have been together 14 years and have 4 children together. We argue way too much and don't see eye to eye. We don't make enough money for a family o... (146 words)

Is this a deal breaker, or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6226 days ago

3 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I think I'm falling in love with my girl, but I am afraid that eventually she will end up hurting me indirectly because she is often cold and unaffectionate. She says it's unintentional, the way she is, and perhaps she will change as we grow together. She does have her ... (132 words)

Should I go for it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

3 November 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - i like this guy and he is a bit older than me... he's 16 im 11. i like him sooo much i think im in love with him. he does show signs that he likes me too but im not so sure about it... a lot of people think we're not good for each other, so should i go for it?... (61 words)

How can you make someone who's fallen in love with you, love you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6227 days ago

3 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - hey am just happy to know this site anyway how can you make someone who has fallen in love,love you... (20 words)

Am I just being selfish and wanting more than I should?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

3 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I dated for a year, was engaged for a year, have been married for half a year, and have a 9 month old son. We're 20 years old. I feel like I've made a mistake getting married. I love my son but I don't know anymore about my husband. He has an aweful temper ... (429 words)

Should I move or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

3 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend lives in London, and I live in the US. Im willing to move there for him. but I dont know what I should do. Should I stay here and find someone else, or do I move to his country to try living with him?... (46 words)

I don't have trust in my wife.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6226 days ago

3 November 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife for 13 yr started an emotional affair w/ co worker. When I found out we had a very huge fight and I verbally said bad words to her. We went to see a pastor and was able to fix almost everything and was being told to stop any form of calling, texted or meeting w/ the guy ... (504 words)

It's easy for everyone to say just get rid of him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

3 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. My boyfriend and I were going out for 7 months and he finished me. We'd split up twice before but this time it was different. Everyone said he'd cheated on me. He admitted it to his friends but denied it to me. The friday before we split up he stood me up and i was upse... (259 words)

I he acting or serious?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

3 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a serious relationship with my boyfriend we are engaged and have a son, we are very happy together. The thing is he has a twin brother and they are very close. His brother has always had an alcohol problem we even had him live with us for a year to try and help him. ... (225 words)

I can't get it out myself!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

3 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - my mates havin problems with his girlfriend. And he tells me nearly everythin and i always comfort him etc. I always give him advise on what he should do. Anyway his my friend so i can say what i want as he actually asks me. Well his girlfriend found out and came up to me and ... (167 words)

Not sure if he loves me or I'm a good deal as I don't make him spend on me and am much younger than him. Please advise.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

3 November 2007 (F)

age - I'm going through divorce at the moment. I've been married to my husband for 22 years. Im 45 years old. I've fallen in love with self employed builder whom came to fix my roof. He is 63 single. He soothes my painful divorce. We've been together for 9 months now. We get on ... (206 words)

Why do footballers wave at me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6218 days ago

3 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i am 14 i have blonde hair and about 5'3 and at school me and my freinds hang out at the school gate (our school is bye a football training ground) you see all the players cars and i they keep on staring at me and i find it very embaresing (somtimes they wave too)when they ... (64 words)

What other things can we do when she's on her period?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6227 days ago

3 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hiya could any of you suggest ways for me and m wife to have a really intimate night without sex? Its just last night she went to bed abit early as she wasn't feeling very happy. She hadn't had the best day and she as on her period so thats added on to it. We were just talking ... (181 words)

I feel trapped!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6227 days ago

3 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i am 24 and i am marred for 1 and half year .all of this time he is so nice for me and wishes for the success of my wish but now when i am about to success my wish he dont let me to go out alone .and he said if u go dont come back .so what can i do i have too meet people to ... (86 words)

He cums too quickly

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

3 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year and this is his first real relationship. At first there were no problems, but now he orgasms very quickly. Is it me? What can i do to put it right?... (39 words)

Should I block him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

3 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - this guy ive known since joinor school, well ive got in touch with him. everything was going ok till yesterday. his mate was round his house and we were talking on msn. all of a sudden he was like oi f***er, you are ugly as hell, i dont want to talk to you, i hate you. hes ... (157 words)

I'm confused. Hoe do I sort out whose friend is whose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6227 days ago

3 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - well my boyfriend has this friend and the three of us always go out together.well his friends ex girlfriend who i am friends with as well came out yesterday and my boyfriend told her that he is convinced that me and his best friend like each other.but the problem is i kind of ... (64 words)

Is he homosexual or am I being paranoid?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

3 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi i have been with my boyfriend for just over a year and i love him so much we do have a great time together, however until i met him at age 18 (he is 18 also) he had never taken part in any physical activity including masturbation as he had a very sheltered childhood. Things ... (870 words)

I am very lazy, and can't seem to control myself - to study or exercise.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

3 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I want to be a good boy, but it seems that it is very hard for me to realise it. I am too lazy, I cannot control myself.Each morning,I want to get up to do excise,but I fail all the time;I can't put my heart into study;I don't have a good temper I don't know what can I do in ... (70 words)

He can ignore me for days and speaks only when it suits him! I feel unloved and used.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

3 November 2007 (F) age 51-59 - oh someone please please give advice as soon as... i am in a relationship with a man for 1 1/2 years. In the beginning he moved in and did pay his way for 3 months, he lied about a lot of things and it has now ended up with his family hating me and i don't know why. ... (756 words)

My bf broke up with me, feeling humiliated I was successful while he was not. How do you forget your first love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

3 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid my boyfriend broke up with me for a reason that is way unbelievable, his reason was I had a future and his life was a trash, because of this I humiliated him, but then I apologized; after this I heard from my friend that he was courting this girl who was his ... (107 words)

Is it unfair to think my husband should stand up for me?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 6032 days ago

3 November 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband has a new business partner, who I sense does not like me. We are in each other's company a lot. Last night the partner made a very negative comment to me and about me, in front of my husband. My husband obviously knew I would be upset, but just continued, without ... (72 words)

My ex is getting engaged and I don't know what to do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

3 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I dated my first love off and on for five years. After finding out that he had been lying to me and hanging out with this girl I flipped out and we broke up. He told me that he wasn't ready to settle down yet and that he needed five years to do whatever he wanted and then he'd ... (327 words)

What does he want from our relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

3 November 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - my dilemma is i'm in a long distance relationship. when my boyfriend proposed to me, i refused as it was just not possible but he was too adamant and persistent. after much persuasion, i finally accepted his proposal and we went steady for 2 years. but now he is so distant. he ... (153 words)

Did he break my virginity with dry humping?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

3 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a 13 yr old old virgin and have pledged to remain so until marriage. I recently had an intimate moment with my boyfriend. I sat on his lap while he kissed my neck but he had an erection and I felt his penis almost at the entrance of my vagina though I had all my clothes ... (167 words)

How do I stop him from falling for me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6228 days ago

3 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am at it again. Yes, somehow, I manage to break up with the married guy that i was with. Yes I am still with my boyfriend of two years.what it is is that I met this guy, he works around the area that I work at. He is actually an army guy whom I think I have just a crush on... (185 words)

Fear and Jealousy of losing my girlfriend during "open" stage of our relationship.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

3 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone! Im 23 male..I appreciate all you people who answer questions on this site...its soo great to be able to collaborate on this crazy game of love and life!! I am in an open relationship right now with a girl I absolutely adore and really want to be with againm some... (226 words)

Does he feel insecure or is he playing me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6228 days ago

3 November 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been seeing a man for 9 months. Five weeks ago, I broke up with him because he didn't seem interested in me anymore and he was not being supportive during a health concern. We didn't talk for two weeks. I emailed him about returning a piece of his property in my home and ... (296 words)

I'm in love with a boy that I know has a girlfriend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6228 days ago

3 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - im in love with a boy but its not simple. he has a gf. he has told me many times that he is in love with me and we are sort of together in secret. hes too much of a decent guy to be lying, ive known him too long. his gf is going thru alot of stress at the mo and i understand ... (113 words)

I'm happy with him, but he's afraid he'll hurt me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

3 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, wow! I don't really know where to begin! I have been with my boyfriend for 1 year and 8 months. I love him so much and my feelings for him have not changed in the past year and 8 months. I always think about our future together and am so greatful to have him. I have pr... (595 words)

Does this girls like me or like flirting with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

3 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - There is this girl that I no and I think she likes me, but I really like her.How can I tell if she likes me? she always flirts with me but she says she likes someone else. But I was wondering if it is just because she does not want to admit she likes me. Does anybody know wea... (85 words)

Trying to move on without thinking about who he may be with next.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

3 November 2007 (F) - Why is he doing this? I broke up with my ex a month ago, but he has already added lots of friends to his myspace that are girls and adds lots of pictures of him with girls to his other website. I know I shouldn't look at it but it hurts me terribly and I can't help it. He has ... (327 words)

Crazy in love, but confused.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

3 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a terrible situation, I am in a committed relationship with someone and we have a child together, a couple years ago he cheated on me, and I became very bitter. I have forgiven him but i also found out that he does not make me happy , we have not been on a date in ... (167 words)

How can I start caring again?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6119 days ago

3 November 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Okay well this may be a little strange, but I dont care. Big whoop. Well I dont care enough to get involved with a female. When I was a kid and in school thats all I did was care. I was a kind and caring person. Just about every female I was in contact with I was intimint ... (295 words)

Could I still be pregenent

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6225 days ago

3 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - On October 27, 2007 I had sex with my ex and the comdom burst and he came inside me. On the 1st of November I came on my period could I still be pregnant?... (34 words)

I need to find a way to spice things up.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6228 days ago

3 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - i am 16. i have been with my girlfriend for about a month now, and things are going great. we talk alot and for the most part we dont have trouble sparking a conversation. she broke up with her boyfriend of two years to pursue a relationship with me .she and i have been ... (218 words)

I'm kind of torn, and don't know what to do.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6228 days ago

3 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm kind of torn. I've been with my boyfriend for about 8 months, and a few months ago I moved in with him. Well, I've been snoopy on his computer, bad me I know. He has a yahoo messenger account and his name and password are saved, so I went on it. I looked at his previous ... (208 words)

Boyfriend doesn't like my breath, any cures?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

3 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend complains of bad breath. I take all the precautions, I even do brushing properly. Now i have gone in for braces since the dentist adviced me so that my bad breath decreases. I have used all sorts of mouth freshners still no use. Any remedy?? ... (51 words)

After Years Of Cheating, I'm Undecided On How To React

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

3 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey everyone, I'm a 24 year old girl and I have just split with my boyfriend of 3 years after I found out he had been seeing a girl for sex over the whole of out relationships, about 5 times in all. I've suspected as much the whole time and never trusted him, but I was... (375 words)