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writes:I am a 26 year old women who has recently been spending a lot of time with a 23 year old man who is a friend of a number of my close friends. We are having a really good time and have been sleeping together for four weeks. The problem is that I don't know where it is going and I also am too afraid to ask because I don't want to send him running. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, lilgirly  +, writes (4 November 2007):
 hey,
don't rush into anything . but be firm( don't need to have sex a lot:S)don't be soo easy!stand your ground and show him that you are not only for sex but you need more then that...
don't ask him where this is going cause it is too soon to tell now wait a lil time and you will see for yourself.
good luck byeXXX
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reader, rcn  +, writes (4 November 2007):
 Only four weeks. Time to call the preacher.
Take it slow, there's no hurry. It takes longer to really see where things are going to go in a realistic manner. Right now it would be premature to see anything but sleeping together, which sex does not at all determine the length of a relationship or it's direction.
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