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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He said sorry for leading me on.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6248 days ago

13 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - About 6 months ago I dated a guy who was a good friend of mine, but I didn't really like him very much. Eventually I ended up cheating on him and felt so bad about it that I immediately dumped him with no explanation other than "I'd rather just stay friends". Then about a ... (314 words)

Me and my best friend of 7 years aren't talking anymore because I called her a Bitch. Now she's causing problems with me and my boyfriend. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6247 days ago

13 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my best friend are not talking anymore i knew her 7 years and we were really close though she have bad habits she always judge people and even talk about them from behind then i knew that she`s doing the same for me i was really shocked and i didnt tell her that i knew ... (187 words)

The trill is gone. Am I screwed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6248 days ago

13 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and have lived together for over a year. The sex is dead. There's no thrill. There's no spontaneousness. It's just sex. And I think we're doing it out of habit. A whole whopping 5-7 minutes of sex two times per w... (439 words)

Things are dying down. Is he trying to tell me something?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6248 days ago

13 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - recently i have been seeing less and less of my man.first the txting got less and the phone calls,now he says hes coming over and never arrives hes always got a pathetic excuse why he didnt show up,is he trying to tell me something?... (44 words)

7 months on since my first girlfriend left, it doesn't feel like a second will come for a long time. Can you help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6248 days ago

13 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My first girlfriend left me earlier this year. Yesterday was 7 months since she left, and I can honestly say, I'm not really feeling better about our relationship ending. She ended things to pursue her education after being with me for 2 1/2 years. It's fair enough she wanted ... (101 words)

She's saying I smother her, but we live miles apart?, is this worth it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6247 days ago

13 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - ive been with this girl for 6 months.im 32 she is 30.last week monday and tuesday was great wed and thurs she didnt return calls. thurs she send me an email and tells me she needs some space.she feels smothered and its stressing her out.her dad died a month b4. ive been there ... (241 words)

I have trouble consoling her. How can I get past this problem and support her like I should?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6247 days ago

13 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hiya have any of you males, or females had problems being able to console your partners when they are grieving or just generally upset esspecially when they are crying or is it just me? You see i don't see why i just can't be a sholder to cry on for my gf when shes oing through ... (201 words)

Things aren't right between us, but when I suggest a break up, she gets emotional and cries. Does she really love me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6247 days ago

13 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Lately its not going well between me and my gf. She is acting all weird against me. But everytime i try talking about a break up she gets all emotional and she crys. Well i think she doesn't really loves me anymore. But she says she does. Only the next day she gives friends and ... (86 words)

My friend yelled at me when I was trying to help her! What's wrong with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6247 days ago

13 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 16 year old and my best friend is 17. We had some problems over bf and that kind of stuff. So i went to talk with her. I assured her she wouldn't be left aside and i always would let her on the first place. Then suddenly she shouts at me! She shouted ''Thats not it, ... (94 words)

He can't satisfy me and I don't know what to tell him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6248 days ago

13 November 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I just want to get some opinions on this issue. If you are in a relationship/marriage but find it lacking as much affection as you would want (but not as far as your partner is concerned,) do you think it's okay to look elsewhere for a bit extra "entertainment" or do you ... (82 words)

I feel as though I lose everybody close to me through my tantrums. Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6247 days ago

13 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My partner (of 1 year) has just left me because he can't deal with my severe PMT (which I've suffered with for 15 years). I get very stroppy and quite aggresive - I have lashed out and hit him on 3 occasions. I have 2 children who have become very close to him and are also ... (117 words)

Does a player ever change their tune?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

13 November 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - GUYS, once a player, always a player? The man is 37 and we have gone out quite a few times, known each other for quite some time, have the same upbringing, background, and I really like him. Now, he has quite the reputation of a player. In fact, after we went out, I was "sat ... (298 words)

Is my girlfriend being unfair?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

13 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 11 months. But as of late, she has been insanely clingy. She lives about an hour away from me, and after we separate during the weekdays, we haven't not argued once on skype because she says I don't "show" that I am missin... (176 words)

Brazil!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6246 days ago

13 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Some background may be helpful for you in giving me advice. About a year a ago I went to Brazil to take part in a Portuguese language program at a language school. It is one of those schools where people of all ages come from many countries to study for a week to months. I ... (955 words)

Problems With On off Lover

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6244 days ago

13 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I'm new to the site and have been looking around at all the posts and need some help myself. Ok, I met the girl of my dreams about 9/10 years ago and we fell head over heels in love and things were great between us. She was my soul mate and I was hers. She had 3 ... (850 words)

Will I bleed when I have sex for the first time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6230 days ago

13 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm really ready to have sex with my man soon. The thing is he's done it loads before and I'm still a virgin, I've told him I'm not but now I'm wondering can he tell if I am or not when we are doing it? I know it's going to hurt but will it be during the sex or after, and ... (106 words)

Help, I'm in a love triangle.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6247 days ago

13 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Help, I'm in a love triange.. My best friend goes out with this lad. He used to fancy me but I was with someone at the time now he has grown on me and we both really like each other. I know it's wrong but we're both considering an affair, that's even worse I know but I don't ... (106 words)

Dressing/fitting room...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

13 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Good Day! Lately my lover and I have been talking about our sexual fantasies. This has led to exploration of our fantasies. Lately he has been fulfilling my sexual fantasies. Having said that I want to fulfil one of his sex fantasies. One of his desires is to have sex with... (219 words)

What's the best way to ask her out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6248 days ago

13 November 2007 (?) age 30-35 - This may seem really stupid, but I was wondering, how do you ask someone out? What type of things do you say? Is it "will you go out with me" or something like "will you be mine" My friends are really pressuring me to ask this girl out in my class I fancy but am worried of ... (66 words)

Should I let her go or pursue her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6248 days ago

13 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I broke up with my girlfriend about ayear ago.I then started going out to bars and clubs and meeting lots of women.But about 2 months ago I ran into a girl I used to be great friends with.The sexual energy has always been their between us. When we saw each other both our e... (261 words)

Youth Camp

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6246 days ago

13 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - During breaks from school I go to a youth camp. Last summer was a special time for me as I met a cute boy at camp. At the beginning we hit it off and started hanging out in groups and then spend more time together-just the two of us. We started exchanging cute notes and ... (402 words)

Is there any hope of gaining back her trust or has she simply been pushed to far?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6161 days ago

13 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife hasn't been talking to me for about the past week. We video back and forth, in different countries, but she never has much to say. I finally kept asking her what the matter was and she finally answered... She says she feels emotionally broke in our relationship. To e... (305 words)

Why do I never orgasm when I'm with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6248 days ago

13 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm seeing this guy at the moment? When we have sex I never orgasm, he does. Last time we were togerther he tried really hard and we tried a few different positions but still nothing. I really need some help and advice as I am really inexperienced? ... (55 words)

My aunt and I love each other but I'm dating her daughter and don't know what to do.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6180 days ago

13 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - My aunt 38 comes round our house a lot, she is single and had a daughter thats 12. About 1 year ago I started to notice her differently and she took attention to this and would bend down in front of me to pick something up giving me a clear view of her breast and walk in on me ... (133 words)

I like him a lot but I don't have any feelings towards him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6248 days ago

13 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm seeing this guy at the moment and weve been togerther for a month and a half. when I met him I was a virgin and I'm not now I like him a lot but I don't have any feelings towards him. Everyone I tell says I should see how it goes and give him a chance? I know he re... (86 words)

The Prom...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6100 days ago

13 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I are in high school and have been going out for a while. We are preparing for the big prom. We are both looking forward to this special time together. Because, my boyfriend has been so nice and caring about me over our time dating throughout high school I said ... (361 words)

I went behind my best friend's back with her ex and I don't know how I feel about him... help!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6248 days ago

13 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend broke it off with her boyfriend who I then became really good friends with. We would meet up and get along really well until on a night out, my best friend went home early and this guy came back to mine. We just kissed but then it started up feelings which I ... (173 words)

How do I move on after being together for 2 and a half years?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6248 days ago

13 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Today my girlfriend broke up with me after 2 and 1/2 years, she had some issues about a month ago but she said that we had sorted them out. I went to see her today and she said we should break up, I dont know what to do it was out of nowhere. I want her back. I was with her ... (78 words)

I'm concerned about my ex's welfare, is this so wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6246 days ago

13 November 2007 (M)

- Help! I have not seen my ex for 6 months. The other day, a buddy told me he had seen her at a store we used to work together at, talking to a former colleague(female)..my buddy told me she looked pregnant, or she had put alot of weight on..he said she looked like she was or ... (138 words)

She's wants to go slow but thinks that I don't. How do I convince her of this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6248 days ago

13 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I met this girl on match.com and we were getting on fanstatic and we were getting quite close. We were dating for about a week or so and we got onto the subject of what we thought about each other and i curiously asked whether she wanted a relationship in the future. she said ... (124 words)

Help! Theres another girl "sniffing" around my guy..what should I do about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6248 days ago

13 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I've had a long string of bad relationships but this time ive found a really nice guy. Only problem is theres another girl "sniffing" around. She knows full well he has a girlfriend yet she still persists to post flirty messages on his facebook, even though this is blatentl... (126 words)

His text message to me was very offensive and wrong! How do I handle this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6248 days ago

13 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel like an idiot. I went out last night to celebrate a friend's birthday. With us was a man that I have had a crush on for quite some time. There is one problem though. He is friends with my ex. I realize that this is not appropriate on so many levels, but I like him. ... (345 words)

He mentioned he wants me in a 3'some with his best friend and...now, he's got the females neighbors number on his phone. What is up with this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6248 days ago

13 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - A little confused about my boyfriend if he truly loves me. We've been together for 2yrs 1/2 and we were making love when all of a sudden he whispered in my ear that he would love to see his best friend have sex with me cuz he's like a brother to him.Mind you I've never spoken ... (163 words)

I think I am pushing him away! How can I stop being so paranoid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6246 days ago

13 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this guy who used to live near me before he went to uni five hours away from me. He said he liked me and hes back at christmas and we were going to "get together" then. he used to come on msn every night and talk to me for hours but recently he hasnt been on and we will ... (225 words)

Am I stupid to settle with someone who loves his money more than me? Advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6248 days ago

13 November 2007 (F)

age - I am 47 a housewife and is going through divorce at the moment. The life with my husband in the last year is a nightmare. He didnt help me with anything I need at home and gave me less month every month. Sex life is not exist. I was on the verge of break down. I met this ... (224 words)

Not sure if I want to get back together with him or not. Can we rebuild the trust?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6160 days ago

13 November 2007 (F)

age - I left my ex-bf a little over a month ago, and he keeps calling me almost every day. We don't have much to talk about, or at least I don't. Not like when we first met and couldn't shut up. The thing is, he was married to someone, (let's call her ex #3) when we met, and she ... (887 words)

Husband is Deployed, and I'm lonely. Is online relationships and flirting as a coping method...advice?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

13 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Im 22 Happily married and have a beautiful daughter whose now 8 months old. My husband is deployed atm, and i find myself very lonely, and i am seeking comfort in online flirting, and i now have 3 friends who think they love me ( all met online). They live far away and know ... (97 words)

Do I stay with my problematic bf or go for the older guy, who is 'not really' into relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6248 days ago

13 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship for 20 months now, we have broken up once for about 2 months and then got back together. everything was going well but he is very difficult and we always fight about something. There is another guy that im quite keen on but he is older and not ... (63 words)

My bf is very difficult and we always fight...and now there is another guy I am keen on.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6248 days ago

13 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship for 20 months now, we have broken up once for about 2 months and then got back together. Everything was going well but he is vert difficult and we always fight about something. There is another guy that im quite keen on but he is older and not ... (63 words)

How can I help her cope??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6247 days ago

13 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - A friend of mine poured her heart out to me, because a member of her family has been rushed into hospital with serious conditions. I was with her when she heard the news and was trying to reassure her best i could saying dat they'll be alright! She burst into tears and well... ... (143 words)

He says he will get therapy but will he change??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6248 days ago

13 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Last week i found out that my boyfriend of 3 months cheated on me and when i confronted him he denied it he was crying hysterically and we tried to talk about it. He finally admitted to cheating once with 1 girl but claims he doesnt know what happened and cannot explain ... (240 words)

How should I tell the guy I am dating I have HPV??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

13 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I found out that I have HPV a few months ago. I have the type that can only cause cervical cancer. There are no other symptoms. I am now dating a new guy. We have not had sex yet. I need to tell him that I have this before it gets that far. I am scared to death. But, it ... (113 words)

How can I get to talk to her on her own?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6245 days ago

13 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm 15 and i'm currently in a relationship with a girl my age. We've been together 2 months now and we still find it hard to talk to each other directly. We mostly hang around with her mates and i don't mind that but i think its stopping me and her from talking. Any Adv... (67 words)

I cant feel anything during sex...any tips??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6248 days ago

13 November 2007 (F)

- Hi, I can't feel anthing whilst having sex with my partner can anyone recommend some new positions we can try? Thank you ;-)... (24 words)

What could be going on in her head?? A women's perspective please...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6248 days ago

13 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, Im new on here. My girlfriend broke up with me nearly two months ago. I thought we were doing fine and she just came out with it. She has ignored all my texts apart from the one that said i had some of her things and wanted to return them. She just replied and gave me ... (217 words)

Will he ever leave her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6218 days ago

13 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help me im in love with a married man who doesnt live near me. We see each other often. We have been together 6 month they have only been married 4. Will he ever leave? I want to move to be closer to him but dont think he would agree. ... (51 words)

I really want to date my friend but don't want to make an enemy of my other friend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6244 days ago

13 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I have feelings 4 my best friend and i was planning to tell her soon but i found out that she likes one of my friends and they went out but they stopped cause he was actin like a jerk. She told me that she still has feelings for him and i am sure he still has feelins for her. ... (122 words)

Can anyone tell me what's going on in my mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6248 days ago

13 November 2007 (F)

age - Im 47 a housewife just divorced my husband. We've been married for 20 years. He is a control freak and very selfish. Im not happy with him for many years but just dont have the encourage to leave him. Now Im on my own. Soon after my divorce I met this man. He is 65 years... (182 words)

I'm afraid to tell my bf I'm pregnant. I'm 16 and he's currently in another country until June.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6245 days ago

13 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - A little help here guys? Okay im 16 years old and 4 weeks ago my boyfriend moved to another country, to be back sometime between January and June!! BIG problem. Today i found out, im six weeks pregnant, definatley my boyfriends i have no doubt about that! ... (224 words)

What are women like

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6248 days ago

13 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - i am 22 years old but still i dont have girlfriend.even i dont know how to asking girls for love .what am i suppose to do?... (26 words)

She's not so intuitive as me. Do I tell her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6248 days ago

13 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend and I get on very well, but lately it's beginning to feel like I'm the one who always solves all her problems, I'm the one she comes to for advice, I'm the one she comes to for a shoulder to cry on. I don't mind any of this in the slightest! However when I... (209 words)

How can I avoid these feelings I have for my mother?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6169 days ago

13 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I accidently visited your website and your advises are good. I don't know you can give me an advise with my problem. If you think you can't please advise me the alternate solutions. I am really shy to tell this and keeping my name anonymous. I am having different problem. ... (268 words)

Do I leave him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6248 days ago

13 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - ive been with my boyfriend for three years and we selpt together and im not a virgin anymore but here in egypt you cant tell that you`re not a virgin. one year ago i lied to him but i didnt mean to i was supposed to travel for the weekend but i didnt i stayed at a hotel wi... (152 words)

Is this age gap important?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6243 days ago

13 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - is it ok to have a relationship,when the boy is 17years old and the girl is 21years old?age gap?... (19 words)

How do I keep my boyfriend away from this gay guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6248 days ago

13 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i have a huge problem my best friend "guy" is inlove with my boyfriend!! i know my best friend for 6 years through this years i didnt know he was gay and actually i knew my boyfriend from him and because of me they are really good friends and i hate it. i talked alot with my ... (123 words)

What can I do to get her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6248 days ago

13 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey I just tonight think i lost my wife, i have done everything to make her happy and healthy. Then tonight she tells me she wants to leave and move in with a ex-boyfriend who by the way cheated on her over 40 times in 6 months. My question is what do i do to help ease the pa... (69 words)

How can I improve my English?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6248 days ago

13 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - how can i improve my english language?I neen any body who is in position to help me by providing me all the necessary fascilities.... (24 words)

I need some guidance about my forthcoming arranged marriage.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6247 days ago

13 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I m 27 yrs. old, I was having an affair with a boy in our nearby relations when I was in class 12th and it last for 4 yrs. Suddenly, something happend and I started quitting with that boy and started giving him indications for that. I didn't talk to him for atleast 1 1/2 ... (251 words)

Does the colour of my vagina need looking at?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6248 days ago

13 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I do not know when I noticed, but my vagina is a dark brownish color, when it's normal color should be white.. or pink because I am asian, my natural skin color is light. Should I be concerned? Should I have it checked?... (43 words)

My partner calls his ex twice-third times a day - to ask about his children, he says. Am I being unreasonable?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6248 days ago

13 November 2007 (F)

age - my partner sees his children twice a week 1 evening during the week and all day sunday as he works long hours those are the only times possible which i am in total agreement with; the problem i have is he calls his ex wife twice maybe three times a day most days which i have ... (91 words)

I'm confused. How do I know if he likes me or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6246 days ago

13 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm starting to fall for a guy who've ive met twice though mutual friends (one of whom is cheating on her boyfriend with my ex - thats another thing in itself). I think this guy is charming. I really would like to get more time with him and even get together with him. How do i ... (147 words)

How can I avoid sabotaging this relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6248 days ago

13 November 2007 (F)

- Hi, My boyfriend has been sent away with work for a month or so. I'm missing him so badly and I have slipped into major paranoia mode. He texts me most days but says he has a work phone and will get in trouble if he keeps ringing me and texting me as the number will show up. ... (145 words)

Stay or go

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6248 days ago

13 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Well me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years now and we hhave a 10 month old but we fight all the time because he chooses his friends over us alot.He is 25 years old and a crack addict whos tried to get help but relapses and not only to spend 40,60$ more like 1000$, ... (127 words)

Is my unstable relationship with my father the cause of all this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6236 days ago

13 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I've got a problem that I've only really been able to talk about with one person. See, I seem to fall in and out of infatuations so easily. I'm not sure why this is, exactly. I'm 14, nearly 15, and I've gone to an all-girls school all my life. I'm bisexual and really happy at ... (339 words)

What's the best way to meet a woman who wants sex but not marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6248 days ago

13 November 2007 (M)

age - what is best way to meet a woman (in 30s) who wants a sexual relationship with out marriage.... (18 words)

Are her hormones playing her up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6248 days ago

13 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been dating a girl for nearly a year, and a few months ago, we found out she was pregnant. Prior to this we had been shopping for rings, and talking marriage. Ever since we have found out, she has been a lot more distant, and extremely sensitive about the marriage ... (185 words)

I can't let go of him. How did I get tangled up with this loser?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

13 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - so i am in the worst situation i can imagine. i thought i was smarter than to get in a relationship with the biggest loser ever but i guess not and now im stuck and i need someones help. "Sam" and i have been together for almost a year. ON and Off. i come from a well off fami... (599 words)

I don't want to hurt anybody's feelings, especially not my sister's, but I am so curious if she's the product of an affair.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6218 days ago

13 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Sometimes I think that my sister is not my whole sister. I mean we were raised thinking that we were from both of our parents. We are exactly one year and a few days apart. She is older. Anyways, our whole lives people asked us if we were even sisters because we look absolutely ... (407 words)

I'm 14 and look at too much porn and need help to stop!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6229 days ago

13 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I look up too much porn and I'm 14 I need help... (12 words)

I'm very thin and lack the confidence to approach girls, although society has a good impression about me. Your opinion about thin men?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6249 days ago

13 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - hey there! this issue might be silly for you but i am becoming so serious about it; i haven't had a gf sofar in my life , the reason is not because i am no attractive.It is not to brag about, my friends told me i am attractive and also the society have a good impression of me, ... (166 words)

We both have an official partner and children. We've had occasional sex and suddenly he stops the affair. I think he's hiding what he really feels?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6243 days ago

13 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I briefly had a connection with a guy 4 yrs ago. It didnt end on the best of terms.4 yrs later he tracked me down-literaly and we exchanged numbers. We have been texting to each other for the last 6 months and having occasional sex. We have great chemistry in that department. ... (296 words)

Could someone get pregnant because of my hands?

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13 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a male. I masturbate in the shower sometimes. Most of the time i make sure no cum gets on my hands. And even if it does, I rinse it off with soap ...I was wondering if someone can get pregnant because of the remaining cum ? ... (48 words)

Relationships between cousins?

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13 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Should I ask my cousin if she likes me? Should I ask my cousin if she wanted 2 b with me? She is one year older then me.... (28 words)

Online dating - does he really love me? Some days are warm, others are cold. Is it all a lie?

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13 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have this boyfriend and and like he says he loves me and im his angel and he wouldnt be able to survive without me but sometimes it feels like he doesnt love me he barly even speaks with me and all of that he says he loves me.. maybes its me? is it? or is there some... (154 words)

We still meet after the break up as lovers, but we're not dating. What should I do? I don't want to hurt.

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13 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have dated this guy for 2 years...we just broke up 3 weeks ago but we lost our it to each other just last year when we broke up, we still make love to each other and we say we love each other and he says everything, is still there but we're not dating, i love him but i don't ... (65 words)

How to contact this girl via MySpace or this mutual friend without seeming stalker-ish?

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13 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - This past June I left for Basic Training and Infantry school for the Army National Guard. Three days, yes three, before shipping out, I saw the most gorgeous girl at my college. Normally I am extremely shy around girls, but with me leaving in 3 days, I asked her to lunch. ... (134 words)

We no longer have sex, but she won't talk about it, is she just using me?

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13 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - i am a male late 20's living with my girlfriend late 20's in the beginning our sex life was very good however a few months ago it steadily declined and is now at once a month ( your not going to bug me for a while are you ) sort of stuff. i have raised my concerns but i h... (323 words)

He won't give me oral, but I give it to him, am I being unreasonable in wanting it?

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13 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. Iam experiencing sexual troubles with my boyfriend. Iam 21, hes 22 and we have been going out for almost a year. We started having sex pretty recently and its pretty decent, except for one thing. I love recieving oral sex more than anything and he will not do it to ... (156 words)

He has sex with me but won't kiss me.... what does it mean?

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13 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - what does it mean when a guy well ex boyfriend will have sex with you but wont kiss you? hell kiss every part of you but your lips, why?... (29 words)

Can long distance relationships work?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6241 days ago

13 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and she's just turned 14 plus long distance, can it work, is it wrong? Basically, I'm 16 and she's just turned 14 and i need to know is it wrong baring in mind that we're in it for dating until she's old enough but even so is it wrong because of the age agp and then... (126 words)

I'm only attracted to OLDer men, whereas I'm 17. How do I stop this?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 4584 days ago

13 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay... so I'm ONLY into older men... it really sucks for me. anytime i like a guy there is always a problem regarding his age, but the sad thing is that i cannot help it. i really try to like guys my age, but it doesn't work out. it really hurts me. i haven't been in a ... (150 words)

He left me and I miss him so much!

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13 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help i love this guy so much but he lives in a different state then i do. we get into fights altho but we both still loved each other so much but then i got a boyfirend and he was jealous and shit but then he got a girlfriend and now im like jealous and i want him back i ... (159 words)

I'm 20, gay, and want sex all the time!

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13 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I am in my early 20s and want to have sex all the time. There is nothing I'd rather do and no time I'd find inconvenient. After having sex I feel like it just as much if not more. I presume that is normal for someone my age? I am gay and live with my boyfriend who I am faithful ... (194 words)

How can I tell if I'm pregnant?

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13 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I was wondering if any woman who have had babies could tell me what some of their symptoms were. I have recently started my period but I have heard that you can still be having that even though you are pregnant. I was talking to one of my friends and was telling her about all ... (109 words)

I'm gay, I fancy this guy at work, I think he may fancy me as well, but he's said he's straight, should I just ask him if he's interested?

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13 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - i am a gay male and i have a crush on a m8 in work. we hang around together in work and he knows i'm gay but he is straight (so he says). we went for a drink on our break last fri and back in wrk he was a bit tipsy and he asked if i wanted to go for a drink with him after wrk. ... (155 words)

I'm 16, in love with 24 yr old dirtbiker, I'm thinking of giving everything up for him, good idea?

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13 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - im a 16 year old girl whos in love with a 24 year old guy. ya see he works out a dirtbiking place i go camping at every weekend with my dad. when he has to go out on the trails to do sumtin he usually drags me out there and we just stand there and he holds me and we just enjoy ... (217 words)