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writes:Hey so theres this guy i REALLY love. We never went out or anything but i felt something special in him and he saw that something in me too. Things were getting somewhere and then he moved. I still really love him and im constantly thinking about him and what coulda been. I have absolutely no way of contacting him and i dont know where he moved to. He moves around a lot so right now im just hoping he'll move back. I dont want to give up on him but what if hes given up on me? I know that were both still young but who he is and who i am i just really think that i would of had a long future with him. I still look at cars that look like his i still get sad when i walk by his locker and hes always on my mind. I daydream about him constantly and i just dont want to give up on him. So i want to know, am i being stupid and i should give up on him? Or shouldnt I? Thank you so much for any advice. Its been puzzling me for a long while and i was hoping someone from the outside could help Thanks =) Reply to this Question
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reader, GeeGee255 +, writes (18 March 2011):
 Honey the only reason this boy has been able to stay so perfect and unblemished in your memories is because he hasn't been around in real life to mess them up.
If he had not moved away you might have gone steady for awhile, and had some good times, but sooner or later he would have messed up and proved to you that, like every other boy you know, he has flaws too. Which would have disappointed you, maybe let you down.
But at least then you wouldn't still be sitting there mopping around for him, after all this time. If you want to get over this you have to put this fantasy boy aside. And realize that what you are feeling is regret. Regret that you never got to be his girl friend and see what it would have been like between you too. Nothing more, nothing less.
But even though you need to move on with your life in the meantime, you can still hope that one day fate will bring him back into your life. You never know.
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