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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I had sex with him on the first night out, which I had never done before! Now he accuses me for that!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6241 days ago

19 November 2007 (F)

age - I am 45 just divorced and met this man. He seems genuine and caring and loving. I've been unhappy for a long time in my marraige for years. So I decided to go for this man. I had sex with him on the first night out. It's something I've never done in my whole life. I was ... (164 words)

My bf puts his ex who he has a child with above me, should I leave him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6241 days ago

19 November 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been dating this guy for a little over a year now and I'm concern that he's not over his ex-girlfriend, which by the way is his baby mother.(She lives in Florida now) When we first started dating he made a trip to go visit his son. But he stayed at her house and couldn't ... (206 words)

Do guys really break up with girls because they aren't shaved to turn them on?...

This question has 41 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

19 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I read a comment the other day on here and it got me really nervous...a guy said that one of his girlfriends wasnt shaved in her pubic area and he didnt end up getting really serious with her. I love my boyfriend a lot and he loves me, but im not very shaved down there, and ... (104 words)

Any ideas as to how I could possibly make it up to her and maybe be have another chance with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6240 days ago

19 November 2007 (M)

age - Hiya, let me start by saying a few years ago i became unwell (mentaly), a couple who stuck by me through this time, started to have a relationship breakdown. In 05 they split but got back together again a few months later, but obviously wasn't the same, i started to get well... (205 words)

Don't a lot of prostitutes have to sleep with overweight old men?? I feel like one if I have sex with my husband because of his weight-gain - he's clinically obese now and refuses diets.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6177 days ago

19 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 27 and have been married to my husband, who's 32, for 5 years now. He's become 26 stone and refuses to lose weight, despite me telling him that it could cause problems - but he insists "it's better to be fat and happy than thin and unhappy!". Yet a few months ago (well... (349 words)

Met a Turkish man on holiday, we're in love and he wants me to move with him but I have two children. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6241 days ago

19 November 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have met a younger Turkish man on holiday. I have been back to see him since and it confirmed how we both felt. I have been married for 18 years and have never felt how i felt with him.I am at present going through a divorce......before i met him. He wants me to go live with ... (138 words)

We have been fighting a lot and thought we needed space, so she's moved back into her own place, claiming a short break. How do I make her happy again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6241 days ago

19 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Me and my fiance have been togeather for 3 1/2 years we have been engaged since april of 07. My question is she has just recently moved into her own place about two weeks ago because we have been fighting alot and thought that we needed some space to think. last night she said ... (115 words)

I have a horrible feeling if he could trade me for his dead ex gf, I'd be dead and he'd be with her. I've always been the type to think the worst. Help before I ruin my relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6171 days ago

19 November 2007 (F) - I lost my virginity to my boyfriend at aged 20, I'm 21 now, he is two years younger than me, I was sensible about it as I've had over 15 boyfriends and he was the only really genuine guy. This is becoming an obsession with me though now, he lost his at aged 14 to a girl the ... (323 words)

Am I being pedantic? I thanked him courteously for the night out but he didn't reply!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6242 days ago

19 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - am i being pedantic? i saw someone whom i had not seen in a while and we ended up going to a club together. No. nothing happened, infact, we just had a laugh and stuff, which was really nice. i email this person to say ' oh. thanks for the randon night, was good seeing you'... (140 words)

My friend has a bf and a child, is it wrong if I start a relationship with her ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6242 days ago

19 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid.. When i was 16 my best friend was involved with a lad in my class she was a year older than me and was with this boy for a year he was her 1st boyfriend.Its been 2 years and shes moved on she has a baby and a boyfriend now, we're very close and i always see her. ... (149 words)

We watch porn together, she admires the bigger packages, does this mean she is likely to cheat?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6242 days ago

19 November 2007 (M)

age - I’ve been watching X-rated movies with my wife. More than we used to do, she's more relaxed watching it. She keeps hinting at how my penis is smaller than those guys we see on porn. Almost every time she has to make a remark like "wow, look at the size of that!" It’s ... (152 words)

We're both timid, and let the summer pass with no contact. Have I lost my chances?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6241 days ago

19 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I really liked this guy and he said he liked me too but we were both too shy to do anything about it. This summer we barely talked and this year I have no classes with him, but I still really like him! I feel like I have missed my chance with him. I would be willing to talk to ... (87 words)

He sends me endless texts but doesn't firm up a date. Why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6241 days ago

19 November 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I met a guy and we connected straight away, we've been out on 3 dates and agreed to meet again, however all he seems to do is send me texts and wont firm up a date, this has now gone on for weeks. he keeps asking me if i want to see him again and I say yes but he then just ... (74 words)

I have starting drinking a bit lately as it makes me feel numb. Can you help me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6242 days ago

19 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I really need some answers, if anybody feels like they can help me then please feel free..... I am starting to feel like im falling apart in a way. I havent had a proper relationship in over a year now i feel like i just cant trust people. Normal things have happend to me paren... (115 words)

Tips about anal sex? Last time we tried it, it felt weird thus I asked him to stop.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6235 days ago

19 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend really wants to have anal sex. Were going to try but im nervous. We tried it once before and we couldnt really get it in, it got in a little but it felt weird to me and i didnt like it and told him to stop. Since were going to try it again does anyone have any ... (114 words)

Should he tell the world he is in love or should he be sensitive to his ex's?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6240 days ago

19 November 2007 (F)

age - I am recently in love. He says he loves me very much however doesnt want to say or post anything about that as he thinks it's like flaunting it in front of ex-girlfriends faces and doesnt want to hurt them. I feel he is more sensative to their feelings than to mine. Should he ... (71 words)

Me and my bf want to have sex, but where do we buy condoms from and is it possible to buy them at the age of 16?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6241 days ago

19 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone! Me and my boyfriend want to have sex, but we need condoms. I know some friends who would give them to me but those are old and could be risky to use, so we want new ones. Where could i get some? Is it possible to get them at my age of 16? Is my only option going to ... (65 words)

I don't think I can be rejected, there's nothing else that is "worth it." Advise, please.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6241 days ago

19 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i cant do this anymore i met a guy online and im so into him its crazy we texted and talked on the fone for like 3 weeks so into each other and its kind of fading off, he doesnt seem interested anymore and when i mentioned going to see him this weekend he was properly vague ab... (109 words)

Although he didn't want to rush into sex some of his texts are quite sexually orientated. We currently have a "text relationship." Opinions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6239 days ago

19 November 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I met a guy recently and we went out on a few dates, the first couple of dates were just a kiss at the end of the night, on the third date he stayed over we did everything but intercourse he told me he didnt want to rush into having sex..since then he has texted me all the time ... (210 words)

How do I avoid the feelings of sexual desire at the age of 12?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6242 days ago

19 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i have a b/f and we want to have sex. juss to let u no he is not pressuring me. i no that we r to young at the age of twelve and i am sure that i don't want to ruin my life by having sex. how so i get rid of the feelings that i have to have sex??? Please help... (66 words)

I find it hard forming friendships, I struggle to bond emotionally, can anyone help me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6161 days ago

19 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't know where to start, I guess I just feel like I need some answer's and maybe someone out there can help. I have been through alot in my 25 years, I certainly know that the 31 times I have moved doesn't help, I have lost myself I do believe. I have a daughter and she is ... (286 words)

He cheated on me, help me get this out of my head?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6241 days ago

19 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for over three years. He ended up cheatin on me wen he had to move back home earlier this year. i haven't forgiven him as such but i am givin him a second chance. i can't stop thinkin that he is lyin to me i know i'm partly paranoid because of what ... (199 words)

My bf met up with his ex , he said nothing happened, but she told me she wants him back, what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6241 days ago

19 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Before I had a profile I wrote anonymously about the fact that my boyfriend is still friends w/ his ex and I found out that he went to eat lunch w/ her two days after my birthday, which he did not tell me about because he didn't think it was important since it was a "business" ... (469 words)

He told me to be patient and wait for our relationship to get public. It's a secret one now as he has a gf. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6241 days ago

19 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a secret relationship with a boy cause he has a girlfriend? He told me to be patient and wait for our relationship to get public? But i dont believe that much, so i need help? I love him. What should i do? Should i do something so he would stay just with me?... (55 words)

When my clothes come off I tense up and loose my erection! What should I do??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6242 days ago

19 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I have no problem getting erections while masterbating or anytime but when me and my girlfriend are getting into it and my clothes come off i tense up and loose my erection! what should I do??... (36 words)

Should I tell my boyfriend how I feel about certain things even though I think it is more my problem than his?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6242 days ago

19 November 2007 (F)

- I have a constant problem when it comes to be honest about how I feel. My boyfriend is a very sensitive person and cares a lot about how I feel. When I’m upset about something my boyfriend did, I always make excuse on why he did that. For example, he slept until noon on the ... (222 words)

I have a gut feeling she tries to hide things about her past from me. Should I say something to her or just let it go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6242 days ago

19 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - hey people just wanted to know wot to do...ive been with my gf for about a year now we do hava good relationship..but theres a few things that bother me and im worried it may effect our relationship..we gave our vrginity to each other.. I keep getting the this gu... (192 words)

I feel insecure, I have a huge problem with jealousy and I have a problem getting close to people, what can I do to start feeling happy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6242 days ago

19 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - hi people! I know this is a common question on here, I just wanted to know how I can overcome jealousy?its a horrible feeling n its effecting my life..I also have a problem with comparing my life to others n finding how much more better their life is incomparison to mine, I ... (178 words)

I don't love him but I love to feel loved by him, am I not fair on him and should let him go??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6242 days ago

19 November 2007 (F)

age - I am 45 met this man when I am going through my divorce. I've been married for 20 years. I love my husband but it didnt work out so I have to let go but that really hurts. It's so nice there is someone there for you when you are in trouble. He has been great help throughout ... (147 words)

My ex husband won't leave me alone even though it has been 3 years since the divorce and he is living with another woman, what can I do??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6110 days ago

19 November 2007 (F)

age - My ex husband and i am divorced. We have been apart for three years now. but he won't leave me alone. I did or probably dolove him so much that i have been unable to let him go. To be blunt he is living with another woman but sometimes sees me 3 times a week and somestimes once ... (123 words)

We got back together again after a few months apart but it's not the same anymore. Has anyone else been through this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6242 days ago

19 November 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - How do I really know if my relationship is over? I got back with my ex about 10 weeks ago after being apart since earlier in the year. This was my decision. My ex kept texting me to try and we somehow got back together early September. Now though I can't look at the ... (169 words)

He gave me a pen for a gift, does it mean he likes me??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6242 days ago

19 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - this guy that i like gave me a pen for a gift does it mean anything ?... (17 words)

We've been together since we were 5, now we are 13 and want to start having sex, what to do??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6240 days ago

19 November 2007 (?) age 30-35 - hi im 13 and im going out with a boy the same age and we have known eachother since we were 5 and have always been close. We sneak around because we dont want everyone to know about us. not even our parents know because they will tell people. Please help we wanna go furthe... (67 words)

My friend cant decide which guy she wants. Any advice would be appreciated..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6242 days ago

19 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Here on behalf of a very very very close friend. She has a boyfriend who all in all, is a lovely bloke. theyve been together for about 9 months... problem is his family and friends really don't like my friend. lets call him Joe. She fell for a guy about three years ago an... (300 words)

How do I stop myself thinking about my guy and I having sex? Its affecting my work and my mum is wondering why I'm so figety!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6242 days ago

19 November 2007 (F)

- Hey there, this is a mix of two questions really, um... where to begin... im 17 ive been with my guy ( whose 18) almost 6 months and we've had sex only twice but last night was fantastic and i cant stop thinking about it but my mum has noticed that im really figity but i cant ... (122 words)

Him keeping in touch with his ex makes me aggrivated! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6242 days ago

19 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for a little over 7 months now. We dated in high school for like 3 months and have been friends ever since. All together its been about 7 years. Everything is going good except for the fact that he still calls his ex girlfriend all the time. Whenever ... (98 words)

I prefer this new guy. How do I get out the relationship I am in?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6242 days ago

19 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I aleady have a boyfreind, we have been going out for a week now, but i have met this new boy and we both like eachother, he is 5 years older than me, we both want 2 get with eacother but cant bcasue of my boyfreind please help me! I want this other boy more than ever, but i do... (67 words)

What can I do to feel more attracted to my guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6242 days ago

19 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi ALL I posted a question earlier today - and i'm not sure if i asked in the correct way. But i would really appreciate more answers. The question was posted as: I fell out of love with my bf - what can I do to restore the passion? Please please please - anyone.... (63 words)

My new guy still works with his recent ex. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6242 days ago

19 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly five months now, we have known each other for 18 months. When I met him he was still with his wife and I with my boyfriend. Now he is legally seperated from her and planning on getting a divorce when he can afford it. BUT they still work ... (136 words)

He texted his ex, but I had sex with mine. How do I get the ex out of my head?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6242 days ago

19 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly a year. a few months back i found out that he's been dirty texting his best mates ex. who he always used to slag off to me. anyway i told him that i knew bout the texts and he owned up, was very sorry, changed his number and deleted her ... (115 words)

Is it his morals that prevent him having sex with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6242 days ago

19 November 2007 (?) age 41-50 - I’ve been seeing this guy on and off for three years (I’m 26, he’s 27). The reason it’s been “on and off” for so long is pretty much due to horrible timing. I was just starting a new relationship when we first met, then he was in one…I travel often for work and he’s been ... (246 words)

How can I find the desire to commit to a serious relationship and forget about my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6242 days ago

19 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Long time Aunt, first time asker = ) Now then, I haven't had what could be classed as a "relationship" for almost a year now, but have been going out a lot with friends (1-3 times a week) and 9 times out of 10 not going home alone. Most of these girls are nice, friendly, ... (212 words)

To save us more pain, should I just walk away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6242 days ago

19 November 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, my boyfriend have been doubting about us. As a result he can't get physically intimate with me. He says he loves me and has a great time. When I ask if he wants to take a break and start seeing each other, he says he doesn't want to or the thought has not crossed his mind. ... (199 words)

Does she just see me as someone to talk to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6242 days ago

19 November 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - hi im a single dad of three , in the last three months i noticed this lady at the kids school , I'd not noticed her before the new term started, which is funny as one of her girls is in my sons class, and i tend to stand be my self and people watch, i do talk to a lot of people ... (188 words)

Should I go to social services??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6242 days ago

19 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My brother is 15 years old and my mum has let my cousin and his wife live with them in his room "for a little bit.” for the second time this year. But it is a 3 bed roomed house, my mum in one of the big rooms. My 18-year-old brother in the small room and My 15 years old ... (168 words)

Is a peck on the lips cheating??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6242 days ago

19 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it considered cheating if you peck a close friend (of the opposite sex) on the lips, if you have been going out with someone for approximately two months? I am driving myself insane thinking that it is. Anyone I ask thinks I'm being silly! Could you please help me out and ... (60 words)

I worry that he isn't ready.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6242 days ago

19 November 2007 (F)

- hi all, This could become a very long story if I let it , so i'll try to keep it short. Basically I'm the girlfriend of a widower (of 4 years) , and the relationship has had many up's and down's over 3 years , including a split for 3 months. We've established we w... (362 words)

I think I'm losing my mind! Is it possible to love two people?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6242 days ago

19 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, i have been in a relationship with my fiance for 4 years and have a beautiful child by him. I care about him, would do anything for him and dont know wot i would do if i lost him. We have a very close group of friends whom we spend alot of time with, i have also been ... (487 words)

I don't want my parents to break up my relationship. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6242 days ago

19 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi. i've been with my guy for almost 2 years. We love each other a lot however for the past few months we've been fighting about little stuff and big stuff. We'd get into arguements about nothing and then make up..and then we'd get into big fights where i refused to call for ... (401 words)

He sent a text to his ex-wife, ending with an "x". I feel like I've been kicked in the teeth. Do I confront him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6242 days ago

19 November 2007 (F)

age - just back from hols with my boyfriend. looked at one of his texts he had sent to his ex wife. at the end of the text he ended it with a x. (they have three children together and have been separated for twelve years). i know it was wrong to look at his mob but i have, he doesnt ... (100 words)

I'm so attracted to this girl I've started seeing, but she doesn't want anything serious. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6242 days ago

19 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - i'm heavily attracted to this girl who i have just started having a sexual relationship with but she doesn't want to have a serious relationship while i do. she is very flirty with other guys but admits that but would never do anything but i still feel very jeolous. she says ... (70 words)

Can your period start when you're having Sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6242 days ago

19 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - im due on my period this week but am spending it with my boyfriend, the thing is can your period start when your having sex?... (25 words)

I'm interested in a popular guy, but I'm scared to make a move. Please advise.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6242 days ago

19 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I'm a 18 year old girl and I have a big crush in this guy, I'm really crazy about him. The problem is he doesn't know me and he is a little bit famous but still grounded. I'm not interested to his popularity, I liked him before he even became famous. I'm scared to ... (96 words)

Together 3 months, we argue constantly and there is an 8 year gap between us. Are we doomed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6242 days ago

19 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my bf for 3 months now and we constantly argue about alot of things. There is an 8 year gap between us im younger than him, the age doesnt really borther me but what does is his constent yelling and going off at me when i do something wrong or have a say about ... (87 words)

I'm still a virgin at 39, but how do I tell anyone that?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6229 days ago

19 November 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Growing up shy, I have never been a girl magnet. I generally fall into the "Nice Guy" category. I have been in a few relationships in my life, but nothing serious. I am uncomfortable making small talk, I am bald and wear glasses, so needless to say my social life is pretty ... (204 words)

I'm depressed and hate to admit it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6242 days ago

19 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi,i'm a 22 yr female,a medical student,just completed 4th yr,internship starts in march,totally free till then.i have 2 very close friends of mine, nisha and mohit.both r going around since 2nd yr.mohit belongs 2 some other city,while i n nisha r localites.in d mid of 4th year ... (291 words)

Give another chance or forget about him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6240 days ago

19 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this lad, we got to know each other then became boyfriend and girlfriend. When we did start going out then i found out he was tagged by the police for drug possesion and he now still smoking weed,im totally against drugs like that. I gave him the ultimatum me or the weed, ... (194 words)

How to have a good lasting relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6235 days ago

19 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i need help on how to take back my boyfriend. advice me on how to keep a good lasting relationship. i need help on how to treat my boyfriend. how do i maintain my relationship.... (44 words)

What do you say to start up a conversation?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6242 days ago

19 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am 22 and ive never had any luck with girls but i want to change this as i am fed up of being single. i am going clubbing on my birthday and want to chat some girls up but i have absolutely no idea where to start. for example you see a girl on the dancefloor o... (105 words)

How do I let him know I'm interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6242 days ago

19 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Theres this guy who I'm falling for, and when I say falling for I'm falling hard for him. I've never felt this way about anyone else. I'm even dreaming about him at night! The thing is he's really quite shy, and he has never had a girlfriend. I really want something to happen ... (121 words)

Does she fancy me or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6240 days ago

19 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I do all my schooling through correspondance, anyway i met this girl through one of my maths classes weekly teleconferences. Anyway this was back in yr 10, talked to her for ages on msn etc, really started to like her :P Our yr12 formal was coming up and i asked her back in ... (317 words)

How do I explain it to my GP?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6242 days ago

19 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 28yr old female and I have been with my girlfriend for about 5 years and I love her very much but we don't have sex or make love because I don't have the urge. I really want to make love to my girlfriend but I don't have sexual feelings in my mind. There is days when ... (154 words)

My boyfriend is a cross-dresser. Is he a time bomb waiting to go off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6243 days ago

19 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i befriended a work collegue who confided in me he was a cross dressser. he and i became close and during my turbulent marriage, we would go out to clubs as friends. he never dressed in drag during our outings. the only time i saw him in drag prior to our romance was on ... (389 words)

What are his reasons?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6242 days ago

19 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My b/f never told me that he loves me like before. i had ask him that a lady needs to hear sweet words form her lover. You know what he says "Honey, i know what i have to do or say, u dont have to tell/remind me, i got reasons why" I ask myself what are the reasons... (58 words)

I'm totally confused - what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6243 days ago

19 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, i am a bit messed up. I am married over a year now, my husband walk out after 7 months of marriage, i was devastated, left my job and move home, he was confused and wanted to be single again, anyhow, he asked me back and i went back as i still loved him. Few months p... (240 words)

He's giving too many mixed signals. Should I move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6242 days ago

19 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been talking to this guy everyday for the past two weeks; whether through actual phone conversation or via text messages. And when we're on the phone(which is every other day), we talk for hours on end about everything. He told me he enjoyed being single but also missed ... (194 words)

How do I get our sex life back on track?

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19 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 20 years old and my girlfriend is 25. When our relationship started we were having amazing sex at least 3 times a day, everyday.At around the 4th month she said something like "this is the longest i've ever been interested in sex". in her previous relationships she would be ... (158 words)

I fell out of love with my bf - what can I do to restore the passion?

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19 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello all. I really need help - seriously. Okay. My bf and i have been together for a year and a half. Things were very passionate in the beginning of our relationship, but then we went through some difficult times. We worked through our difficult times, and moved in toge... (384 words)

Should I leave her, or give her the second chance she is begging for? She's cheated, but I have too, in the early stage of our relation.

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19 November 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello, My relationship is complex, but most relationships are. I am very sexually experienced, my gf is (was) not (ratio of partners was something like 40-1). This has always been a sore point. My girlfriend is 15 years younger than me and we have been dating for 4 yea... (543 words)

Should I give him the benefit of the doubt?

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19 November 2007 (F)

age - a few months ago i found a note in my husbands pocket written by a woman who works for him. I had helped him with some of his reports once and I knew her writing. It was very graphic talking about great orgasms. I confronted him and was told it wasn't to him, she had written it ... (244 words)

I need to move on - is it a good idea?

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19 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel so stupid...he has cheated many times and he has stoped but messed up by talking to someone over the phone! Its small but big to me cause of his past. I wanna be with him but I wanna see other people only because I know I need to move on and it will be easy to do if he's ... (103 words)

How do I tell him I'm insecure?

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19 November 2007 (F)

- I understand communication is the key to any relationship. If I want to tell my boyfriend I'm insecure with out relationship, what is the best way to tell him. Letter? Email? Phone? MSN? In person?... (35 words)

How do I tell him how I'm feeling?

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19 November 2007 (F)

- I loved my boyfriend. We have been together for 2 years. I used to miss seeing him. Lately, I don't know if I can see our future together. We have a few issues that can never be able to solve. All I can do is say: I love him and therefore I have to accept everything about him. ... (176 words)

How can I change his way of thinking?

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19 November 2007 (F)

- My boyfriend has been though a divorce when he was young. I understand you learn a lot from a divorce. When you get separated, you split up all assets, everything including pots and pans. I know my boyfriend loves me and trusts me very much. He told me many times he wants to ... (190 words)

Should I see a doctor about this?

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19 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I have this odd problem I have had for years and I want to make sure something isn't wrong with me. I haven't spoken to a doctor since it's kind of embarrassing... Anyways, whenever I ejaculate be it sex or masturbation, I always have a severe urge to urinate to the point whe... (142 words)

Is it normal for my boyfriend to have had gay sex?

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19 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and i have been dating for years and are about to get married. However he just told me in middle school he had gay sex with his best friend. Is this normal or what? What should I do? ... (40 words)

How can I get my boyfriend to understand what dancing is all about?

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19 November 2007 (F)

- I used to ballroom dance with my best guy friend (not very good, but it was a lot of fun). After I dated my boyfriend since two years ago, I stopped dancing simply because my boyfriend thinks dancing is a very intimate thing to do and I should only be doing it with my ... (210 words)

Will he regret moving in together?

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19 November 2007 (F)

- My boyfriend and I have been dating for two years. We are both in our mid 20s. We are very stable and had been talking about moving in together since the first year of dating. We lived in two separate cities approximately two hours drive away. We both have our career in our own ... (190 words)

How do you date a stripper and not get jealous?

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19 November 2007 (M)

age - I have been dating a woman who strips for a living at a club. I liked her from the start and she and I have good chemistry… the sex is great. She and I met at the club she works at. After I came to the club just to see her and after buying a couple dozen dances she agreed to ... (281 words)

The clothes have stayed on - but for how long?

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19 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i need a bit of help with a problem i have slept with my boyfriends brother whilst i was VERY drunk and he is going out with my best friend i confessed to her because the guilt was killing me and we got that sorted they are still together but i cant get him out of my ... (137 words)

What are the normal signs that a guy likes a girl?

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19 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I like this guy that I do theatre with in my town...we're friends. He's nice, funny, attractive, and smart. We go to different schools, but we see eachother each week for play practice. My other really good friend (who's also boy) is also in the play, and we get along ... (125 words)

I woke up next to my bf's best friend, I cant remember anything, now he's blackmailing me for sex, what can I do?

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19 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Help me please! i am so lost i have been with my boyfriend now for 3 years and love him with all my heart but on friday night i had way too much too drink and my bf went to work the next morning i woke up in bed with his best friend but i dont remember anything about it! I c... (109 words)

How do I make her think I don't like her any more?

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19 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I had maintained romantic feelings for one of my friends for some time. However, I believe that she is starting to pick up on them and is reacting oddly, being that she is in a relationship. How do you think i should go about changing her mind (making her think I do not like ... (55 words)

He said he doesn't like me - is this the truth?

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19 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, my name is jina. i really like this guy, and i asked him if he likes me and he said no. but i'm confused because he pegs footballs at me and everytime he talks to me he tries to make me laugh. im so confused! please please someone help. :(... (54 words)

What should I try to do to boost my confidence?

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19 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I dated and lived with a girl, the only person I have slept with, about four years ago, but it ended when she wanted to get married and i realized she wasn't the person for me. Since then I have not had sex, or a girlfriend, and am getting desperate and lonely. Ironically, it... (209 words)

Why does he he give me all this access to him if I'm not what he wants? He depends on me like I am his woman without giving me the title.

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19 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a friend with benefits that I have been involved with for at least a yr and a half. We hang out and spend alot of time with each other he say's that i'm different from other women. He trust me enough to have his cars in my name even have let me get close to his family. ... (224 words)

We like each other, he still hangs around with his ex, and I don't have much free time, should I ask him out?

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19 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Well hello everyone...I recently told my crush how I felt about him and he told me that he feels the same way towards me...Were not going out because I believe that he still has feelings for his ex..I think this because they still talk like normal..They still hang out..I on the ... (116 words)

He decided to leave me because I am apparently a "compulsive liar." How should I go about winning him back?

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19 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I am in a state of unconditional despair. My boyfriend recently decided to leave me because I am apparently a "compulsive liar". I dearly miss him, and wish that he would accept my numerous heartfelt apologies and take me back. Could someone please enlighten me as to how I ... (61 words)

Am I over-thinking things?

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19 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello. This isn't much of a big problem, but I wondered if you could tell me what you think. I haven't spoken to my ex-girlfriend for about a month now, after she split up with me this summer. Tonight I went on Myspace and posted a bulletin talking about life over the past co... (296 words)

Split up with my girlfriend, now I think she's had a one nighter with someone else, you can tell cant you?

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19 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - in short..i broke up with my chick 2 weeks ago, been together for 3yrs, Love her alot, but we just fight too much, and were not happy.She was really upset. MISS HER LIKE CRAZY...last night i was talkin to a buddy of mine about it, and i was thinking i'd call her, he signs on to ... (159 words)

Before, I was very fast to have feelings for any girl. Now, I wouldn't mind caring to want a relationship but I can't seem to care enough. Opinions?

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19 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Is this strange? When I was young, I was a normal, unhealthy, rotten little boy; then I moved from my home town, gained intellect, and have become a much more presentable figure. Before, I was very fast to have feelings for any girl that moved; now I am a bit indifferent on the ... (91 words)

The mixed signals are driving me crazy, how can she like me and someone else?

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19 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok so I am just about 20, and so is this girl that I dated/dating for a year, and everything was going grate. We both go to the same university. And as the end of summer brake was coming to an end I noticed that she was pulling away from me. I though that she just wanted to ... (402 words)

My gf won't tell me who she's had a fling with. I feel I'm losing trust in her. Do I tell her or let it go?

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19 November 2007 (M)

We lost our viginity to each other, but she's admitted a previous daliance, can I just let this go?

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19 November 2007 (M)

We've been hanging out for 9 months, but she won't leave her boyfriend, what should I do?

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19 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi. I've been involved with a girl for about 9 months now who is already in a relationship. Things started out as just friends, hanging out at work, going for walks, getting a tea, etc. I knew she had a boyfriend, and didn't think anything would happen. Well, now, I know... (215 words)

How do I tell my grandmother we're a couple?

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19 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I've recently started dating a guy that I can seriously spend the rest of my life with, the only problem is telling my grandmother. The deal is that I work with both of them. My grandmother and this guy have been working together for 13 years and I started working there only 3 ... (120 words)