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Is he in a rebound relationship with his current G/f, does he still have feelings for me or is he just playing me for a fool?

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Question - (17 March 2011) 5 Answers - (Newest, 19 March 2011)
A female Georgia age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Me and my ex are still good friends after we broke up almost 7 months ago, although now he has a girlfriend that he claims hes in love with. He spends alot of time with her or which is what he says, and then when hes not with her hes talking to me.

He always talkes to me at school and its almost like were dating but then after that he just goes back to her. He knows i care about him and i know he cares about me.

My question is, is he in a rebound relationship with her? Because he said that he still has a mixture of love and hurt from our relationship. Is he just scared to go back out with me or is he just playing me for a fool? im so comfused and it hurts so much.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2011):

Yes he's playing you for a fool.walk away from him and never look back. He apparently is still the same jackass as before yous two broke up.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2011):

He has zero respect for you and he's playing you like a banjo.

Don't you see that you were numero uno and he slyly threw you out of that position and put another girl there and made you number two?

you've accepted that low life rubbish from him and basically proved to him that you're cool with him griming you out like that, because you're still clinging to him, giving him the lovins.

***k him. He's dogging you out so bad and you're letting him clown you. Don't take the rubbish from him or nobody. Shut his lousy rubbish down permanently. No contact at all. Mark him 'out of your life'.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2011):

Don't waste your time on a man who doesn't know what he wants. Curb him and don't look back.

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A female reader, PatientlyWaiting1 United States +, writes (18 March 2011):

You should have never contunued to be his friend. That was a big mistake. You seem to be in the friend zone. It is terrible to be in your situation I know because I have been there. Just ask him what is going on because it seems like he still has feelings for you. Do not demand he leaves his girlfriend though.

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A female reader, Blondiebabygurl United States +, writes (18 March 2011):

I think hes playin you for a fool hunny move on n if he really wants you bad enough he will straight up tell you.

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