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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Slept with the ex and now I don't know what to do.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6173 days ago

30 November 2007 (M)

- So I slept with my ex last night. We dated for a year and had a horrible breakup, and wound up not talking for a whole year up until last night really. We ran into each other at a local pizza pub and then decided to meet up later at a bar. Anyways, last night felt as though ... (179 words)

The contacts are very infrequent. He also refused visiting me on holidays for financial matters even though I sent him my savings.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6230 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i've been in long distance relationship with my hunny for the past 2 yrs now and all was goin on well until september when he changed his university n he had to move out to other town. he stopped callin me so often as it used to be before coz he claims having financia... (201 words)

After I fainted 3 yrs ago, my penis has never been hard enough and I cannot last for more than 5 minutes. Medical results are apparently fine but the problem persists.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6230 days ago

30 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 29 and married. Around 3 years ago, when I was having sex atleast twice a day, I suddenly fainted in my bathroom and after 15 minutes or so, found myself on the bathroom floor. After that day onwards, my penis has never been hard enough. Something is wrong with my ... (321 words)

Do I need to moderate my high sex drive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6230 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I want to have sex with my boyfriend more than once a week and more than one time when we actually start. I like to bring new positions,places and even clothing to the act. I even e-mailed 7 new kamasutra positions to do together. Some times I call him and tell him to pick me ... (153 words)

Why cant I stop having sex with this married guy, I don't even like??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6229 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I am having a affair with a married man at work. I see him at least once a week when he comes into work in the AM, which is when we have sex, before I go home to my boyfriend of 15 years, who I really do love. The man I am having the affair with has been married 3 times, with ... (146 words)

How can I get my bf to clean his place??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6231 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - okay, been with my boyfriend for a year. we have had a few lulls in the relationship recently. just as things were looking up, i went over to his house to spend the night but the state of his house (hygiene, smell etc) made me feel ill and i didnt stay the night. i have felt ... (64 words)

He has problems ejaculating! Is it me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5858 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - mmm... wenever i masturbate my boyfriend.. give him oral.. or we have sex with me on top.. he gets no pleasure out of it + tells me to stop.. :/ its been like this since the 1st time and wev been together nearly a year. he has always had problems ejaculating and gets nothing... (126 words)

Why did she lash out at me when I've been good to her? Was I blind and foolish??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6231 days ago

30 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi there. I first used this site back in late April when I'd just started seeing a girl I work with. Since then, I've been on a rollercoaster ride of emotions and now I hope I've finally reached the end. So please bear with me. Thanks. I promised myself I'd take things slow... (711 words)

The kids at school tease me about my virginity and sex...Whatcan I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid the year 9s at my school keep on asking whether i'm a virgin or not. I reply I am and they start laughing. I've never even kissed a boy or had a proper relationship before; and I don't particurlly want to get teased about it... any halp please? YerMum x... (64 words)

Should I dump my boyfriend and go after the other guy??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6229 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hey,i was in love with this guy. when suddenly we became girlfreind and boyfreind.he had another girl on his mind at that time, but i was sure that he loved me.and worried that he will keep thinking about her. so we broke up( stayed freinds), he became her boyfreind, and after ... (133 words)

I need to know if he likes me...How do I get his attention?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6231 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - A few weeks ago I met this boy at a party, and we've been talking ever since ( txting and msning) everyday I've gotten a txt messege everyday from him first. I've been asking him simple questions like whats your favorite song est, but I don't know how to make this go any ... (79 words)

I work and I pay for everything. Is he just using me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6230 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - have been with my partner 9yrs he wont commit. i work and pay for all our kids needs, my partners clothes, a lot of the household bills and all new things that come into house. i even paid for the last two cars. i have to live by his rules and iv near had enough. just 39 what ... (104 words)

I heard that testosterone helps a woman's sex drive..can any female attest to this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6226 days ago

30 November 2007 (M)

age - A question for women. I have heard in a recent talk show a woman say to the host that she had taken testosterone as part of a treatment she was undergoing and under the influence of testosterone she said she was shocked how her sex drive and desires shot straight up. She ... (158 words)

I lost trust in him and I feel there should be something more solid..should I stay or go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6231 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Should I stay or should I go? -This is the fifth year of our relationship -We have a one-year old son -My boyfriend is about 3 years younger than me and not ready to commit to marriage any time soon. I feel our relationship should be more concrete by now. -He is leaving... (116 words)

When I am naked he doesn't get an erection...is this normal?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - What does it mean when you can be entirely naked in the shower, with your boyfriend talking to you (sat on the toilet) and he doesn't get an erection... Any ideas? Does it mean he doesn't find you arousing? Does it mean he could be gay? Does it perhaps mean he is having a... (82 words)

I think she is bored, with the relationship... should I let her go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6228 days ago

30 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - i have been with my girlfriend for almost 14 months. id like to believe that i treat her as well as i possibly can because she is my world. i met her when i was 16 and right when i met her i knew she was the one. we had an incredible relationship for a very long time until ... (306 words)

I'm thinking of just ending the relationship with my boyfriend to keep my Mom happy...advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6230 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help.. I'm 18 and in a long-distance relationship. I've been with him for 18months.. and I feel so happy with him. However, my mum has a problem with it. It's not that she doesn't like him.. because she does.. and she also lets me see him for 1-2 weeks at a time. The p... (342 words)

I still view her as a threat and it winds me up that she still texts him, What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6228 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - last year i broke up with my bf, after we went to my friends wedding as mates, but i still really liked him, one of my friends bridesmaids, her mate, kept tellin everyone how much she fancied my ex which drove me mad. recently and slowly me and my ex have started to get back ... (116 words)

We just don't seem to have anything in common anymore. Is my relationship over?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6231 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm trying to find out whether I'll regret ending my relationship (again!). My partner and I split up in February - this year after been seeing each other for just over 4 years although we didn't live together or anything. We each have children from previous relationships and ... (324 words)

Over-reacting about the future? Or is breaking up the only answer?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6228 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf and I have been going out for almost a year now, and we've gone through some dynamic ups and downs. About 6 months ago, I decided to do something that he told not do or else he would be break up with me. I didn't cheat, but to him, it felt like it. I lost his trust, but ... (255 words)

I am married...but am I normal to crave sex so bad with another woman?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6231 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm really confused about my sexuality. I'm pretty sure that I'm bi-sexual, but I'm not exactly sure. The only way I can really get sexually aroused when I have sex with my husband is if I think about gay sex. (That includes men and women). My husband never really ... (197 words)

No period...a negative urine test...but what will be the result of my blood test? Thoughts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6231 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello again! I previously wrote in saying i had pregnancy symptoms and they all went away. My period is due nov 21 - dec 1st...so far NOTHING! I went to the dr wed still negative by urine. Thursday i took a blood test..and the nurse is supposed to be calling me back. What d... (93 words)

Losing him once made me realise how much I loved him. But how do I trust again and put the past behind me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6229 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have quite a complicated situation. It may sound trivial to begin with, but please offer me advice, as I am so confused. I met a J about 18 months ago. I was in a relationship at the time, but it was not a healthy relationship at the time, and I did the wrong thing, and star... (948 words)

Could we be prosecuted?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 6125 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age - I have been involved in a loving sexual relationship with my sister's eldest son for close on ten years now. We became intimately involved when he was seventeen years old, and I thirty-one. We have a beautiful nine-year old daughter together. Our relationship is based on true ... (78 words)

She cheated and I can't trust her. Any suggestions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5842 days ago

30 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - have recently split with girlfriend of 1 1/2 years. we moved to new country together where she started a new stressful job. we had recently had a conversation about how we were not satisfied, and decided to take a break to think - we always got along brilliantly and had fun ... (184 words)

Does my new boss fancy me??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6191 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been working in my new job now for a few weeks, and i think one of my managers may have a crush on me, over the last few weeks hes been getting steadily more and more friendly towards me and i catch him staring at me alot. He always asks how my works going and helps me... (109 words)

Is it wrong to ask a guy out??

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it wrong to ask a guy to go out with you or should you just keep it old fashioned? ... (20 words)

I thought he would have moved onto someone else....but has he??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6230 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey all, I really need some advice, I'm not sure what to do. I have known this guy for a few years now, but about 12 months ago he text me and asked me out. He is about 23 years older than me. I told him I wasnt interested, but I was still prepared to be friends with him. He ... (254 words)

I am worried I am turning gay...but I don't want to be.

This question has 65 answers - newest was posted 4371 days ago

30 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a 13 year old boy and i am worried that i am turning gay. dont get me wrong, i dont hate gay people i just dont want to be gay. When i think about penises i get an erection. when i masturbate and i think about penises, i get an orgasm much more faster than when i think ab... (188 words)

He's married but it wont last...either somebody is going to get fed-up or killed.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6231 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age - I know I'm probably not gonna like what I hear, but I need to know what you think anyway. Several months ago I started seeing someone, and please take into consideration that we have known each other since childhood, and have since been great friends, but he is married. He was... (371 words)

What are the pro's and con's of swinging??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - What are the pro's and con's of swinging??... (8 words)

How do I ask a girl out face-to-face??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

30 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - If i ask out a girl face to face tell her everything how do i? After i tell her i like her, ask her out? We're both 17. Should i expect a reply? If she needs time how do i give her time? Won't it be awkward until i get the answer? Lol easiest option would be to run for my life ... (75 words)

Is he showing that we could still be friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6231 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

- I split wiv my ex 2 months ago, we recently made friends and I still really like him. The thing is, he seems to be sending me mixed signals and its really getting me down. Every time I see him we stop and talk and he asks me what Im doing at the weekend and whether I wanted to ... (236 words)

Can anyone please help me to get out of this depression?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I really need some advice right now. I am a complete mess. I have depression, have been on anti-depressants for several years. I have ups and downs, have had boyfriends who hurt me, but now i am with someone for 1 year that is truly fantastic. I am extremely insecure with ... (440 words)

Will his drug habit affect a baby?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6228 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey there. I was just hoping for some advice. My fiance and I are trying to get pregnant, but I'm concerned because he does have a history of weed/coke usage in recreation. He says he will quit for me to make sure the baby is healthy, but I don't know if it will stick. Will the ... (71 words)

How can I stop this male escort from blackmailing me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

30 November 2007 (M)

age - i had sex with another man..he was an escort..i paid him money..now he is blackmailing me for more money..which i gave him ..and now he wants more money from me..and he threatens to tell others about this experience if i dont pay him...it can ruin my life because of my work as ... (69 words)

Do I have reasonable grounds to be feeling insecure and jealous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been with my boyfriend for a little over a year we live together. I just don't trust him and just feel that he's not in love with me anymore. The lack of trust started when we first started dating. I saw on his myspace he was messaging back and fourth with different girls ... (379 words)

Do you think he's just after Sex from me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6231 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - ive known this guy for nearly 2 weeks and i really like him the thing is i dont think he belives me as i told him it again yesterday and he said ive not proved it to him, do you think hes just after sex,ive stayed over night at his place 5 times and yet nothings happened as i ... (110 words)

How the heck do I get this guys attention?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6231 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - A few weekes ago I met this boy at a party, and we've been talking ever since ( txting and msning) everyday I've gotten a txt messege everyday from him first. I've been asking him simple questions like whats your favorite song est, but I don't know how to make this go any ... (76 words)

I'm not sure if I'm masturbating "properly" can you help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6230 days ago

30 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - When I was young, I literally had no idea 'how' masturbation was 'meant' to be done. I wasn't aware of the conventional method, so perhaps in my naivety I just did what felt good. When masturbating, I would lie on my back and with the palm of my hand rub my penis against my... (282 words)

I think my ex-girlfriend has something called "Hypomania". Is there anyway I can address this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

30 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I just recently broke up with my girlfriend who I love a whole bunch because she didn't call me for a week and didn't come to see me on thanksgiving. However, as I'm sitting here I'm thinking back over the course of our relationship and I'm beginning to see that her moods were ... (433 words)

A male stripper forced my wife's hand down his underwear, and she touched his Penis. I say it's no big deal, but she feels guilty. IS it a big deal?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3044 days ago

30 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, this says I'm Male, but it's really both myself and my wife asking this. So please address your replies/advice to both of us. We are doing this together as a solution to our little problem. Here it is. My wife's very close friend is getting married. She had... (290 words)

Fallen for a guy 200 miles away... Soon to be 400 miles away. Can this work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6231 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, I'm divorced, but my marriage was a sham anyway. I met this guy over the internet. We have been talking, emailing text messages etc and have met up. I really really like him, and he's told me he likes me. Its been going on now for about 2 months, and i think I'm being to ... (86 words)

How can I overcome my shyness?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6231 days ago

30 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - i am 15 and i am dating a 12 year old i hav had a major crush on me for 9 months and a couple of months ago she told me she loved me, i asked her to b my girlfriend, she siad yes, we have been dating 3 weeks and we still havnt spoke face 2 face, we are both reli shy and i gets ... (95 words)

Is she right for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6231 days ago

30 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - there's this girl i've liked alot for over a year. Its come to a point where i'm crazy over but her am not asking her out because i'm scared of losing the great friendship we have. One of her friends, also mine who knows i like the girl told me that last time i walked past wh... (254 words)

I'm confused. Am I pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6231 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I had unprotected sex with my bf 6 days after my period went off and my period came right on time and was regular 5 days...and i have taken 7 preganacy test since then and its been weeks since i had unprotected sex....my period is coming on time again and every test i took came ... (112 words)

So much advice from sites like this is confusing me. What is the alternative?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6231 days ago

30 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - In the past 3 or 4 weeks since my ex and I broke up, I have become addicted to sites like this offering me advice as to what I need to do to get back with my girlfriend. The advice I have read has been very useful but I also know that my particular situation may require more ... (1564 words)

His double standards annoy me. Should I let him off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6231 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age - My ex husband has a very small penis and doesnt know how to pleasure me in bed. He only cares about himself. When he finishes he just snores away. This new man I've just met is much older than me. He knows every trick to please me in bed and has a big penis. I've never fe... (187 words)

I worry my girlfriend is hiding something in her past. How can I address the issue?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

30 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - hey people just wanted to know wot to do...ive been with my gf for about a year now we do hava good relationship..but theres a few things that bother me and im worried it may effect our relationship..we gave our vrginity to each other.. I keep getting the this gut fee... (182 words)

Is there such a thing as destiny? For everyone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6231 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hi guys..............is there such thing as destiny??? Is there someone for everyone out there???... (15 words)

I'm 21, she's 17... Is this too much of a difference?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6214 days ago

30 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - im 21 and thinking of asking a girl out thats 17. is that too young? opinions please.... (20 words)

Questions about orgasms during Sex.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6231 days ago

30 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm really not asking this because of my sex life,which has tremendously improved.Some of the questions posted 2day had me thinking.Though i came up with answers i need to hear what other people think.As a man,if your lover doesn't scream during your lovemaking does that ... (145 words)

I want my husband back! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6231 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a 32 year old woman, a high school teacher of children with special educational needs, a mother of two beautiful girls (age 5 and 2) and a wife. I have recently lost 7 stones in weight, have changed jobs, lost my grandfather, my parents have separated and my husband has ... (373 words)

My boyfriend doesn't seem to trust me. Why does he act this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6224 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i am 21 years old and my boyfriend is 32. we have a morgage together and i love him so much. i really need the answer to why my boyfriend thinks im staring and flirting at other blokes {young to old, really ugly to good looking} while we are out together. i dont do it and i ... (279 words)

I am dating another man but do not feel anything when he ejaculates, only a leakage. Do I learn to control my high drive or leave?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6231 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I've just divorced of my husband. The last year together we didnt have sex at all. He has got problem of erection and refuses to sort it out. Since then he doesnt even touches me. He makes me feel really bad. Now I've met this man 18 years older than me. He does ... (135 words)

I really feel his ex is trying to come between us, with actions she has undertaken, manipulation, gossip. Do you think I am overreacting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I just wanted people's views on the suituation I am in. I have been with my boyfriend 9 months. He was with a girl for 4 years before me, they had been split up for about 5 months prior to us getting together. In that time, my boyfriend said she did make an effort t... (385 words)

Didn't use protection 3 days before my period was due. 5 days late now. How late is late enough to worry?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6231 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey...I'm now 5 days late. I did have unprotected sex with my bf 3 days before my period was due....which was sunday...but it still hasn't come on now :S could I pregnant? How late is late enough to worry? Thanks for reading, any advice would be very much apreciated! xxxx... (50 words)

She spent the evening with a work-colleague the night before she came home but swears nothing sexual happened. Do I trust her less for this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6230 days ago

30 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been going out with my girlfriend for 5 years. This morning I found out that she spent the evening with a bloke from work the night before then came home to me. She swears she didn't have sex with him and that they just talked. I don't know what to do. I'm not angry just ... (69 words)

Why doesn't it pay to be a nice guy? Why are women attracted to unkind men, abusive, players?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6231 days ago

30 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Why dosen't it pay to be a nice guy? i do all i can 4 her and still no reward just get crap. I even tryed being bad to her and i got crap. So why are woman attracted to a%^ and *^*4? and why are they messed up? Someone tell me? because im so lost and confused.... (58 words)

Where are the best places to meet women 18-24 (and is it best to go solo?)

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6231 days ago

30 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Where is the best places to meet new woman aged 18 to 24? and is it better to be in a crowd or on your own to attracted them? need to know as many as i can. thanks... (38 words)

We decided to talk less frequently to avoid arguments. Is this the end of our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6231 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend moved to italy a few months ago, and we were in a really happy relationship. ive been over to visit once and he comes home for xmas soon. recently we've decided we talk to eachother too much, and this is causing us to have arguments, so we aggreed to speak less, ... (122 words)

Could there be a medical problem with me... I'm 19 and I've gone off sex (although oral sex is fine).

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6231 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

- hiya. recently i have completely gone off sex. i am a 19yr old female. ive been withmy bf 6 months and for the last 6 weeks not had sex cause iv just not wanted it. hes given me oral sex which i love my no matter how aroused i get i never want to turn it into sex!!! whats wrong ... (83 words)

I proposed, she accepted me - but now she suddenly wants to break up thinking I have cheated. How do I convince her of the truth?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6231 days ago

30 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I'v been in a long distance realtionship with this really wonderful gurl since 7months...we've been liking each other since 2 years now but then it took me time to propose her and then she accepted me.now 7months down the line she wants to break up with me cuz thinks i'v ... (106 words)

We are of different nationalities and our parents do not allow us to date. How to handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6231 days ago

30 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been in a relationship with an Asian girl for about five months now and I have two problems in one (*gasp*). First is that her parents don't want her to go out with anyone until she's 18 (she's 14 and I'm 15) and the fact that she's Asian and I'm Greek so they don't wa... (126 words)

I can't forgive my husband. Should I contact the "other woman"?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - i discovered that my husband had an affair back in the summer, he said it was sex only once and meant nothing, but he took her out to lunch at an expensive restaurnat and contiued phone contact for about a month. he has beg to keep our marriage together but i cant forive him ... (86 words)

Facing Christmas with a broken heart. How can I stop the depression?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

30 November 2007 (M)

- Hi everyone Thanks for helping me, I'm now doing my best to try to get over the heartbreak of the last couple of weeks. The only thing I'm worried about is the festive season coming up. I get a fortnights break during Christmas and am worried about how I will keep myself occu... (214 words)

How do I need to act around a colleague at work I like?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6228 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - We are colleagues at work. I know him more then one year but I was his girlfriend just two weeks, two months ago. We have broken up on bad way by his fault. I was totally broken, he left at home one month (he is from Thailand) and I blocked him for any contact. One month ago, ... (201 words)

Together 12 years, 5 kids, and split up in October. I want him back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6231 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello I was with my man for about 12 years we have five children which we recently had twin daughters about 5 months ago, we broke up last October, and he just recently got in another relationship. But he still calls me, we still sleep together, and he tells me he loves me all ... (100 words)

My depressed gf dumped me but I have fallen for her.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6228 days ago

30 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend came round this week and told me that she cannot be in a relationship and that we are over. We have only been together 2 1/2 months but have clicked from day one, haave perhaps gone too fast but generally things have been great. The companionship, bedroom etc etc ... (216 words)

Diabetes affecting the aspect of males' sexual organs?

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30 November 2007 (F)

age - Does diabetes affect the way in which a guy's testicles hang (or don't hang) ... ?... (16 words)

A new way to verify your partner has not been cheating during your time apart?

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30 November 2007 (F)

age - My 'lover' says that his friends wife always knew if he'd been faithful when away on business, as his testicles would be 'high' (indicating abstinence) - I've never heard of this, is it true ... ?... (36 words)

Received a "friend add request" on facebook from my EX's potential bf. Why?

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30 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone. Last time I messaged, I sounded like I was really making progress in healing my heart. The last thing I needed was a step in the wrong direction, and I think it may have just happened at the end of a night that was going very nicely. I'd been out drinkin... (277 words)

Is this just sex or a relationship? Should I just go along with it, and hopefully he will "catch on" ?

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30 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, So, I have been thinking. I really like this guy, and he likes me, we aren't dating, but have had sex a few times. We didn't mean to the first time, we were pretty messed up. But, we had been talking for almost a year or so about dating. He told me that we could keep this ... (163 words)

I found a pregnancy test and a female's picture in my husband's toolbox. I suspect an affair.

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30 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i found a pregancy test in my husband toolbox and a pic. of a girl. he told me that the test and the pic. had been in thier a long time,the test was his exwife and the girl he don`t rem... how do i no he telling me the truth. rem.. he lied to me about a affair he had 2 years ... (64 words)

Do you remain in contact with someone if they were emotionally abusive to you?

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30 November 2007 (F) - When you break up with someone, what should be the rule on how long it is before you talk to them? I always heard at least 3 months. But, do you remain in contact with someone if they were emotionally abusive to you? Or, should you just forgive them but move on and not remain ... (121 words)

She said no but I cant stop thinking about her.

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30 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 13 and I asked out a girl i have known for 3 years and when I asked her she said no but that day i felt so bad i went to the office 3 times and i felt like i wanted to die but now I cant stop thinking abbout her what should i do?... (57 words)

How do I get over him if he is still contacting me? Does he want reconciliation or is just feeling comfortable in talking as purely friends?

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30 November 2007 (F) - I broke up with my ex about two months ago and we hadn't talked for about 3 weeks because I told him to leave me alone on several occasions. Then, he texted me last night saying he wishes me well. Then, I texted him back to say I was sorry for the last hurtful things I said to ... (249 words)

Do I wait for him or move on. He says he loves me but he is in another relationship currently.

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30 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - let me start it like this... me and rocky were dating for 2 1/2 years during that period of time i kissed a few guys and came clean n he had another girlfrien and got caught. we broke up. now he's dating another girl and i want him back. the problem is that he doesn't want ... (158 words)

Should I go out with him... ? Because *I'm* not that much of a freak!

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30 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - im popular and so is this boy that likes me. but he likes to do freaky things with his girlfriends. i would kiss him and dub him but i might not do the things his other girlfriends have. should i go out with him and stay shy? dont go out with him? or go ouyt with him and stop ... (67 words)

We are getting married, but he's neglecting me in bed, is there hope I can turn this around?

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30 November 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello, Well I have a bit of a problem. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years, and we are going to be married in a few months. When we were first together, he was a sensual and giving lover, and did perform oral sex on me occasionally. But as time has gone on our sex has beco... (235 words)

Early teenager, wanting to look older without using make-up.

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30 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i put my phone on mute when i was talking to the boy i liked and our friend. when they thought i was off the phone the said something about me and my two best friends. they said one of my friends look like their in highschool, the other looks like the grade she is in, and that ... (77 words)

I feel like she gets a lot of the intellectual and social parts you want in a relationship from me. But gets kissed by the other guy. Confusing!

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30 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Let me just jump right into it... She is dating another bloke. Their relationship isn't all that great and isn't terrible. I just don't expect it to last much longer. I really like this girl and have for sometime. And yes, I made a move this summer and got put in the f... (275 words)

My gf periodically posts degrading pictures of herself in the net, semi-naked. Do I over react?

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30 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been seeing a girl for a year and a half. She is amazing, but here is my problem. She will periodically post degrading pictures of herself on her Facebook as her profile picture. The first one was of her knealing (or standing, I couldnt tell) by her bed, in jus... (253 words)

I have been very picky about relationships, but now that I met a special girl we don't "click" in the bedroom! What do I do?

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30 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I haven't had a girlfriend in a few years, because Ive been very picky. I've finally met a girl who I think the world of. We get along better than anyone Ive ever met in my life. She's extremely attractive, and she feels the same way about me. The problem is in the ... (71 words)

We broke up, now he's dissing me, but I still love him, should I just give up or can we be friends?

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30 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex boyfriend and I broke up about a month ago. There was no betrayal involved and it was mutual, but he has been nothing but rude to me ever since. He says he wants me to be happy, but he makes fun of me with his friends and gives me mean and unnecessary comments that only ... (241 words)

If a guys says that you're annoying, does this mean he likes you... ? Or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6232 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys. What does a guy mean when he says that you're annoying or irritating?? Does he like you is he being mean??? Help!!!... (24 words)

I accidentally went to a porn site... what should I do?

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30 November 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - i accidentally got onto a porn site. i wasn't sappose to. what should i do?... (17 words)

Did I offend him?

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30 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Lately I've been baking a lot and I take some of the cookies and stuff to church. I gave some of the cookies to this guy and later he came over while I was talking to my friend to say thanks. I wasn't really paying attention and I quickly brushed him off with a "You're w... (288 words)

A neighbour changing in view of my wife and I!!!

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30 November 2007 (M)

age - Hi Over the past few weeks our neighbour has been putting on a show in their bed room. What I mean by this is, she get undressed and gets changed without drawing the blinds. My wife and I can see all this from our lounge room if we have our blinds open. My wife and I are n... (92 words)

I can't move on, I can't decide how I feel or what I want or why he's acting the way he is...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6232 days ago

30 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I am going through so much crap with my ex boyfriend. I'm 18 and was going out with him for 2 years ..he broke up with me through a text on monday but I was out and had been drinking so i didnt remember reading it ..rang him the next morning totally normal, then he told ... (649 words)