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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

 

I need help telling someone.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6221 days ago

9 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - Im still in doubt with who i should tell and stuff. I mean, well i dont get along at home at all, my parents get physical with me sometimes and can be very argumentive. But i mean at school. Im just wondering who can i tell at school about the past coz i really wana let it out ... (160 words

To chase or not to chase?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6221 days ago

9 November 2007 (M age 41-50 - I got this problem I'm undecided on what I to do. See the story goes like this. I'll admit growing up I never was really social, I was that insecure kid when i came to everything. I ended up meeting this wonderful girl 4 years ago. At the time I thought very little about ... (343 words

Why is he doing this? I'm giving him the divorce

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6221 days ago

9 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - I dont get this, after my husband cheated on me. I gave him the divorce papers and then he started to beg me to not break up. Why things like this happen? I don't get why would you cheat and then when the person you are is leaving you beg them to stay. Why?... (55 words

Quite randomly what does this mean

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6220 days ago

9 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - hi, ok there is this guy at university that apparently likes me, his best friend told me he does. however i dont know whether to believe him. but anyway, my question is the guy that apprently likes me asked me a wierd question, and i would liek any guys out there to shed some ... (76 words

My husband doesn't like me very much anymore.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4932 days ago

9 November 2007 (F age 51-59 - My husband doesn't seem excited about me anymore. He doesn't kiss or touch me passionately. He doesn't look in my eyes and makes his feelings known. He puts forth very little effort to make me feel emotionally fullfilled, even when I ask him to. Then, when I accuse him of not b... (241 words

Are there any people out here that are in a marriage an have been cheated on or have cheated themselves?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6199 days ago

9 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - Are there any people out here that are in a marriage an have been cheated on or have cheated themselves. If you are, would you please tell me or share if after a while it will ever get better and happiness will return? If you cheated (male only) did you change? and Why did you ... (56 words

How to I Stop Having Urges to Self-Injure?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5995 days ago

9 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - I know this isn't a romance question but maybe you can help me anyway. Over the last year I've been having more trouble dealing with my problems in healthy ways, and when I am overwhelmed my knee jerk thought is to hurt myself, to cut myself mostly. I have only acted on it ... (216 words

Why am I so over sensitive all the time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6221 days ago

9 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - I'm starting to get seriously worried; I'm gettting to over sensitive. Every nasty comment or intention that someone says to someone else I feel the damage and hurt it does to the other person. I can barely have a decent conversation without feeling it. I'm not claiming... (152 words

I want to move out and let my children see in the longrun it was the right thing to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6220 days ago

9 November 2007 (M age 41-50 - Sigh... I started out young, I have a 11 year old son and 7 year old daughter, like late teens. I thought I was doing the right thing by getting married and well, things didn't get much better. So I thought, you know, maybe if I move us all into our own house, stop renting, ... (250 words

Dating and Crushing

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9 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hey, I'm dating this amazing guy, but I've had a big crush on my friend Kyle since before I even started dating my boyfriend. I don't know what to do because even though I really like my boyfriend and want things to work out, I'm torn, and I'm aslo worried because My boyfriend ... (98 words

I helped a disabled girl-was it the wrong thing to do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

9 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - I have a friend who nobody likes because she isn't fake like everyone else; she doesn't wear her hair like them, or make-up, or talk like they've never heard English before. She is very shy and only wants to be liked because she has no friends but me. She has 2 titanium poles ... (530 words

How long should I wait for him?

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9 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hi, for the last few months I have liked this guy. Two weeks ago he broke up with his girlfriend. Me and this guy have always been close as something happened between me and him when he was still with his girlfriend (not a good idea I know). Now they have broken up we decided ... (161 words

What do women really want from their boyfriends when they are feeling down or really upset?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6221 days ago

9 November 2007 (M age 36-40 - Okay can some of you out there give me some tips on how to comfort your girlfriend/wife/female friends when they are upset and going through a tough time. It's just it doesn't come naturally to me and I feel really awkward around upset people and women seem so confusing, even ... (92 words

How can I win back my ex fiancee's trust? I can't live without her...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6221 days ago

9 November 2007 (M age 41-50 - How can I win back my ex fiancee's trust? I cheated on her and fathered another women's baby but at the time I had a real problem with drink, now I just want to be back with my ex. I hit her, treated her with no respect and pretty much forced her to have an abortion but I swear ... (114 words

He's looking at teen sites, is he a pedophile

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6211 days ago

9 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - So a little background info: Me and my husband, a US Marine, are both 19, and we got married this year in a quick ceremony. Four days before we got married, I found out (thru snooping in his email that he gave me the password to) that he cheated on me with a girl who lives ... (418 words

Can I change her mind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6220 days ago

9 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - I fancy my mate but she doesn't like me i n the same way. She's bi but she wants to be single. Is there anything i can do to change her mind?... (32 words

Her close friend is infatuated

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6220 days ago

9 November 2007 (M age 41-50 - Hi I have been going steady with my girlfirend for last 2 1/2 yrs.We had fought with our parents to be together who were opposed to inter caste marriage.After a long battle everyone has agreed and they r planning to get us married by June. My girl friend while in college had a... (313 words

Is my teacher right or wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6208 days ago

9 November 2007 (? age 30-35 - So, I was hugging my girlfriend as usual. Im 13, goin on 14 in january. My teacher saw me huggin her and said " No more physical contact with her". Seriously, I don't get why hes sayin that. He has 3 daughters. Its like huggin is against the law, and if thats physical contact. ... (76 words

It's annoying me because I can't read his mind.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6221 days ago

9 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - Hiii people!! im kinda confused at the momment.. i have been seeing my new boyfriends for over a month now. he is such a gentleman to me and he has told me he is crazy about me he has taken me away for mini breaks and will not let me pay for anything -and i am the first girl t... (115 words

Follow up question. "How do I convince my wife to have sex with another man?"

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

9 November 2007 (M age - Thanks for your advice Stina. I am carefully considering it and how best to be sure not to lose control of the situation. I have had two more sessions with my "old friend" and my wife -- first an evening of drinks at our place and then a casual dinner out followed by coffee and ... (138 words

I'm 14 and want to have sex.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

9 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - me and my bf have bin dating for two months now and we done stuff and he whats to do more as in sex... but i dont know if i should i am 14 but i feel ready and i really do care about this guy we have bin dating on and off for over 7 years now i feel like i know everthing ... (80 words

He blames me because I won't move back in.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6106 days ago

9 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - I don't know if I should continue on. I left my husband a year ago- I don't want a divorce; but I don't want to be unhappy either. We both have children, creating a blended family. We have one child together. He won't work, cook, clean, etc....while I do everything (hense ... (137 words

I am beginning to hate my parents.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6220 days ago

9 November 2007 (F age 51-59 - Help! I'm almost 37 and live with my parents with my husband and 4 children. We moved in two years ago when my husband was an alcholic (recovered now) and the bottom dropped out- we lost everything we had. Now we live with my parents and are trying and succeeding to get back ... (107 words

Tips, making love to a Terkish man

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6220 days ago

9 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - Can someone tell me some tips about making love to a Turkish man? Things that are particular about them.... (19 words

Any good links for break up advise for dads.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6221 days ago

9 November 2007 (M age 41-50 - I can't get over my ex. We have 3 kids together, have bought a house together and were together for 6 yrs. We are both 27. She ended it with me about 7 months ago and I begged her for months not to do it. I have to see her all the time because of the kids and my heart is ... (224 words

How to get him over his wedding fear?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6221 days ago

9 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - Ok, my boyfriend and I have talked about getting married one day. I told him I wanted a big wedding and he said he couldn't do that because he will get real nervous and probably pass out. Any suggestions for I can make him over come this fear?... (48 words

Is it OK for a women to watch porn on her own?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6218 days ago

9 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - I was hoping some girls out there could help me with a little problem that is almost ruining my relationship. Is it wrong for a women to watch porn on her own? My boyfriend, of 3 years came by my flat one night after work, and i was horny so i put on a dvd and was having a ... (110 words

I'm 14, am I going through depression?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6221 days ago

9 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hi I'm 14 and I can't help but wonder if I am going through a depression.. Here is my situation. Well my bf and I recently broke up after 3 years I am okay with that but I also have no friends. When I say this, I am exaggerating a little bc I do have friends IN school, but they... (274 words

Should I end my current relationship and hook up with the new girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6221 days ago

9 November 2007 (M age 41-50 - I've been in a relationship just over a year now, it's a rocky relationship at best and more then once has nearly ended but that's not the problem..... A few weeks ago I went back to college and I met this other girl in college. We haven’t slept together or anything, we hav... (240 words

How can I help my wife relax at this stressful time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6221 days ago

9 November 2007 (M age 41-50 - Hiya erm just want some advice and tip on how to get my wife to relax abit more. Shes been pretty stressed at the moment and is trying to do more than physically possible. I just want to try and give her a nice relaxing day tomorrow but any advice after tomorrow would also be ... (179 words

Are there any teachers out there.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6208 days ago

9 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I am 13 years old and would like to ask any teacher for advice, I have a crush on one of my teachers and I am annoyed with it, I know that love will never prosper when it comes to pupil teachers,but, Have you any advice on what I should do to either get it off my chest ... (76 words

I'm sure he's the one.

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9 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - i recently split up with my x boyfriend cause i saw another guy behind his back.nothing happened we just met up as mates as he has a girlfriend himself.help me get him back cause hes the only one i have ever luved i know i am only 17 but i am sure he is the one for me.plz help ... (63 words

She forgot about me, but I can't forget about her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6221 days ago

9 November 2007 (F age 26-29 - I'm having a SERIOUS PROBLEM!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm a 13years old girl but I'm IN LOVE with a WOMAN!!!!!! She was my teacher.. She Likes me but i'm just like any other student in classes she USED to teach.. She saw me and one of my firends went to her.. My firend told her sothi... (155 words

Will he change if I move in?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6221 days ago

9 November 2007 (F age 51-59 - Ok ... so I'm 35 yrs old ... a mother of one ... divorced ... and dating ... again. We've been dating for 4 months and he lives about an hour away (which might as well be a billion miles to him). He begs me to move to his town, which is very feasible for me, but he is ... (224 words

I don't know how to tell her or end it

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6214 days ago

9 November 2007 (M age 36-40 - I really need some help/advice. i have been dating this girl for 3 months. She is great in everyway. A few problems though,we dont talk as much as we used to and we RARELY go out now,she says shes always busy etc. which i know is a lie sometimes. Another thing is im gay, i know ... (239 words

Not sure if I want to remain with my partner

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6221 days ago

9 November 2007 (F age 51-59 - Hi - Can anyone help as I don't think I want to be with my partner anymore. My partner and I had been seeing each other for just over 4 years when we split up in February. Things really hadn't been right since about September last year. We didn't live together or anyt... (255 words

How to get him to see how much I love him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6221 days ago

9 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married for almost 14 years, and 3 weeks ago he told me that he loved me but was not in love with me which I don't understand thatbecause he's been the love of my life ever since he proposed. The marriage hasn't been perfect on either of our parts. ... (144 words

He's seen me, but has a wife, what shall I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6221 days ago

9 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - i have this man he really good looking he been wanted to see me and do things he has a wife but he seen my tits what shell i do ? ... (31 words

He still has feelings for his ex girlfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6220 days ago

9 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - what is going on here.... so I was with this guy for about 2 months, i really liked him, infact I havn't felt this way about some-one for a very long time. However as great as I thought he was, it turned out he was still sleeping with his ex girlfriend whilst he was also with... (252 words

Is anyone out there any good with a Crystal Ball?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6221 days ago

9 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - I feel genuine love for someone, and I mean genuine. What should I do? The age gap isn't huge (about 8 years). I'm good mates with this person and the last thing I wanna do is screw that up, but I wish I could just find the courage to tell them my feelings. What are the b... (130 words

Should I have sex with my crush?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6148 days ago

9 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend doesn't satisfy me enought lately. He's always says he's tired and I have to beg for more. I really love him no matter what, but there's another I am crushing on and wanting to have sex with. What should I do? thank you... (54 words

Is The Pill on its own sufficient contraception?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6219 days ago

9 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - If I am using birth control pills, are condoms still necessary? I know my boyfriend and I are clean when it comes to STDs so were not worried about that, but I dont need to make a mistake after having sex.... (41 words

Why do I still want him, even though he has nothing to offer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

9 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - Hello, I have been officially been broken up with my boyfriend for 2 years, well I would not say official because we continue to have sex off and on, no matter what relationship he is in? He left his rebound girl after me, and he we are still sleeping with each other. Well I... (339 words

My husband is an asylum seeker who only married me to get to live here. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6221 days ago

9 November 2007 (F age 51-59 - i am in panic i live with my husband since march 2000 we get married in april 2003 is been treat me very bad since i had my 1 child with him now 6, i am the wife n0 3,is got 2 girls in angola 19 and 21 years old another 10 years with a ex-partner she lives here in england she ... (170 words

Not sure if she wants to make us work or is planning on running away with the other man.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6221 days ago

9 November 2007 (M age 51-59 - Ok, to catchup, married a year, trying have a baby for a year, can't, wife depressed, emotional affair with a coworker, not sure if she loves me, etc. So last Monday I found out about her EA and she promised to end it. We started counseling. After she promised to end it, I lo... (966 words

How do I tell the guy I don't love him and want to be with my ex???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

9 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - Okay here is a quick glimpse of my confused life. I was with my ex...we'll call him John for 6yrs. Meet him when i was 14, so i grew up with him and learned right from wrong. I decided i was young and it was time to have some fun. Go to some bars with the girls and stayin ... (207 words

He has pictures of his ex throughout the house but wants me to get used to it.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

9 November 2007 (F age - The man i have be seeing for a year has pictures of his ex wife in his bedroom and throughout his house. he says they are family and vacation pictures and they shouldn't bother me. i have told him it does, but he hasn't changed anything and wants me to get used to it. Any ... (58 words

My ex says I always want what I cant have...what does she mean??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6211 days ago

9 November 2007 (M - My ex-girlfriend said I always seemed to want what I couldn't have. Any ideas what that's supposed to mean? What can't we have and how do we recognise it? For example, my ex invited me to bed and I fondled her breasts and she said I always seemed to want what I couldn't ... (112 words

Am I being a jerk?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6221 days ago

9 November 2007 (M age 36-40 - It's been eight months since i broke up with my high school sweetheart of four years. She's pregnant and getting married but i still think about her. I've dated alot and got over most of the junk with a relationship that lasted three months. I'm now in a new relationship ... (187 words

How can I stop being frightened of my joy and exuberance?? Opportunities to be happy, strive for what I want just pass by - as a result my life is unfocused, frustrating.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6215 days ago

9 November 2007 (M - Whenever I am faced with an opportunity to do something that will make me really happy, something that I really want to do, I become paralysed with excitement. As a result I don't do the things I want to do, or say the things I want to say, such as telling my beautiful, ... (176 words

I know she's very immature and neglectful in relationships, we broke up but I still get jealous and ask her to check her inbox. Should I finish it all?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6221 days ago

9 November 2007 (M age 36-40 - hi, i am in a 'sort of' relationship where my partner is unable to have children, we were ok'ish for 7 months, but we've split up but have decided to remain sexual partners. i want to split it up completly but i still love her and i know that she still loves me. thing is i know ... (114 words

I've a busy bf whom I live with - and there is a bi curious guy who wants to see me. I don’t want to feel responsible if he chooses he’s indeed gay.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6220 days ago

9 November 2007 (M age 30-35 - Am I crazy? I met this guy who is bi curious, yet I have a boyfriend – whom I live with. My boyfriend isn’t out to his family who is staying with us for quite sometime he also has a job in which he is in the eye of the public and must appear made up at all times. There is ... (645 words

My bf of 2 yrs drinks daily, I don't think this is healthy for a family life. Wonder if I need to move on.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6221 days ago

9 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - Well i've been with my boyfriend over 2 years we've had many downs and ups but now im wondering if he is the right guy for me for my future cos if not then i need to move on. Sometimes i find he is selfish and doesn't respect my feelings. But more importantly he is very fond ... (124 words

I met a new guy whom I like more than a friend but I'm still hanging on to my ex in a way. Should I take this new chance?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6217 days ago

9 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - I broke up with my ex 9 months ago, he moved in with another girl shortly after me, I have stayed on my own,but he still keeps texting me, and i meet up with him every few weeks, he says he loves me, and hes gonna leave her, but hasnt never followed it through, he doesnt know ... (165 words

I'm not coping and I'm so confused. What can I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6220 days ago

9 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - Well my boyfriend broke up with me 4 months ago now. We had been together for 2 years and had been engaged for over a year. We were a perfect couple but things started to go wrong when i kept falling out with him over stupid things and now i hate myself so much for losing him ... (301 words

Is this normal behaviour?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6221 days ago

9 November 2007 (F age 51-59 - I moved in with my boyfriend a year ago with my two children. The problem is he is vey huffy, over the slightest of things and will huff for weeks...he goes off and sleeps in another bed and does not speak to me at all. is this normal?... (48 words

Am I foolish or should I trust him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6221 days ago

9 November 2007 (F age - PLEASE HELP!!!! I have a boyfriend of 15 months who is so good to me. He's everything I could ever ask for. Smart, funny, attentive, and so kind to me...truly everything. We are both early 40's. The problem is that when we first started dating, he was just out of his marr... (193 words

I've just found out I slept with my 3rd cousin once removed. Should I stay with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6221 days ago

9 November 2007 (M age 36-40 - ok about 2 years ago some people i never know came up for my moms birthday i was 18 and this girl was 16 i thought she was cute and i somewhat liked her at the time she left when the party was over. 2 years went by and about 2 weeks ago i saw her and we started talking.... (178 words

Why can't I get a relationship for more than three months.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6221 days ago

9 November 2007 (M age 41-50 - why cant i stay in a relationship for more than 3 months, after that i always try pushing away, finding her flaws, and making fun of her? all in all i become an asshole... (34 words

Should I break up and just end the guilt?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6222 days ago

9 November 2007 (M age 30-35 - Hello i have been in my first relation for about a month now. I like my girlfriend but i like her friends too. I think i may have feeling fors one but i like my girlfriend Should i break up with my girl friend and just end this guilt? '.'.'.I need help with relationsh... (64 words

How do I lift my self esteem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6221 days ago

9 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - I am 23 years old and have never had a real relationship before. I have had a boyfriend in the past but it was nothing serious. There was no real passion, love or a deep emotional connection between the two of us. Thinking back, there was nothing remotely eventful that ... (644 words

Does someone who loves you, treat you this way?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6221 days ago

9 November 2007 (F - Life doesn't seem fair right now. I can't get over my ex who I broke up with a month ago. He wasn't right for me because he was very emotionally abusive, controlling,manipulative, etc. For example, he would get mad if I didn't smoke or drink (when I never did those things to ... (311 words

I want to be friends, but I'm unsure.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6221 days ago

9 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I broke up yesterday. I am completely happy about it. I do want to maintain our friendship but He has said that if I keep calling him that we will never be friends. I don't know what to do. He broke up with me for a 14 yr old. He is 20. I have shipped him all ... (75 words

How to sneek spermacide

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6221 days ago

9 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - HELP ME AGONY AUNTS! My Boyfriend And I Have Been Going Out For A While Now And We Were Thinking On Having Sex. Now Problem With Me Is The Fact That Im Scared That The Condom Will Break Or Somthing. Yes Im On The Pill But I Also Suggested To My Bf That We Could Use Spermi... (145 words

Why are men like this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6221 days ago

9 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - hi,i have one question. when you tell a man that you love him why does he feel like a king and that he is the master of everything and ignores you , and drives so far away from you? ... (40 words

Is this common for men?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

9 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - I have been dating my boyfriend for about 4 months. Among the times that we have had sex, he has only cummed twice. Most of the time, half way through the act, he would complain that he is getting too hot or tired, and then he would stop. I have never talked to him about it, ... (101 words

He's been hurt in the past.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6221 days ago

9 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - I have just come out of an eight month relationship and I want to know how to get my ex back. It got to a point in the relationship where he wouldnt answer my calls/texts and he ended it reluctantly when I challenged him about this, saying that he was hoping I would end it. I ... (275 words

I am a male and I don't enjoy sex.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4465 days ago

9 November 2007 (M age 41-50 - I am an adult male, have had sex a couple of times and have never really enjoyed it. The sex all seem mechanical with no real pleasurable sensation or feeling like you read about or see in movies. I also don't ejaculate during sex but ejaculate when I masturbate. Most times, t... (175 words

I don't want to hold her back.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6221 days ago

9 November 2007 (M age 30-35 - I'm going out with an awesome girl right now, that's everything I could possibly want. Right now, the relationship couldn't be going much better (but not perfect of course, haha) The problem is, a couple days ago she went to a different state WAY up North from where I ... (286 words

I hope someone can help.I don't want to loose him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6222 days ago

9 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - i recently got involved with a man i met through a friend. he was great always texing calling coming to see me. then when we finally slept together, which was a let down, he would text me asking when he could come back down, and when would i have a free house, then all of a su... (112 words

Mom won't let me date.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6221 days ago

9 November 2007 (M age 30-35 - My mom won't let me date till im 16. I really like this girl, and she likes me back. I have tried to talk to her about it by like saying that i am mature and stuff like that. What should i do? Wait it out, or go behind her back... (51 words

I love him, but don't want to loose him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6222 days ago

9 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - It seems as though lately all my b/f and i do is fight,and im tired of it. he'll go almost all day without talking to me, and it seems like he flirts with almost every other girl, but he gets mad if i talk to his friend that i used to date for a short short period of time. He ... (125 words

Lost love found after 30 years.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6198 days ago

9 November 2007 (M age - 30 years ago, I had the most wonderful girlfriend. She was three years younger than me. We were best friends and complimented each other so well. We really expected to live a normal life, by getting married and having a family. I loved her more than life itself. We had started ... (463 words

People take advantage of my genorosity, how can I stop this!

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