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writes:So girlfriend of one year broke up with me 3 weeks ago but hasn't changed her status on a social networking site.. All communication has basically been dropped since I know I have to get over her, especially since she's befriended/gotten quite close to another man (who knows what the twats done with her, but I'm not here to make assumptions). Anyways any idea as to what this could mean, she hasn't been active online but who doesn't check their emails..?
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (17 March 2011):
 Sorry, but no, it doesn't mean she's having regrets about the break-up or that you have a chance with her. But if you changed your status to single (even while hidden) hers should get automatically changed as well. Perhaps it's time you did just that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionJust that perhaps she is having second thoughts about the breakup or something along those lines, a glint of hope that maybe she's sorry.. It clearly says in a relationship with me, (and I've cleared my status so it's blank). All seems very childish but I can't help but read into it.
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reader, chigirl +, writes (17 March 2011):
Probably she just isn't ready to announce it to the entire world yet. Doesn't mean anything. She'll change it when she feels ready to get all her friends on her back, and possibly her family as well.
What's it to you anyway, you can have your status as single, so let hers be whatever she wants it to be.
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reader, Kilcardy  +, writes (17 March 2011):
It means nothing with respect to the relationship that she used to have with you.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (17 March 2011):
Most likely nothing. She's either not changed it because she's forgotten, or she's already in another relationship. I wouldn't read anything into it that's not there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2011): If she hasnt been active online then it may be that she just hasnt got around to changing her status yet. Things like that can get overlooked sometimes. It will probably be a hard thing to do but try not to check up on her online as sometimes you can read into things that arent really there. All the best and i hope you recover from the break up ok. You can always vent here if it helps. Or check out other posts and offer some help and advice to others in your position.
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reader, StarryEyes101 +, writes (17 March 2011):
 Perhaps she hasn't been on to change it. If it is Facebook, if you put yourself as single then she will automatically not be in a relationship with you on there. And if she is just in a relationship, perhaps she is seeing someone so didn't change it. A lot of people I know keep their relationship status unchanged. I dunno why 'coz i'd want it changed straight away! Who knows what she is doing??!
I hope this helps
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