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writes:i m 16 years old.my 17 years old brother wants to suck my boobs and wants me to give him a blow job. Please tel me what i should do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2007): Your brother and you both should see a counselor.
Incest -- sexual activity between siblings, or parents and children -- is plainly and simply unhealthy. In fact, it's a form of abuse.
Your brother may be viewed as, and even convicted as a criminal since he is attempting to pressure you into sexual activity. It doesn't matter if you are blood relatives Adopted. Or step-siblings. Anyone trying to pressure you into sexual activities is wrong.
Thankfully, you've been strong, trusted your instincts and said no, while seeking information and help.
Please do more of that! Go get help. Talk to a trusted doctor, or teacher. Talk to a best friend or their trusted parent or teacher if you don't have one you can trust.
Also, you can read about what is healthy vs. unhealthy sexual behavior from a real, medical site until you get in touch with someone you trust.
In the future? Please, don't rely on community discussion boards where your health and sexuality is concerned. They are a good start. But you need more information.
Even though I am on this community board now, many sick people are on here, trying to mess you up. There are also many people on these chat-groups and boards with the wrong information. Like in a game of "telephone." You understand!
Here's a site from an established, medical organization that specializes in women's health issues (and women's sexual / reproductive health issues). This page, see the link below, was written specifically to help teens with all kinds of questions:
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/sexual-health/teens-4315.htm
Just say no. Be strong. And get help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2007): I think you should do whatever you want. Neither one of this things are sex, though they can lead to sex. If you want to give him a blowjob, nad have him suck on your boobs,then go ahead and do it. If not, then don't. Ask yourself if you really want to do this and listen to your what your conscience says. Just be careful that if this escalates into full sex, that you use some kind of birth control.
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reader, amiamuppett  +, writes (6 November 2007):
i really think you should tell your parents as this is not right, dont be scared at all,
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2007): you could always show him the scene in amnityville horror two...if that isn't enough to get him to stop, tell someone who can stop it...a councelor or something...
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2007): This is atually very normal, because boys feel very emotional at this time and "Voila!" a girl that he knows and feels confortable with is staring him in the face. He's probably even shared a bath with you! My brother did this to me too, but I just said no, if you feel like you need to do something like that, tell your plants. He leaves me alone now, and we're cool. You just have to explain how it could get really dangerous, especially if you get a boyfriend, and it gets so serious that you accidentally get pregnant, who do you tell? because your boyfriend obviously thinks it's his, but you think it might be your brothers, how creepy is that? how on earth do you explain that?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2007): Your brother is out of order, tell him no and to find a girl that isnt his sister, its incest!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2007): You definitely should not do anthing sexual with your brother! He is your brother and it's incest and it's a sin. Do your parents know about this? Maybe you should tell them x
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reader, Xx-Ellie-xX  +, writes (4 November 2007):
He is your brother !! you cant do anything sexal with your own brother !! thats just wrong!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2007): Why are you asking us what you should do? Is it because you want to do it but think it's wrong? If you didn't want to do it, you would just tell him no and that would be the end of it. You would not be asking people here for advice. But the fact that you are asking for advice as to what to tell him tells me that some part of you wants to do it. So the question is, do you want to do it, and why?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2007): you need to be firm with him and explain ur his sister, its not right to do anything sexual with each other. he may want the practice so when he gets a girlfriend he feels more experienced, however practicing on u is wrong! he is probably having a urge, as is most common with guys that age.. but he needsto know its not right with u. if he continues, u need to tell someone, dont lethim force u!! good luck.
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reader, Richard_EMids +, writes (4 November 2007):
 Well your brother is straying away from what he knows to be right and is trying to involve you. Some boys have overwhelming sexual urges at this age. If he didn't have a younger sister what would he do? He needs to find a girlfriend? This instinctive drive that he is feeling is natures way of directing him to find a mate - a mate to mate with. And it shouldn't be his sister!
So you should first tell him firmly no. If he persists you you need to be very firm and threaten to tell your mother/father/grandmother/aunt/older sister - whoever there is that you could rely on. And if he continues then you will have tell somebody. If you give him any indication that it is a possibility he will keep pushing - so be absolutely clear when you refuse.
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (4 November 2007):
 Hello.
Has my friends have said you really need to tell your parents, this behavior is not normal for your older brother to be saying this to you, he really needs help, dont keep it to yourself you must tell some one.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2007): Go 4 it...u both need the practice as u r so young...as long as u dont tel any1 then nobody can think anythin of u. u will both feel much more satisfied and maybe u could make it into a regular thing. u should think yourself lucky that u have this opportunity
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reader, superdopah +, writes (4 November 2007):
tell your mum tell anyone who will believe you and try and stay away from him as much as you can! go to the police if you have to!
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reader, keely-h +, writes (4 November 2007):
 he is your older brother i would just ignore him are you sure he was not joking? even if he was thats still sick and its incest.try and ignore him and blank him.if he asks in future.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2007): don't even try to think about doing it tell your mum your brother is a pervert he needs profetional help, don't keep this to yourself .stay away from him and don't even let him touch you whatever he does tell your mom and let her take him to therapy for his good because he might end up in jail AS A PERVERT.
good luck . bye
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reader, rcn  +, writes (4 November 2007):
 Just say NO. It's not right. He sounds like a perv. Tell him to perv somewhere else and not with you. If he continues, tell a parent.
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