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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Am I not enough for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6201 days ago

28 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Why does my boyfriend feel the need to masturbate when I'm here and willing to try whatever he wants?... (19 words)

Which guy do I choose?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6197 days ago

28 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in love with a 35 year old man and I'm 19, I look and act more matured than my age and he looks much younger and acts younger than his age. I don't know why I feel this way about him, we've had our ups and downs yet we still love each other and also there is this boy in my ... (156 words)

Is cumming and having an orgasm the same thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6201 days ago

28 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - For a boy is cumming and orgasming the same thing?... (10 words)

I really love her, but is her emotional blackmail a good reason to stay with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6201 days ago

28 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi. I’m having a real crisis of the heart here. Let me explain. I’m not really sure if I’m happy in my current relationship and I think we need a break. My g/f and I have been together for a year now and we moved in together approximately two months ago. I love her, but I’... (521 words)

He's catholic I'm not, will this create problems later on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) age 41-50 - Hi, I'm just wondering what people think about long term relationships between people of different religions? Can it ever work? I'm in a relationship (almost a year and a half) with a lovely guy and we are very much in love and spend all our time together, but he is Cathol... (200 words)

What do I do about this pain in the ass?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6201 days ago

28 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - OK, so this is annoying me and I'm looking for some advice. I like this girl, who I think likes me back, and I got with her one night, well ever since my friend has been bothering me about it. He's constantly asking for details about what she was like and whatnot, and he... (294 words)

How do I get flat abs for my hols in 2 weeks time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6200 days ago

28 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - okay i know this isnt a relationship issue but i was in need of some help. the thing is i really despreatly want to loose a bit of weight and get nice flat abs. im not over weight needing to loose a lot, and im not stipidly skinny trying to get to size zero. but i have a big... (147 words)

My father-in-law died a year ago. How do I help my wife to get over her grief and enjoy our holiday?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6200 days ago

28 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello my wife's dad died just under a year ago and in afew weeks we are going for a long weekend in blackpool with her family and our daughter because that where he liked to go, they went there a lot of holidays and because he spent a lot of his childhood there. So its just ... (309 words)

Is he no longer interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

28 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been married to my high school sweetheart for a little over a year and somehow over the past 6 months have fallen completely in love with my boss who is 12 yrs older. My boss and i are friends and have worked together for almost 3 yrs. Over the past year he and i have g... (352 words)

Should I poke my nose in where it's probably not wanted?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6201 days ago

28 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - So I've been friends with with this guy a while. He's been with this girl for as long as I've known him and she's for the most part a decent person. The problem I have is that my friend has cheated on her on at least 17 different occasions. She has known about some of them ... (139 words)

Is wanting to see other women part of depression?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6200 days ago

28 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I was in a relationship for 7 years with this guy. Out of no where he tells me he's not in love with me anymore and that we just wouldn't work out. We have been broken up for about a month, and I decided I needed to clear the air for myself about these reasons for brea... (300 words)

Does my manager like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6197 days ago

28 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been working in my new job now for a few weeks, and i think one of my managers may have a crush on me, over the last few weeks hes been getting steadily more and more friendly towards me and i catch him staring at me alot. he always asks how my works going and helps me ... (106 words)

Do I deserve more than just a text now and then?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

28 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - So, I am confused. I have been hanging out with this guy I met about a month ago off and on. We've hung out about 4 times together. Usually watching movies and t.v. We had sex for the first time this past weekend. He text me a bit after that happened. He goes in spurts ... (144 words)

Is there a difference between caring for someone and loving them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6201 days ago

28 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I was seeing a girl for about a year until 2 weeks ago when she decided to end things. The reason being "buried" feelings for her ex resurfaced. she is not with him now/yet but said she wanted clarity and possibly give it another go with him in the future to see what happens. ... (235 words)

Shall I ignore him for some time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6172 days ago

28 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there, i had a "relationship" with a muslem man for about 2 years, everything worked good, he was asking about marrige and i did agree after some time. 2 weeks ago he said he cant get further with me and that he only wants a friendship with me. He explaind his self : that h... (210 words)

I'm late, the test says 'negative' but I am really stressed out.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

28 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been having sex with my boyfriend for about four months now and things have been going great. My periods have always been a little unpredictable and my longets cycle lasted 42 days. My period is now 4 days late from the 42 day mark and I was getting really worried that i ... (93 words)

How can I handle his control-freak son-in-law??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6202 days ago

28 November 2007 (F)

age - I need help with this one!!!! The man that i have been dating is 69 years old and i am 65 yrs old. He has a son-in-law that wants to control him and everyone else. He wants to tell my man who to date and anything else that pretains to me and him. His son-in-law contr... (396 words)

How can I stop being so over protective and start to trust my bf??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

28 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I think i'm a bit weird...you know, a bit to over protective with my bfs. When i have bf's i can get very protective. For instance i don't like him looking at other girls. Sometimes my mates flirt with my bf and i kind of pull him away from them because before now i'v s... (137 words)

Is it ok to date an ex's best friend??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6201 days ago

28 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Well i am going to ask this girl out soon and we flirt alot and it just so happens that her best friend is my ex. I was wondering if it was looked down upon. Me and my ex are still really good friends. Any help would be great... ... (52 words)

I just don't know how to tell my mum we are sleeping together without her losing trust in me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6113 days ago

28 November 2007 (F)

- Hey... I'm 17 and been with my guy for 6 months (he's almost 19) we've had sex like 6 times in the relationship and i want to tell my mum about it because i promised her that when i did i would tell her but i just dont know how as i cant give her exact dates or a place as there... (140 words)

I'm madly in love with a boy but my parents wont let me go to his house.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

28 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 14 years old, and im madly in love with a boy thats 17 and will be 18 in January and his paretns let him do what ever he wants.. Mine won't even let me go to his house. What do I do?... (43 words)

My clit has moved. Is this normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6197 days ago

28 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been masturbating for a while, and before I started masturbating my clit was centered, but now that I have started masturbating more, my clit leans to the side, instead of being centered. Is this normal?... (36 words)

He isn't ever open about his feelings...should I tell him how I feel or keep quiet??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) age 30-35 - I like this boy and i don't know whether he likes me or not. I can't ask him because he isn't ever open about his feelings. He goes around kissing girls on the cheeks and stuff but I'm the only one he kisses on the lips. I don't want to lose him as a friend. Should i tell him ... (65 words)

Should I act less interested so she wakes up??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

28 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Sorry to bother you all with such a petty situation but: i go to some social club and i recently found out that a girl likes me. She was really upset with the fact that she found it so hard to tell me, eventhough i liked her back (which i never told her). One thing led ... (167 words)

Never been kissed...but there is a boy I like and I don't know what to do.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6193 days ago

28 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16, and I've never been kissed . . . I feel like a pathetic excuse for a 16 year old . . . But there is a boy I really like, and i've liked him since June this year . . . I like him so much that I don't know how to act or what to do... any advice? huge love...... (69 words)

I cant figure her out...when I'm gone she misses me but when I'm around she doesn't want to hang out with me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

28 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been going out with the same girl on and off for the past few years. I can't seem to figure her out. When I'm gone, she yearns for me and wants me badly. But as soon as I come around, she'll make any excuse not to hang out with me. What should I do?... (60 words)

I've got cramps and spotting...could I be pregant??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6198 days ago

28 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I came off the pill because it was makeing me ill. I was off it for 3 weeks. I had my period on the 15th of November and i came off it on the 19th of November on the 26th there was a spot of blood in my knickers and i had like a small cramp feeling. I have still got it i a... (137 words)

How come my friend doesn't care about being single??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

28 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Well i have this friend she is fun out goin athletic pretty and everything but she cant get a boyfriend for some reason. I mean she has had lil boyfriends in the past but no one serious. I've been telling her that having a boyfriend is so great thee's nothing more heart fi... (66 words)

I thought this guy was different...but the ex txts and he goes running and he lives with another ex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

28 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - So i have been dating this guy for one month but problem one: he has his ex girlfriend still living with him. problem two: he used to date a lass thats still after him and keeps texting him and wont leave him alone the other day he was with me and she said she wanted to talk ... (94 words)

His ex is pregant with his child, he says he just wants to be in the babies life but what if he feels different when its born??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

28 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I fancied this lad from work for eight months but was too scared to ask him out but recently we have been texting and arranged to meet up and he told me he really liked me and has done for ages but was too scared to ask me out. Anyway we had sex and are meeting up again th... (183 words)

He is an absolute angel to me...but he wont take me seriously.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6202 days ago

28 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 10 months nearly 11 this friday. Hes the best ever but the thing is hes always saying i like other boys and it gets to me sometimes he says that he is joking but it hurts me deep down. Can you really fall in love at 14. ive done ... (105 words)

How do I control my anger now I'm working with the girl my bf cheated with...?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

28 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend cheated with a girl I will now be working with she knows who I am and I know who she is.....what can I do to keep my cool....cause ill start thinking and wanna kick her ass!!! We new each other before she messed with him and she new he was my man like 3 weeks after ... (110 words)

Worried about pregnancy....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

28 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help... I am 16 years old and i am in 5th year. I am the only one in my year who hasn't had sex yet. I am afraid of getting pregnant but this guy has had a lot more experience than me. He told me he wants to start seeing me but i don't even know what that means, i ha... (141 words)

We're having our 1st anniversary and I want to give her something unique and romantic but won't freak her out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

28 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - hey people just a general question..ive been with my gf for a year now can ne1 help me with any unique romantic ideas? and also is it weird to give an anniversary card because i thought that might be nice bt i thort that something married couples do..i dnt want to freak her out... (54 words)

My friend's stategy to attract women. What do you think?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

28 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently spoke to one of my guy friends about how he gets girls/woman to like him ( because he always seems to have woman on the go) He said that he gives them attention and then cuts it off and this makes them want more? What do you think? Does this work? ... (80 words)

She wants us to have sex every single night and it is wearing me out. How do I stop this crazy train??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6164 days ago

28 November 2007 (M)

age - I have been dating this girl, and we have been having sex nonstop almost every night since our second date. It’s been three months now, and it’s like every night for an hour or two. I’m not as young as I use to be, and although I love it, the grind is wearing me out. How do ... (115 words)

Never had a good relationship, except my friendship with him. Should I accept his proposal of living together? I love him.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6201 days ago

28 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in my 20s and I had a really unsettled childhood. I experimented with drugs and drink from when I was very young and I had a on-enight-stand when i was 15 and fell pregnant with my daughter. I ended up vry deep into drugs, seriously addicted, but I'd been clean for 2 ye... (307 words)

If I do not give him enough attention he has panick attacks or cries, being over-sensitive. How to deal with this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

28 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. I don't know what to do anymore!I'm a mess. I am only 15 but i'm with this guy, he's prone to panic attacks and I've caused him to have three. I didn't let myself in for this! Whatever I do he cries or has a panic attack. A propper one as well. One put him in hospital. And ... (133 words)

We became rommates instead of married lovers, I feel miserable and lonely and think I should not have married her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

28 November 2007 (M)

age - i want to divorce my wife...there is no intamacy or love between us anymore. she refuses to go to counselling now. she says she won't give me a divorce. we've become roommates instead of married lovers. i think we should never have got married in the first place. i feel so ... (56 words)

Two guys want me and I can't choose, help me!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

28 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I was goin out with my boyfriend for 5 years, I broke up wih him about 2months ago to go out with a guy who I have known for a gud few years who i have always been very good friends with and dated for a few months in school. my ex keeps ringing and txin me askin for another ... (217 words)

She is unsure if she can trust me and continue with me because I confessed I cheated. Is there hope for us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

28 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife left me a year and a half ago. We decided about 2 months ago to get back together. But before we got back together I told her that I cheated on her when we were married....she did not know this when she left. Now she is faced with the issue of me lying all this time. I ... (132 words)

We broke up, then I found it was my duty to try again - but the time apart has changed things even more, and there are hardly things in common anymore or inspirational conversations. How do I know when it is time to stop trying?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6202 days ago

28 November 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm trying to find out whether I'll regret ending my relationship (again!). My partner and I split up in February - this year after been seeing each other for just over 4 years although we didn't live together or anything. We each have children from previous relationships and ... (333 words)

Is this guy flirting with me? And how do I approach this situation without anyone around noticing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

28 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay, maybe someone can help me on this. I work in a gourmet store and theres this guy that comes in every other day and we always make eye contact with each other and chit chat with each other. When ever he comes to my register and sees me, he winks and smiles at me and then ... (128 words)

Am I being very selective about my Internet acquaintances? Why did this guy retreat when he seemed so enthusiastic initially?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

28 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Have been on line dating for few months, not much success really because some of the guys are damn rude if you don't send a pic or give your email out immediately...been on a few dates, very boring no chemistry at all. I think I'm being really choosy. Anyway mailed this guy and ... (216 words)

He is constantly on the internet or looking at hot girls on tv and masturbating. How do I talk about this without putting him in defence mode?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6197 days ago

28 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I see my husband looking at other women all the time. We have sex the night before and the next morning his is on the internet or looking at some hot girl on tv and masterbateing. I am so confussed and it makes me not want to be touch by him. When I bring it up he say that... (149 words)

The last thing I want to do is leave her but I'm tierd of this drama.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6201 days ago

28 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey, I'm 22 and i really like this girl. We have been seeing each other for about a month and half. I made the mistake of asking her to be my girlfriend after only 3 weeks when her heart is still broke over a lad. She's so the person i been looking for because shes fun... (479 words)

Any ideas how I can talk to my mum about losing my virginity without upsetting her??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6185 days ago

28 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and wanting to lose my virginity to my 20 yo bf of 4 months. I would prefer i told my mum cause then i have someone to talk to about it but i'm not sure how she would react. I know she would prefer if i waited till i was older but i told her that i put myself on the pill... (119 words)

Anyone else have a real preference for sex in evenings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

28 November 2007 (M)

- I really prefer sex in the evening. Morning sex rarely does anything for me in fact although I'll sometimes have the horn the wee fella downstairs is asleep. Bed time is another matter and I'm a sex pest. Anyone else like this? Prefer night to mornings or vice-ver... (62 words)

Moving in with my fiancee was the biggest mistake of my life...and now I only love her as a friend.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

28 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Don't know what to do with the situation that i am in at the moment. Im with my fiancee 2 years, we're engaged about 12 months now, but 6 months ago we decided to buy a house and live together. I feel its the biggest mistake of my life. I dont really want to be with or live ... (317 words)

She came over...we made out...and now she doesn't seem to want to talk to me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

28 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I met this female on a dating site. She lives a few minutes from me. We have talked on the telephone and then she called me up and said she wanted to come over. I agreed. We watched a movie and i rubbed her shoulders and lower back. We were talking and we both said we didnt wa... (129 words)

If he loves me...shouldn't he care how I feel??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

28 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is giving me mixed signals all the time. He says he loves me but i dont know if he means it. He always goes running off to some other girl besides me. Ok one day another girl was crying because she wanted to go out with someone that was way way older than her. Wel... (133 words)

I'm not a material girl but this older guys meaness with money bores me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

28 November 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 40 and in the middle of settleing my divorce. We've been married for 20 years. I met this man 16 years older than me. I love the affection he gives to me. He's loaded but very mean with money. He wont go out for a meal or spend a bit more so we can do somethin... (122 words)

I love my girlfriend, but she's lying about how she feels!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

28 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - hello. i have been going out with my gf whos 17 and im 17 for 23 months today,and i love her and i know some people say that im too young to know what love is.But i know that i love her lots.and a few months ago i split up with her bacause the stress of college and home was ... (156 words)

I'm dumping him, but I'm scared of being single... what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

28 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am dumping someone soon as he is controlling and tells me what to do. I am scared about being single again as i have had a tough life i though yes finally i have something good but it being snatched away. he has a daughter wit someone else before i meet him. i just d... (114 words)

Why did he let me stay the night? Does he like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

28 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hi,need some advice really,i really like this guy ill name '?' and i hope he likes me, well yesterday i was talking to one of his mates '?' was not there and i offered to take him somewhere to get something then back to his house,then his mate rang '?' about what im doing i ... (180 words)

Sex from behind/on top... how do I make it enjoyable for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

28 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - What do guys like you to do (how to move) when you are having sex from behind (doggy style)?? Also, how do you have sex on top when the penis is quite small? I want to make sure it is enjoyable to him. ... (45 words)

Scared of losing my virginity.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

28 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hiya, I'm 19 and i'm still a virgin. I'm scared of losing it because i was sexual harrassed in high school, and i've never had a real long relationship. When i was sexual harrassed i had a bf and he did nothing, he didn't comfort me or do or say anything to the lad who did it. ... (109 words)

He says I should learn to enjoy touching and cuddling and all the sex is createing too much pressure.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

28 November 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 42, just divorced and met this man 20 years older than me. We start to have sex two or three time a day when we are together. I really enjoyed it because my marriage is lack of sex. He said I am wanting too much sex and it is a sign of insecurity. It also creates ... (111 words)

My gf is very confused and thinks that dating other people is the only way to discover the truth of her feelings for me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

28 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Here is the situation, my relationship with my gf has been great, i realized last weekend that i had been smothering her, by being with her all the time. I mean i don't care what she does with her friends, but when she started dating me they stopped calling her to do stuff. I... (195 words)

Will he stop telling me what to do??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

28 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 30 my boyfriend is 24 we have been dating for a year, I left home at 21 and until three weeks ago he has never moved out of home. We moved in together 3 weeks ago and since then he keeps telling me how to do things, common sense stuff, driving, cooking, cleaning, it is dr... (79 words)

Is he being too impaitent with me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6202 days ago

28 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, I met a man on a dating site he asked to get to know me, then i agreed. We have been talking for 1 month and a half now on the phone for hours and chatting on line too for hours. He introduced me to his sister and mum. The problem now is that he says he loves me so much ... (211 words)

How do I stop feeling shy with my guy??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6202 days ago

28 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a relationship with a guy ive never known hes true lifestory yet..i love him but i feel shy of him...he do everything only to make me happy and i dont know how can i develop myself not to feel shy with him?? What can i do so i can get closer with him???... (56 words)

Is it possible to have the menopause this young??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

28 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, I'm 21 and dont have kids yet but i'm planning to have a baby next year, but i'm concerned about my health. I'm a heart patient and i also experience hot flushes, which so far i understand is a symptom of menopause. Do you think its possible for me to experience menop... (72 words)

How can I get our sizzling love back??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

28 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been in a platonic relationship wit my girlfriend for about 5 months now. She adored me very much and always expressed it profusely but after the first 2months,we were kinda seperated by distance because i was doing my IT(student program)in a different town. Recent... (103 words)

Will he hurt me again and is he a player??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

28 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry if this is long, Right, well im 14 and in March this year and i got with an amazing guy i had been after for ages and we went out for 1 month. The day before we broke up he passed his driving test i found out he had cheated on me. Before i got with him i had heard that h... (340 words)

How can I help people in need?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6202 days ago

28 November 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I want to healp peoples who are poor, haven`t family or orphans, and so on. to do this I don`t have any adviser , exept my God what can you advise me? thank you God bless you I love you so much because of christ... (61 words)

Is love worth waiting for??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

28 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - In relation with my last question... i do know he still loves me its one of those things you just know but is love really worth waiting for? I mean even when you got to go through a bunch of crap?... (41 words)

Sick with dread at the thought of Christmas and the tension it causes.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

28 November 2007 (?) age 36-40 - Hi, Christmas is coming and the thought of Christmas day makes me feel sick, not with excitement but with dread. Right to explain, The first year my partner and I were together, we hardly knew each other and spent Christmas day apart (even though we lived together) and that was... (486 words)

I feel totally betrayed by her moving on so quickly.

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28 November 2007 (M)

- Hi everyone, I know I've been droning on about this, but I'm trying to make sense of it in my head and up until now I'm totally unsuccessful. My ex told me she loved me, but due to a bit of stupid drunken self pity, text her 2 days later asking her if she still wanted to see m... (273 words)

Missing having my bubbly girlfriend. Will I ever have this again?

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28 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I miss having somebody who loves me, and somebody to love in return. I fell out of a fun and happy relationship earlier this year which broke up after my girlfriend went to Uni miles away, and decided that's where she had to draw the line. I do miss her though. I love h... (125 words)

Missed my chance with my crush....should I try and be her friend??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

28 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I think I may have missed my chance with a girl I have a bit of a crush on. She was on the uni dating site, and I'd seen her around a couple of times. Have thought about contacting her but something inside of me was always holding me back. I've never actually spoken t... (117 words)

How long will a guy wait for sex??

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 2056 days ago

28 November 2007 (F)

- So heres just a general question to see what everyones point of view is. How long is a unreasonable amount of time to expect a guy to wait for sex? What I mean is, say a girl isnt ready to have sex with her bf (whether she be a virgin or not) but the bf is ready...how long wou... (244 words)

How can I stop thinking about the future and think about the here and now??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

28 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok i recently came on and said i was stessing about leaving school although i dont leave till may 2009. I am still upset and recently had a dream about the last day of year 11 which triggerd all thease emotions. I know i can always stop for sixth form or go to collge but i st... (82 words)

My girlfriend is pregant with another mans child...what should I do??

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 November 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend is pregnant by another man! I have been with my girlfriend for nearly 6 years. Over the last 3 years or so she has had an increasing problem with drink and because of this, she has been telling lies over the most stupid things. I first discovered about her dish... (206 words)

My boyfriend was a peeping tom and I am disgusted but we are getting married.

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28 November 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Can you help me...last week i found on a camera a recording of a girl getting dressed in front of a window, my boyfriend had been standing in her garden watching her. He did this about three years before we got together and told me he was depressed at the time and did not know ... (79 words)

How can I get in touch without seeming like all the rest??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6201 days ago

28 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a single 31 year old attractive woman in NYC. After many years of dead end dates and relationships I have decided to focus on my career and success and so far have been doing well. But, last night I was watching TV and there on TV was a friend of mine from HS. Handsome, ... (131 words)

A poem for christmas? What do you think?

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28 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I would like some opinions on an idea for a gift this Christmas...it is for a special guy that I have my eye on, but as circumstances have us living far apart, I have been trying to come up with something that is original and kind of sweet in a lighthearted way that shows how ... (275 words)

How can I revive our love?

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28 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Our Love is Dying... I met the cutest guy in april. Him and me instantly clicked and we started going out. We have been going out for about 7months now. We hang out everyday except for the days i go to college. However, our relationship went frm liking, to loving, to intam... (75 words)

She told me she loved me... on our first date! I'm freaking out!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

28 November 2007 (M)

age - I just dated this woman who just told me at the end of the date, our first date, she loved me. Not liked me, LOVED me. I was taken aback, I said..wow I really like her too. I'm freaking out here. I really do like her and I can see the potential of loving her if we keep ... (109 words)

How do I choose between two girls who are perfect?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

28 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I’m in this kind dilemma’s. Recently, I gotta know these 2 great girls. both are extremely hot and pretty, both of them are from differents country. one is from China yet another was from neighbour country and both of them was falling in love with me and want to be my wife ... (193 words)

22 year old virgin. What can I do?

This question has 93 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

28 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 22 years old and still a virgin. My friends think it's very strange and laugh at me. Are there other women in the same situation? Even my bf was turned off when I told him? How do i get him back?... (43 words)

My boyfriend cheated on me... with a guy.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

28 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - so, i had a boyfriend and it was going really well...except for the fact that i thought he was gay, he was extremely sweet, borderline genius, and had an incredible bod. he calls me one day and tells me hes so sorry blah blah blah, so i tell him i wont get mad just tell me ... (194 words)

She cheated. What should I do now?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6201 days ago

28 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with a girl for 4 years, lived together for 3, we have a house together and were raising her two children, things were great at first but overtime our communication broke down and she sought the attetion of another guy, I asked her if she was cheating she said no, ... (118 words)

I'm bored and uncomfortable with my life. Sometimes I indulge in very dangerous things!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

28 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Howdy, This is bound to be kind of long sorry but rounds to a question in the end.. I am 27, semi hot down to earth mother. Recently I have been wondering about my sexual identity. I have been married for 1 year but together for 10 years with my husband. We have a... (641 words)

I feel horny... but how do you know when you're ready for sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

28 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - well u see i am 13 years old and i have been getting really horney lately and have been thinking a lot about sex but i can't decide what to do if i should have sex or not or what please help and answer my question please... (47 words)

My long distance boyfriend and I plan to get married in 2008... But he hasn't proposed yet. Does a proposal really matter?

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28 November 2007 (F) age 41-50 - So my boyfriend and I have been together for a year. On our one year anniversary, I made him a photobook of our past year together and gave him a card. He didn't get me anything. I wasn't bothered by this - should I be? We have a long distance relationship as he lives 4.5 ... (183 words)

Together 4 years, every time we argue he ignores me for days, and sleep in the living room. Is this normal?

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28 November 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I live with my bf for 4 yrs now and everytime we argue he ignore me for 3 to 6 days. Sleeps in the living room and doesn't even eat the food I cook. Is this normal when you live with someone? It's getting very annoying... (46 words)

After 3 weeks, she stopped calling me. What is she trying to tell me?

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28 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok, here's the situation. Hope I include everything. Meet this girl a little over a month ago. I am divorced with two kids and she has a son. We begin chatting over the phone pretty much everyday. She would call and text me everyday. I would let her dictate contacting me most ... (327 words)

?She needs space what do I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6199 days ago

28 November 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi there, my girlfriend for 5 months now needs space but she says she loves me. It's been about a week now and she texts me I do miss you. Why is that she told me that she needed to be single for a while and be on here own and she can't be my girlfriend? I don't understand a ... (76 words)

I know what I deserve and it's not to be "the other woman" or someone's "play thing..."

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6198 days ago

28 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Trying to keep this short, I was in a relationship with "Frank" for a while before it went down hill and he cheated, we split. We were the best of friends prior to dating and did our best to stay friends through everything. Over the past year we casually dated, while seeing ... (548 words)

I want to start a relationship with her but don't know how...

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28 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I am an unhappily married man who has fallen in love with this recently divorced woman who has two childern. I would like to start a relationship with her, but don't know how to go about starting one with her. I have been alone with her and would like to say or do somethin... (88 words)

Men!!! Why are they so confusing?

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28 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Men! why are they confusing, ok.. I am happy happy happy wid my boyf..4 years..we have ups and downs..but all good..! we both share the same best mate..he use to be my boyfs best pal..but now hes mine too! we have a laugh..and when i first met them 5 years ago (we have all... (210 words)

How do I talk to him about this with out making him feel like I'm pushing him to get the operation?

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28 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 22 and my fiance is 33 we have been tryng for children for 3 years and had no luck. my fiance went and got tested and went to a specialist and has now been told he is unable to have children naturally, he can have an opperation to eject sperm from his balls, we spoke about ... (129 words)

I really need your help...

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28 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf dumped me after he found out his best friend, who has a gf himself, had kissed me once at school when he wasn't around. My ex now says that his friend kissed me because he likes me but is just afraid to say so (besides kissing me, he had also hugged me all the time, ... (215 words)

What can I say to get her attention?

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28 November 2007 (M)

- This is only a short question, where I live, I catch the tram into the city centre as I live 12 miles outside of the city and the tram is in the bus station where I live and there is a small paper shop there. I've been there the last 2 mornings and the girl who works there is ... (98 words)

Am I being silly or do I have a reason to be irritated?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6157 days ago

28 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Given all the questions about photos of ex's on this site I thought I would throw my own worry into the mix. My boyfriend has pictures on his computer of his ex posing very provocatively in her underwear, touching herself, naked, bent over,etc, etc. there are even photos o... (342 words)

I'm not sure if this girl likes me or not... what do you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6070 days ago

28 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm looking for some opinions here, I'm not sure if this girl likes me or not. We met on the weekend and hooked up, everyday since we've been keeping in touch through MSN, but just barely, whenever she's on she'll say hi to me, and whats up and that's pretty much where the c... (146 words)

Husband makes belittling comments about my looks

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28 November 2007 (F) age 41-50 - My husband is usually a very loving, caring, and sweet guy. We have been married for 10 years now and he has always told me how beautiful, smart, etc. I am. Recently, over the past year or so, that commentary has tapered off and he has even started saying rude things about my ... (228 words)

Idead for Christmas...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6180 days ago

28 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I have this idea for a christmas present for a lad I really like. I would like loads of messages saying whether you think it is too corny or any better ideas. I have already got him a little present which I am planning to wrap up, put in a nice christmas gift bag. I t... (114 words)