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writes:Hey. We just moved to the US from Germany.Im worried about my daughter.She just went to a halloween get'to'gether.Does anyone know what they do their?She's 16.Also, what do girls her age do at New Years?Stay at home with family? Or to a friends house? I have no idea, maybe some teens will help me understand!! Thank you so much. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2007): i am a teen and well all we do is sex drugs and rocknroll! Seriously whenever we get an oppurtunity it is cocaine, unprotected sex and deafening music.....
kidding.....
honestly nothing really happens, just some films or games or we just talk nothing much. don't worry.
good luckxxxxxx
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reader, babewithbrains  +, writes (4 November 2007):
 Hullo!
If you are really worried about her you should talk to her, over dinner is not the best time, obviuosly, but you can talk to her some other time, in a car journey when it's just you & her (and possibly the dog). she probably will get a boyfriend soon enough, so make sure you talk about boys too! If you think she is having sex or something, talk about it, don't get angry, she doesn't need you turning against her yet, but make sure she understands teenage pregnacy is awful and stupid, because you can't live a normal life, and niether can the kid. Tell her some stories (be imaginative!) about when things go wrong, but not so extreme, and say how important contraception is and how you can catch STI's (sexually transmitted diseases).
Good luck with your move and I'm sure everything will be just brilliant. (it always is when you are keen!)
Bye bye!
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reader, babewithbrains +, writes (4 November 2007):
Hullo!
If you are really worried about her you should talk to her, over dinner is not the best time, obviuosly, but you can talk to her some other time, in a car journey when it's just you & her (and possibly the dog). she probably will get a boyfriend soon enough, so make sure you talk about boys too! If you think she is having sex or something, talk about it, don't get angry, she doesn't need you turning against her yet, but make sure she understands teenage pregnacy is awful and stupid, because you can't live a normal life, and niether can the kid. Tell her some stories (be imaginative!) about when things go wrong, but not so extreme, and say how important contraception is and how you can catch STI's (sexually transmitted diseases).
Good luck with your move and I'm sure everything will be just brilliant. (it always is when you are keen!)
Bye bye!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2007): Are there any parents in the neighbourhood that you can have a chat to and maybe see what their kids get up to during these holiday times. Maybe have a chat with your child and find out how she is settling in and what she likes to do. Does she have any special friends? I wish you well with your move in the future.
take care
xx
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (4 November 2007):
 Why don't you sit down with your daughter and talk to her about what she gets up to. Ok she might not be 100% truthful with you but talking to her may make her realise that she can talk to you about anything.
It varies per 16 year old what they get up to. She may be having a perfectly innocent time with her friends.
xxxxxxx
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