A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi Everybody, There is somthing I am very worried and confused about. I am a 17 year old male that has a problem involving lesbians. The thing is, I think I feel more involved when hearing about a lesbian relationship than a straight one. What I mean by that is that I have very serious empathy and understanding about a lesbian relationship than really guys near my age. I'm actually very mature about the concept and have even took several times to study it. I try to write lesbian stories and my favorite movies are lesbian romance because they affect me in an emmotional level because it makes me happy and good for them(I'm very mature about it and care about the relationship on an emmotional level). It gets to where I look at some female classmates and I picture them as a good couple (Please don't think of me as perverted because I care and think seriously about the relationship involved). At the thought, I become very jealous. Basically, I sometimes think that I believe in lesbian relationships far more than straight ones because I somtimes don't feel a straight click when reading about it or so. I'm straight though. I also noticed I understand girls more than guys my age. It's like I know the feelings and relate to them far better. I don't know but maybe it had something to do with my girlfriend breaking up with me about 2 years ago. I loved her very much and severly cried a about than a year because of that, even at school. It still affects me and I'm still emotionally scarred over that. I guess maybe I subconsciously stoped believing in a guy-girl relationship and made a serious shift to girl-girl ones even though I'm a guy (Again, I'm straight). I'm confused how this works. Please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2007): I could see you being good freinds have lesbian women! It's nothing to worry about, its sweet and very mature you think of lesbian relationship not just as sex but emotional as well. Your get over it anyway, your meet a girl you fall in love, guys can be sensitve too!
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reader, wolfman68  +, writes (4 November 2007):
You are very normal mate :)just honest
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2007): Hello boy, I think you are not in a serious problem as you think. Your age is responsible to have this imagination in your mind. I had such imagination once. When I grow up it lost like a cloud. I suggust you not to worry about that. If you think it is complicated, please consult a psychologist.
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