A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: i am in love with a man 22 years senior than me, he is married like myself, he shows his love no matter that his wife is working with us, i confess that i love him and dont know what to do? Reply to this Question Share |
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female
reader, starfairy +, writes (4 November 2007):
You just want to be careful that he isn't going through a mid life crisis, and looking for a fling to add a little spice to his life. I don't mean to be harsh at all, but it's a typical thing people go through around that age.
You said you are both married also, you should look at what has gone wrong from your side of things, you are still quite young so I would assume you haven't been married long?
I'm not going to preach to you, I wouldn't promotoe infidelity, maybe you need to look at why you fancy this man, so you crave excitement? Are you feeling a little bored? Maybe married life isn't what you expected?
Just think about the long term effects on each choice you
make, use your head as well as your heart!
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