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Why would my friend want to hurt my feelings by telling me others say that I'm smelly?!?

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16 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hey. I've ben really bothered with this ...i think ive been going crazy just thinking about this.. So my friends calls me up to her and says, "hey..i heard someone talking about you..." and me, hoping it was something good , became all excited. and i asked what it was. she's li... (236 words

I've stayed faithful this time but I'm so tempted to go back to my old ways.What shall I do?

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16 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - hi my fiancess best friend keeps touching me and feeliing me at every chance that he gets the thing is though i am really enjoying it and now he is talkin about he wants to go all the way.I have cheated before on every other boyfriend but this one i havent cheated for 4 years ... (97 words

I have a crush on my best friend's ex, how can I make him feel alright with me dating her?

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16 November 2007 (M age 30-35 - ive had a crush on my best friends ex for a few months and im starting to think there might be something between us but im worried that if i start dating her then my best friend make think of it as a conflict of interest and i want to stay friends with him, PLEASE HELP ME!!... (57 words

I'm in love with an older guy, how do I make my mom feel ok with us dating?

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16 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - I'm a 13 going on 14 year old girl who loves a 16 going on 17 year old guy. Ohh Yea and he is my brothers BEST friend. I Love himm and he says he likes me and I believe him, but my mom says I cant date him because he's to old....I know he would never do anything to me an... (97 words

Reunited love

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16 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - Hi, i just thought i would share our story with you all, after reading a few stories about people being reunited with past partners after years.. When i was 15 i moved over from australia with my parents, we stayed here for a year and a half, when i was 16 i met an amazing man, ... (169 words

I'm scared about this guy on the internet.

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16 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - I met this guy on the internet and we have started dating I love him soooo much but the thing is He cuts himself and doesnt go to school me and his best friend got into a fight and he cut himself what can I do to help him? He says im the most important person in his life and he ... (78 words

What should I do about different sex views.

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16 November 2007 (M age 30-35 - My girlfriend that I have been steady with for 5 months doesn't view sex the same way I do. She is very religious while I am not. However, we don't fight about religious views yet she won't do many sexual things because of it. She is very innocent, she doesn't know any... (122 words

Everytime she goes out with friends, she's there because she's part of the group

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16 November 2007 (M age 36-40 - Hello, I've got this problem. My girlfriend stopped seeing her former "best" friend. The reason is long time ago, when she was a kid, she was telling mean things about her. Everytime she forgave her. I don't understand why, because everytime she continued. She told me she was ... (233 words

Can you tell me what my dream meant?

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16 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hi well i got this dream that came out to be really akward to me cause it was about me having a BoyFriend but i wouldn't go aginst my religion so basically i wouldn't do anything like that so then i don't get why i'm getting this dream its about a boy he's 18, very kind ... (187 words

Should I have stuck around and fought for him

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16 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - Okay so basically I am best friends with my ex. And I am in love with him too. He told me he loves me and I believe him because we have so much history with eachother but now hes got a new girlfriend and has done for last 6 months. He says he loves me but when his feelings get ... (176 words

I'm not sure if she loves me

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16 November 2007 (M age 30-35 - I am a 17 year old who is very confussed. I think this girl might love me. But I am not sure. I know her through school. She is a flirty girl. The stuff that makes me think she likes or maybe loves me is she likes to take lots of pictures of us together, and we talk ab... (115 words

I've had my navel pierced, recently it's gotten really red. Is it a sign of rejection?

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16 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - hey guys can u please help? In april i had my navel pierced. I then went back to my peircer and he put a shorter bar in it. anyway, recently, it has got really red. top and bottom hole. also, it stings. however, its not pussing. it looks slightly swollen and shiney. also the ... (88 words

Every day I put on a brave face and go out with my family and friends but it's getting harder to cope with the break up. Help!

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16 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - I broke up with my ex two months ago we were together almost 5years, I thought I was coping, but now im not so sure. Everything I do reminds me of him,and im constantly thinking about the past, it just seems that we were together for so long, and he was such a huge part of my ... (184 words

I'm torn between two men. And we're all best mates. Waht do I do?

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16 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - hi every one im 24 years old i have been fooling around behind my boyfriend of 3.5 years with his very bestmate but it gets worse than that the one im playing around with is going out with my very best friend and theyve been together for about 3.5 years aswell....i feel like ... (138 words

Is she retarded or what?

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16 November 2007 (M age 36-40 - I walked down to prop open the outside door of my apartment complex for one of my friends. I just through on a pair of jeans, so I wasnt wearing a shirt or shoes. This girl came down the stairs behind me and said, "its five o' clock somewhere, right *giggle*." I kn... (117 words

Why do I have this dream?

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16 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - i keep having strange dreams about this lad. i am engaged and have a 1 yr old son love them both. but i keep dreamin bout this lad i like and he says he likes me to but why am i having these dreams when i am happy with my bf i just dont understand.... (57 words

What can I do to raise the temperature?

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16 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - me and my bf have been having sex now for the last couple of months but i want it to be exciting but i just dont now what to do. what could i do to heat it up?... (38 words

I'm torn - do I break up with him or not?

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16 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - Im 18 and my boyfriend (24) who i have been with for a year have hit a bump in our relationship. Clearly you can see there is an age gap between us, and that is part of the problem. He's wanting more out of our relationship, more of a commitment. For me to move in with him or ... (225 words

How do I stop myself looking for a replacement for my mother?

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16 November 2007 (M - How do I stop myself from looking for a girlfriend that is like my mum personally? I know it sounds odd, but I would prefer a girl who I want as a lover, rather than someone to replace my mum when I leave the house. How do I stop this trend? How should I react when talking to a ... (61 words

3 years apart - can we get back together?

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16 November 2007 (M age 51-59 - Hi Myself and my ex split up nearly 3 years ago. I think she had post natal depression but not sure. We have a little boy of 3. I have never stopped loving my ex and miss her and my son dearly. I also have a little girl of 12 who I have custody of. Last year I tried to... (193 words

Why does my vagina dry up after orgasm?

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16 November 2007 (F age - why does my vagina dry up after orgasm?... (8 words

The thought of having sex with her appeals to me.

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16 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - Im confused about some feelings Iam having. Im a completely 100 percent straight heterosexual female. I have never been attracted to women. I love men. I have had many boyfriends, a few sexual partners, and i have even been engaged before. I never had to question my sexuality. ... (203 words

My ex is pregnant, has agreed to a abortion and I have no problem with it, am I a bad person

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16 November 2007 (M age 41-50 - I broke up with my ex as i found information she was cheating on me. she denies it and still does a month later (she was telling another guy "i love you"). the problem now is that she is pregnant. apparently the docs were able to tell her the exact date she got pregnant, and ... (300 words

Falling for a teacher

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16 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - Okay so yeah im in love with this teacher =[ its great when we have a laugh and that but other times i feel sad and annoyed at the fact that im chasing after sum1 who i will never get =[ i wanna stop feeling this way im fed up of not looking forward to the weekend, i mean i g... (195 words

Should I date my deceased ex-boyfriend's best friend

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16 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - My exboyfriend died 3 months ago in a tragic car accident. I loved him dearly but he did not know, he thought I hated him because of a lot of things he put me through. I have a problem. I still love my exboyfriend with all my heart, but I may be developoing feelings for his ... (87 words

Is it OK that my girlfriend talks to her ex husband

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16 November 2007 (M age 41-50 - My girlfriend is still talking to her ex-husband. She says they want to be friends and thats it nothing more. I tried to be ok with it but everytime I see them emailing eachother it really bothers me and makes me unhappy. Is it unfair for me to ask her to no longer t... (67 words

I'm abused by my own family.

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16 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hi, please help me! My family hit me and honestly i'm sick and tierd of it what am i mean to do? How can i stop this happening? My brother beats me up the most and my mum or dad or sisters don't say anything to him he always hits me hard i've got lots of bruses and i'm in pain ... (117 words

I usually don't think about guys with boyfriends, but I can't help it.

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16 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - Recently, I have started to fall for this guy(17)I know from school and I really want our friendship to develop into something more romantic. For a while now things have been really flirty and we have got to know each other better. However, last week I found out that he has a ... (181 words

I know I should let my feelings go.

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16 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - I started at a new job a little over a year ago. I became immediately attracted to one of my co-workers. He was engaged as am I. Right before he got married, we slept together. I never even thought of cheating on my fiance of 4 years before I met my co-worker...it just ... (213 words

Is there a chance of us getting together?

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16 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - I have a crush on a boy in the year below me that i have known since nursery. He has always been like a brother to me and he always calls me his 'cousin' or 'god sister' even though are families dont even really know eachother. We used to be best friends when we were little but ... (146 words

Is it normal for men to do this especially when they are in a relationship? HELP ME!

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16 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - Every one looks at the opposite sex. Of course..you are going to notice a beautiful woman or a handsome man that walks in your path..right? A glance is ok..let it go..move on with the day. Well..my question is..my boyfriend of 3.5 years looks at and stares at women..all the ... (131 words

How can overcome these fears.

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16 November 2007 (M - Dear cupid i am 16 years old and i am not really confident, i get scared of people that take the piss out of me as i can not fight. I would like to know is their anyway of getting rid of this scareness, and also i am scared of going out at night by myself? Plzzz help... (65 words

How can he stay with a woman he doesn't love?

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16 November 2007 (F age 51-59 - i am so confused i just dont know what to do i have been recently having an affair with a married man (i am separated) .I have 2 children and he has 2 children. We knew each other many years ago and started a relationship but went our separate ways.When we got back in touch we... (314 words

Did he text me by mistake or was it just an excuse to get in touch with me?

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16 November 2007 (F - Hi im puzzled about my ex but hope Im not getting my hopes up too high. We split 3 months ago and I broke all contact with him and hadnt spoke to him for all that time. Anyway, yesterday I received a very weird txt from him, basically it was about something he knew I would an... (227 words

How can I add variety and spontaneity to our relationship?

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16 November 2007 (M age 41-50 - Hi I'm a 28 year old male, dating a 26 year old girl. i really believe this is a women i would want to grow and build a realtionship possibly spend the rest of my life with. Our problem is that there is no variety/spice in our relationship. Subsequently her L... (218 words

He just used me for sex. How do I get checked out for STD's?

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16 November 2007 (F - ok so in eary September i randomly ran into a fella i knew fom i wasyounger at a party in my house... we all had the biggest and maddest party ever n it lasted from the fri til the monday, it was amazin as it was just after the biggest dance festival of the year so we all had a ... (509 words

She won't believe he's cheating on her with me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

16 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - Here are a few questions in one. My ex and I still hvae some of a chance to sometime get back together. We had dated for 8 months and then he broke it off because he didnt have the feeling. I know him very well and know he went through a confused state of mind. He now got bac... (296 words

How do I get him to remember why he fell in love with me?

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16 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - I just broke up with my boyfriend who i've dated for 2 and a half years. I moved out, and it was over something totally stupid. I tried to talk to him and tell him it wont happen again but he dont believe me. I want him back, and for things to be like they use to be when we ... (85 words

I've nowhere to go or have anyone to turn to. What should I do?

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16 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - Hello everyone, I am 22 and I have a 16 month old baby. I am with my baby's father almost 3 years. I love him so much. But he is always leaving me home with the baby and going out and partying and drinking all the time. That is not the kind of life I want for my son. He is ve... (174 words

How do I know if he fancies me or my mate?

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16 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - I really like a guy at school, though i seem really young at 14 i've never felt like this with and other crushes i've had on guys. I get along quite well with him and we seem to flirt alot but i dno whether to ask him out or not, I'm also worried that he might not fancy me but ... (117 words

How do I start the conversation?

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16 November 2007 (M age 36-40 - Argh! Going slightly mad here guys, hope someone can help me out a little. Asked on here a week or so ago if i should get in contact with a girl who i've seen around at uni, and also seen on the uni dating website. You guys agreed with my thinking of i shou... (190 words

Fallen for a friend who gives me confusing signals.

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16 November 2007 (M age 51-59 - As the title suggest I have a friend (FM) who I have known for a few years, I am male 33 years old and don’t want to ruin our friendship but I'm struggling with the feelings I have for her and it's cutting me up inside as to how I feel and what to do about it!! I have known h... (357 words

How can I get over the fear of trusting him and open up?

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16 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - I have another question, ok, the boy i'm dating he said that he's unsure that he wants to go out with me because i don't tell him about me or express myself. And he says I dont trust him, how can i get over the fear of trusting him and opening up?... (52 words

Am I in love? How would I know?

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16 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - I've met a boy named Jeremy and we've been dating for almost a month and i feel like i'm in love but i don't really know i'm scared to tell him my feelings for fear he'll get nervous and think i'm crazy or something i'm 17 and hes 16 i need help how do i know i'm in love?... (59 words

I don't like his attitute towards money, so parsimonious. Will this relationship work? Going different places costs, and I like variation.

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16 November 2007 (F age - I am 47 in the middle settling my divorce. I end my unhappy marriage of 22 years. It is a relief to me as I dont love my husband any more and feel great to be on my own again. I am so desperate to find someone else. I want to make up for the lost time. I met this man 18 ... (232 words

Loss of sexual desire in loving relationship. Why? Just because it's good doesn't make me want it the next time and feel even more turned off by his desire for me.

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16 November 2007 (F age 51-59 - I have completely lost interest in sex, I feel no desire and do not masturbate anymore. I'm 36, I am not on the pill and haven't been for a number of years. I have been with my boyfriend for 1.5 years and love him loads, he is respectful, attentive, loving and kind. I ... (181 words

I am irritated that he can pleasure himself to porn but my needs are not met! He rarely makes a first move in the sexual department...

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16 November 2007 (F age 51-59 - I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now and everything, on the whole, is great. He is normally very caring and attentive and I felt blown away by my feelings for him. He has a friend who is an avid porn watcher and thinks there is nothing wrong with this. I am ... (496 words

Is this maturity and not love struck teenagery, or is my feelings and reactions an alarm?

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16 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months, and we live together. Things are mainly great, buit we do tend to have a bad patch every couple of months or so, we both just seemto get caught up in ourt own stresses of every day life and work etc, and it causes stress with us. ... (160 words

His ex gf contacts my bf - he does not encourage her but I still feel on the edge! Should I confront him with this?

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16 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months now. We get along very well, the only major problem we've really had is his ex girlfriend. About once a month she pops up and will strike up conversation with him - it;s always her starting it, not him. He gives me open access to his e... (277 words

I tried to drown my problems is alcohol, and I don't remember what happened that day. Have I ruined my chances with the guy I like, who saw me in that condition?

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16 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - Well I net this guy a few months back and he is really nice and very good looking, We used to speak everytime I saw him in a club that I go to every weekend and once we had a kiss and we parted ways and he said he'd call, I saw him the week after and we were talking and he ... (187 words

I love my bf but I can't stop thinking about the boy I kissed while drunk.

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16 November 2007 (F - i'm a 16 year old girl from the uk and last week i went out with some mates and we got really drunk and i snogged with these two lads, one was my mate's bf ad the other was just a mate. we had a kiss and a cuddle and both touched my boobs, when my mate saw us she dumped him, ... (170 words

Did his mother 'lean on him'?

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16 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - If a guy is really close with his mum (bit of a mummy's boy!), would he take his mum's advice about what he was playing at with a girl even if he really really liked her, which might explain him suddenly backing off? I suspect this with a guy I was 'seeing' as I know he was s... (101 words

Can someone tell me how to stop feeling the pain of breaking up?

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16 November 2007 (M - Hi Everyone I have now accepted that Myself and ex fiance will not get back together. However I am tortured with thoughts of my fiance meeting or being intimate with someone else. I know I should try to block these thoughts out, but I'm struggling to find activities or th... (146 words

We still love each other but there's nothing there

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16 November 2007 (M age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been together just over a year bt the last few weeks havent been the same i mean we both still love each other and want to be with each other but thes nothing there if that makes sense basically it feels like were best mates rather than more.We bot ... (96 words

Is she taking advantage of me?

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16 November 2007 (M age 36-40 - I'm confused on whether or not I'm being used! My girlfriend is missing 1/2 her arm but disability says she's not disabled. She also says she has back pains frequently, and it seems like every 2 weeks theres something new thats wrong with her! We've been together for almost 2 ... (198 words

Was I over-reacting?

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16 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - I really thought i was one of those liberal types-that's how i was raised. however, a week ago i discovered from a very reliable source that my boyfriend is bisexual and i just lost it! i broke up with him soon after because i felt he deceived me. i'm sure i wasn't ... (81 words

How can I get her to give up the smokes?

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16 November 2007 (M age 36-40 - Well, where to start. I've been with my Fiance since march 2006. When we got together, she was smoking heavily, almost 2 packs a day. I informed her I abhor smoking and would like her to quit in the future, she said if I don't like it I can leave, but that she would try to one ... (139 words

Is she serious?

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16 November 2007 (M age 41-50 - Hi, I am 23 years old, i met a woman online, at first it was just fun and as the relation got deeper and longer i felt more and more for her, she is sweet and lovely, she got 4 kids, the youngest one is older than me by two years, i dream to meet her one day and be with her, i ... (127 words

I'm jealous because he's in the same house as his ex

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16 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend has a 2-year-old child with his ex-girlfriend I used to spend the whole Saturday with my boyfriend but now his ex-gf doesn't want me to be there whenever they are there. The child is not yet used to my boyfriend that's why she should be there also with their so... (133 words

How can I tell if he fancies me?

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16 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - i have a friend and recently we have been spending a lot more time together. he is actly differently towards me grap my shoulders and shacking me when he thinks i am not paying attention to him (this has happened twice)sats on my knee,hugs when we are in big groups. i was ... (123 words

I want to be a musician but my parents want me to go to college. What should I do?

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16 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - i am 16 year old girl an play a band , after my gcse i want to go ahead with playing music but my parents want me to go to college, what should i do?... (36 words

How can I find out if she's gay before I make a fool of myself?

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16 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - Okay..lets me try to explain. There is this really cute girl in my class at school. She's a notetaker for another student that is a good friend of mine. Anyways this girl (notetaker)always smiles at me, talks to me a bit, and says hi. She sits next to me and glances at m... (110 words

How long should I wait before I move on? I divorced my husband, but he hasn't yet divorced his wife - although he initiated the affair!

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16 November 2007 (F age 51-59 - I fell in love with a co-worker and we have had an affair for about two years. He left his wife of 13 years and two young kids and moved out about one year ago. In April, I asked my husband of 17 years and two teenage kids for a dissolution. We are now completely, legally ... (291 words

My boyfriend's family is unsupportive

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16 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - In our culture when u have a baby with sum1 his parents has to visit ur parents to see their grandbaby but in mt case my b/f parents they had never visited me and see the baby. i am asking my self question if they want the baby or they just care about him. my b/f is supportive ... (63 words

Since our baby was born, he refuses physical contact, always having excuses.

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16 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - Hi. father of my baby give excuses when i ask him when are we going to make love. Our baby has 9 months since then i had never made love and sometime i get horny when i just look at him. he does'nt kiss me unless i ask for a kiss. its killing me to see man of my dream not ... (82 words

I ended up in bed briefly with someone who took advantage of my condition. Since then, my relation deteriorated. I'm close to break down, what can I do?

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16 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - i had been with my girl friend for 1 yr 6mth, we found each other at the perfect time. i admired,respected and fell in love with her for 6 mnths befor we got together. the day we started seeing each was incrediable, i had never ever wanted s.one in my whole life before as i... (382 words

Can you get pregnant if the hymen's not broken?

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16 November 2007 (M age 30-35 - is it possible to get pregnant if the skin is not broken?... (12 words

As time went on, he could barely look me in the away and walked away before we could engage in a real conversation. Bizarre way to prove he likes me?

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16 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - i have an older male friend who i've known about a year now. when we first met he was always nice to me, hugging me and always talked with me. as time went on, he's been kind of mean. he doesnt hurt my feelings, but he's been cold towards me, only saying " hi ____ "(and uses a ... (171 words

She is the one who suggested that we try again, how do I get her to open up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6161 days ago

16 November 2007 (M age 41-50 - I recently got back together with this girl that i was seeing for about over a month. Actually shes the one who asked if i would give her another shot. The thing is im having trouble getting her to open up to me. Evadently she has feelings for me or she wouldnt have wanted to ... (88 words

My gf is aggresive whenever she drinks. Is this love suitable for me?

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16 November 2007 (M age 36-40 - am i being played for a fool? hi, i have been going out with my girlfriend for about 10 months now and i have come to a point where i'm lost, i'm 21 and she's 20 and has a 1 year old, i think i love her but cannot be sure wether she feels the same, she is a going out person... (386 words

We still make love after the break up but he won't get back with me officially!

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16 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - My ex and I broke up a month ago we still say we love each other and make love and he says he doesn't want to get back together and that because he wants to see what else is out there and i am so lonely without him do u know what i should do??... (55 words

We used to make love every day, since September she is constantly not in the mood though. What can you suggest?

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16 November 2007 (M age 36-40 - Hello, i hope you can help me. I have been going out with my girlfriend for 2 1/2 years now. I am 21 and she is 20. We both are in love with each other and is willing to do anything. I am her first guy she slept with ever, and she is my 5th. Since we started dating, we made ... (131 words

I often get erections when I am with my gf, is this a problem, when we are in public?

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16 November 2007 (M age 30-35 - When I am with my girlfriend I often get erections and sometimes even ejaculate. When we make out I always do. How do i stop this? [Moderator note. It probably refers to the situation when they are in public, even in intimate areas if they haven't initiated their sexual life... (59 words

On the rare occasion we do have sex it's short and unconnected... but he has porn on his PC

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16 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and our sex life has been steadily declining. We were both really inexperienced when we met (I was a virgin) so we waited a few months to have sex. During those first few months we fooled around and did typical foreplay... (387 words

He told me he had the same feelings towards me, later announced me he has a gf! What should I say to him?

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16 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - OKay well I'm not dating this guy but I really do like him a lot. He told me he has the same feelings for me too but Today he gives me a call and we talked for about two minutes and then he tells me to get on the computer so we can talk on there. So I get on and he askes if I ... (166 words

Hi fiancee cheated ,then he wanted to slow things down, now he's very lovey dovey again, is he serious again?

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16 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - A bit over two months ago I met a wonderful guy at a dinner party. A couple weeks later we started seeing each other more often and before we knew it we were introducing each other to our friends and not hiding we were both an item. It was great--and it still is. BUT, when... (442 words

He is unablet to express his feelings and have deep and meaningful discussions, should I accept this ?

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16 November 2007 (F age 51-59 - I have been in a relationship with my housemate for nearly 6 months. We lived together 18 months as housemates but he was working away except every 5th week when he would come home to see his daughter. He asked me out about a year ago, but I turned him down. A year later we got ... (481 words

Can I get pregnant by oral sex?

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16 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - hi i am a 14 year old girl,and recently i have had a boy come to my house i know him and that!but the thing is recently me and him have become quite close mates!me and my mom have had partys lately at my house so he has being coming round and that but a few times when i he has ... (89 words

Best methods to avoid pregnancy?

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16 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - What are the best methods to not get pregnent? What works the best?... (14 words

I think he cracks under pressure because he's getting back with his ex. What do I do?

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16 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - Okays... I'm a 15 year old and well i like this guy that is 16 and he HAD a girlfriend, but he broke up with her because she was always treating him bad....she would call him just to cuss him out and so on so on. So he ended it because she treated him badly and because he w... (333 words

He can be really sweet... but also really mean!

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16 November 2007 (? age 36-40 - I am 20 and I Have been going out with this boy for about 7months now and tonight he has really upset me again. The thing with him is, he's either really sweet OR he is sarcastic, makes snide comments about me and says anything he can to put me down. Its always one of the two ... (363 words

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