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writes:My boyfriend is working hard to start his own business. I know he wants me to have a comfortable lifestyle when I live with him. He wants me to not have to work to support our family.We have been together for 2 years (I'm 24 and he is 26). Our relationship is really steady. We have been looking into living together for the past year. Since there were couple of changes to our work, we have not taken any actions so far. We have talked in details about where (since we are in distant relationship right now), but not when. He's a man that thinks alot and keep it all to himself. I know he has alot on his mind right now about work. I'm not in a hurry to start living together. For all I know, maybe he is saving for a ring to get married first. If you were me, should I say/ask anything right now? He keeps telling me he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. Can't man just explain what's on his mind? Reply to this Question
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reader, rcn  +, writes (4 November 2007):
 Simply speaking, this comes from a comedian, but it's honest. Women think guys have a lot going on in their mind. Not true. He says what guys think about is "i want a beer and to see someone naked." That's it. Not too complicated.
I'm sure he has plans, or he wouldn't talk about it. But with his changes at work it may be hard to pinpoint an approximate time. If he thinks anything like I do, if it's not fact or reality, I don't speak it. I don't like to estimate to find out I was off. Everything has to fit together, before the answer can be given.
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