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writes:Hinot sure if anyone can help me. After foreplay and sex, my wife spends most of the night going to the bath room for a pee. She says she pees each time but only a trickle.on saturday she counted 10 trips, we used a condom to see if that was the cause. anyone any ideas what to do. as she is loosing intrest in sex well not relay but knows she will be up and down all night after it
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reader, Blue_Angel0316  +, writes (7 November 2007):
 Sexual intercourse can put pressure upon the walls of the bladder causing an urgency to urinate. Another problem could be an over active bladder. Having an orgasm can also trigger the bladder thus causing the flow of urnation in some women. Always put a towel or folded bedsheet underneath yourselves. It will protect the bedding so your cover underneath will stay dry.
You wife should not ever be made to feel embarrassed about this as it could be a natural occurance. However if she is doing this with urgency and frequency then it might be a bladder or urinary tract infection. There is also a condition called Honeymoon cysitis. Having sex can often irritate the lining of the bladder and cause frequent urination and or pain. As I stated above it could be brought on by the bladder being over active. This can all be treated by proper healthcare and medications.
It could also be wise to check with a gynocologist to make sure that there are no medical problems. Some women go to the bathroom before and after intercouse. It helps to cut down on bateria setting up in the urinary tract.
God bless you and give you the knowledge to overcome this problem so you will have the desired intimacy you should as husband and wife. Godspeed.
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reader, cardsgirl +, writes (5 November 2007):
I think you should go to the doctor and ask the doctor about intersticial cystitis. I have recently been diagnosed with that and it is a bladder problem, where the lining of the bladder has broken down and gotten holes in it. It causes everything from frequent urination, intestine problems, pain with intercourse and lots of other symptoms. Just talk to your doctor about it. Good luck!!!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2007): HiI have the same problem as your wife. My bf and i have sex and everything would be fine unless he is a bit rough. I f he stroked me hard and fast (while i am on top) then i get the sensation to use the loo. Yesterday it was the same thing.I felt as though if my bf stroked me one more time i would have peed so i stopped him, used the loo and then got back again.I am afraid to let it flow as i dont want to pee on my bf so i would rather use the loo. After we have sex i dont use the loo as often as your wife. Just be paitent with her and i suggest that she goes to the doctor to have a check up.Regards,mail me if you wanna talk
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2007): I am with dick diva here. It may be related to female ejaculation. There are some great documents on the internet talking about it and giving instructions on achieving it. Give them a try if you are both open to it, put towels down to make clean up easy.
She should also have a gynecological exam to rule out any bladder or urinary track issues.
I get the same "sensation", sometimes related to orgasm, but around that time of the month, I have to pee like a race horse every 1.5 hours. It is annoying.
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reader, Dick Diva  +, writes (5 November 2007):
This answer might sound offensive but here it goes. From my experience and others I have asked, it's normal for women to pee after sex. 10 times? not so sure. My friend teaches very popular classes in female ejaculation and how to achieve them. This peeing she says is often the ejaculate that built up during sex.
I know it sounds hard to believe and I am no doctor but maybe try female ejaculation. Apparently when it happens it feels like she needs to pee but then the sensation changes to an orgasmic release. (ladies, correct me if I'm wrong). Many hold back thinking they need to pee instead of letting it flow.
If she still pees 10 times after sex I'm guessing there is another problem.
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