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writes:My wife had an affair with a man with huge penis. She went on and on about how she never knew sex could be that good and how she was driven wild by his size. Now, I am intimidated to have sex with her because I am afraid I won't be able to please her. She says it doesn't matter to her that I am only average and she wants to be with me.I too intimidated to touch her that way anymore.Morgan
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2008): Find yourself a girl with some very special physical qualities your wife is lacking. If she is something less than gorgeous, find a really beautiful woman preferably one with really nice boobs! Make her jealous. Make her realize that YOU are very desirable to other women.
This is a power play that happens in relationships. She has the power now. You were catagorized by her as less than adequate in bed because of how she went on about her lovers size and how much pleasure he gave her. No remorse expressed by her for cheating on you,no shame,no sense of guilt. Why would you want to even stay in a relationship with this bimbo??? And where is Long Jonny Long now? Was it wham bam thank you Mamm and Arivaderci,baby?
If he was so great in bed,why is she still with you? Maybe SHE wasn't so great in bed. How do you like that?
You have to think long and hard if you are considering staying with her. From what I see, get out but not before giving her a taste of her own medicine.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2007): hi your wife is a complete bitch all woman know guys worry about threre size and think bigger is better well just tell your her your organ is for playing churches not cathederalls go have an affair your self and tell her how tight this new girls pussy was not like her big sloppy gash . do your self a favour and get rid as soon as possible
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reader, Dick Diva  +, writes (5 November 2007):
I have to agree with Ariel.
But I also want to ask you a question.
Do you like the idea that she was sexually satisfied?
Some men love their size queen hunting wifes so much that they are happy, (or at least oblige them) to let them find the 'big one' once in a while.
I have stated this in an answer elsewhere on this site explaining the idea of it being a designer relationship called cuckolding. It's not for everyone but it CAN be loving.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2007):
Dump her. Now.
You'll never be respected to the level that you should be if she's gonna literally gush about how much better the other guy was to you. It's not about a penis, it's about a lack of respect for you. If she's that unfeeling towards you in this area then she'll probably never stop preferring the other guy in the sack either no matter what you do with a dildo or anything.
The sooner you leave her, the sooner you start getting on with your life. There are women out there who actually won't do this kind of thing. (And many of them won't be thinking of a bigger penis when they're sleeping with you either.)
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2007): Hey dude it doesn't matter the size she says she loves you so believe that.You shoudn't be ashamed god did a perfect job.And never doubt god.Cause god is alaways right.And shame will come to the man that betrayed you.You just be thankful you were born to this earth.
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reader, rcn +, writes (4 November 2007):
 Size really does not matter. I've been acquainted with females that when asked, they say it's not how big, it's how it's used.
Don't be intimidated by this other person. It's bad she had the affair, why she goes on about someones size during an affair is beyond me.
If she really gets excited about size, get a toy you can share with her in the bedroom. I saw one that cracked me up years ago, I don't know if it's still sold, it's called the "King Kong" It's almost 2 feet long and about 7 inches thick. Bring that to bed, she won't be bragging about sizes any more.
If this continues to bother you, both of you seek counseling. I mean it. Affairs are not something to brag about. There has to be something wrong there. If you had an affair with a beautiful model, perfect body, boobs that while standing upright, stayed upright, you wouldn't go home and rub that into your wife's face. If you did she might be mad if you asked her to do some bench presses to lift them things back up.
Take care.
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reader, colinsdad +, writes (4 November 2007):
I just posted a few minutes ago about my situation with my cheating wife....my personal opinion is that, if she's done it once, she WILL do it again! It takes a really shallow sort of woman to have an affair with someone and then brag about her lover's penis size! If you want to work on things, by all means....however, she's probably hurt you in a very deep way that wil probably never go away.
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