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writes:me and my boyfriend have been dating for 5 months and some boy at my school called me and i had told my boyfriend how i have been friens with him, he says like he feels like i am hiding stuff from him but says he knows im not cheating on him and doesnt feel like he can trust me anymore and he says he loves me but cant date me for much longer if i cant gain his trust back, how am i supposed to gain back his ttrust? Reply to this Question
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reader, Madbilly  +, writes (5 November 2007):
I think that if you have no problem with your boyfriend having female friends then he needs to understand that it cant be a rule for one and not the other. Maybe you should introduce you boyfriend to your friend. Show him that there is nothing dodgy going on. If you keep proving him wrong I am sure he will back down and relax. If he is very insecure then you may need to do a bit of work, that is if you feel your relationship is worth it.
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reader, starfairy +, writes (4 November 2007):
 Someone as deeply insecure as your boyfriend isn't really worth the hassle because in all honesty, you will NEVER be able to gain his trust 100%.
So you had a friend you didn't mention? So what? Is that such a big deal? No. Does that actually warrant him saying he will dump you because he can't trust you now? NO!!
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