A
female
age
41-50,
*onely alone
writes: He doesn't include me into his world but he is involved in mine, his family doesn't know me, he doesn't bring his child around my children. He only comes to my home, I am not allowed at his because he doesn't want his father mad at him because he's white and dating a Native American, welll at least that's what he tells me. He was married before I met him but he is afraid of his ex wife, (or at least thats the vibe that I get). But he doens't see why that is a problem with our relationship. He's very affectionate when he's around me but because of the circumstances in our relationship, I don't show him the affection back. Am I wrong for not showing him love just because he doesn't include me into his life the way he is involved in mine. It has been 4 years now should I move on or wait him out?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2007): to be honest i`d move on ,if after 4 years he isnt nowhere committed to you he aint never going to be
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