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writes:im 21 and have my first girlfriend 6 months ago and havent had sex in like 2 months and even before that it was seldom. Everytime we try sehe gets pissed off and doesn't even talk to me and its cause I am unable toget hard and rarely if I can it goes soft during sex till the point she dont feel anything. i tell myself I just will never have sex in my life which at this point i dont care but I dont know what she wold do if she dont get any and was wondering do women crave sex I never took sexed in my life and am very uneducated in this area Reply to this Question
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reader, Temper212  +, writes (4 November 2007):
Only SOME women use sex against men- and those women do a huge injustice to women such as myself.
Women do have a sex drive- and it sounds to me like the woman you are with is just not supportive of you.
My advice is that you need to find a woman who is is on the same page as you. Sex should NEVER be something that you need to fight or trick your way into. Sex may not always happen, since sometimes the other person is just not in the mood for it, but sex is just like any other value-issue in a relationship. Just as a successful relationship needs to be on the same page about, say, what things they like to do together, there should also be an open line of communication about when and in what way sex is appropriate.
I hope that made sense.
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reader, superdopah  +, writes (4 November 2007):
listen, you are never gonna be your best with her moaning and not being paitient she is doing absoloutley nothing for your confidence, i would finish with her if i was you sex is a big part of relationships and to make you feel like that must be horrible. you will meet someone else and explain that you arent very experienced im sure some girls will find it refreshing! i wouldnt bother going to do the doctors though coz it sounds like her that is the problem!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2007): Yes, women do have a sex drive. I would have sex everyday if my husband wanted it. You might think it a bit embarassing but why not see a doctor about your problem. You seem to have some sort of erectile disfuntion which is sometimes just a confidence thing. You can get all sorts of medication to get and keep an erection. You don't have to make a big deal of it with your girl, just go off and see a doctor on your own and do something about it. She will love you for it.
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