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Does this shy guy like me?

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Question - (4 November 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 2 January 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My crush knows I like him or that atleast I did at one point anyway.

Sometimes he acts like I'm not there and other times he's like every where that I go.The other day he was walking towards where I hang out on his own. He was on the phone and he was walking towards me and when he saw me he turned around and started walking to where I was going.

We were in the common room and I heard one of his friends say my name does this mean he doesn't like me?Then lunch time he went to where I hang out. On the way out of school I think he was like trying to be cool infront of friends so he didn't look.

One of my guys friends went camping with the school and with him on the weekend and tey became friends. My friend asked him if he liked me infront of a few guys (1 or 2 he didn’t know to well) but he said that he did as a friend. If this is true then I don't get why he went out of his way to be near me sometimes. I thaught that maybe he said that because he's just not sure how to act around people he likes. I then thaught that because he always sees my guy friend with me that my crush made friends with him to get closer to me.

On the Saturday he added me on myspace and I commented him asking him how he was but he won't say anything back and he has commented others. I thaught that this might have been so that he didn't make it obvious to other people who he might like. I was also wondering if he added me wouldn't that mean he wants to talk to me??

My friend thinks he's playing it internet hard to get lol!!

Also About 3 weeks ago we spoke and he seemed nervous and his friends kept kicking footballs at us and he said he was going to set up a facebook account on the weekend. I thaught he hadn’t because he didn’t add me but I found out today that he does and that he only has a few of his brothers friends as his friends. Why didn’t he add me??So I added him but he hasn’t commented me : (

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2008):

If this has been goin on 4 a long time it sounds like he REALLY likes u but doesn't wanna be embarrased. Get him alone and just start talkin to him. Try to make eye contact. If he blushes and starts acting nervous and he won talk to u alot and him to go out with u. If he blushes he likes u, so try giving im a hug or a kiss on the cheek. It WILL work if he blushes. But make sure it's private.

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A female reader, lookingatyou United Kingdom +, writes (14 December 2007):

No i dont think you're being stalkerish at all, i think he likes you enough to find and add you on myspace, so thats a big sign. if he was thinking " oh god, not her again!" hed hardly have added you.

Maybe hes a bit nervous, i know if my crush added me or commented me, i'd tae a while to work out what to say. as for the camping thing- well i've denied in front of other people that i like somebody i like before, because i dont want the embarassment and i dont want it getting back to the person involved. hes just shy. Give him a little push! good luck.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2007):

this guy sounds alot like me. I think he likes you and when you freind asked him he was afraid to say that he liked you around other guys. I think if you want to find out for shure you should get him alone a have a deep conversation with him.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2007):

um no offense but i dont think the guy likes you...

youre being a little stalker-ish

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