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*onaldo is faf
writes:hiya!Well i really need your help, you see i want to find my biological father bt i dont have any idea as to where i start! I'm not sure i want to ask my mum incase she gets upset. Please help! xx Reply to this Question
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reader, Ronaldo is faf +, writes (4 November 2007):
Ronaldo is faf is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your answer it has helped me a lot and i think i will have to talk to my mum about it! Your answer has really helped TY xxx
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (4 November 2007):
 Hello.
This is a very hard task for you to take upon yourself, it is very difficult to find some one who is not looking for you, i do not want to hurt your feeling but some times there are reasons they cannot:they may have passed away and your mother does not want to hurt you that is why she has not said anything to you.
He may be re married and have children of his own and you were a secret and he may not want his past to catch up with him.
He may live in another country and then it would be impossible for you to trace him, and the list goes on, you should really talk to you mother about this subject it could be very painful for her other wise if he should turn up, but i find this to be may be an impossible task.
I understand why you would like to meet your dad at your age, but somethings that are in the past, some times it is best to leave then were they are in the past.
YOU really need to talk to your mother if she is happy about your idea she may help you in the search or give you information that you are not aware of that may help you.
i wish you luck but do not put your hopes to hight.
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