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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm divorcing my husband. Will I be able to love again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6243 days ago

15 November 2007 (F)

age - Im divorcing my husband. We've been married for 22 years and have a daughter. Our marriage has up and down and I've been trying very hard to save it. It's so painful to make the decision to end it. At 45 I suddenly realised life is too short I want to change my life. My ... (153 words)

3 years apart and I still love my ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6242 days ago

15 November 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi Myself and my ex split up nearly 3 years ago. We have a little boy who is 3 and my ex left me with what I think was post natal depression though Im not 100% sure. She said she left because I wa at the pub all the time...Which I wasnt!! I absolutely love her to pieces an... (226 words)

How do I tell him I want sex with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6225 days ago

15 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 15 years old and i have been going out with my boyfriend for nearly 5 months and i want to have sex with my boyfriend tomorow were gettin pissedd like the usual friday night and then going out wiff our mates n that ... how can i get round to doing it i dont no what to say ... (88 words)

I love my bf but I don't know if he loves me too, I'm 12. Contemplating sex already...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6244 days ago

15 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i am 12 years old,I have this boyfriend that i love very much,but i dono if he love me too?and i was thinking of having sex with him help!... (30 words)

My mother and sister complain all the time saying they do not feel close to my wife. This is so stressful.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6246 days ago

15 November 2007 (M)

age - i have had a problem with my mother and sister since i got married two years ago. my mother and sister complain all the time saying they do not feel close to my wife. my wife is a loving person however has a different personality which they can not accept. my sister is always ... (129 words)

I don't want to lose him but I feel like he's playing with my heart. Does he love me or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6243 days ago

15 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf and I have been off and on for seven years. The last four have been iffy. I don't know if he really wants to be with me. I hear I love you, I want to be with you. But I don't believe it. We recently split and are no longer living together. I have reason to believe he is ... (108 words)

A friend of mine has become infatuated with me... I'm not interested and have a boyfriend so don't know how to cope!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6245 days ago

15 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been friends with this guy for eleven years. About two years ago he told me that he was absolutly in love with me. It scared the crap out of me cuz he sent me messages saying I'll love you until death. And I will always love you no matter what and it got really bad so I ... (265 words)

On again off again, should I or shouldn't I, help please?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6240 days ago

15 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - The Context: I was with X from February 2005 til August 2006, as I was moving to university. I have never been so truly in love, so happy, so content. I lost my virginity to this man, and he made me feel so safe. We could talk about anything and everything, for hours on end. ... (627 words)

When I told other people about our relationship of 2 yrs, he denied and said it was a one night stand. Why does he want to keep it a secret?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6245 days ago

15 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - im in love with this guy ive been seeing for 2 years we was just friends first and now we r very secret about are relasonship and he want tell no one but i told a few people he didnt get mad about it he just denied it saying we just had a one night stand and that was all but ... (97 words)

My mom is involved with my friend - how do I react? They won't talk about it.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6246 days ago

15 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hello i have a problem my mom is having sex with my friend and they both won't talk about it many times i caught him coming out of my house and many times i heard his voice in my mom room i don't know what to do i can't talk to mom and i can't talk to my friend what should i... (67 words)

Need advice on cuddling and making my girlfriend feel loved.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6245 days ago

15 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Need some advice on how to be more intimate with my girl friend during the day and at night. We do have sex most nights but the cuddling thing after is the bit i most enjoy except i can't seem to do it. I need help on how to cuddle her and how to make her feel more loved whilst ... (139 words)

How do I start my message without seeming stalker-ish?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6246 days ago

15 November 2007 (M) age 36-40 - Argh! Going slightly mad here guys, hope someone can help me out a little. Asked on here a week or so ago if i should get in contact with a girl who i've seen around at uni, and also seen on the uni dating website. You guys agreed with my thinking of i should, but the pr... (152 words)

He cheated twice, then left me, but we still love each other , should I take him back?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6246 days ago

15 November 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband had an affair January 2006 which went on for 6 months and I found out about it when it finished. We tried to make it work but he lied and cheated again and in Janaruy 2007 he left. He then started seeing her again I really thought it was over but about a month ago ... (87 words)

I thought I'd handle it by ignoring his love for me and focusing on our friendship. But he threatens to self-harm if I don't break up my current relation for him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6246 days ago

15 November 2007 (F)

How soon can a doctor examination detect pregnancy? Earlier than 2 weeks?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6246 days ago

15 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - How soon can a Doctor tell that you are pregnant? I think I may be pregnant but I would probably only be 2-3 weeks pregnant, and I'm having an internal examination tomorrow - will he be able to tell if I'm pregnant from that?... (47 words)

Do I really love him for who he is or just for who I want him to be? Was he using me all this time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6243 days ago

15 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi everyone i'm 21f my problem is my bf is 49 years old! we've been together for 7 years now i love him so much i had sex with him when i was 15. and now i read that i'm attracted to him cuz he fills the space that my father left when he passed away while i was a child. tha... (107 words)

Spots in the intimate area where I shave. Should I be worried?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6246 days ago

15 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i have spots on my vigina where i shave, i am worried that it is serious, please i need advice xxxxxxxxxxxx... (21 words)

Do we have a future?, he did cheat on me for 3 months.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6245 days ago

15 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been together fo almost two years, i love him a lot and I know he loves me. We have through so much, or more like he has been through so much in the past few years and because of me he was doing a lot better, Im only 19 and he is 24, the last three ... (216 words)

How can I help him get over her, and find out if he does like me as more than a friend, as he said?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6246 days ago

15 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, first off, I'm not particularly good at writing these, nor am i in the habit of asking for advice over the net. Anywho... I'm friends with Mr X. It was him who initiated the friendship, i was always miserable and, well, emoish really, and he made it his mission to try a... (275 words)

Should I tell my teacher I have feelings for him?...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

15 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a slight problem...I really like my teacher! I know there are lots of these questions about but I really need an answer! Well ever since I've known him I've had feelings for him. It started off just a small crush but over the past two years they've gotten stronger.... (270 words)

He sent a girl a suggestive text message, now his phone caller id is off, he's gotta be cheating right?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6164 days ago

15 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help. The other night my boyfriend went out for a work night. I had a missed call from him and a msg bout 3ish. Then the next night when he rang me his caller id was off. Why was his caller id off?? Im thinking that he was ringing another girl on private number. ... (258 words)

How I can overcome jealousy/envy? How can I stop comparing my life to other people's?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

15 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - hi people! I know this is a common question on here, I just wanted to know how I can overcome jealousy?its a horrible feeling n its effecting my life..I also have a problem with comparing my life to others n finding how much more better their life is incomparison to mine, I ... (170 words)

We went on a couple dates, I thought things were going well when she suddenly stopped talking. What's going on? She's known for starting trouble with people...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6243 days ago

15 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright so I'm wondering what's going on here, it's probably nothing, but I am a bit curious none the less so any input is apprectiated. In the summer I hooked up with this girl and we went on a couple dates, things went well (or at least I thought so), and all of a sudden ... (241 words)

I'm taking a supplement to boost my performance, anyone got any other ideas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6246 days ago

15 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so me and my girlfriend of 3 months just broke up, and when we had sex, it like took me forever to make her orgasm, like 40 minutes. I dunno whether this had to do with out break up, but I read about a sex supplement called marathon 21, so I bought 2 bottles of it for a ... (196 words)

How much more should I be wating for her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6246 days ago

15 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - hi there? ypu know i'm confused and i need some advice down here? i just had a girl(whom i love so much) that lives very far away from me she used to have a boy friend whom she says she used to love him very much i don't know what happened but they are separated now! as for me ... (120 words)

Long distance beakup, we both said we were still in love with each other, can we get back together.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6246 days ago

15 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend well my ex-boyfriend and i were together for 16 months. the other day he called me after he drove back to his place 3 hours away that he had been feeling depressed and it was worse when we saw each other or talked on the phone. he said his work was suffering and ... (168 words)

Things will be weird between us.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6246 days ago

15 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I like a guy alot, we joke around ant school and we seem to like eachover, the problem is i'm not sure whether he likes me or my friend, i want to ask him out but i'm worried he'll say no and things will be wierd between us...What should i do?... (51 words)

My wife's getting frustrated.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6246 days ago

15 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm 33 years old and happily married with 2 children. When having sex i lose my erction halfway through. I withdraw and my wife will restimulate me. When i restart having sex i then feel the need to ejaculate immediately. This is so frustrating as it seems to go from one ... (150 words)

A newlywed needing advice.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6246 days ago

15 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I really need advice. Im just newlywed, under a month and already with stress that I cannot cope with. My husband and I are to move to the States because of his job contract which is fine. He is away down in the states for a week to establish a place and help out his b... (385 words)

He is kind to me, jokes around, pays me compliments. Signs that a boy fancies you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6246 days ago

15 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this boy i know... he is kind to me, he jokes around with me, and he pays me compliments. However he is 3 years older than me!! I really like him, but do you think he fancies me? Or is he just being a nice friend?? I know its hard to tell from the lack of info he... (86 words)

What is a casual relationship? I disagree with my partner.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6246 days ago

15 November 2007 (M)

age - I have been in an intimate relationship with another male for three months. Now he is saying we are moving too fast and in the future we should develop a casual relationship. His definition of casual relationship is a monogamous, committed relationship; mine is the opposite. ... (52 words)

Pretending to be gay to get closer to girls? He brought me expensive jewelry - from his supposed bf. What does he expect in return?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6246 days ago

15 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and one of my best friends says he's gay. however, he sometimes treats me in ways which make me wonder if he is just saying he's gay in order to get closer to girls. the other day he bought me some expensive jewelry which he said was from his boyfriend (who i've never ... (143 words)

I feel this is wrong, what should I do.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6246 days ago

15 November 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My son father died a few months ago. And now one of his friends is trying 2 tlk 2 me.He's a very nice guy,but I just feel that's its wrong, what shoul I do.... (34 words)

I don't know how to cope without it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6246 days ago

15 November 2007 (F)

age - Im 45 just divorced. I met this man 18 years older than me. He gives me love and affection which I dont have in my 20 years marriage. He makes me feel wanted and warm my heart. I love him. We've been together for one year now. At 42 I still have a high sex drive while he ... (110 words)

What to do to make everyone happy.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6246 days ago

15 November 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I love this guy and I recently told him that i did. However he is going out with my friend. He says he still ant to be friends but now his girlfriend has read the text i sent him telling him and is ignoring me. So he now ignores me in front of her I still love him. What should ... (80 words)

What about how I say how good I was?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6245 days ago

15 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend gave me oral the other day in the back seat of my car. He had tried a few weeks before but didnt like it so he didnt do it til the other night. After that he decided he really REALLY liked doing it. The next day he did it again and it was AMAZING! I kept telling ... (125 words)

What can I use around the house, since I don't have a dildo

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6246 days ago

15 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive gotten really bored. Me and my boyfriend cant see each other for a few weeks and lets just say i have a very strong sex drive. Since we cant be together ive gotten bored with my usually method of masturbation which is usually just rubbing. Can anyone give me a tip on better ... (93 words)

We fight a lot because I bring up my ex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6246 days ago

15 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey ... i have a boyfriend whom am pretty serious about even though it hasnt been too long since ive bin with him...also there is my ex boyfriend whom i dated for 3 years and now its also been over 3 years to our break up. i somehow cant quit talkin to my ex and neither ... (179 words)

How do you have... an interesting personality? What puts off women on a date?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6246 days ago

15 November 2007 (M)

- i have often wondered what it s that puts off women when i want to go on a date with them. I realise now that it is because i am boring. what do i have to do to have an interesting personality?... (42 words)

Am I starting to fall in love with one of my best friends?

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15 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok im 15 soon to be 16 and doing my gcse's at school. There are 4 of us that are the best of friends and oen of them i have known since i was little. Well because he doen't get on with his mum he spends most weekends at mine and goes to stop at his aunties alot in school ... (304 words)

We didn't advance as he loves his gf, we are still close friends though. Your opinions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6246 days ago

15 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, this is sort of a follow on to what i have written before. I while ago i wrote that me and this lad had strong feeling for each other. And thanks for everyones advice we both decided not to go through with one thing cause he loves his gf. We are still close friends though. ... (184 words)

Any advice on how to break this online affair off? He's military... and married.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6162 days ago

15 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 25 and a about 6 months ago i started chatting online as a penpal with a service member fighting in iraq. He's married and has 3 children and we really became good friends. We would chat on a daily basis and send letters and pictures back and forth. After time, he... (383 words)

The importance of engaging in a relationship and the consequences?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6246 days ago

15 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i am a young lady, i'm confused about relationaships, about whether someone can enter into it and be successful at last as many relationships run down due to some reason or reasons. in fact i'm not into any relationship yet bcos of this reason. explain better and clearer to m... (93 words)

Irritated!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6246 days ago

15 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am in a bit of restlessness, I am a virgin and not had sex yet. One day I went to a party a sort of family function. It was out of station so we hired 2 to three rooms. we slept there. There was an aunty around 54 sleeping near me and I wasn't bothered. While sleeping... (129 words)

Will he ever leave his wife for me???

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

15 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in a relationship with a married man 25 years older than me. I fell in love with him almost 3 years ago, and tried (clearly unsuccessfully) to forget him. Then I gave him a letter in which I said that I feel something for him, ie love. His first answer was he can't. 8 ... (296 words)

Can we restore our family unit or even our marriage or is it only a matter of time before he builds up the courage to leave me?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 6242 days ago

15 November 2007 (F)

age - I have recently caught my husband having an affair, we have been married 14 years and have 3 children. I told my husband I still love him and want him to stay, he said he would stay only to be with our children who he loves more than anything and said he does not love me and ... (164 words)

How long do you think we should wait before sleeping together?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6234 days ago

15 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, Bit of advice needed please, I recently got together with a new guy after spending about 6 months pining over my ex-boyfriend, we are all from the same town, the new guy is really sweet and hot and I'm really into him. But I'm just wondering how long do you think we should ... (160 words)

Did I break my own hymen with my self pleasuring?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

15 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I'm 24 years old. I'm doing self pleasuring since high school, and I clearly remember a time when right after I bled a little. Now I've almost had complete sex with my boyfriend, but all the three or four times we've tried I had to stop him because it hurt. But if I ... (93 words)

I'm torn between This 2 guys and I'm totally going Insaaaanee!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6245 days ago

15 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm torn between This 2 guys and I'm totally going Insaaaanee!! The 1st one is Loving and caring, But the 2nd is just making me feel so "special"... I dont know how he manages that,most of the Time he is inavilable when i Call him,and is pusing me at some thimes also, leaving ... (172 words)

Why am I still thinking of her???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6246 days ago

15 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey, I feel a little stupid writing this and I'm just really confused about it. About two years ago now I had, had a very intense relationship with this girl for about a year, it all went downhill about six months into the relationship, she had been a former drug addict and six ... (253 words)

I'm so confused. What should I do for the best?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6243 days ago

15 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a nice boyfriend. I think he loves me... think, I'm not sure. He of course is telling me that occassionaly and sms, phone calls are inevitable everyday! At the moment we have a Long distance relationship, since He's working in another country, but he hinted on several ... (229 words)

She wants to meet for coffee again. What's the most powerful and loving way to handle the situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6241 days ago

15 November 2007 (M)

- I have a friend who has cancelled our last two coffee appointments, either at the last minute or when she arrived at the cafe. I was angry with her the first time and angry with myself the second time. I believe in the sentiment behind the motto "Fool me once shame on you. ... (97 words)

Unrequited Love

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

15 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a problem and I'm so tortured. I am suffering from unrequited love with a co-worker. He flirts with me constantly and I turn into a giggling blushing teenager whenever I see him. I know he knows I like him because I feel like he enjoys teasing me and flirting. He's ... (164 words)

Insecurity?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

15 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has been going through my phone lately. He says, this is something all couples do. I said no it's not!!! He wanted to read my text messages and I didnt want him to. I dont want nobody looking through my phone. When we would talk over the regular phone, I would say ... (107 words)

When Did Men Get PMS??!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6246 days ago

15 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - He's been acting real moody lately. What did I do? Could he be guilty of something and it's killing him not to tell me? Lately, when we're around his family, it's like he hates for me to touch him. But, when he touches me it's "okay".... (46 words)

Why do married men look at naked women on the internet?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 3458 days ago

15 November 2007 (F)

age - Why would a married man look at nude women on the internet after being caught once only to do it again?... (21 words)

How can I get out of this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6246 days ago

15 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I am a 25 year old woman who has been in a relationship for almost seven years. I am extremely unhappy with my situation. I have no children, but my partner has 3... from 3 different "relationships". Two of the children (aged 7 and 8) live not too far from me nad the ... (124 words)

Is it stupid to follow his way of life because I want to stay with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6243 days ago

15 November 2007 (F)

age - I am 42 just divorced my husband. I lost all my confident and directions. All I do is stay in the house shut myself out from the outside world. Then I met this man. He is 17 years older than me. He gets me out of the house and helps me to think positive. I starts to go ... (172 words)

What do other guys do for their women that doesn't require a lot of planning or expense?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6246 days ago

15 November 2007 (M)

age - Help! My girlfriend's birthday is in two days and I haven't a clue what to do for her! I've spaced out her boyfriend the past two years because I am horrible about dates and special occasions (They always seem overrated in my opinion), but I cannot let this year go by without ... (122 words)

Was he emotionally abusive to me? Never wanting to talk about issues that bothered me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6246 days ago

15 November 2007 (F) - Was it abusive that my ex wouldn't do counseling with me since I think he was emotionally abusive and we argued all the time? He just said he thought I was bipolar, and until I got on medicine he wouldn't consider counseling. I feel like this was just another way he blamed all ... (118 words)

Being used and I can't deal!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6246 days ago

15 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband lets people take advantage of him and I can't let people use us because I have a family to take care of. He doesn't ever listen to a thing I say. It goes in one ear out the other. How can I get him to understand our family (him, our son, and me) is the most important ... (69 words)

Contraceptive implant...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6240 days ago

15 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi to all those wonderful aunts, I am after a bit of advice with regards to having the contraceptive implant, i have read up about it and spoke with the doctor, also i am booked in at the clinic to have this done in a couple of weeks. but before i go and have it done i just w... (79 words)

Does my shy friend like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6246 days ago

15 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Does this shy guy like me?? Me and my crush like each other (or have atleast some time anyway). I asked him out just before exams and he came back to me a few days later saying it's too close to the exams but maybe after them. So we had the summer holidays. Came back to schoo... (417 words)

How do I go about becoming a doctor?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6246 days ago

15 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I live in the UK and i am 16 years old I'd just like to know how i would go about becoming a doctor? Which courses would i need to take in College? Would i go to University or Med school? How much would it cost to send me to Med school? Thanks Joey ... (71 words)

Do you think my ex will want to get back with me eventually?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6245 days ago

15 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - me and my girlfriend have been going out for just over 8 months now. Shes recently announced that she wanted a break. She has been under a lot of stress with college, work and a variety of other things so i said it might be good for us. We have so much in common and used to ... (209 words)

I want my abusive ex to say sorry but should I just leave it be?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6246 days ago

15 November 2007 (F)

- About 3 months ago I ended my relationship with my bf because he was abusive. But I still feel I have so many things I need to say to him. At the time I was to scared of him to say why I was breaking up...I could barely face him. But now I'm not scared of him. I want to tell ... (312 words)

I've fallen in love with my guys brother! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6242 days ago

15 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello! I have a big problem :{ i am in a steady relationship with my boyfriend for a long time but the problem is a foll in love with his brother. I love my boy and i dont know how to get over this,spetialy i have to be in contact with his brother who knows everything and w... (76 words)

Should I see a psycologist for my trust issues - or manage by myself? I feel guilty after I send him check-messages.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6245 days ago

15 November 2007 (F) age 36-40 - hello i need some good advice please. I have a trust problem. I ve read some of the trust articles here and some had really good answers. well done. Im in a relationship which we love each other so much and we ve been together for a year and a half. My bf is a very strong a... (181 words)

The possiblity to get pregnant varies in a month. Clarifications, please? Also, do you start taking the pills on the first day of the period?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6145 days ago

15 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I know that the possiblity to get pregnant varies in a month. Please can someone let me know when the chances are greater and when it is less so that i can take extra precaution. Also im wanting to go on the pill, is there a specific time that i need to start the pill b... (90 words)

Should I tell her I cant continue to be her friend if she carries on like this?

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15 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been friend with this girl during and after school, for going on 7 years now. I have seen her with different boyfriends and i have had feelings for her in the past but ignored them since we were friends and also she was in a relationship. But recently i have had these ... (754 words)

My addiction to masturbation is affecting my desire for women, makes me feel guilty and want to isolate myself. What can I do?

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15 November 2007 (M) age 36-40 - hi there, i kinda need your help. i am addicted to masturbation and it is known that this is really bad. and it is affecting my desire for wemen i met, i feel so guilty , i am losing my self confidence to love and especially to be loved,i am isolating my self, i am becoming... (86 words)

I just want an explanation about why she feels smothered???

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15 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - i cant stop thinking of the girl ive been seeing. you guys have answered my other problem.i cant keep her off my mind. i feel like im cheating when im with someone else. my heart says wait to see if she comes around ,but my brain is telling me to move on. i thought she was the ... (99 words)

I called at their workplace inviting them to dinner, including the guy I like. He came at last saying he's had other plans. What next?

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15 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i'm in love with this guy who work as collegue of my friends and one of my friend likes me and wants me to be his girlfriend but i told him we are just friends and i dont want to be his girlfriend and i stopped going to their work place but when this guy started ... (171 words)

Body language and eye contact...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

15 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am so confused about a guy that I like. He is very good looking and athletic, he works at the gym I go to and is about the same age as me. I started going to this gym about six months ago to lose weight and I noticed him looking at me several times. I dismissed these ... (496 words)

How can I find out if I was the first man that had sex with her?

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15 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - well i had sex with my girl but at her that was first time...but she didnt bleed!!i know that hymen can be broken by sporting....etc but how can i find out that i was the first man that i had sex with her?!!! please help!... (46 words)

I loved sex before I was married, now I hate it!

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15 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm married four years before my wedding i love sex but since i've been married i hatd it. Please help.... (20 words)

I'm gay and I'm in love of a man who does not want to be with a man!

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15 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi i met a guy a work 6 years ago, for a long time we were just friends, but for alike a year we start to get alone better, we were going out everyday, i told him that i love him, he told me that he loves me but he does not want to be gay and he does not want his family to ... (167 words)

He no longer tells me he loves me

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15 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. i have this boyfriend he is father of my baby. the problem is he no longer tell me that he loves me as he did before. since we have the baby. i am the one how calls him, wishing him luck in the morning before he goes to work and at night i call again to ask if he enjoyed ... (75 words)

I love him one minute and hate him the next. What should I do?

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15 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello! I am so confused. My ex left me three months ago claiming that he still had feelings for his ex. But now he is back and telling me that he loves me and has tried things out with her but feels nothing for her. He wants to settle down with me. The thing is that I believe ... (151 words)

He won't accept that I'll never get back with my son's father. Should I move on?

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15 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i am a single mum of one. i have been friends with this guy for three years i am hopelessly in love with him but i have no idea how he feels about me. i have asked him several times but he just changes the topic, currently he told my best friend that he loves me too but is ... (116 words)

Does my past relationship have anything to do with my insecurity?

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15 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know where to start, well i have been insecure all my life.low self esteem, feel like not loved. by the way i'm 23 and find it difficult to mantain a relationship. i dated a guy for a year it only lasted that long coz we were living in different town, but as soon he ... (144 words)

Is he still in love with his ex?

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15 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend had been with his ex girlfriend for two years they were first loves. They broke up about a year ago still talk a lot and hang out and are friends it bothers me because im in the picture now. She is recently single and told him she wants to hang out when she comes ... (80 words)

While I'm at work my husband looked at porn. What to do?

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15 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hmm...where do I begin. I have a truly wonderful husband and we have four great kids. I've been a stay at home mom most of our marriage. I have just recently got a part-time job of the evening, and found out that he had been looking up porn on the internet. I know that some ... (222 words)

I've got a sore throat - could I be pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

15 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I last had my period on Oct. 6. My boyfriend and I played around on October 12 and November 11. There's no penetration involved but his genital touched mine. I'm still a virgin. It's November 15 now and I should have had my period on November 8-10. I'm really worried that I ... (138 words)

First date with her. Did I do anything wrong?

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15 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay.. so last week I went out with this new girl I met at the beginning of this month.. and we went bar and club hopping, had some drinks, got drunk, and just had a really good time. We did kiss on a few different occasions throughout the night, held hands, hugged, got really ... (837 words)

How can I seduce my boyfriend on his 18th birthday?

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15 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I love your site and need some advice. My boyfriend and I have been dating for two years. We are both seniors in high school. I am 19 years old and my boyfriend will soon turn 18. We are both virgins. We have talked about sex but have not done it... (1199 words)

Yet another 'Does my teacher like me' question!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6087 days ago

15 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ok,whoever reads this probably thinks i'm just being silly, but i think its true. I think my teacher likes me! He's seriously always staring at me and smiling at me and i catch him lyk looking me up and down sumtyms. He's lyk 45 and i cnt help it but i think i'm starting to ... (90 words)

Would it be terriable to have sex with him?

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15 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I known it is wrong, and i probably shouldn't do it, but A everygood guy friend of mine. WHo happens to be a virgin, whats to lose his virginity and have girlfriend. I am in a good relationship and i love the guy alot. The only thing is i've had a crush on my guy friend ... (133 words)

Is it too late for us?

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15 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - There's this girl, and I'm really interested in her. Several issues arise from this situation, however. She is attractive, thin, popular, and basically the polar opposite of myself (unattractive, overweight, and a relative social recluse). We were hanging out for the firs... (207 words)

Infidelity forgiven, now she is pregnant what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6086 days ago

15 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been seeing a man for a while and I love him very much. I know beyond a doubt that he loves me too. He came to me about a month ago and confessed an infidelity and begged my forgiveness. I thought about it and realized that the bottom line was that I love him and he ... (190 words)

What's the best way to approach girls.

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15 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - hi there, this might be so stupid for you but its stupidity is making me myself so stupid.i am very very shy i haven't had a gf evenif i want to, i think i have a problem on how to talk with girls , have no idea on how to approach them. it would be really helpful if you weme... (78 words)

I'm attracted to him, what should I do.

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15 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a major crush on my male supervisor at work. This is a new job for me and I only started about a month ago. I smile at him a lot, and have found him to be subtle with his flirtations (if that is even what they are). He always appears in places where I'm at at work, even ... (298 words)

What made you wanting go back to ur ex?

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15 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - WE both love each other, but decided to have a space. (1 month ago)He needed his space, wanted to focus on his music, and I was way too busy for school and work. We could continue our relationship, but I don't like vague relationship. So I thought we should break up. We both ... (139 words)

How can I convince him.

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15 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok so I want to have a female-female-male 3some with my girlfriend and another girl. but she says she wont have a ffm 3some with me unless i have a male-male-female threesome with her... i dont want to have a mmf 3some but i really want to have a ffm 3some, how do i convince ... (56 words)

I got a huge bf problems!!

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15 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ok. its very complicated. i like my friends EX-boyfriend. but She still loves him. They went out for quite a while n he was her first everything. but they broke up because he hurt her. i dont know what exactly happened. and i started liking him. i told her and she freaked ... (125 words)

He doesn't believe I am a virgin, how can I convince him?

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15 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years have just started having sex this year. With my past boyfriend(s), I didn't have sex.My boyfriend Im with now seems to think I lost my virginity way before me and him started going together just because my "cherry" has not been popped.My now ... (134 words)

Sex 2 weeks ago, and no period, WARRIED! HELP PLEASE!

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15 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello! well im really woried cause im 14 and i had sex 2 weeks ago and my period is supposed to come at the begining of every month in this case nov 1 to nov 9 something like that and it hasnt came yet im starting to get worried but i dont get tired, neither get nausiasu( dont ... (137 words)

Can I get some advise or some clues as to why he may be acting like this?

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15 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been talking for 2 1/2 years now. We have just started going out this year. But, recently he's been talking kind of mean to me. He has told me that I am not a part of his family. Any other guy would conside his girlfriend a part of his family and he ... (219 words)

I love my husbad, but he's choosing porn over me, how can I get him to want to be with me!?

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15 November 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a newly wed of only 9 months and my husband seems to want to look at porn instead of me..I am a 34 years old and he is 39..I want to be with him often but when I try to get him aroused he says he is tired but then after I go to sleep he gets up and on the computer and ... (171 words)

There are two girls and one guy what do I do.

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15 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - what to do? alrite i liek love this guy named "jake" (fake). n he loves me but he is just recently become single. i toldhim i would date him again this past monday (3days ago). n i kno he still loves me. ok...hold on hold on. lemme start about us. well me n him dated at t... (173 words)

Could I give him oral with mono

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15 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have mono. Could I give it to my boyfriend if he gave me oral sex? Is there anything physical we can do together that wont give it to him?... (30 words)

Do you think he fancy's me?

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15 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i have a friend and recently we have been spending a lot more time together. he is actly differently towards me grap my shoulders and shacking me when he thinks i am not paying attention to him (this has happened twice)sats on my knee,hugs when we are in big groups. i was ... (115 words)