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anonymous
writes: My best friend has been going out with this guy for about...3 months and I only jsut heard. I'm used to her going out with guys but this time he's way too old! She's 13 and He's 16 and I think hes going to 17 in a few months. I'm really affraid he'll take advantage of her but she wont listen to me. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2007): wel.. i went out with a lad who was 4 and a half years older than me, and he treated me like the amazing gurl i am!
i dont think there is such a big diffrence if they love each other and she is sure she wants to be with him not just to look good to her mates then if she happy be happy for her!
If your woried about her having sex with him, tell her that dont let him make her feel she has to do anything! becuse she dont!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2007): This is wrong, teenage years are huge in gaps. He is taking advantge, he shouldn't even be attracted to a 13yr old girl. If their having sex, tip off the police about it. Im 17 and wouldn't dream of having sex with someone that age, not even any of my freinds boys or girls.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2007): maybe he will prove you wrong and treat her like a princess. you never know. my boyfriend is 3 yeard older than me, he is 18 and he respects everything i do and listens to me, we have been together over a year now. there will be nothing you can do about them if she is sure she wants to be with this guy. you just have to let her get on with it and be thereor her if the worst doescome to its worst. good luck x
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