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writes:I have a guy friend who is engaged.Him and I have become close over that past coupla weeks. He has called me everynight since I have started house sitting and we have spoke on the phone for up to three hours at a time. He tells me he calls me because he doesnt want me to get lonley. On numerous occasions he's asked me to go places and his fiance wasnt with us. He hasnt tried to pull anything,but he is always flirting with me. You know, teasing me, sitting close to me so our legs will touch ect. Everytime you bring up ehs fiance in a conversation he just answers the question and moves along like the question was never asked, and he rarley brings her up in conversation.....So what I am asking is 1) Dont guys hate to talk on the phone 2) Does He Like Me and 3) What Do I DO??Thanks
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reader, PM  +, writes (4 November 2007):
 "1) Dont guys hate to talk on the phone"In general, guys hate talking on the phone. I personally have no problem with it but much rather prefer face-to-face conversations."2) Does He Like Me"He's a man and unless you are (and no offence) an atrocious looking woman, yes he is attracted to you. It is a man's nature to be attracted to women of beauty and while some men can control this side of themselves, others cannot."3) What Do I DO??"Why must you do anything? On some level you must enjoy it or else you would've ended interactions with him already. If you do nothing then it's up to the man to dictate what exactly happens in the relationship. If for some reason this whole situation really freaks you out then just start avoiding him. Don't take his calls, be busy and go do your own thing. There's no reason you HAVE to be at his beck and call.
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii  +, writes (4 November 2007):
 okay i dont mean to sound harsh when i say this but he is engaged...this isnt the best time to be recieving flirting from him. guys talking on the phone isnt hated by all of them, some of them do like to talk on the phone for long periods. its sweet that he doesnt want you to be lonely...but havent you got your own life? your own friends that you could go out with? maybe telling him to backdown a little might help you.
good luck
hope this helps
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2007): don't do anything! How would you feel if you were his fiance? Even if this guy is genuinely interested in you, he should have the decency to be honest with his fiance. You should let him know that it is inappropriate to call you so much when he is engaged to someone else.
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