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My girlfriend was unfaithful, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6205 days ago

2 November 2007 (M age 36-40 - Hi I'm 19 and I've been with my girlfriend for 2 years. We took a gap year round the world together for 5 months having the best moments of our life. We hardly fight, and we have loved each other so much in the last 2 years, and I never would have thought that she would ever... (158 words

Surely I'm Better For Her... But She's Chosen Him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6223 days ago

2 November 2007 (M age 41-50 - She has a guy, but he's made her cry multiple times and chooses games and cars over her... I've been talking to her for several months and also spent time together... we had unbelievable chemistry like soulmates... We both said we made each other happy, she smiles when she ... (258 words

We're meant to be together, but he wants a two year break, saying we're too young

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6188 days ago

2 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - I apologise that this is long but i'm really upset and need help. I was with my boyfriend for a year 8 months and we were so close. We'd known each other since kids and he thought I was the one he wanted to spend his whole life with. I was his first girlfriend so I understo... (268 words

I'm 15 she's 19 I love her and need help.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6205 days ago

2 November 2007 (M age 30-35 - hi im 15 and i have a really nice friend in a 19 year old girl who lives about 3-4 hours away. we met on the internet on xbox live. we met about 1-2 months ago and we are really good friends but i like her more than a friend and we both talk to each other everyday and we text ... (146 words

Should we go for professional help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6228 days ago

2 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for a year now and I realy have problems with our sex life. I have a high sex drive and I like to try different things. When I met him about a year ago he was interested to have sex all the time and now it has been months that I have to g... (471 words

Have I lost my lust for life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

2 November 2007 (F age 51-59 - Please help.... I have been with my partner for 9 years and we can't stop fighting! We argue every day about sommthing - i am so bored in the relationship and i know he is too - we very quickly escalate into full hatred and he has called me some terrible names as i have ... (155 words

How do I say get lost, nicely?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

2 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - I have a friend that I known since I was younger, but I have lost touch with over the past few years. Now, she keeps calling me up and asking me if I wanna go shopping or whatever, and I don't really wanna because I prefer my best friends. I am not the type of person to say... (116 words

I cheated with his brother, how can we sort this one out.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6228 days ago

2 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend and we are having problems near enough all the time, we have been together for a year. He hasnt got alot of trust for me as 2 weeks into our releationship i cheated on him with his brother ever since when we argue he says things about it but its not just me ... (71 words

Age differences and health problems

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

2 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - Iam 28 years old and the man I love is 51 years old. Iam healthy but he has health problems: crohn's disease, arthritis etc. He has some pain almost everyday. If we were to get married would this be a problem down the road? He is financially stable and retired at age 40.... (53 words

Do you think this teacher knows I have a bir of a crush on him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6226 days ago

2 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - I sort of have a bit of a rush on this teacher but i'm worried he might know! i talk to him all the time about the most random things in the corridor and always laugh at him and take the mik outa him...he does it to me aswell. when we have him for a lesson it seems as though i... (155 words

I love my fiance but the ex that abused me emotionally returned and brought back memories. How to erase him for good?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6222 days ago

2 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - Ten Months ago, I had a break down, Depression n my ex of 2 years dumped me over msn for a girl he worked with, he emotionally abused me for two years that we wos together for. Recently he admitted he still had feelings for me, I don't have any feelings but hate and heartache ... (100 words

Is there any way you can help me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

2 November 2007 (M age 36-40 - i am in love with this girl i know from my high school but the only one thing in my mind is that i dont know how to tell her i love her. I fill if i told her what would her reaction be. is there any way you can help me?... (52 words

I discovered my dad is having sexual online relationships with over 20 different men. What do I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5902 days ago

2 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - I am 19 and no longer live at home. One day i went to my parents house to visit but they were not there. So i thought i would check my email while i waited. When i went onto yahoo mail, my dad had not signed out of his account and something just told me to look. I know it was ... (219 words

Ackward question, but one for the girls to answer.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6111 days ago

2 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - Okay I'm 14 and I have a question that is so embarassing to ask but I would really like to get some answers... I am a virgin and I am not sexually active although I do hook up with people, (saliva) and I want to know why I am experiencing problems with my vagina. I am pre... (194 words

Every day there's a insult from my gf of 3 yrs or her kids. Should I break up?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6223 days ago

2 November 2007 (M age - my girlfriend of 3 yrs will only give about 30%, wont come to my house i have to go there. always tells me how wrong iam and that her and her kids are right, ALWAYS, every single thing is done when she says, its not what WE can do to make this work, its always what am i going ... (113 words

My partner of 11 yrs cheated but said she's emotionally dead so it didn't matter. She also refused sex for the past yr, for no reason.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

2 November 2007 (M age - my partner of 11 years says she loves me but does not want sex,no reason given,she also says she feels emotionally dead.this has been like this for the past year and led to many arguments where we both throw things from the past at each other,this situation is stressing me out ... (149 words

He wants to take things slow.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

2 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - I have finally met a great guy, he is friends with my 2 best girlfriends and I think he might be someone I can have a serious relationship with. He is just getting over a broken heart and wants to take things slow which I can completly understand. I invited him to my small ... (173 words

Does he fancy my best friend, does he fancy me - or both of us?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

2 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - i am 11 years old and this boy used to fancy me untill i said i didnt fancy him and now he fancies my best friend-but the thing is-he still comes to me and my best friend and annoys us.sometimes he even follows us around.in most classes,i sit next to him and he is sometimes ... (200 words

We met on a dating site, we slept together and 3 days after that he dumped me by txt. Why is he still visiting my dating-profile?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5984 days ago

2 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - Met a guy on a dating site, went out many times and we clicked. Anyway after a few weeks we slept together and we both enjoyed ourselves. Three days later he dumped me by text....agghh! He said we weren't compatible. I texted back said I was fine with it, really I was very ... (187 words

Is my vagina supposed to have a natural smell?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

2 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - this is so embarresing to ask. but i really dont know if its normal... is your vagina suppost to have a natural smell to it... not nessecarily bad all the time, but sometimes when i get hot and a bit sweaty down there, its starts to smell and ill go to the loo and catch a whiff ... (112 words

After the break up I ended kissing another guy. How to tell him it was a mistake without hurting him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6228 days ago

2 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - i just made the biggest mistake ever i broke with my borfreind 2 weeks ago and since then i have been feeling so sad , after that i was going out a lot maybe to try and forget what happened , the problem is that while i was going out a lot i ended up kissing a guy who has loved ... (118 words

My partner cheated because he "was unhappy in our relationship" and said it was my fault (I suffered from depression for yrs.) How to gain back self-respect?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6159 days ago

2 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - I found out, drip by drip, that my partner of 8 years cheated on me. At first i discovered a document he had wrote saying that he fancied some 'foreign' student in his night school class (he's an adult education teacher)and how she sent him flirty messages and how he wanted ... (392 words

Caught masturbating in dorm room - and don't know by whom. What can I do except to transfer to another room?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6228 days ago

2 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - I was masturbating in my dorm room to porn with my doors closed and someone accidentally opened my door. He said "sorry wrong room" and was gone. He didn't fully close my door after and I assume he was probably very shocked. I don't know if he lives on my floor or not and I do ... (97 words

My friend started self-harming. How do I help her without losing her as a friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

2 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - im 14. i self harmed with a razor about a year ago and then found out that a friend had been doing it as well. people said we did it together for attention...but it wasn't true!! for months we suffered from the bullying and teasing because of it which made us do it more. it ... (167 words

How do I get a vibrator

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6228 days ago

2 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - ive just turned 14. ive been masturbating for about a year and havent found my g-spot. i use the handle of a hairbrush, my fingers so massage my clit and the shower head. its fun and enjoyable but thats all. i cant seem to find my own way of doing it and now im in DESPERATE ... (94 words

I have just started my period and don't know how to tell mom...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

2 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - ok i am 14 and have just started my period how can i tell my mom without cringing.... (18 words

I cringe at the thought of telling my mom that I have started my periods, help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6169 days ago

2 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - ok i am 14 and have just started my period how can i tell my mom without cringing.... (18 words

We're both virgins but she's more experienced than I and it bothers me. I don't want to hurt her...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6220 days ago

2 November 2007 (M age 36-40 - hey guys would like your help please Me and my gf have been together for 10 months now we're both virgins and are planning to have sex for the first time. my gf told me that she loves me, i think i feel the same but i have a problem, she told me about her p... (233 words

All of a sudden I am into an old people's world, that my older partner acquainted me with. Should/how do I tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6227 days ago

2 November 2007 (F age - I am in love with a man 18 years older than me. Im a 45 year old divorcee. All my family says he's too old for me that I will end up wheeling his wheelchair. We've been together for 9 months now. We get on well. Since we met we went to clubs where he used to go. They are ... (113 words

I love him but he abuses me and drains my confidence.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

2 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - I am 19 year old girl in love with a 25 year old guy. Its become almost more than 1 year that we are together. He stays with me with my family and even works in the same office. We are very close to each other and even physically involved. He keeps on telling me bad things ... (206 words

I feel like I am just going through the motions and can't cope with the strain anymore.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6228 days ago

2 November 2007 (F age 51-59 - Hi - I think I'm just going through the motions of being with my partner. We don't live together and split up earlier this year before getting back together about 7 weeks ago. I was the one that ended the relationship - things hadn't been good since around September last yea... (207 words

How can I get over his betrayal with a teen lover?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 6225 days ago

2 November 2007 (F age 51-59 - I'm depressed and upset about my husband and his affair with an 18 year old girl. I've stressed about it since I found out 4 months ago. I can't stop thinking about it and crying. I had my new baby 6 weeks early due to all this trauma. The birth was traumatic (emergency C ... (236 words

What should I do to avoid hurting anyone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6228 days ago

2 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - my sister has been going out with a boy she met through her weekend job and they are both students.he is from a different caste to ours and my family have found out and she has been given 6months to get married to him as they dont want her responsibility anymore (my bros pay ... (177 words

Why did I do this to myself? Have I become the 'other woman'?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6226 days ago

2 November 2007 (F age - I don’t know why I let this happen!!! I was married for 23 years he had an affair that he would not end so I filed for divorce. That all happened since May 2005. Divorce is final as of June 2006. I still love this man but he has chosen to live with the affair lady. We do ... (228 words

I thought she was the one. How can I get over her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6228 days ago

2 November 2007 (M age 36-40 - Probably no point in saying this really but i am going to put in out there. A couple of weeks ago i was told by a girl that i like that she likes me. i told her the same. she said she liked me but didnt want to rush it. after 2 weeks of getting on quite well she has said she... (193 words

I'm torn between two women. What is wrong with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6221 days ago

2 November 2007 (M age 36-40 - I hope I can get some guidance on this because I am completely confused and unbearably hurting inside. I'm 21, a college student (about to graduate), and I've been in a relationship with a wonderful woman for over 5 years. We got together when we were both 16 and we were high ... (1253 words

How do I deal with my controlling mom...at my age?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6220 days ago

2 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - Hi,I'm a 33 year old female and I'm at my wits end with my controlling mother!! I never seem do do anything right no matter how hard I try and basically my life should revolve around her. Growing up I spent a lot of time with my time with my mum going shopping etc, I ... (252 words

The guy who likes me is married. What is the hope?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6228 days ago

2 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - Hi everyone,im new to this and a bit stuck,anyway im sammy and ive got a little problem.ive just been told that this guy i know is keen on me,the thing is the word keen means?he likes me or something else?hes also married and is older by a few years,the thing is i do like him a ... (94 words

I hope this doesn't cause us to break up.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6223 days ago

2 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I got into a fight over the phone last night about the fact that I was uncomfortable with him going to the movies with a bunch of girls from college. He told I don't have anything to worry about. I just don't know what to think. He had never cheated on me ... (96 words

Is she taking a break, or breaking up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6226 days ago

2 November 2007 (M age 41-50 - I have been with my girlfriend for almost 19 months. In that time we have had our ups and downs but we have always worked things out because we love each other. In September, she started at university (I am at a different university in the same city) and things changed. ... (378 words

How do I get him out of my head.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6228 days ago

2 November 2007 (? - i dont know how to start this i was in a very unhappy relationship and i own my own buisness as a cleaner, i had just broke up with my guy and then this guy asked if i could clean for him . at the time when i was hurting i poured out my troubles to him not expecting to hear ... (215 words

Any tips on getting over him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6228 days ago

2 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - I need to get over this guy that i've liked for quite a while. He has a gf so i need to get over him. Any tips on how to get over him. Should i not hang round with him anymore even though he's a great friend, or should I still be friends with him?? XxX... (61 words

Should I take any notice of my friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6228 days ago

2 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - I am a in a serious relationship and I love this guy so much but whiles i am in Ghana, he is in Canada. He promise me with a ring.He is going to be there for 3years and a year is almost gone.The relationship is still healthy I mean so ... (166 words

Does she resent me for disciplining her child? Are we 'pulling in different directions'?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6228 days ago

2 November 2007 (M age 51-59 - I have a simple question that I would really love to have some responses on. If I punish my soon to be step son, by taking his cell phone off him for a week, for mocking and back talking me, and his mother agrees with me that he needs to learn a lesson and then she turns around ... (156 words

I need some info on pregnancy tests . . .

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6228 days ago

2 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - hi there, i had my last period on the 22nd of september and i have had none since then, i done a hpt today and it came back negaive, however i always have regular periods. my belly feels like i am on my period (but nothing)..i am not stressed or anxious as it wouldnt bother me ... (86 words

Am I going insane with jealousy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6228 days ago

2 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - Help... I'm with a great guy and we have been together for more than 3.5 years. In the first year of our relationship, he went to his friends cabin over summer vacation (without me). A few months after he got back I found out (talking to a mutual friend who had been there wi... (523 words

Should I marry him after High School?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6214 days ago

2 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - Why is it not right to fight at a young age? I'm currently 17 years old and dating a 16 years old who is goin to be 17 in Feb. We've dating for a year and one month, those days was the best of my life and the worst. While we been into the roughest fight ever and still havent ... (106 words

Should I leave or should I stay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6228 days ago

2 November 2007 (F age - Im 45 a housewife just divorced my husband. I've met a man 18 years older than me. We've been seeing each other 4 a year now. We get on well. I've been trying to find job but no luck yet. He's got good income and still working but he never offer help with money. He is not ... (134 words

Does he love me or have anxiety disorder?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6228 days ago

2 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - Hi,I would like to know your opinion on this. My husband cheated on me after 5 years of marriage. We have been separated 3 times since the war started one year deployments. The last time he was gone for a year is when he cheated. Now he is gone again and is all paranoi... (205 words

He can't accept the fact that we are done.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6228 days ago

2 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - How could I lose this loser? I dated this guy way back 1 year ago, at first, it all goes well but gradually he changes, he started to live with his vices like smoking weeds and drinking which he never did before. One night at our friend's party he started drinking ,get drunk, t... (106 words

I don't know which way to turn, can you help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

2 November 2007 (F age - I am currently off sick from work, the reason, stress and anxiety. due to my boss, she just hates me and life has become so uncomfortable. I am being bullied and victimised all the time and dont know which way to turn. can anyone help.... (45 words

Is it OK to still care for eachother in this situation?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5902 days ago

2 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - I'm in the Army with 2yrs left the guy I met is in the Navy with 5 yrs left, we met up here on deployment, we've only known eachother for a month, when we leave deployment he will go back to his base in N.M and I'll go back to GA, the dilemma, we both have strong feelings for ... (156 words

Why does my husband attempt to get me jealous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6228 days ago

2 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - Why does my husband after cheating on me and ending the affair makes up stories of girls hitting on him? I used to be jealous before the affair, but I realize I was pushing him away. Now that I changed he makes up stories of girls persuing him. Why?... (49 words

Does this man still love me or what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

2 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - there is this man in my life.we met 5years ago,but later on broke up after going out for 2years coz he had fell out of love. keeping in mind that i had already aborted his kid.we remained friends and since then the friendship has become more serious even than it was when we ... (136 words

Can I email him again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6228 days ago

2 November 2007 (F age - I went out for a date with a guy on Monday night. I'd initially e.mailed him - I know of him, our kids are at the same school. He's just divorced, I'm soon to be. I e.mailed him on Wednesday saying I had a lovely time, and if he'd like to meet again to phone. I've not hear... (79 words

Should I keep him or not.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6228 days ago

2 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - I've never been in a relationship in my whole life, though there are a lot of guys who courted me before I usually dumped them and keep my promise to my mom and to myself that i will never be involced with someone unless I finished my college. It is kinda hard on the first few ... (176 words

I told him about my feelings and he doesn't want a relationship now. I'm afraid of losing him as a friend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6228 days ago

2 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - I fell in love with my friend...and i told him on wed night. he told me he never saw me in that way, we talked, and i said i dont wanna lose you as a friend and he agreed. the story is really long, i never would let myself fall for him, if i had known from the start. but i... (299 words

In the last weeks he lost his erection and said he was nervous. We had passionate sex before, he's 42. Could it be me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6165 days ago

2 November 2007 (F age 51-59 - I just started dating this wonderful, smart, attractive man about a month ago, we have had sex in the beginning and very passionate people, he is amazing, and he has cum with me before both orally and intercourse but the last two weeks he can get hard but cant stay hard he ... (131 words

Is there a way to tell pregnent after a few days of conceiving?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6207 days ago

2 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - I have to admit, when people ask advise about possibly being pregnant, I think.........."why not just get a preganancy test or go to the Dr." But, I was wondering, is there a way to find out if you're pregnant after possibly conceiving after only 4-5 days? I know they have ... (101 words

Did he marry me as last resort?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6228 days ago

2 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - I don't know if my husband married me because he loved me or because I was all that was left. We've been married for two years. We started dating when I was 16 he was 19, I fell in love with him right away but didn't say anything. We had both just gotten out of long bad ... (377 words

How can we make it less painful for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6228 days ago

2 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - i've been with my boyfriend a while now and we've started having sex. everytime we do, it's really painful and i can't wait for it to be over. i have talked to my boyfriend about this and he does whatever he can to make it less painful, it is worse when his penis first enters. ... (99 words

Do I forget about him or do I chill out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6228 days ago

2 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hey, I met this guy at a gig and he was one of the most amazing people i've ever met. I lost him that night because there were so many people. But a couple of days later he found me on myspace and added me. We were messaging each other every day and like texting until 3 in the... (222 words

My husband is having an affair with his male boss! - and told me it's "none of my business." He lost interest in our son too. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6174 days ago

2 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - A friend of the family told me yesterday that my husband is having an affair with his boss. I felt sick when she told me that. I thought my husband loved me and wouldn't want to go off with other women. But it got a lot worse when I found out that it wasn't another woman my... (386 words

Are the guys that are my friends odd? Or is it just me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6228 days ago

2 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - is is normal for guys my age 13-15 to just be interested in whos pulling who and which base theyve got to. most of the guys i know are constantly talking about it and although i find it ok, sometimes it makes me feel like any relationship im going to have will just be added to ... (119 words

In love with a married man, he was good before he had me in bed, then became rather distant - though is still with me. Could he be using me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

2 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - hii, i would like you to assist me. i was once married and separated with 3 kids, i am in love with a married man and he was so good before he had me in bed, after that he is still with me yes but i feel the distance, he never shares more, if you ask him a question he doesnt ... (138 words

We only met online, he tells me he loves sex to death and can't wait to have it with me. Should I be worried?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6180 days ago

2 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - I met this guy on a dating site and after exchanging photos and mails constantly,we are both in love and we will be meeting very soon.My only worry is that he talks about sex everyday and even tells me that he loves it to death. He also tells me that he loves me very much and... (77 words

Was I a fool?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6228 days ago

2 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - i went to visit my long distant boyfriend for almost two months, whilst in that country and a few days after i had arrived i realized he was seeing another lady. i confronted the lady when she called the house and told my boyfriend to put a stop to it. for the remaining 7 weeks ... (185 words

I'm short of money - how do I move to Sweden?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6228 days ago

2 November 2007 (M age 36-40 - I want to go abroad to live ,just as Sweden,but I donot have enough money,the most importance is I am afraid to go to a place without friends! If any body can tell me how to do?... (39 words

Guys... If you don't want sex, but you are looking elsewhere, is it because you are bored of your own girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6226 days ago

2 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have a business together and spend almost 24 hours together. We are like best friends, we have a good laugh together, we travel the world together, share the same goals in life, and enjoy each other's company. We've known each other for 10 years and been ... (277 words

I want to feel loved and appreciated and at the moment I don't!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6229 days ago

2 November 2007 (M age 41-50 - Hi I'm a 28 year old male living with my partner for 1 year. I have a few problems I guess, I feel she doesn't care about my needs. Firstly she is very fatalistic/depressed: I hate myself, I'm ugly, fat etc... all the time even though I have re-assured her all the time we are ... (373 words

Can you fall pregnant while on your period?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6189 days ago

2 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - Hey... I have a question, I'm having a halloween party this weekend and I've been with this guy for a while, I'm staying at his after the party but it's that time of the month, just wondering if it's messy if you have sex? Also I heard you can't fall pregnant while on your ... (60 words

How can I tell my best friend I really like her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

2 November 2007 (M age 30-35 - I have a crush on my best friend. I have been friends for a long time. She doesn't know that I have feelings for her. What do I do??????... (32 words

Should I try harder to end this relationship?

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2 November 2007 (F age 51-59 - I have a boyfriend for three years now but now I don't seem to understand him anymore. He calls when he wants and he is always very busy, but he keeps on telling me that he loves me very much. I have been trying to break up with him several times but it didn't work, we are s... (82 words

Can I get pregnant this way?

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2 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - I would like to become pregnant but my hubby won't cum inside, he says not now we are not ready but I am so I got him off with a blow job then let him cum in my hand then I went in the bathroom in put it in my vagina. Can I get pregnant like that? ... (58 words

What do you think, so I can get some closure.

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2 November 2007 (F - I had been in a relationship with a friend for a month and today we broke up. For a while I could sense something wasnt right, and today I asked him if he still wanted to be in the relationship (because i did). At first he started saying that he dosent know because we are so ... (446 words

I'll have to face the fact of him being friends with his ex.

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2 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend went out to eat lunch with his ex girlfriend two day after my birthday and didn't tell me. I found out because I was using his phone because my friend and I were texting on his phone and I came across the text from her saying, "I can't wait to see you tomorrow... (245 words

How do I get her to tell me?

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2 November 2007 (M age 36-40 - I have been with my gf for about 5 months alredy and everything is good just that everytime she is feeling sad I want her to tell me but she never lets me how do I get her to open up to me and tell me what's wrong with her... (50 words

Is there a problem with me?

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2 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - 1. I'm 24 years old now but i can't my find true loves?...why? is there any problem with me... can you please help me.... ... (27 words

What do you do when she requests space? How long without contact?

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2 November 2007 (M age 51-59 - My girlfriend asked for space thruogh an email. I don't know where we went wrong but its completely disrsctful if you cant say whats on your mind. I e=sent her a nice email stating I wouldn not contact and good luck finding you feelings, what a crock! Well, its been 10 days ... (245 words

She's off her rocker saying I've changed.

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2 November 2007 (M age 30-35 - Is it just me or is this ridiculous? Alright so I made out with this girl one day in August (and I didn't know her before this, I met her while I was drunk and she was sober), and now she's in one of my classes. Well anyways, I'm in gr.12, she's in gr.10, and I'm the only gr.... (321 words

How do we Kiss?

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2 November 2007 (F age 26-29 - my boyfriend and i just started going out a few weeks ago......and i'm pretty sure we both wanna kiss but i don't think we know when we both want to......kiss.......what should i do?......... (33 words

Is a 5 year age difference a problem for boyfriend and girlfriend or is it just right?

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2 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - Is a 5 year age difference a problem for boyfriend and girlfriend or is it just right?... (17 words

My best friend and I became lovers, now he's back with his ex, its breaking my heart,help please!

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2 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - my bestfriend and i eventually became lovers after 10 long years of pure friendship.. however, our relationship as lovers did not even last a month.. i broke up with him on the 3rd week of our relationship because he was acting kinda cold on me.. worse, he was even sweeter when ... (193 words

My hubbie is controlling, we have a 4 yr old daughter, if I leave it will be all my fault , or so he says, help me!

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2 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - I have been married for 7 years now and I must say my life with him has been a roller coaster. I have never really felt "in Love" with him.(this I think was because of my age when we got together and the fact that I was very insecure) Sex is awful I can count with my hands th... (306 words

I spent her Grandma's money, now she's furious, how can I get her to trust me again

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2 November 2007 (M age 41-50 - I have a problem in my relationship.Me and my girl friend has been living together for little over a year now and i lost my job about three weeks ago and had no luck so far but i am sure something will come up.We were over at her grandmas and she offerd to help with money to ... (359 words

I really like this guy, but I'm worried about making a fool of myself

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2 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - I need help. i really like this boy in school and i have had recent boyfriends before but I feel that he is different. He makes me laugh when everything else seems gloomy, he thinks thinks outside the box when i have problems, and he is really sweet with me. his locker is next ... (154 words

We may not see each other for a long time, can this still work?

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2 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - i'm in a long distant relationship. my boyfriend is in atlanta georgia, and i'm in st. kitts(in d caribbean). we've been dating for 3 months now. he plans to visit me but not this year. we want to be together but i don't have the US visa yet and i don't know when its gonna ... (236 words

I find it hard to climax when with a woman!

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2 November 2007 (M - i'm not sure if this is just me or if it happens to other lads, but when i am having sex with different girls, i can never seem to climax, i just seem to go on and on lol. is this something i should be worried about?... (47 words

Is this a hint that she wants to meet me again.

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2 November 2007 (M - Hi, I met a girl a few months ago whilst out one night in a nightclub and sice then i have only met her in person again 2 or 3 times but we text each other every day and occasionally speak on the phone and get on really well! I keep asking her if she wants to meet up again but ... (93 words

How do I bring up this subject.

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2 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - I met my boyfriend (34yrs) at a singles night not far from where I live. He lives about 30 miles away which hasn't been a problem at all. However, several people have asked me why he travelled 30 miles to a singles night. I haven't been bothered by it before, but because of ... (184 words

What is a good way to get someone you love come back?

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2 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - my boyfriend nd i have had sex but about 8 weeks ago he broke up with me because it wasnt working to well since we go to diffrant schools we werent seeing each other much and of course im mad but the real bad part is im pregnant he has a new girlfriend he likes and as for the ... (134 words

Help! I am so worried my guy is going to cheat on me for a hot chick.

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2 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - Hi, anyone able to help with crazy fears about my boyfriend meeting somebody hotter than me. Basically anytime I go out with my boyfriend if we come in contact with a very attractive hot girl I get totally uncomfortable and feel so upset( I dont show him this) but I watch ev... (270 words

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