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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I may be left behind, if I don't change the way I am.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6241 days ago

1 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - im 21, and been single for a year. this time last year my girlfriend of 4 years split up with me. i was totally heart broken and it took me months and months to get over. anyway, now i am over that and want to meet new girls. but, because i was with my ex at such a young... (503 words)

I just don't know what to do for the best.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6260 days ago

1 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my husband now for 13 years we have 3 children and another one on the way. We got married in August and i have just recntly found out that he has been having an affair with somone who he met on his stag night, now she is saying that she is pregnant with his ... (110 words)

I have problems with his best friend! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6255 days ago

1 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i've been with my boyfriend for six months and we are great. we've overcome so much and arguements are usually over little things. but his best friend is always priority and he switches days with me, to suit his best friend. sometimes i wonder if he'd have a better love ... (106 words)

Will my wife ever trust me again after I cheated?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

1 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - ive been married for 3 months now i have three children and 1 on the way i got married recently but i have cheated on my wife and now the girl i have cheated with is saying she is pregnant after my wife found out and i told her it was over i loive my wife so much and i feel ... (106 words)

Why has my cheating husband done this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6259 days ago

1 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Why is this? After my husband cheated on my and after almost a year of ending it. He started talking to her again with the excuse to see is they could be only friends. Then he stoped contact for a while and I found out what he did. He did not tell me. Anyways why when I found... (85 words)

We've had our first date... what happens next?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

1 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi guys. so i had the first date and that went ok i think. but what happens now? shud i ask him out on a second date and should the girl ever ask a guy out? im reallly confused. i want to be sure that he wants another date but i dont know how to check. any tips? and does ... (92 words)

I want to leave him. How can we avoid an arguement?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

1 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some serious advise if anyone can please help. This is going to be long, so please be patient. My husband and I will be married for 3 years in January. We have known each other for nearly 7 years and have a daughter who just turned 5. We were apart for 2 years and have ... (605 words)

The in-laws are moving in, and I fear for our relationship! Please advise.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6252 days ago

1 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - HELP!! So my girlfriend and I have some new "roomates" moving in with us. My gf's 24yr old sis and her 4yr old daughter. Her sis has had a rough divorce recently and is struggling financially. Without even asking me she insisted that her sis move in with us. I think she did ... (143 words)

Has my ignorance in bases and pulling made me look stupid enough for my interest to lose interest??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6257 days ago

1 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ahahah please help i have messed up so badly. basically its a long story. theres this guy hu went to my old primary school. we used to fancy each other like mad. now i finally found him online and we have started talking online. everything was going fine till he sed have u ... (214 words)

My dad has become even more overly protective of me since he found out I've been having Sex. How can I get him to stop?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6259 days ago

1 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I live with my dad n have since the begining of 1st grade. i love my dad dont get me wrong but i want some Freedom! Im 16 n my mom found out that i had had sex with my b/f who im still with. well my mom decided to tell my dad. before i reeli culdnt go newhere, everyone always ... (179 words)

My husband wakes me up every night at 2am... touching me! Why?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6232 days ago

1 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - This is sort of an odd thing, but here goes. Every night almost, I am waken up by my husband rubbing my citoris with his fingers. This usually happens at around 2-3 a.m. We have a 6 month old baby and I am 5 months pregnant. Well, he only gets like 6 hours of sleep a night ... (286 words)

How can I move on from my boyfriend of 1 year?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6260 days ago

1 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i was dumped by my first 'real' boyfriend over a month ago, and i still can't seem to get over him, even though he has a new gf already. how can i move on?... (34 words)

She wants to see her ex more often! I'm not happy. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6230 days ago

1 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Well hear's the deal, iv been with my girlfriend for around ten months now an i really love her with all my heart, we spend a good majority of our spare time together which i love. A couple of weeks ago she told me she was going to see her friend amy but i accidently caught her ... (169 words)

Will sucking her breasts increase the size?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

1 November 2007 (F) age 36-40 - Does male sucking females breasts enlarge her breasts or its doesnt affect size of her breasts??... (16 words)

Does he like me or doesn't he?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

1 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi my name is georgi, and i kinda have a crush on this man he says he likes me but in a friend way but he keeps giving me that smile look you know the one tht says i like you but i dont want others to knowi was wondering wat should i do? ... (56 words)

Is he board with me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6192 days ago

1 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm currently with a man i have been with for over 3 and a half years. and i have never had a problem with this, but yesterday night i busted him looking at all this Drunk chick stuff, like on youtube, "young girl on webcam" showing her ass n shit, chicks with i love cock ... (250 words)

Sex Question

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

1 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - On sex and pleasure, Does it matter the size of a women down south? If she is taller or smaller her vagina will be better for him or not? How about the lenght/long/short of the vagina, does this matter to a guy? Does this only matter to EGO driven guys? How about the e... (71 words)

I feel I may regret my choice if I break up.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

1 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok right now I have somewhat of a problem on my hands. So I'm going out with this girl (we'll call her Karli) ok so I'm going out with this girl Karli and where kind of serious we say we love each other and stuff. But I also like this other girl (we'll call her Kennedy) I just ... (97 words)

I looked through my boyfriends phone and found out more than I wanted to know.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6218 days ago

1 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok here's the deal- I've been w/my boyfriend for almost a year now. I love him more than anything and I want to trust him, but sometimes I get that feeling in my gut that something's off. Like he'll be sitting there just texting away on his phone and he'll get really secre... (372 words)

My happiness just isn't returning, after 7 months. What am I going to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

1 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My happiness just isn't returning... It's been 7 months since my girlfriend of 3 years put an end to our relationship. She has since moved on, but I am left a much less happier man than I once was. I don't think anything made me happier than being in the company of my ... (102 words)

How can I get over this period, or ignor it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

1 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I felt really quite proud. I had got the courage to ask out a girl i fancied. I got rejected (she already had a bf) but i don't really mind. At least i had tried and i can be happy that i had the courage (i am actually quite shy so big achievement). However, as it inevitably ... (178 words)

She told me if I keep telling her that she's cheating on me that she will. She wants me to move with her instead. Why am I insecure?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

1 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi my name is Paul. Im 23 years old and I have been in a relationship with the love of my life for 3 years.She just moved back to T in july. Lately I have been having these insercurity problems, I think she is cheating on me all the time when she is not the phone with me. It ... (182 words)

Reading body language - does he like me? I already told him I like him more than a friend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6250 days ago

1 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - If a guy does these things: - folds his arms, often/contantly - is very quiet/shy suddenly when around you - laughs nervously - won't look me in the eye/avoids eye contact - looks uncomfortable - smiles slightly to himself, and looks downwards - gets embarrassed when his... (119 words)

We've been together for a short time and he wants a threesome for his b-day! Should we do this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

1 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a BF that wants a threesome for his birthday we have been together only a short time is this a good idea... (24 words)

Should I push to leave my current job just in case the angry wife decides to tell my employer or my husband, about my affair with hers?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

1 November 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I had an affair with a guy at work for almost 2 years. We ended it abruptly because his wife found out. I also bring my son to the daycare at work, and I have an important position with the company. I started looking for another job anyway, but the benefits are just not like ... (121 words)

He said he really cared for me but didn't want to break up my relationship. Now I'm single but he doesn't know! Is he interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

1 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Last Dec I met a guy from my past(we never dated just casual kissing)and the attraction we had when we were teenagers is still there. We used to go to the same place on hols and it is there Ive met him again after 5 years. Its always been the same whenever we're in the sam... (301 words)

Why are you so sceptical about LD relationships working?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

1 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - This isnt a question really, Just an email for all of you. There are many people out there askign questions about relationships, where you are 60 miles apart and only see each other on weekends. Why are you all so sceptical about this working? My boyfriend and I live... (147 words)

What he doesn't classify as cheating, I would! If this is his judgement, can I trust him? Any advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6161 days ago

1 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend two years now and he has just told me that several years ago, during a two week period when him and his (then) girlfriend did not speak following an argument (they had not officially split up), he ended up in a threesome with a female friend and ... (385 words)

Are some of us meant to be alone.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

1 November 2007 (M)

- Are some of us just meant to be alone for the whole of our lives? I'm 20 now and whenever I start to feel attracted to a girl, they are either not interested or want to stay as friends. The saying goes that the right women will come along one day. What if that never happens ... (72 words)

How to snog

This question has 38 answers - newest was posted 6126 days ago

1 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - dear cupid i have this girl freind and we both want to snog but i have never done it before and i want to do it right so i dont make a fool of my self please help me ... (40 words)

I don't think she is interested, any advice

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6260 days ago

1 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - hi every1. im 15 and i need some pro advice. theres this girl at school who i think about like no other girl i think about, know what a mean. but the thing i can tell she's not interessted in me. she may have in the past when we first me in second year i think, but i probably ... (167 words)

Can we have sex without contraception?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

1 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - can if i didnt 'cum' inside my gf would it be ok not to use contraception?... (16 words)

I don't want to dump her because I love her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

1 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my gf for about 2 years and i really love her and never even thought about looking at another girl. However this year at school, there is a girl who has come up, she is about a year younger than me. And i really think she is pretty. And ive told her this. S... (120 words)

What is the best contraception?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

1 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - hey people just wanted to know.. what is the best form of contraception?? because me n my gf have jus have sex for the first time (we were both virgins) we used a condom bt I dnt feel anything n im not enjoying the sex as much as her. I want to feel it more what are the bes... (119 words)

Should I stay away from her, or see her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6256 days ago

1 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, I am confused and hurting. I have been going out with my girlfriend (19 I'm 22) for 9 months now, we have had a fantastic time and this, for both of us has been the best time in our lives. We have got so close, and she even began discussing about getting engaged, having ... (259 words)

Any suggestions I can tell her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6260 days ago

1 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend has been dating this guy for about a year, possibly a bit more. About 8 weeks ago he began talking to this girl. And he fancied her and always told her and said she was pretty. She found out yesterday that her bf had been planning to kiss this girl on a class trip.... (145 words)

We can get through this, but need help.

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1 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I had a long distance relationship for one year. We decided to move in together roughly 5 months ago. Since then we have discovered that YES we are in love but we have some issues that are killing our relationship. Finances are tight until the new year, he's ... (87 words)

My heart cries out for her. What am I supposed to do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6256 days ago

1 November 2007 (M)

- I broke up with my ex-girlfriend about four months ago after a five year on-off relationship. I always wanted to be with her, we could communicate naturally and easily, we wanted the same things out of life and I felt so comfortable with her. She did however tend to want or ... (368 words)

Are my parents justified in critcising my drinking?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

1 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright so I'm not sure if this is the right place to be asking for advice here seeing as to how it has nothing to do with a relationship, but I need help with it anyways so any advice you've got is appreciated. I'm 17 and my parents keep nagging on me for drinking, they s... (198 words)

What can I do to stop these arguments?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6258 days ago

1 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been going out with this guy for 7 months now and we always argue what can i do to stop these arguments?... (24 words)

Should I dump him even though he is my first love?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6205 days ago

1 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I had a long distacne relationship whilst my boyfriend was at uni but he two timed me 3 times. I forgave twice. We split up after the 3rd time for a year and got back together after he finished uni. I recently heard that he took a girl back to his friends flat after a night ... (210 words)

I love her but she wants to end it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6259 days ago

1 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend of 7 months wants to end it as she says her feelings for me are fading, we have just been to Amsterdam and had a great time and she was fine and happy all the time we where there. im just looking for a way to get her to see the good and not just the bad things.... (61 words)

Am I suited to a Village Boy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6259 days ago

1 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, lets be honest and fair.No matter of everything IM deeply in love with my Bf.He is kind and lovely man, and Im sure he is in Love with me. He seems as being unexperienced with womens. He is 32, but as far as women and seducing is concerned he can be said to be a little ... (215 words)

Are past relationships the reason I'm acting like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6099 days ago

1 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Wow. As someone who usually offers advice I'm really desperate for some. My boyfriend and I are going through a rough patch and I'm scared it's going to ruin the relationship. My boyfriend let me make his facebook password and said I could get on his anytime. Now I k... (310 words)

Am I worrying over nothing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6258 days ago

1 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I'm 18 and just lost my virginity about a week ago. We used a condom and it didn't break or anything. My period is a little late now (although my cycle tends to run from 4-6 weeks and I'm only about 4 days past the 4 week mark) I've been told by everyone I'm being ... (110 words)

Should I give him some space?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6259 days ago

1 November 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have not seen my boyfriend in 9 days and the last time we spoke was four days ago. I usually call every morning to wake him up as he has requested. He sent a text on Monday saying he was already up and to have a good day and hugs and kisses baby. We usually tell each other ... (213 words)

Pregnant and I found out he's cheating! He wants us to be a family..what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

1 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i found out my boyfriend had been seeing another women,although it was her who told me and not him. we've been together for nearly 4 years and i was 7 months pregnant when i found out. it had been going on for almost a year and i had no idea. he has since proposed and swore ... (113 words)

He dumped me 3 times in 5 weeks and now wants back again. Do I give him one more chance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

1 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been seeing this guy for 2 weeks then we finally ended up getting together he then asked if we could have a baby together so we agreed and decided he would move in with me. after a month i keep getting people saying his past to me and so i questioned him about it, he then ... (249 words)

How can I shave and not bleed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6256 days ago

1 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Pubic Hair.!! i have only recently started shaving. and wen i shave up wards it really hurts and it bleeds. its there any cure on stopping this? because if i shave downwards it doesnt get rid of any pubic hairs..?... (40 words)

Is it normal that she wants to go see strippers with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

1 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - my girlfriend wants to go to the strippers with me is this normal... (13 words)

She called me 2 weeks later-what does this all mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

1 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I feel I have to ask you advice, i've been in several, relationships, and they alway end the same way. I do everything the woman asks. I give my all. So much so i've had a nervous breakdown. Any way after recovering. I started dating again. On our first date. We met up and I ... (97 words)

How do you know if a guy likes you or is just after sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

1 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - how do you know if a guy likes you or is just after sex ... (18 words)

Do I make the effort to see him when he doesn't seem to want to see me???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6254 days ago

1 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year. We meet in college where we were together every day. I have been out of school since April and he is still there. We live about 80 miles from each other but still we don't see much of each other. At first he was coming to our ... (179 words)

Just met a guy in a club, he wants me to go to his house this Saturday. What should I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6241 days ago

1 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - ive been out with a guy that i met in a club, our date was good. now he wants me to go to his house on saturday. what should i do?... (35 words)

Any ideas of how to finish with someone who won't take no for answer?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

1 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to finsh with my boyfriend who I have been with for 17 months. The thing is I have tried so many times in the past but he manipulates me into staying with him. I'm fed up of the way he treats me. He tries to dictate my life and thinks he's funny by accusing me of ... (78 words)

We've been married for 13 years, with 3 kids and one on the way, and he's been having an affair. The woman says she is pregnant. I don't know what to do.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

1 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my husband now for 13 years we have 3 children and another one on the way. We got married in August and i have just recently found out that he has been having an affair with somone who he met on his stag night, now she is saying that she is pregnant with his ... (110 words)

Is my boyfriend of one and a half years bi or gay or...? Maybe it's because he was raised by a religious family?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

1 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Is my boyfriend of one and a half years bi or gay or do I just have a lame boyfriend? Things I've noticed......... He isn't Metrosexual. He dresses in jeans and hoodies with a ball cap on all the time. He has very feminine mannerisms in many ways. i.e. how he holds a ciga... (231 words)

My husband wants a threesome but says will respect my decision. Is he going to be satifsfied with just me?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 3032 days ago

1 November 2007 (F)

age - My husband of 9 months has suggested the idea of wanting to watch me have sex with another man, or having a mfm threesome. My husband and his x-wife had this kind of sexual relationship and he said it brought them closer together sexually. Fantasy's are ok with me, and I k... (138 words)

How can I save our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

1 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend said last night that he has gave up on are relationship, due to me being jealous and always saying he's cheating.i suffer from depression how can i save my relationship.... (32 words)

3 weeks ago we were hoping to be pregnant, and talking about our family to be, and now we seem to be on the path to divorce. I don't know what to do.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6259 days ago

1 November 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Sorry, this will probably be long. Just found this site, here's my story. Been with my wife for 6 years, married for one (just had anniversary). When we got married, we immediatly decided to have children, but for the past year we have not been able to. We've been to doctors ... (585 words)

How can I get away from my present and past at least for a while? Had a divorce recently...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

1 November 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - hi aunts and uncles, honestly, im a bit nervous. i work in siemens saudi arabia and right now going through a very tough phase due to my recent divorce seven months ago of an eighteen year long marriage and three kids. i was just too down and i like using the search engine '... (113 words)

She is affectionate but never actually tells me how she feels about me, which sometimes I need to hear. It's her first relation. Is it unusual what I ask?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6259 days ago

1 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - This may sound like a silly issue, but I'll take the risk and ask anyway! I've been with my partner for a year now, and things have been great. I love her, and she knows this as I've told her so on several occasions. The first time I told her, she said that she wasn't ready... (259 words)

Does he like me or not??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

1 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My crush knows I like him or has known that I've liked him. Sometimes he's like everywhere I go and other times he acts like I'm not even there : ( He ad I are both REALLY shy with each other because I know that it is possible for him to like me from before. So what do u think. ... (415 words)

Sexually assaulted and still a virgin at 25! Is this normal?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6076 days ago

1 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am a 25 year old Australian guy who is still a virgin. I am wondering if this is normal. I consider myself to be good looking, intelligant ( I doing my doctorate in clinical psychology) and socially active. I was sexualy assaulted in my past and feel that this may b... (241 words)

At what age are you too old to have a 'Brazilian'?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6165 days ago

1 November 2007 (M)

age - Hi Summer is fast aproaching here in Australia and the weather is warning up. Which means going on holiday and going to the beach. My wife always gets a new bikini at the start of summer and for the past few years a brazilian wax. This year she says she too old for a bikin... (150 words)

Should I give her my number?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

1 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - There is this new girl at my work (retail). She has been there 2 weeks now. The first thing I said to my coworker (and one of my best friends) upon seeing her was that she was the cutest girl I've ever seen. We (the new girl and myself) talk occasionally, flirt a little, ... (166 words)

Would it be best to involve Social Services in theis situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

1 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I was just wondering if this was for the best? My Mom used to have a habbit when I was younger, Im now 16 and she is past all of that :) However, she is looking after one of her friends daughter. They havent mananged to stop using drugs. They had a house fire which enda... (198 words)

I had sex with my husband's best friend - it was his idea - will I find a need for more men?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4303 days ago

1 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - A family friend, who was widowed about ten months ago, visits us about once a month when he comes to the city on business. After dinner last month, he expressed to my husband how difficult it was to meet a woman and how frustrating it was to have gone so long without sex. He ... (436 words)

Did I ever really get her back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6258 days ago

1 November 2007 (M)

age - I have a problem that I created. About three years ago my wife and I was playing and I made her a profile on a dating web site. I wanted to show her she was still desirable and make her feel sexy again. I let her start playing on the site and it worked, we had sex every day for ... (428 words)

This one is for the guys.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

1 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey whats up. This one is for the guys. Its partly for my own info. OK any guy who has been asked out by a girl, I would really appreciate your response. This is a two-parter so here we go. 1.Do you like being asked out by girls, is it a turn-on or is it a turn-off? 2.Wha... (74 words)

I'm afraid I may make a mistake.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

1 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm currently engaged to my fiance' of 2 months and girlfriend of 2 years. Through out the entire relationship I've had feelings for different people, and most of these feelings come and go. Is this normal and healthy? does this mean i'm not ready to commit? Will these ... (91 words)

Is my boyfriend being controlling?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

1 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - How can I tell if my boyfriend is being controlling? Some of the things he does are just annoying - for example, getting angry if another guy writes on my facebook wall or if I haven't talked to him long enough on the phone. But other things are more disturbing - like, ... (160 words)

What can I do to gain a closer friendship?

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1 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - ok here goes- I like this girl....have for the last year or so....have been talking to her flirting with her...etc. She knows i like her.....all her friends say she likes me and her actions show that.......but I am wondering how might i get closer to her? gain her trust? like a ... (105 words)

She now wants her space, what do I do?

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1 November 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello, my girlfriend of 5 months out of the blue said she needed space. I was blindsided. I was a little upset at first but know confused. Everything was perfect, we traveled alot, confidided in each other. She and her frieds asked when were getting married. Her family and ... (518 words)

Jealous, Wife wants MFM

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1 November 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - My Wife and I have been happily married for past 12 years. I'm 35 and she's 33. We have 2 kids. Healthy Sexual appetite. A year back, at the local library she accidentally picked up a movie about swingers and was excited by the idea but too jealous/possessive to think about me... (251 words)

Please advise me.

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1 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i am a girl of 20 just passed my teen n had lots of problems in relation wether if i couldnt understand or it didnt work out........ well i have a bf n i we love each other very much but sill i have a fren i am very much attracted towards him we always have a prodlem d... (70 words)

I love him, but I'm tired of waiting for the next one.

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1 November 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 18 years. We separated about 3 years into our marriage as I was really young and thought I could find better. We divorced for 3 months and he asked me to come back home to him. I did we had to of course remarry. I never would have dreamed my husband ... (398 words)

My ex is fighting over our past. What can I do to deal with it?

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1 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - My ex is fighting over our past. What can I do to deal with it?... (15 words)

My ex is coming out with the same stuff over and over, why can't he just leave me alone?

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1 November 2007 (F) - My ex sent me a video he made of us ending it with "I will always love you, forever. I broke up with him 3 weeks ago, and I'm so sick of him contacting me. I finally called him and told him that I'm sick of him saying he misses me and loves me. I told him that even though I ... (299 words)

How to improve my relationship with him.

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1 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'll be 16 in a couple on months and I've liked this boy for about 8 years, and we talk on the computer alot just not in person , just recently I told him that i liked him and i said i didn't want things to be awkward between us, he was ok with this he didn't say he liked me ... (137 words)

How to have guy friends.

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1 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello Dearcupid! I am 14 and just wandering why i find it so difficult to have friend guys, yet boyfriends are fine. I don't know how to talk to them like an actual friend, about things i would talk about with girlfriends. How and why?? Any tips, pleaseeeeeee xx... (59 words)

Do we girls have to wait forever for a man to propose and settle down?

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1 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Mom thinks that I should marry soon because I am already 31 years old. I also want to start my own family, however BF wants to wait. He claims he's not emotionally and financially prepared. I understand, but that makes me wonder. Any single NY men ready for marriage out there? ... (52 words)

Confused and he's all I think abot.

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1 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - OK heres the thing, i really like a lad who like me as well. He has a gf. I really feel a strong attractivness towards him. He has always thought of himself as the ugly one and says first he has nothing and then something big comes along (me), and he already has a gf. He sa... (243 words)

I"m so confused by my ex's advances, I havent gotten over her, now I'm getting mixed signals, someone help me!

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1 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello all. Before you read this please read this article I posted a few weeks back. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-just-cant-seem-to-just-give-up.html Lots has happened since I posted that and I don't know what kind of dillema I got myself into this time. So this ... (502 words)

Should I try going out with him, or move on?

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1 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - so i'm 15. and theres this boy weve been close friends for 1 1/2 yrs but we've known each other for 3. anyway, we started talking in may, in june my bday month he said he was gonna give me 2 gifts that i couldn't physically keep,{i thought a kiss and him askn me out} i got a ... (294 words)

We plan on getting married, but he's unhealthy, how can I get him to look after himself better?

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1 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I love my boyfriend. We actually plan on getting married and have picked out the ring. The only problem is that, I can't stand the way he treats his body. He smokes, even though he's been trying to quit for a over a year, he drinks a lot and doesn't drink water or excercise. ... (169 words)

My ex has been giving me the runaround, is it worth another go? If not how can I get over her?

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1 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey all, Me and my ex hav'nt spoken in a week and a half. She broke up with me last sunday - for the 3rd time in 4 months. She is very on/off, one minute she is telling me she loves me and dreaming of our future together, the next she is telling me to forget her and move on.... (387 words)

My friend has a boyfriend, they are in love, but I love her as well, I don't know what to do!

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1 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I have this friend, well i say friend i have a little thing for her, i mean when i have a thing i cant stop thinking of her, my mouth goes dry when shes near me and shes so beautiful. But one huge problem she had a boyfriend, i really don't ever want to mess anything up between ... (223 words)