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female
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41-50,
*ovelikefire
writes:so i met a boy. he is a friend of a friend and we met out one night, while i was in town visiting (i live 3 hours away). normal enough evening, we talk drink and hang out. i go back home and don't think much about it. we start communicating via email and make plans to hang out next time i'm in town. i come down for my visit and things heat up. we spend the night together and the whole next day (he called out of work). we communicate mostly by text....neither of us love talking on the phone. we talk sporadically, not every day. two weeks later i drive down for another visit. it was nice, but a comment was made, something along the lines of "is this how you are with all the boys?" i don't sleep around, i find it hard to even have feelings for more than one person at a time. so now, nothing has really changed, we still talk sporadically, but when i don't hear from him i worry that he is off with someone else. I starting to really fall for him. he has said that he likes me also, enjoys spending time with me and looks forward to getting to know me better. i don't wanna be with someone who is with other people but living 3hrs away i think that it is unfair of me to say anything. i don't know what do? i dont know how to change the situation? any advice would be wonderful.
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (5 November 2007):
 "Is this how you are with all the boys?"
Now this comment could be taken two ways. One, he was joking it was a little bit of titilation aimed at easying the tension between you two.
Or it was a cruel jibe aimed at undermining you as a person and accusing you of being of loose moral fibre.
I can imagine with a long term relationship, that you both are so concerned about your future that things like this will often be misinterpreted.
You guys have to work it out, if you keep second guessing everything each other says I would say your long term prospects are Zero.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2007): my personal oppinion is that long distance relationship rarely work. that being said i think you should start to talk to eachother more and see if your feeling keep getting stronger
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